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[127luvr]

hey it’s the anon that requested the chenle fic. i think i’ll just call myself 💪anon so i have a name 😭😭 the exam was pretty good, it was similar to the practice exams we got and now i’m on like a month break til the second semester starts 🙏🙏🙏 onto the request 😈😈😈 can you write a chenle x male reader x jisung where it’s the first time the trio have been paired together for a concept shoot for their upcoming album. reader is known to be super reserved regardless of the situation. until the director tells the reader to position himself closer to chenji in order to get the perfect shots. turns out reader is battling demons which includes getting easily flustered when it comes to physical contact. chenji notice and tease reader about it. it’s a silly request but go ham with it🔥🥶🔥🥶

Work it

Zhong Chenle x Male Reader x Park Jisung

You watch Jisung from the computer screen, too scared to stare at him as he poses in real time on the football field. You’ve never been a part of a comeback this demanding. Having multiple sets for comeback teasers was usual—but having to do them for a pre-release along with the official title track was draining you. It didn’t help that the recordings weren’t fully finished. The creative directors were still deciding on which direction to go with you—something that should’ve been done before the comeback season began.

“What are you thinking so hard about?” There’s a beat. A moment of silence as Chenle shuffles to squeeze in between you and the staff monitoring the pictures. You didn’t want to burden Chenle with your troubles—nor did you want to lie to him. “Come on, you don’t have to keep up your cold persona with no cameras around.” You can tell Chenle is joking by the way his nose scrunches up, cheeks puffing out in a smile while he watches the screen with you. In an attempt to humor him further, you point at the cameras that sat in front of you—taking nonstop pictures as Jisung lays down on the grass below you.

It’s always been hard—verbalizing your thoughts to your members but you never wanted to come off as cold. You shook your head to yourself, knowing deep down that Chenle didn’t mean his comment to go beyond surface level. They didn’t mind how reserved you were as long as you were a part of the team and their family dynamic. At least—that’s what you told yourself.

“Chenle, since you’re here, do you mind joining Jisung and trying out some unit pictures? Pull inspiration from your Hello Future concept pictures.” Chenle gives you a small nod, lips forming into a thin line when he walks out into the sun to join Jisung on the field. You look back towards the monitor, only to lock eyes with the photographer who was just directing Chenle. “Let’s actually try going further back and remember the Empathy concept. It’s quite the opposite from this, but I want to bring out that ambiguous feel around the two of you.” He continues to stare down at you, his shifting eyes giving away how the gears in his head were turning. “Let’s throw (Y/n) in there. With Chenle and Jisung.”

It’s an odd combination.

Usually Chenle and Jisung were paired just the two of them—regardless of the concept. They were almost always seen together during promotions. It’s a weird feeling. Sitting in between the two men as the sun shines in your (e/c) eyes. You’re unsure of where to put yourself—scared to interfere with their chemistry alone—but the staff was clear. You were to sit in between them and create a barrier. The shoot started out awkward—stiff—as the three of you got the hang of posing with each other. They had no problem in working with each other, no problem with leaning into you or incorporating their bodies to help with the shoot but there was something off.

You.

“(Y/n), I want you to get closer to them, bring them towards you. Think of like this—you’re the sun and they’re the sunflowers. They’re attracted to you, they want to go to you specifically. Chenle, Jisung, there’s nothing wrong with guiding him if you so please.” There’s no telling if your rosy cheeks are from the makeup—the heat—or the flush of embarrassment that came with sitting knee to knee with both boys. You can feel their eyes on you, hard and unblinking as you snake one arm to rest on Chenle’s waist, and the other to rest on Jisung’s thigh. Chenle brings his head to your shoulder, arching his back into you—forcing you to tighten your grip around him. You feel his faint breath on your chest, and you hope he can’t feel how fast your heart is beating.

“(Y/n).” Jisung’s long fingers catch you off guard as they pull your attention away from Chenle. “Pay attention to me.” He brings you to face him head to head, hand still resting just under your jaw. You can hear the endless shutters of the camera—never forgetting that this was only for show. It was to bring in fans and talk towards the shoot. But everything the two men did felt premeditated. Every glance they shared before speaking or touching you suggestively had you confused.

