Had a fletchinder date the other night that ended after like half an hour bc he kept insisting that all bug types are gross. Like??? Ur entitled to your opinion dude but my 1st pic is literally a selfie with my partner Leavanny, why did you even swipe right????
anyway after that I went home and watched like 4 hours of ggbo. so it was still an ok evening after all
YIKES. guys like this are a waste of time. glad you got that red flag outta the way early
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ETA: As many direct messages are pointing out, this sarcastic reply is just that sarcasm...
The man's question is actually a sign of jealousy and "possessiveness". This is a huge indicator that a manis more likely to use physical violence like murder of their partner (Not necessarily their rival, although that isn't unlikely.)
However, I posted it because I want to validate the experiences of those who know what being on the receiving end of obsession is like.
This reply is sarcasm, yes.
My posting it was to let those who have experienced this type of abuse realize you are NOT alone.
It is delusional AF to want someone to not have someone else,
And while it is not a diagnosed illness of the mind, it is a greedy (and seemingly insane/sheer delulu 🤪) way to go through life.
And for those of who have experienced this unwelcome attention, it's scary.
Victims of this behavior (and quite a few of us women can and do unfortunately know what its like to go through someones weird entitled obsession) are often gaslit, stalked, smear campaigned, manipulated - even when we, the victim, have long moved on, or even worse, never shown even the slightest deeper interest.
So while we don't want to ever try to excuse abuse as solely a "mental illness"...it does seem like sheer crazy terror if one ever experiences this selfish behavior and has not before.
Yes, it is NOT caused by addictions and mental illness. These only complicate abuse, but they don't cause abuse.
Bottomline - it's a meme. And from a victims perspective, it seems crazy to NOT want someone but ALSO not want anyone else to have them. It may not be a documented crazy but there is a grain of truth in that it feels like the crazymaking behavior that's born of narcissistic abuse, even of its obssesive possession/jealousy.
It's a meme with humor to show how victims feel when subjected to this disturbing type of behavior of possessiveness and jealousy from a man who isn't their partner.
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baby snoopy this, baby clifford that, baby gromit blah blah blah. what about baby kermit???????
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One time I was working as a waiter at a burger joint where the fries were tossed in salt and coriander and as I was bringing food over to the table for these two huge beefy guys one of them asks what the green stuff is so I go "it's coriander" and his friend goes very seriously "he can't have coriander" and I'm thinking shit ok maybe he's allergic and guy 1 starts pulling up his sleeve to show me something and I'm thinking shit shit shit he's probably breaking out in hives rn and it's my fault but he just shows me his arm and he has this huge cursive font tattoo that just says "I fucking hate coriander"
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chilchuck voice alcohol never killed anyone except my dad and that has nothing to do with me. i have no plans to change my lifestyle whatsoever
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