#inbox questions

[mcflymemes]

IN-DEPTH HEADCANON QUESTIONS * inspired by genetic traits that might be passed through dna

does your muse like the taste of cilantro/coriander, or are they part of the roughly 20% of people that think it tastes like soap?

does your muse consume more caffeine or less caffeine than the average person? how do they typically consume it?

does your muse have a cleft chin? is this trait visible in their parents?

does your muse love to dance, or would they rather avoid dancing altogether?

is your muse's ring finger longer or shorter than their pointer/index finger?

does your muse have freckles? if so, where are they placed? does your muse like their freckles, or wish they had some?

does your muse have a birthmark? if so, where, and what does it look like?

does your muse get "hangry" when they haven't eaten in a while?

would your muse consider themselves an extrovert or an introvert?

is your muse a morning person or a night person?

is your muse a particularly picky eater? what foods do they refuse to eat?

when your muse wakes up in the morning, do they remember their dreams, or completely forget them?

does your muse play a musical instrument? did they play one at some point?

would you say your muse is a risk taker, or do they prefer to play it safe?

what are your muse's thoughts on spicy foods?

what are your muse's thoughts on sweet foods?

what are your muse's thoughts on dairy products? do they have an intolerance?

is your muse a habitual nap-taker? how often do they take naps? how long do their naps usually last?

does your muse's face get flushed after they drink alcohol?

what type of hair do they have? how thick is their hair? do they like the way their hair looks and feels?

is your muse more of an endurance runner, or are they better at short sprints?

[neurodivergency-meme-hub]

GENERAL NEURODIVERGENT EXPLORATION ASK MEME — EXTENDED VERSION

For muses with any form of neurodivergence—diagnosed or self-identified, visible or invisible, singular or overlapping. This meme encourages complexity, honesty, and introspection.

This meme is crafted to respectfully reflect the wide spectrum of neurodivergent identities and experiences—including but not limited to autism, ADHD, dyslexia, dyspraxia, Tourette’s, OCD, schizophrenia, BPD, PTSD, DID, and more. It's designed for nuanced character development, trauma-informed introspection, and storytelling with depth.

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IDENTITY & AWARENESS

1. When did your character first suspect that their mind worked differently from others?

2. Are they formally diagnosed, self-diagnosed, or undiagnosed? How do they feel about that status?

3. What labels (if any) do they claim with pride, hesitation, or ambivalence?

4. How do they describe their neurodivergence to someone they trust vs. a stranger?

5. How has their understanding of themselves changed over time—especially regarding their brain/mind?

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MASKING, STIGMA & AUTHENTICITY

6. What parts of themselves do they hide to “pass” as neurotypical?

7. What emotional toll does masking take on them over time?

8. Who makes them feel safe enough to be unfiltered, unscripted, or raw?

9. How do they react to being misunderstood—fight, flight, fawn, freeze, or shut down?

10. What’s one moment where they chose authenticity over acceptance—and paid for it?

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EXPERIENCES OF SYSTEMS (SCHOOL, MEDICAL, WORKPLACE)

11. How have institutional settings (school, work, clinics) handled their neurodivergence—for better or worse?

12. Have they ever been misdiagnosed, pathologized, or dismissed by professionals?

13. What accommodations do they need—and which ones do they actually receive?

14. What’s one system they’ve learned to hack, bypass, or subvert to survive?

15. How do they handle authority, especially when it invalidates or misunderstands their needs?

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RELATIONSHIPS, TRUST & COMMUNITY

16. How do they approach relationships: cautiously, enthusiastically, unevenly?

17. What does “being too much” mean to them—and who first said it?

18. Who was the first person to see them fully and respond with acceptance?

19. Do they feel connected to a neurodivergent community? Or do they feel isolated even among peers?

20. What’s something another neurodivergent person once said that they never forgot?

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EMOTIONAL & SENSORY LANDSCAPE

21. What sensory input do they crave, avoid, or feel ambivalent about?

22. How do they respond to emotional intensity—both their own and others’?

23. What does burnout look like for them? How do they know they’re close to it?

24. What’s their nervous system like on a baseline day: overclocked, under-responsive, scattered, stormy, numb?

25. How do they self-regulate—through movement, rituals, solitude, creativity, or other strategies?

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TRAUMA, NEURODIVERGENCE & OVERLAPS

26. How has trauma shaped the expression of their neurodivergence?

27. Are they dealing with co-occurring conditions (C-PTSD, dissociation, anxiety, etc.)?

28. What’s their relationship with memory—fragmented, unreliable, hyper-detailed, or warped?

29. Do they experience time or identity in unusual ways (e.g., time blindness, depersonalization, multiplicity)?

30. How do they separate what is them from? What is a response to trauma or survival?

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CREATIVITY, RESILIENCE & POWER

31. What form of creativity or problem-solving comes naturally to them—even if it’s undervalued by society?

32. How do they adapt under pressure? What unconventional strengths emerge when others flounder?

33. What have they had to teach themselves because no one else taught it their way?

34. What’s one thing they’ve built, created, or accomplished that reflects their unique cognition?

35. How do they define "thriving" on their own terms?

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PHILOSOPHY, RECLAMATION & RADICAL ACCEPTANCE

36. What’s one thing they used to hate about themselves that they now see as sacred?

37. How do they respond to the idea of “normal”? Do they mourn it, mock it, or reject it entirely?

38. What does liberation look like—for their mind, body, and nervous system?

39. What parts of their neurodivergence are non-negotiable, integral, essential?

40. If they were free from stigma, survivalism, and shame—who would they become?

[unintentionalseductress]

Who's your favorite lads boy? From most to least?