Although you failed to make eye contact with Jisung, he had your full attention. He moved the tips of his fingers from your jaw to just under your chin, hooded eyes never breaking away from you. You shifted your gaze from the moles that sat on his face to his round lips. You don’t even feel your mouth drop—hand clammy as it sits stiff on Jisung’s bare thigh.

“(Y/n).” Chenle’s voice breaks away the spell that Jisung seems to have on you. He has a glint in his eyes, a certain mischief that you usually see directed towards Jisung. He adjusts himself to rest his head on your lap, staring up at you as his hair fans out on your thighs. You can feel Jisung’s gaze on you as you stare down at Chenle—whose eyes move to look at Jisung next to you.

“Perfect!”

The photographer breaks you away from both of them—capturing a picture that leaves you with your mouth hanging open and the eyes of both men on you as you sit with your ankles crossed. You feel Chenle’s body shake as he chuckles—eyes clenched shut as he lets his mouth hang open in pure amusement. It doesn’t take long for Jisung to join him, his face scrunching up as he laughs silently. Jisung brings a hand up towards your hair, tucking a strand behind your ear as he leans in to whisper in your ear. You tense up again—the faint touch of his lips on your ear causing you to shiver. “You’re so easy to rile up, you know?”

He sucks as whispering—his comment falling on Chenle’s ears too when he finally manages to calm down. His hand finds a way down your back, and you’re done wondering if it was the sun making you feel stuffy and flushed under their touch. Finally giving in to the affection that seems to come naturally to them even as a shoot. Not that it didn’t still catch you off guard but now you were aware of them purposefully messing with you, it was easier to handle.

[oiblackestsheep]

Hi there i've got a question ! is it common for a Se user to try to move forward but at the same time cherish a lot past moments ? isn't this a Si thing?

Hey thanks for reaching out! Also thanks for being patient while I slog through the work week trying desperately to get to my asks lmao

High Se and Cherished Memories

So yeah, high Se users (xSxPs) are debatably most known for living in the moment and generally only considering concrete and objectively relevant information that can be observed and confirmed by everyone in the present moment when it comes to making decisions. Not really the pinnacle of nostalgia, are they?

Yeah, Si can be known for cherishing memories, though I think you see this in INTPs and INFPs with their tertiary Si giving them a special comfort in nostalgia. High Si users tend to use it in more complex and effective ways like keeping detailed records of past information to help inform important decisions in the present.

It’s important to remember that your type doesn’t dictate whether or not you are capable of cherishing memories, because everyone does that! But, we can theorize about which xSxPs are more likely to have this as a more important theme in their lives than others.

ESFPs & ISFPs

These types have high Fi in addition to high Se, which I think can create an interesting blend between the present moment, and cherished memories (especially as it pertains to decision-making) because Fi is all about using their personal, emotional values to dictate their choices.

Many people’s personal values can stem from their early life, having deep connections to memories of heir parents or other family, dear, long-standing friends, or just emotionally formative experiences in general. Bonus points if it’s a combination of more than just one of these things!

With that said, I think that makes a decent case for xSFPs having considerable potential for embracing the present and their emotional past when it comes to moving through the world. Not to say that xSTPs can’t have values too, but they are more likely to frame those values based on what makes sense to them, or, to a lesser degree, what objectively pleases other people.

That was a fun question anon! It got me through my bus ride home from work, so thanks for that. Hope this was helpful/informative!

[withoutalice]

misconception abt wheeljack?

Thought Wheeljack was a girl 💀

[hachichimitsu]

Curious to hear your thoughts on Tweek's MBTI being an ISFJ in a Ne grip (the current consensus on PDB).

Hello anon! I’ve actually been wrestling with his type for years now! Previously, I assumed he is an ENFP with really unhealthy Ne-dom traits, but ISFJ and Inferior Ne is slowly starting to make sense to me. However, on one hand, Tweek seems like a very obvious Inferior Ne user with how he uses Ne to catastrophize all the negative possibilities to a situation, but “Put it Down” sort of shows Inferior Si in display, with him needing Craig to redirect and organize his initial feelings and perceptions to bring forth a call to action. Generally, Tweek is an unorganized, forgetful individual. In fact, he often forgets to ground himself, often relying on external reminders (Craig, his dad telling him to find his center, etc.) to remind him to partake in mindfulness and calming, meditative exercises. He even forgot the phrase “Hammer Time” until the very last minute, and his current room is littered with clutter of fairly interesting hobbies and empty coffee cups. However, whether that’s related to Inferior Si or just mental health issues are hard to distinguish. It’s harder to type characters when they have an unhealthy balance of the way they use their functions.

