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#group chats are stressful
violent138 · 18 days
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Being a competent or semi-put-together friend must be so hard. I imagine Barbara frequently gets calls, emails, or has to navigate late-night breakdowns over the comms a ton. She probably has to give advice even though she too struggles with a lot of the same stuff, or even when she has no idea how to. The person on the other end probably tells her how great it is that she knows so much, when the truth is that she's already been through college applications, or learnt to balance life just a little better. But she has to pretend for the other person that it's possible to be happy or make it through.
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graysongraysoff · 2 months
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i am begging people to be less weird about whether or not i'm online/how quickly i'm replying to messages
i like want to make new friends online but this is just the reddest possible flag to me
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I've always wondered if you happened to have a discord? If not have you ever considered making one?
i do have one! however i use it very sparingly because 1) new people (especially groups) scare me & 2) brain's been fucking weird for a hot minute and i barely talk to people i'm already friends with let alone strangers
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todayisafridaynight · 27 days
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Funny thing: i was under the impression that minedai is a rather larger ship. Like, if you were to ask me, I'd say it's like the second/third biggest one after kazumaji, and now you're telling me it's small? Was i living in a lie all this time??? Who wrote all those fics on ao3 then?
relative to other rgg pairings and excluding any that don't involve kiryu or majima, it is probably the second largest pairing. though considering most general art and works consist majorly of the first two, it's weird to acknowledge sometimes
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cadaver-moss · 1 month
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Things have been kinda rough recently
I also thought this song would fit Enojadita’s emotional state after the death of her brother, especially so close to her father’s death
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starlightphil · 3 months
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Hi! I made a post about making a casual group chat and/or Discord server for combining Dan and Phil and all things books and it got enough attention that I’m back with a poll! Please only answer if you want to join <3
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jamiesfootball · 7 months
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Having just finished the first chapter of oh god, you're gonna get it (you have not been given love) I am throwing a bouquet (and myself) at your feet.
🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Waaaaaaaaaah!!! Thank you so much! I'm so glad you got a chance to read it.
To reward your bouquet, here is a (rough) snippet from the next chapter:
Jamie jumped as his phone dinged, the device slipping out of his hand to land on the floorboards. Christ, he was jumpy. What the hell had the physios done to him in there anyways?
Gail would tell him--for the right price. Roy made a mental note to stop by the bakery the next chance he could; a fresh loaf of challah went a long way in the physio department.
By the time Jamie managed to fish his phone out of the well, his face had taken on a forcefully blank expression, betrayed only by the tightening around his eyes. The corner of his lip twitched down uncomfortably, like he was being pulled on a hook.
The light changed. Roy pulled forward. Out of the corner of his eye, he watched Jamie take controlled, measured breaths and frowned. Perhaps he was in more pain than he was letting on.
With his poorly feigned stoicism pulled close like a jacket, Jamie casually flicked his phone back on. The rest of the pained tension bled right out of him as he huffed a sharp laugh.
"It's just Dani. They took the red-eye out of Heathrow last night, and they just landed in Guadala-jara," he explained, picking up the conversation like they'd been interrupted. The name of the city he pronounced carefully, effort and practice separating the word into manageable, if awkward, halves. He texted something back on his phone before continuing, "The Elenas have been sending me pictures all night. I'm pretty sure they're making a timelapse of how long it takes him to cheer up after leaving England. It's funny, innit? You'd think someone who loves going home so much wouldn't be so sad about it, but they've sent me about a dozen of him pouting in the airport lounge."
He held up his phone to show Roy said picture of sad-Dani, as if Roy were not actively driving them through traffic.
