#in petty drama situations

[justalittlebluetiefling]

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Well, I didn't get the coaching job which is really fine in the end because it would have been super stressful. And I never actually wanted to run a program. I mostly applied because I care about the kids and they asked me to. Honestly, the thing I'm the saddest about is that I know how she's going to spin it and they're going to think I'm not involved in the program anymore because my friend isn't the head coach, but it's really because this lady has some weird vendetta against me and I can't just TELL the kids that because she's their coach and I want them to respect their coach.

The Athletic Director did ask me multiple times to talk to her about being her assistant because I guess they had multiple kids go into his office to say how much they want me there but it ultimately came down to the fact that she's been a head coach of a program before.

I don't know. I'm going to be sad for a while. This was 50% of the reason I moved back to this town and I love these kids a lot, but I do not trust this person as far as I could throw them and I'm not interested in pretending that I agree with her for the sake of peace anymore.

[gwahren]

Why accuse X of stealing from you?

very interesting that you ask this months later when i haven’t said a word about it since. and “accuse” is a very strong word, but i posted about it because i had a strong feeling X was watching my blog and I wanted them to know i was aware of what they were doing.

[fandomsoda]

Y’all I think Jakei blocked me on her main

Came back to realize the number of blogs I was following was one less than it should be (I was still following her to keep tabs on the situation) and turns out she’s nowhere to be found in the following list, I search up her url it says her blog’s not there

so either she blocked me or she deactivated

[transxfiles]

one of my top 10 hobbies has to be getting added to a large group chat and then people forgetting i am there.

[ghostwoohoo]

[snailfen]

ANYWAYS anyone who cant handle new fans please kindly explode? into smithereens? Thanks so much. everyone else stand in awe of what the community is now able to achieve collectively thanks to all the new fans and activity. i love you all

[drillnbass]

Me when I see a grown ass adult with over a thousand followers circulating a callout post for a 16 year old where everything in the callout is just shit that could/Should have been resolved privately & did not warrant a public call to action whatsoever

[leatherbookmark]

samesies

[lord-squiggletits]

pharma really is such an interesting case. one thing i’ve always felt with pharma is that he absolutely doesn’t want consequences. and facing up to it requires a lot of looking at and showing people what he’s done and you know. the consequences. i mean hell he’d rather start a plague than say “hey i got coerced into doing a very bad thing by the djd”

I do understand what you mean about Pharma not wanting to face consequences, but on the other hand, I kind of understand why Pharma made a plague rather than admit to medical malpractice/murder? Because like, the thing that I don't see brought up often enough with regards to Pharma is that blackmail... is blackmail. Like, as someone who's unfortunately been on the receiving end of blackmail, the entire point of blackmailing someone is that you corner them into doing bad things by convincing them that they CAN'T turn to an authority figure to ask for help. Like, the person doing the blackmailing generally convinces the person who's getting blackmailed that if they try to reach out for help, the law/authorities/etc either won't care about their predicament or will punish them for the bad thing they did that they're getting blackmailed about.

I kind of feel like (and this isn't an attack on you, just a commentary about the nature of blackmail) when someone like Ratchet looks at Pharma and says "but you could've called for help or shut down the clinic or anything!", it kind of ignores the fact that...... when you're being blackmailed you're fucking terrified, and people who are terrified generally don't jump to the most rational, safe solutions possible? When you add in the fact that Pharma was blackmailed by Tarn of the DJD, notorious hater of Autobots and fanatic leader of a torture club, it's not hard to imagine that Pharma was both afraid and in pain (or threat of pain) while at Delphi and thus wouldn't be thinking straight about it.

I don't know, like. Yeah, on one hand Pharma made a plague and killed a bunch of people to try and cover up his crimes and maintain his career. But he didn't just do it for ego related reasons, he was also almost certainly facing threats of torture and death.

[hxneylavendxr]

Thoughts on reichi

i like how they have consistently upheld a very weird sinister fucked up thing

so much "?not sure what's going on here but it's definitely something" between them it makes me giggle . obligatory I Know the Hate Sex is Crazy because i think that's their legacy

[arsonistshub-a]

im fucking pissed this BS drama is canceling my weekly plans.

actually fuck people who start meaningless drama over petty shit

IF YOU DONT LIKE SOMEONE. JSUT DONT INTERACT WITH THEM. JUST STAY THE FUCK AWAY. YOU DONT NEED TO SPREAD DRAMA SHIT AND STRESS YOURSELF AND EVERYONE OUT AND EFFECT PEOPLE WHO AREN'T EVEN INVOLVED

[autistic-katara]

mutuals ily but please stop involving me in ur drama 😭

[plushiious]

Not me confronting my managers twice in one week noooo please nooooooo I hate confrontations nooooooooooo :[

[lighthouse-system]

I feel like somehow, in-system fighting (alters fighting with each other internally) is one of those things about DID that I'm almost never prepared to deal with bc I'm so used to being chummy w the other parts in my system.

[roseandbee]

Neighbor drama update:

First of all, we are still not speaking, bless

Her new fence is the same height as mine along my side and the back is even taller

(Her fence got shorter a couple years ago (my side especially) when she decided to redo her entire yard and they built it up)

(She has vehemently for years hated the slope up to the back thing popular in my neighborhood)

Fence company clearly not done with whatever they're doing bc there's pickets and tools still here after they installed yesterday - and they didn't close my gate like I asked

I could not roll my eyes and sigh any harder if I tried

[malewifehenrycooldown]

Looking through my wrestling blog and all I can say is that I wish the backstage brawl at aew never happened, and that instead things were talked out in a civil manner.