The only thing that’s got me conflicted are his Fi/Te or Fe/Ti axis. Tweek definitely has Fx higher than his Tx, due to his aversion to Craig’s Ti sometimes. His aversion to Craig’s Ti could either stem from Ti being his POLR function OR Tweek being a high stack Fe user finding Craig’s Inferior Fe emotionally invalidating. There’s also Tweek being honest to a fault, in which, yeah, both Fe and Fi users can be vocal about their values, but Tweek seems to be the type of person that is unapologetically himself even if it isn’t “appropriate” or “socially comfortable” for others to hear. It also feels like he constantly needs to *do* something to gain some semblance of control. Sitting around and letting things happen gives him more stress than taking action by his own hands. With that, it seems like he uses Te more than Ti due to how he solves problems and make decisions, in which any problem he faces seems to be an “urgent” matter that needs to be rectified. He doesn’t want to sit down and pick out and analyze the problem. He wants to reaffirm his internal feelings first and then want the problem gone for good (Fi-Te?).

In the Fractured but Whole, we see Tweek being more vocal and defiant (when he’s not a nervous wreck). Besides TFBW, he calls out on people and swallows his fears to do the right thing eventually. In Post-COVID, he is still clearly vocal about his authentic feelings even when Kyle literally just asked him a “how are you” (“Aghh, I’m getting anxiety back from being with all these people”). This could all constitute as either Fi or Fe though, but Fe values don’t really seem to be something he prioritizes.

Thus, im inclined to say ENFP for now (?) but ISFJ is also very befitting for him. Honestly, I could be missing something, so if anyone has anything to add, please feel free to share them. If there were more Fe arguments, I’d probably lean towards ISFJ, but I haven’t seen much that’s completely sold me yet.

[yuan4i]

ài do you have a thing for furries

cyno

and then leona

HMMMM

~ 💌 anon

💌 ANON LISTEN. I SWEAR I’M NOT ATTRACTIVE TO FURRIES D: think of it more this way, i have a thing for istps, isfps, entps, estps, and any xxtjs 💕

AND GUESS WHAT CYNO IS? an istp (before he came out i called it!!!) and guess what leona is? AN ISTP!!! (he’s so baby girl i love them)

BUT! it’s not just that <3 i love cyno’s personality and dorky humor shshshs i love him 💕💕 DONT GET ME STARTED ON LEONA BECAUSE I CAN WRITE A WHOLE BOOK ON IT.

[allisonlol]

OMG I LOVE INTP THEY ARE SO FUNNY AND GREAT PPL TO BE AROUND <33 have a kith 💞💕 - istp anon

MWHAHAHA ILY ISTP 😚😚 kiss kiss

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!she.r !ri !20 !istp

!mark !renjun !jeno !donghyuck !jaemin !chenle !jisung

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my anons! 🐹🍒🐰 💌 🥧 🌠 🍞🧸🌻🪩🩰 🍰✨🥟☄️🍄

about me! info!

see recent works!

! bf jisung vii.

! “what would u do if someone asked me out?”

! bf chenle viii.

! bf mark vii.

! “we’d make a great couple.”

! dreamies vs clingy gf

! bf haechan vi.

! calling dreamies pretty boy

! “miss ur face..”

what to expect this month!!