Hello anon! Thank you for the question!

So initially, it was:

Zayne/Sylus (tied)

Xavier

Rafayel

But now after Caleb, this whole order had been thrown into chaos. Caleb is relatively new so I don't want to give up anyone's spot, but I think as of now, it's:

Zayne

Caleb

Sylus

Xavier

Rafayel

No guarantees this won't change back to the first one after more content is released for Caleb. I hope I'm not the only one feeling guilty for changing loyalty. I think all the boys are like:

[partyplatter]

15 19 and 26 for ask game 🪆

15: OOOOOOHHH UHMMM!! definitely got to be sinners currently HAHA!! princess and the frog also holds a special place in my heart!

19: i’ll be the sweetest person ever to everyone expect myself… and i can be quite the hoot.

26: biggest pet peeves would have to be uhhh. i’m not sure! i mean i do have some but none are currently coming to mind because i am writing this zooted —

[renmackree]

I just saw the ao3 year review post for ships and I'm shocked sterek wasn't on there at all. I think the rankings went up to 50 and no sterek. Makes me sad tbh. I know we aren't in the golden days lol but I figured we were pretty heavy with fic writers still.

Absolutely crazy how many fics were written this year and still not nearly as many as new fandoms. Kudos to the new fandoms yes, but just means we have to pump those numbers up in 2025!

As long as we keep writing, the ship will never end!

[grandesteartherquakedreamer]

is it just me or am I getting crk beast-yeast DeJa'Vu from the nightmare critters?

Yeah, I can see where getting that idea from lol.

[choppedsouldreamer]

soooo random question, totally nothing to do with a specific holiday or anything buttttt

dress or suit for CSD

and if you know who it is no you don't lalalalalala

hmmm how I wonder who it is. I know it is one of my close goobers of course >:D I should make a name for the people that follow me lol, ahem anyway I am more of a suit gal, and I see CSD as wearing one as well! I was actually planning on shoving her into a suit at one point for her WOTFI 2023 outfit but never got to it, but yeah, suits, gotta love em. I think KNG9 would wear both tbh, a suit dress if she had the chance lmao

thanks for going to my inbox tho! it's been ages since I got one of these so yeah, thanks! and I'll be looking forward to what you are cooking up :P

[apexhaven]

What's your least favorite color

i haven't had a specific colour I dislike as a whole in a while, but I've noticed I don't seem to like yellow in large quantities. As an accent or extra with other colours it's nice but I think I dislike it cuz my light + my walls make my entire room look too yellow when not using natural light idk

What about you?

[pen-pain-poetry]

What is your most used genre in your poems? What kind of poems are hard or unpleasant for you to write?

heartbreak is definitely the most used genre.

(i don't know valid genre's or anything, i responded in terms of emotions, lol.)

for hard to write, dialogue poems, i have read them, i cant write it. i also can't write the one where there is rhyming in every single line, or like constructed poems, you know, where they are just so "perfect", in terms of constructions or other rules, yeah, i never wrote things by rules. so that. unpleasant would be more like the one i don't really wanna finish but i have too, doesn't matter if its in my notes for months, but if i am not in the mood to finish it, i would rather not. emotions / genre of poems doesn't really matter in this case. i don't like to force my self to write or finish stuff.

[mcflymemes]

"THERE'S SOMETHING SPECIAL ABOUT YOU" PROMPTS *  assorted dialogue, adjust as necessary

you're not like the rest of them.

what is it about you that makes everyone act like that?

i've just never met someone like you before.

what did you say your name was again?

i feel seen when you look at me.

you're not what i expected.

everyone sings you praises.

i think they're talking about you.

i wasn't staring at you.

i've heard so many stories about you.

there's just something different about you that i can't explain.

you know my name?

don't worry. everyone loves you.

you should have heard them go on and on about you.

you're just... different. in a good way.

you're the only one who can stop them.

i'm just shocked you're you.

you're the only one who treats me like an equal.

i understand why everyone stares.

they view you as a hero.

you'd better get used to this treatment.

they think you're here to save them.

you're a bit different than how they described you.

you're just... not at all what i anticipated.

can i ask where you came from?

you're unique. in a good way.

there's something special about you.

i'm just trying to figure out why everyone talks about you the way they do.

you're practically a god in their eyes.

sometimes it feels like you're the only one that hears me.

you're so much unlike anyone they've ever seen before.

i thought i knew what to expect.

you're the only one that can pull us through this.

when you walk in a room, everyone stops.

you're a bit odd.

when did you start acting like that?

you're practically a living legend at this point.

what's so special about you, anyway?

they were staring at you.

thought you'd be taller.

you just have this glow about you.

i've never met someone like you.

i'm usually good at reading people. not you.

people are usually predictable.

