Fateful Findings (2013)
Dir. Neil Breen
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Just came from a party, and it was pretty amazing.
It was a birthday party, we went bowling...i never went bowling in my entire life, and is was awesome. Got to hug the birthday dude, and saw a incredibly pretty lady singing at a bar. She smiled at me the whole time, and without knowing it, sang one of my favorite songs.
I'm almost throwing up from eating so much cake, and I feel awful because of the soda, but it was worth it. I seem to forget how life can be fun at times, and I'm glad I don't have the chance to have this moments every day, because when I get the chance to, they become even more special. I feel exhausted and awful, and it's amazing. I couldn't be happier.
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“When I first heard it, from a dog trainer who knew her behavioral science, it was a stunning moment. I remember where I was standing, what block of Brooklyn’s streets. It was like holding a piece of polished obsidian in the hand, feeling its weight and irreducibility. And its fathomless blackness. Punishment is reinforcing to the punisher. Of course. It fit the science, and it also fit the hidden memories stored in a deeply buried, rusty lockbox inside me. The people who walked down the street arbitrarily compressing their dogs’ tracheas, to which the poor beasts could only submit in uncomprehending misery; the parents who slapped their crying toddlers for the crime of being tired or hungry: These were not aberrantly malevolent villains. They were not doing what they did because they thought it was right, or even because it worked very well. They were simply caught in the same feedback loop in which all behavior is made. Their spasms of delivering small torments relieved their frustration and gave the impression of momentum toward a solution. Most potently, it immediately stopped the behavior. No matter that the effect probably won’t last: the reinforcer—the silence or the cessation of the annoyance—was exquisitely timed. Now. Boy does that feel good.”
— Melissa Holbrook Pierson, The Secret History of Kindness (2015)
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Insight 1281
“Character may be manifested in the great moments, but it is made in the small ones.”
Phillip Brooks – 1835-1893 – Clergyman-Author
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The Ken dance is so magnificent because it’s reminiscent of the Golden Age of Musicals when there would just be artful dance sequences for no reason other than the director wanted to have one.
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