[deprivedofbraincellsandsleep]

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-> general knowledge: penname is zia, she/her, ISTP-T, ambivert??, cancer (dont believe in zodiac signs tho), love cats, i cant shut up: lazy as hell, have the 24/7 urge to yeet myself off my balcony

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-> books: all for the game, the raven cycle, pjo, folk of the air, a good girls guide to murder, the inheritance games, keeper of the lost cities, six of crows, the naturals, diary of a wimpy kid, harry potter/marauders era (I forgot everything else I've read+I don't join the fandom of every book/series I read sooo yeah)

-> movies/TV shows: brooklyn nine-nine, flipped, yeh jawaani hai deewani, jab we met, the umbrella academy, OBX, young sheldon, peaky blinders (still watching), shadow and bone, gilmore girls, jurassic franchise/camp cretaceous, carmen sandiego (theres more but I can't remember)

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-> I hate sports, very much prefer to stay inside

-> I read too much fanfiction, scroll too much on tumblr and pinterest

-> team jameson but I love Grayson, he is my pookie

-> I hate phone girl/lyra kane (sorry pooks)

-> I'm the biggest procrastinator in history and I have a very short attention span and reading is my coping mechanism and my comfort thing

-> I also know how to crochet but I barely do it

-> I rarely have motivation to do anything

-> I love taking sky pics

-> I LOVE stars

-> I wanna learn how to skateboard, oil paint, learn many languages

PERSONAL TAGS: #this is why I'm deprived of braincells and sleep #what is she yapping about #ask #anon (currently in the process of tagging my old posts)

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[discoveredreality]

intro post <3

don't mind me editing this like every single day lol

my dm's and askbox is always open if u want to talk <3

anons are welcome too <3

also if u want to make new friends i am right here pls say hi im fucking lonely😭

anyways

BELOVED MOOTS <33333 (everyone is tagging them and this is fun)

this in no particular order just whoever pops up on my dash or smth idk. not every moots just the ones i actually know lol. ok so

@im-ur-sleep-paralysis-demon THEY'RE AMAZING LOVE THEM SM IF U DON'T FUCK OFF BECAUSE OMG KJHLGJKFJHLKYFJHKJGL

@ma-lan13 HELP MY BESTIE IRL GOT TUMBLR OMG OMG. AND SHES ACTUALLY USING IT WTF?????? ANYWAYS SHES THE BEST <333

@bloophasarrived SHE'S THE SWEETEST AND SO WONDERFUL. HER PERSONALITY SPARKLES AND OMG SHE'S SO FUN AHHH

@marylily-my-beloved I LOVE HERRR WE HAVE THE BEST CONVERSATIONS. SO NICE AND EASY TO TALK TO. AND WHY DOES SHE KNOW ME SO WELL <3333

@im-just-here4853 my vent buddy omg we just vent to each other i love her so much idk what i would do without her <33

@im-on-crack-send-help TWINNING IN LITERALLY EVERYTHING. SAME MUSIC TASTE. SAME TASTE IN FOOD. IN DRINKS. IN THE WAY WE THINK. WTF. ANYWAYS SHE'S MY POOKIE I LOVE HER <333

@the-gay-skeleton-in-ur-closet THEY'RE THE BEST OMGGGGG and they're nice and cool and shit <333333 i'm quoting myself it's fine AND LIKE SO NICE AND GOOFY AND EVERYTHING OMG

@cubemagnet somene i met on a random post and now we occasionally team up to correct grammar lol 🤓🤓🤓 anyways she's amazing :D and everything she says is so iconic like isjflsrijglruhglsuglijrsg

@book-girl4eva SHE'S AMAZINGGGGG. IT'S SO EASY TO GOOF AROUND W HER I LOVE IT. SHE ALWAYS SLAYS SO HARD. EVERYTHING ABOUT HER SLAYS. idk if you'll see this but this is for u pookie <3

@mil-pinterest-sss-here-i-am ??? questioning why we're moots. but he's literally so nice. literally will be my therapist and help me w maths because that shit is impossible 😭

@dandelionflowery omg literally so kind and everything all the time. so fun fun reading their fics and doing shit together omg