[neurodivergency-meme-hub]

ADHD ASK MEME — EXTENDED VERSION

For muses with attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder. This meme welcomes all ADHD types: inattentive, hyperactive-impulsive, or combined.

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INTERNAL EXPERIENCE

1. How does your character experience a typical day inside their mind?

2. What’s their relationship with silence or stillness?

3. Do they get "thought traffic jams" or racing thoughts?

4. What makes them zone out, and how do they feel when they “come back”?

5. How do they describe their focus style—scattershot, tunnel-vision, rhythmic?

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HYPERFOCUS & MOTIVATION

6. What topics or tasks send them into hyperfocus?

7. What does hyperfocus look like to others vs. how it feels to your muse?

8. What motivates them: urgency, interest, novelty, or external pressure?

9. What task do they always procrastinate, no matter how many strategies they try?

10. How do they reward themselves for finishing something?

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EXECUTIVE FUNCTION & TIME

11. How do they handle planning and prioritizing tasks?

12. Do they experience time blindness? If so, how does it impact them socially or emotionally?

13. What’s one strategy or tool they rely on to stay on track (e.g., planner, app, post-its)?

14. What does executive dysfunction look like for them on a bad day?

15. Do they work better under structure or flexibility?

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EMOTIONS & IMPULSIVITY

16. How do they process emotions—slow burn, sudden burst, or somewhere in between?

17. What situations tend to trigger impulsive decisions?

18. Have they ever said something impulsively and regretted it later?

19. How do they handle rejection, criticism, or failure?

20. What helps them self-regulate in high-emotion moments?

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SOCIAL & RELATIONAL DYNAMICS

21. How do they handle interrupting others—do they catch themselves or not notice?

22. What’s their communication style: enthusiastic, scattered, intense, all of the above?

23. Do they mask their symptoms in social or professional situations?

24. How do they feel about being perceived as “too much”?

25. What kind of friend or partner are they when fully accepted?

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IDENTITY, STIGMA & SELF-UNDERSTANDING

26. When did they first suspect or learn they had ADHD?

27. How do they feel about the term “neurodivergent”?

28. Have they ever been punished or shamed for traits they now know are part of ADHD?

29. What’s something they excel at because of their ADHD wiring?

30. How do they reclaim or celebrate their ADHD identity now?

[absurdthirst]

can we get a dbf!dave??

Hi! Hello! How are you? I hope you are having a wonderful day!💙💜💙💜

Yeah, see, what we aren't going to do is roll up into my inbox and just like....demand things. Nowhere did it state that I was taking requests, looking for inspiration or even doing one of those fun sleepover things.

I am not some AI fic generator that produces stories for you to consume on demand. I am a real person behind this screen and keyboard. One that spends her free time writing because it's something I enjoy. However, inbox messages like this just kills the creativity and the joy of writing. I'm not saying that I expect you to gush or kiss my ass, but perhaps a little bit of polite dialogue before asking for your request?

However you meant this, please know that it's not the right way of going about requesting anything. So, no, you can't get a dbf!Dave.

[hplonesomeart]

AAAAAA TYSM FOR ALL THE COMPLIMENTS!!! YOUR ART AND ANIMATIONS ARE SO COOL! IT'S SUCH GOOD EYECANDY!!! I always love to see the smaller details of my drawings get noticed and I thank you for that!

No problem! Thanks for sharing what you love doing with the world. I enjoy how fancy you make Puzzles. Keep at it! :)

[vanilla-kunikida]

Your animation of that one section from New romantic sailors had me crying laughing, keep doing what you're doing!

For sunshine showdown, are you planning on implementing each member of Saint Snow as their own character, or were you leaning more towards a switch character like pyra/mythra in smash ultimate and zelda/sheik in smash melee?

That video's old but thanks~

As for Saint Snow's moveset, that's a spoiler and i ain't revealing my plans for them just yet. 🤫

[grandesteartherquakedreamer]

I swear my little pony FIM, undertale, and cookie run are the holy trinity of "series with group(s) of special characters with defining traits": magic, truth, determination, etc

yeah, that's understandable.

[skyedom]

Do you have any hobbies you like sharing?

Thank you so much for asking!

I have a couple hobbies that I’d like to share!

First and foremost is my most obvious one: drawing and art. I’ve been developing my skills for around 9 years and it’s been my main tool of expression. I mostly draw people and characters and even make my own OC’s (now that I mention it I really need to post more art stuff on here)

Secondly, I love to cook! Ever since I could remember I’ve been helping out with my mom and family in the kitchen. I give full credit to my mom for this hobby because I found that mixing different ingredients and spices are more of a creative science in a way. Sure I’m not like Gordon Ramsey or anything; I’d consider myself more of a home cook

Finally, I’ve been sort of dipping my toes into writing again. There’s nothing finished just yet, but if I do make anything I’d be more than happy to post it on my blog!

That’s pretty much the main stuff I can think of.