#help blog

[kin-and-yap]

Hi hi!!!! Im Yapper! (Not my actual name, just what I'll go by on this sideblog), and I use he/it/any neos!

This blog is dedicated to, you guessed it, yapping about fictionkin/otherkin/therian/alterhuman stuff!

Whether that be memories, experiences, accomplishments, you name it! I'm here to listen, and maybe even yap with you!

Sometimes you dont have anyone you can yap about this stuff to, or maybe you do but wanna share with even more beings! That's why I'm here!!!

Any kintypes are welcome here! Villainous ones? "cringe" ones? obscure ones? problematic media? who cares!! As long as you're respectful, you're welcome here!

This all being said, please tell me how you want me to answer your ask! Do you want me to yap with you if I can? Do you want me to just listen and shut my beak? Do you want advice if I can give it? Tell me!

I do ask that you follow the rules of this blog!

Hate: I wish that you don't hate on anyone here, whether in my asks or in the comments of posts! I ask that everyone be kind and respectful here.

Systems: While I will allow systems who are 'kin to yap here, Id prefer this be a purely 'kin yapping space, so I'd like you to not yap about purely system related things here

Triggering Topics/Warnings: In the case that your yapping involves triggering topics, I will allow you to still yap about them, but you must include trigger warnings at the top of your ask (Something like "Tw for SA and SH")

More rules will be added if necessary!

For the sake of letting everyone yap, this blog will have no DNI, but I will block as I see fit!

Credit to @newly-edgy-idols for the dividers!

Also go check out my brothers sideblog for kin venting, @kin-and-cope!

[sunsetcity-centre]

Shout out to systems!

Shout out to systems with a small headspace

Shout out to systems with a big headspace

Shout out to systems with an "impossibly" big headspace

Shout out to systems with no headspace

Shout out to systems who only occasionally have a headspace, or only occasionally have access to it

Shout out to systems who find it hard to leave headspace

Shout out to systems who have complex societies within headspace

Shout out to systems who have headspace pets

Shout out to systems who have headspace currency

Shout out to systems who don't have the time or energy to figure out if they have a headspace

Shout out to systems who have a constantly changing headspace

Shout out to systems who have a headspace that never changes

Shout out to systems who have a headspace that confuses them

Shout out to systems who aren't allowed to explore their headspace

Shout out to systems who constantly explore their headspace

Shout out to systems who want to talk about their headspace all the time

Shout out to systems who are tired of hearing about others headspaces

Shout out to systems, no matter what your headspace looks like, how big it is, how small it is, your relationship with it, whether or not it exists in the first place, you are valid and you deserve to be heard.

[kinhelp-permitoffice]

》 ⌗ ﹒my fav flavrr! how did u kno?

—「Party Noob stimbord to celebr8 my return!!」 to @ Mod Poob, from myself wid luv !! ✎ᝰ.

🎉🍰🎉—🍭🥧🍭—🍰🎉🍰

[foleys-help-blog]

Tips for handling a daydream block

It happens to all of us at some point, and it sucks. here are some tips on how to deal with it from my experience.

There can be different or causes to it. First, you have too many thoughts. Whether it's because you have a lot on your mind, because you're stressed, or whatever other reason, if your brain is too full, it can be hard to daydream. Second possibility: your brain feels exhausted, empty. You're tired and it's hard to think, period. Third, you're just out of ideas!

��� If you can and like to meditate, meditation is one of the best ways to calm down your thoughts and give your brain some respite.

✦ Napping can help rest too! Depending on the person, this might not help if you're in the first case though - I know it doesn't for me for example.

✦ If you lack ideas, look up some prompts, or maybe get into a new series or book! You need to feed your creativity, along with letting it rest.

✦ Do something else! Go for a walk, do some coloring, try a new art form, change up your habits! This can both help you get inspired and rest your creative muscles.

✦ Chat with other daydreamers! Whether it's gushing or venting, not feeling alone is a great help in feeling better

Now, while those are great to help getting out of a slump, sometimes only time will truly get rid of the block. In the meantime, there are ways you can stay connected to your paras and paracosms!