@sweetwarmcookies16 OMG RIJGDJFGIJFGIF THE BEST I LOVE PLAYING GAMES TOGETHER AND TALKING AND EVERYTHING. ALSO AN AMAZING WRITER

idk brain isnt braining ill add ppl as i go along

moodboards made by my lovely lovely moots <3

so far i only have one here cause i forgot to link the previous ones whoops 😭😭😭

about me

i'm ari. she/her. nicknames welcome. go wild. dude/bro/girl/literally anything is also fine. i use 'lol' and '<3' too much. minor. literally the biggest procrastinator and so disorganised i dare u to find someone worse than me. i'm indian but i live in australia. bengali/north indian idk. band kid :D my pinterest is here. PLEASE DM ME IF U WANT TO. I NEED FRIENDS. IM AWKWARD AND BAD AT MAKING CONVERSATION BUT STILL PLS 😭😭😭

personality/star sign or whatever

according to the mbti test here i am an istp-t. i am also a cancer. i found out my sun, moon and rising signs and the marauders version and i wrote it down and lost it so then i redid it and i lost it again so i can't bother at this point someone help me :(

time zone

Australian Eastern Standard Time (AEST) i think?? SUCK ON THAT AMERICANS AND WHOEVER ELSE EHHEHEHHEHE ;LSDJFSFJIJFDJF;LJ

my music taste

i love taylor swift, conan gray, olivia rodrigo, sabrina carpenter and honestly a lot of other stuff lol. also love bollywood music.

favourite books and authors

i love reading and i'm usually a really fast reader lol. i love harry potter (fuck jkr tho), kotlc, chetan bhagat books, the inheritance games, agggtm, literally all of karen m. mcmanus's books, the divergent series, pjo and hoo, lorien legacies, the selection, powerless, soc, girl in pieces, dictionary of lost words and bookbinder of jericho, all the books by amish, and a bunch of other books.

dni

idk the usual?? if u think ppl arent valid or you're literally an asshole. honestly you all can go get stuffed. idgaf

tag games and shit

yes you can absolutely tag me. i love tag games and chain asks. sometimes i may not get to doing it but i usually will and it makes me so happy when i'm tagged lol

tags

i don't post that much stuff so i don't really have mulitple tags for my posts. anything or any shitposting or thoughts will be tagged #ari's shit. for asks it's #ari gets an ask?

fandoms!

i'm literally obsessed with drarry but i'm mostly part of the marauders fandom. i'm starting to make my way through all of the marauders fics. i love love love hermitcraft. i'm an ethogirl literally who doesn't love etho?? also really into trafficblr. i literally love six of crows so much like omg. desperately trying to get through the magnus archives im only 8 years late haha i also love kotlc sm. (team foster-keefe forever!) i'm low-key in love with keefe sencen cause omg. aaaand also a bunch of other shit but those are the main ones idk bro

i'm bored and this is too long already might as well add more so here are a bunch of userboxes :D

and that's all not because i have self control but because there is a limit to images per post 😭😭😭 i literally had to delete some of my aesthetic images for this soooo

all the above photos are not mine, i got them off of pintrest.

my profile pic is obviously from the makowka picrew here

the beautiful dividers are linked here. these are by @saradika-graphics she is a literal star these dividers are so good

IK THIS IS WAY TOO FUCKING LONG AND I KEEP ON ADDING SHIT MORE SHIT SO IF U ACTUALLY LIKE READ TO THE BOTTOM THIS HERE IS FOR U LMFAO ILYSM <333333

[mistype360]

Which MBTI types do you reckon would be the best liars?

-I'm new XD feel free to name me as you please ;)

you can be "pirate anon" bc i've never heard someone say "reckon" before haha

🥇 enfjs are the best liars. period point blank.

🥈infps and enfps come close. in general having fi means they have a little bit more control over their emotions and feelings. i don't think they could hold a lie for a long period without ultimately breaking, but they're very good at making small ones to save themselves in the moment. having ne-fi makes them pretty good at coming up w them on the spot.

🥉 estps have tertiary fe which comes as a tool to them, and combined with their se basically makes them a powerhouse for telling lies and reading/understanding others.

🎖️honorable mention: intp, istp, isfp, and istj are the best lie detectors, or basically the best "bs" detectors. they're the type of people that see someone lie a certain way in a movie and then see it irl. they also have sm awareness of things going on that they realise when someone's story doesn't fit in place

best fictional characters award: i know that you are all waiting for me to say infj 😔...yes, i admit, they are the best liars...but only at their most EXTREME points !! 😭😭 i DO NOT see a joe goldberg or johan liebert walking around on the streets...i don't think the average infj is walking around with the capability of will graham. but overall infjs have the coolest characters when it comes to lying 🤷

[chaos-creature-on-the-roof]