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niishi · 5 months
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Pls answer as a reply or anon or whatever....... Why don't you guys write crazy personal posts all the time and talk about your days: 🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤🎤
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coffee-bat · 8 months
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i haven't been having the best time lately
#sorry vent incoming in tags. you dont have to read you really can skip this#/so the day before yesterday i had a major argument with mom. about something incredibly small but she got super mad at me (basically i#suggested she might have made a mistake while cleaning the oven bc when i turned it on i smelled and felt burning chemicals. like-#-teary eyes and sneezing i wasn't imagining it. and she got super mad and started yelling)#for the whole afternoon it was either silent treatment or yelling abt how what i said is 'unforgivable'#and ofc rejecting apologies and attempts to calm the situation down bc 'this isn't something you can just fix with an apology'#i literally just asked if she's sure everything went right with the oven cleaning. bc it was done in a rush.#so anyway at 10pm i HAD to get the situation to a manageable level bc i was starving and she was in the living room (we have an open kitchen#) so if i wanted to get sth to eat i'd have to confront her. so screaming match ensued again with me apologizing and explaining my point -#and her yelling over me. it went on for 40 minutes. finally after me apologizing like 70 times she calmed down but said that 'what i did is-#-unacceaptable and she does not give permission for it to happen again'. i went to sleep without getting anything to eat of course.#and this fucked me up. bc i really thought we were doing better. i really thought our relationship would only get better now esp after we -#-bonded on vacation. but turns out not. and shes still lowkey mad.#THEN yesterday im studying for a zoology exam and mention it on the phone with her#she goes 'who do you have zoology for'. i respond with the name of the teacher. confused.#'professor (x) died on friday.'#??????????#'it's not published anywhere yet so yeah YOU have to tell your class'#i had a panic attack legit. i threw up from stress. i couldnt do it. first off bc of shock and secondly bc how am i supposed tojust jump#into group chat like 'oh hey btw professor died'#thankfully the info was posted officially by uni at 10pm. so i didnt have to do it. but mom kept pressing me to the whole day#i was nauseaous all of yesterday bc of it. i couldnt manage to study anymore after the shock. sure he was older but he was so energetic and#seemed healthy. i wouldnt have expected it it was just. a huge shock. im still not over it#like you cant know someone for half a year then not be shaken when they suddenly die yknow. and mom is lowkey making fun of me like#'what were you emotionally attached??? he wasnt anyone close'#no he wasnt but im still shaken. and being mocked is only making it worse. as is having to keep studying for his subject for the next few-#-days.#sorry ok vent over theres just. a lot happening for me and im struggling i needed to let it out ig. theres just too much at once#vent#death mention
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bangcakes · 5 months
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#personal#whats literally so funny was that as soon as i saw him walk in the room last year i knew he was gonna be trouble for me#however i never knew itd be this kind n this deep JDJDNDJJDNDJDNDNDN#we are like........ way closer than i ever anticipated. im terrified that we wont have anything to talk about once school ends#i wanna say so much to him but i... theres so much school stress i just.... i dont wanna add anything extra on top for myself or for him...#hhhhhh god lmao. this time last year i hadnt even spoken to him n now im like..... in this Thing that is maybe mutual but maybe isnt#god....... this shit is so hard NFJFJJFJFJFJF#i only see him like 3 more times in the near future......#then i gotta wait a bit.... but i dont want to 😭😭😭#i wanna see him every week.... at least... but its probably gonna be on a month basis even IF THAT....#god what if it all fizzles out............#hhhhhhhhhh#im gonna try to keep it going. im just..... idk. im scared#i hope he tries to keep it going too.....#its just hard.... when its 2 ppl that like.... only talk when they need to...... try to keep in touch JFJDJDJDJDKKDKDKDK#the most we go now is a full day without talking...... like either i'll message or he will#usually its me.... but... im more talkative i guess ... IDK#all ik is that i Know hes not talking to anyone else at school LMAO#one of my friends was like.... ya dont bother putting him in a group chat .. he never answere#while im over here like.... LOL he messages me back always within minutes/seconds#and if hes offline... as soon as hes back online.#JXJXKKXKXKXKZ GOD.#n e way. see him today............ looking forward to it but also nervous 😳#i'll be fine once i see him tho... its just the Anticipation#feel really comfortable around him LOL. never thought id say that#anyway
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polarisblitzwing · 2 years
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A big collab I did with the cool people of @robeatnic 's server! Farvaduvet had an idea that all our au Pits should live an apartment together, so I drew up a background for a collab and we all worked together to create this shared space where aus collide ^^
Here's everyone who was a part of this~
@mango-peach-strawberry
@brushstrokesapocalyptic
@whimsiclaw
@farvaduvet
@kopawz
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crushofdoves · 9 months
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friends, i spent over 2 hours at the mechanic today and then took a really long nap and best friend just came into my room to wake me up with a giant margarita and said, “esther can we talk about monster fucking again?”
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green-day-dad · 2 months
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i miss my friend but how do i tell them i miss them without bothering/messaging them :’((
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skxrbrand · 9 months
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do you ever think about making a WH discord?
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NAH LOL
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itsjustanne · 1 year
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Study Group
Okay- here is the study discord! (link will be at the bottom of the post).
There are separate text chats for different areas of study. Right now that's STEM, Humanities, and a language study chat. If more need to be added later that's totally doable. There are two voice chats- both have limits to how many people can use it at once, in an effort to keep them from getting to overwhelming. One is just a regular voice channel, hop in there to chat, take a break, whatever. And the other is for people who want to practice a speech or a presentation before they have to do it for real! This chat is age restricted, I want to try to keep this a safe space for everyone and I want to try to keep anyone safe who may not be a legal adult.
That being said- please always be respectful and aware of others!
I will be starting to work out a schedule for myself, and I'll have dedicated hours that I'll be logged on; once I decide on a good pattern I will post it here and we can do a big group study. Of course everyone is welcome to have their own study hours but I'lll have my own schedule that I'll keep.
Keep learning and have fun!
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beedreamscape · 1 year
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Laerryn takes Loquatius on his first Carrowhulk ride
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