✦Make playlists your paras would listen to ✦Make moodboards ✦If you've written or drawn things related to your daydreamns, look at those ✦Make your paras a list of books they've read, would like to read, would dislike, etc! This can work with hobbies, movies, cartoons, food,… ✦Create a timetable of a typical work/school day of your para if it applies ✦Make jewelry for your paras; you can wear it to feel like they are with you or to think of them. ✦Make collages or art inspired by your paras, paracosms and daydreams! It can be super abstract! ✦Create outfit boards for your paras ✦Make memes about your paracosm ✦Try a meal or snack your paras would like! ✦Fill in personality quizzes as if you were your paras

Rest well, and happy daydreaming friends! 🪁🌟🫧

[amberlyandjennie]

HEY YALL its amberly. if your parents don’t let you text your friends at night and take your phone but you have really any other device download the app “whisper.” its currently unavailable on ios devices but once its back on the app store or if you have a non apple device you can download it it on pretty much any device. its an anonymous app and you cant search usernames but if you make a post, tell your friend to search the words you typed in the post

example: you whispered: i like apples

tell your friend to search in whisper: i like apples and then message you from your post and then you can text on there on almost any device. also set ur age to over 18 because the 15-17 option turns off chat.

[da-cafe]

The DA Cafe Pinned FAQ

Who are you?

I'm Mod Kim! My faceclaim is Seiko Kimura from Danganronpa, who I have an attachment with. I'm in my early 20s and consider myself to be an ex otherkin who's critical of the community. I am profiction and anti harassment. I'm queer and mentally disabled and have experienced delusions as a result that were exasperated by my involvement with the kin community. I've since left the space after participating for several years.

What is this blog?

The DA Cafe is a space for those who experience what is colloquially referred to as a "delusional attachment." This is a community term referring to the tendency a person has to attach to a character or concept, believing themselves to potentially be connected to it or that they are the subject of their attachment.

The DA Cafe functions similarly to a "kin help" blog by providing those who experience attachments with a place to request media related to their subject of fixation without indulging in what may be harmful to them specifically.

Why are you "kin critical?"

Personal reasons. I heavily contest with the kinmunity's tendency to conflate fantasy as just being an "alternate reality" and liken it to a neo spirituality. Note that the otherkin or fictionkin community is not a cult. It's just a belief system that I disagree with in the same way one can lack belief in any other system. I am not anti kin.

Do you have a DNI?

No. I don't take requests for anything related to Harry Potter, though. Please note that while otherkin folks are welcome here, requests are for those with attachments specifically. I am opposed to all forms of real world abuse and as such will flag, block, and report radqueer and consang blogs.

What can I request?

I can make moodboards, icons/pfps, graphics, stamps, GIFsets, stimboards, and more! Feel free to ask!

Requests are currently open!

Please note that this FAQ is a WIP and may be updated in the future.

[plaineoatmeal]

Do you like Steven Universe? Do you think it’s okay to like Steven Universe? I’m worried about the implications. My mom says it’s not good for my development.

This is a great ask! Reading up on this might help you with your answer:

As for Steven Universe specifically, it is a children's cartoon! Its rated TV-PG, so as long as you're above the age of 7, it should be great for you! Hope this helps

[htghtghtg]

Guys I feel so lost all the time, what do you guys do when you feel this?

[qppsoftness]

i also cleared out da ask box bc some of those were uh. 2022. i am so sorry i hope y'all figured things out or asked other blogs bc WOWZA the passage of time!

so yeah asks open~ :3

[sunsetcity-centre]

Hey! You right there! You're still a system even if you don't remember your trauma.

You're still a system even if you don't remember all, or most of your childhood!

You are still a system, if bits and pieces of your trauma come back, but not all.

You are still a system, even if you think your trauma wasn't "enough"

As with most things, amnesia fluctuates differently for every system. You're valid if you remember every bit of trauma, you're valid if you remember none of it.

I promise, you're still a system.

[kinhelp-permitoffice]

》 ⌗ ﹒first evr pokémon assigning! Hope u like it !!

—「Venti pokemon team assignment」 for @🌸🎶, from Poob wid luv !! ✎ᝰ.

[post-clarifier]

Reading comprehension. Constantly people are accused of bad reading comprehension.

it's always said that the reader is at fault. There's no way OP was unclear.

But why make it so difficult?

I'm here, offering up clarification for posts.

I can

add paragraphs to long text blocks

make summaries of posts or paragraphs

make lists of arguments or points made

translate typing quirks

this list may be expanded or shortened depending on what people actually need.

please ask for help if you need it! I'll try my best to help

[amberlyandjennie]

random and short strict parent tip but making holes in your pillows (that have a pillowcase) and then putting things in it that you don’t want your parents to see usually works pretty well

-Amberly

[albinism-awareness]

Intro

Hello! I’m Tempest, and I have albinism.

This is going to be my help blog! Ask away! You can ask about the condition itself or just my personal experiences with it :D

Ask away!

[alaskan-wallflower]

IMPORTANT!! ALBINISM HELP BLOG!

Albinism Help Blog 🤍

This is my side blog where I answer all your questions about albinism! Please please PLEASE help me reblog this! I wanna spread awareness. Share with anyone who you think needs this!