Hello! New Intro b/c I deleted the old one on accident oops

-- Name: Rowan, Lore, Leo -- Gender: Transmasc + Genderflux -- Pronouns: Varies. Ask. -- Age: What are you a cop? (Under 18) -- From: America (sadly) -- Religion: Practicing Eclectic Pagan -- Anxiety fueled insomniac -- Notes: Im a solarpunk leftist! -- Typologies: (MTBI) ISTP [TiSe, NiFe], (Ennegram) 8w7, (Tempermants) CholSang, (hogwarts but fuck pottermore) Slytherin, (Tricenter) 8-3-6, (Socionics) LII-2Ti, Chaotic Neutral, sp/so (instinct variant), (Attitude Psyche) VLEF, (SLOAN/Big 5) 66d1275e9069e86c55cf034f, (Jungian) IT(S), Soldier (soldier, poet, king)

Interests/Likes

-- HISTORY -- Cooking/Baking -- Music! -- Reading/books -- Gardening -- Bone Hunting -- Collecting (vinyl, cassettes, bones, shiny things, buttons, shells, coins, stamps, cds, stuffed animals, etc.) -- Rain/Storms -- Nature (Hiking, Walking, playing in mud) -- Oc making! i have a 37 slide google presentation with 2-3 slides per oc! -- Winter and Fall are my favorite seasons!

Dislikes/DNI

-- Israel Supporters -- Trump supporters -- Radfems/transmeds/terfs -- transphobes, queerphobes, homophobes -- anti-therians/anti-kins -- 'men dni'/'women dni' -- transandrophobes -- maps/pedos - heavy nsfw blogs (nothing wrong just make me kinda uncomfy) -- anon haters -- yelling, fighting

Tag System!

-- screams: posts by me -- sticky note: posts I add to -- stolen treasure: silent reblogs -- calls: tags/mentions -- cries: vents

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[weemietime]

Hey, all. I'm Weemie or Shayne, a 33 year old queer man living in Halifax Nova Scotia. I am a religious Conservative Jew (this is required reading) , an anarchist, and believe in abolishing economy and money altogether. I'm a Leo, an ISTP and an 8w7.

I support a 2-state solution for Israel and Palestine. I support Palestinian sovereignty inside Gaza and the West Bank. I support a mutual ceasefire and advocate for peace between our peoples. I am opposed to terrorism and war crimes. I support Land Back. Jewish converts are ethnic Jews.

I run a support group on Discord for survivors of trauma called Treehouse, which you can DM me if you'd like an invite. I also have a mini-podcast where I seek to educate people on neurology, psychology, trauma and therapy. I am a survivor of human trafficking, and was involved in organized crime from ages 8-13.

I am a writer. I fiddle around in Twine. I am an autodidact with a ninth grade education who taught himself clinical neurology and forensic psychology over the course of the past sixteen years. My primary focus is trauma, armed conflict, international humanitarian law, genocide, gang violence and aggression. I also have an abiding interest in movements disorders such as Parkinson's and Huntington's.

Because I am mentally ill and physically disabled, I volunteer rather than work. I post a lot about politics, mental health (particularly PTSD, forensic narrative exposure therapy and schizoid personality disorder - I also have OCD and ADHD), animals, the environment, disability rights, and LGBT issues.

I am a somewhat sex-critical (but not entirely negative) eco-feminist. Note: I may occasionally reblog posts by TERFs. I am not a TERF. Tags that I follow (feminism, misogynoir, misogyny, femicide) are often populated with TERFs and I can't check every single person I reblog from (especially crypto-TERFs).

While I'm not new to Tumblr by any means, this is a new account. I do post about contentious topics, so it must be said; I just delete hateful anons. I have no interest in engaging with bullshit and it doesn't faze me.

Consider this post a blanket trigger warning for rape, war, abuse of all types, violence of all types, institutional trauma, et cetera. I don't typically provide content warnings as I weave in and out of topics. This whole blog is a trigger-zone, so practice self-care and distress tolerance.

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ᯓ★ ABOUT ME ᯓ★

Hello, I am Will! I go either by Ghost or just Will. Either of those names that I am comfortable with. And honestly im just here to write for fun and write for certain fandoms I feel like writing for. I am a phone writer, so my thumbs are sometimes dying.

I am 16 and African American/Black. I love making new friends/mutuals and also finding cool writers to follow. You can dm me if you wanna talk or just inbox me anything. But if it’s weird then I will block you or just delete your ask.

I have adhd and glasses. I am indeed on Wattpad, Quotev, & here as well. But im inactive of writing on Wattpad and Quotev. I’m a night owl, I hate mornings if I’m awaken by something unexpected. I am an Augest Leo, a Gryffindor + Hufflepuff, I’m also a ISTP and my timezone is Chicago GMT-5.

Any pronouns, but my preferred pronouns are he/him and they/them

I am in many fandoms and game fandoms that I know of.

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Anon wrote: Hello, 24M ISTP here hoping to help my 25F INFJ girlfriend, or at least understand her. It’s a persisting problem that’s taking a noticeable toll on her mental health and I’m a little lost on what to do.

We live in the UK, and drinking culture is HUGE here, particularly regarding an almost obsession with pubs. They’re seen as a community hub in a way for a lot of people. I personally only have one or two drinks on special occasions and my girlfriend is teetotal, so neither of us feel the need to go to these places ourselves. The problem, for my girlfriend, is how this interferes with the rest of her social life. She has a lot of online friends, but aside from myself and her sister, she only really hangs out with her work colleagues. Most of these outings involve drinking to an extent.

My girlfriend said herself, several times, that she doesn’t like the pub crowd. It’s not her scene, it’s noisy and cramped a lot of the time and she just finds it boring. Honestly I agree with her. She’s even had some people grilling her about why she doesn’t drink, which obviously won’t help. When it’s just the two of us, we usually go to some sort of cafe, or an actual activity like arcades or museums, because that’s what we both enjoy. Whenever she goes out with her colleagues, though, she comes home miserable and deflated. I suggested offering to go someplace else with them, but she’s apparently asked a few of them around the weekend time and they always say they’re busy.

I’ll see her obsessively scrolling on Reddit or Twitter at sometimes 4AM, looking into why people love drinking/pubs so much and to see if anyone feels the same way that she does. It seems to start this vicious cycle of guilt if she can’t find the answers she wants because she’ll see people praising pubs and what they mean to them. She tells me how she feels like she doesn’t fit in here, and it’s warping her view of the world generally, because so many people love and revolve their leisure time around an activity that she hates. Basically she thinks that there’s something wrong with her.

She’s tried to branch out a little over the last few weeks by taking music classes and volunteering, but she’s really shy and hasn’t formed any friendships so far, which is making her feel even worse. So she falls back into her usual routine of going to places that she hates because people want her to. I take her out to do what she likes as often as I can, but honestly I think there’s a deeper problem at play here.

I asked her if she feels lonely, and she said no. She doesn’t miss the connection of an actual friendship, she actually enjoys having lots of alone time. She told me it comes from a need to feel socially competent, and this does line up with her behaviour. The way she talks, acts, dresses, is all done so she can be perceived a certain way. She wants people to see her as someone that has friends and a fulfilling social life. But like I say to her - she’s not a public figure, she’s not a fictional character. There’s no audience here aside from the people she chooses to be around. Why is she sabotaging herself?

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Consult the article about Caring for Emotional Needs for tips about how to offer comfort to people in distress. Questions about how to help are always complicated because there are so many factors that could influence the outcome. The most important factors to consider are: 1) how open the person is to receiving help, 2) whether they possess enough inner and outer resources to carry out good advice, and 3) whether your presence has the potential to hinder them. From your description, it is unclear how these factors will play out.

Have you read the study guides and do you understand functional stacks and type development? It sounds like she is having difficulty with auxiliary development and reaching a point of auxiliary resistance, which can potentially trigger a gradual descent into tertiary loop. It is a common issue across all types.

It's possible there's something awry with her intentions. Approaching function development with the wrong intention often leads to negative results. She works very hard, perhaps too hard, to fit in, which indicates Fe overindulgence, but then also claims that she does not need the Fe things she's working for. She claims to want "social competence", which is ostensibly about healthy Fe, but then rejects vital opportunities to develop genuine social competence. Denial and ambivalence are major factors behind why people get stuck in developmental ruts. In essence, people want auxiliary development but also want to avoid the difficulties of it, which can lead them to choose dead ends and overlook viable opportunities.

Yes, it is self-sabotage, but it's important to remember that these "choices" are generally made unconsciously from a deep and dark place of pain, suffering, ignorance, or desperation. Although it might seem irrational to onlookers, it is rational to do what is necessary to alleviate short-term pain, in an effort to regain enough mental capacity to tackle long-term problems. However, when pain cannot be adequately alleviated (usually due to not having learned the right tools for coping), it starts to wreak havoc psychologically.

I often say that the easy path isn't usually the right path when it comes to personal growth. Ideally, she should go through the arduous process of making new friends with people who are better suited to her personal preferences and needs. Branching out is the better choice but also the more difficult choice because it involves facing up to painful truths about herself, i.e., to nakedly expose the shyness and deep insecurities that lie at the heart of the struggle. She has yet to realize that it is precisely through facing up to those vulnerabilities that genuine social competence is eventually achieved.

Since she isn't ready to face up to the real underlying problem, she's leaning on her colleagues at the pub. As you said, pub culture is huge in the UK, so enjoying it would allow one to quickly fit in with a significant swath of the population. However, as huge as pub culture is, there are also huge numbers of people with other interests, but it might be difficult to meet them without making a big change to one's immediate social environment. From my observations, spending too much time with people at work can really limit one's perspective, like putting all your eggs in one basket. I generally don't recommend seeking out personal relationships in the workplace unless you just happen to meet someone you really, really click with.

If she lacks the wherewithal to change her social environment, she might be feeling out of options and that might be why she's trying to force the pub situation, as it helps maintain some illusion of control. The misery she feels as a result is an extremely important warning sign but she's ignoring it, which indicates poor self-care and a need to improve emotional intelligence. Chasing these existing relationships is the golden path of least resistance, but it only seems easy on the surface. In the end, it's also an incredibly difficult path because she must deny herself and sacrifice her integrity for the pretense of fitting in, which basically amounts to self-violence.

In short, both paths are difficult, but only one will lead to proper function development and personal growth. In cases of auxiliary overindulgence, the dominant function doesn't work optimally. Without healthy Ni, it's difficult for her to understand the longer term implications of her choices. All FJs need a strong sense of belonging and community in order to flourish in life. Fe-related needs are legitimate and she must learn to fully embrace them as an integral part of her identity. Ideally, she should be encouraged to fulfill her Fe needs and be offered support as needed/requested. However, though it's hard to watch someone you care for struggle, you can't compel or force them to develop a function when they are not psychologically ready for it. It's something she ultimately has to decide to do on her own, for her own good.

Since her auxiliary function is your inferior function, you are in a dangerous position. You could inadvertently be a negative influence if your inferior Fe distorts her view of auxiliary Fe. It's important that you are mindful about your own relationship to Fe. You have to understand that auxiliary and inferior functions are very different animals that require very different approaches in type development. You should avoid expressing inferior Fe in a way that gives her a convenient excuse to withdraw from auxiliary Fe development entirely. This would be the worst case scenario from the perspective of type development.

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You’re always talking about how much you like INTJs. Would you consider any other MBTI type as a potential partner or is it just INTJs for you? And why?

Of course, I could consider other MBTI types as potential romantic partners besides INTJs.♥️

My preference would probably be something like this:

INTJs > ISTJs > ENTJs > ESTJs > ENTPs > INTPs > ISTPs > ENFJs.

When it comes to friendships, I’m quite flexible.

However, I’ve found that the least compatible types for me, so far, have been (in no particular order):

ESFPs, ESTPs, and some unhealthy ISFPs and unhealthy INFPs. I never met healthy ISFPs but healthy INFPs are absolutely adorable to me (like my 🧛🏻‍♀️🫀-anon, for example).

I also really enjoy having ENFJs and ESFJs as friends. My two closest friends are an ESFJ and an ENFP. I sometimes struggle to keep up with the dominant Ne of ENFPs (or ENTPs), so I try to take a step back from time to time, but they always seem to become quite obsessed with me, so it’s not really possible. (Weird, weird.)

I hope this clarifies everything!♥️ Have a delightful day/night!♥️