me: It's so silent today, I should listen to something...
*opens music in a new tab and forgets to press play*
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the pikachu anya face edit that one (1) person asked for
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splatoon teams be on time to the scrim challenge
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I hope you feel better soon (if ur sick and like perishing like an old man or sumn)
Or whatever is going on turns out A-Okay!
Or you recover from art block death chamber 36
I give you this as a "get well soon" card but I forgot to write get well soon
LMAO Thank you gamer this really means a lot to me!
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shinlena hades & persephone au 🥀 spring + winter
something about drawing them as eternal lovers is just so *cletches fist* they deserve it
part 1 / lena's full persephone design here
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Personal
So I got a rather nasty ask earlier about straight people talking about closeting. Which isn't new to me, I have always understood the delicacy and tried to communicate my thoughts as respectfully as I could. This time my reply (though I will not share the ask) will be a bit different though.. and I feel a bit vulnarable while doing so (knowing this will probably get me some backlash as well).. so I just ask for an understanding of the fact that everyone goes through life differently and that my story might be odd to you, but it is real to me.
So these last couple of years have been ones of self discovery for me. It's had rather drastic consequences varying from me separating from my ex to discovering I have ADHD and... I now identify as queer.
It's been something I have come to terms with rather easily (not the adhd part... that was pretty mindblowing for some reason 😂). It's still a relatively new discovery (though my thoughtprocess on this has been going on for quite some time now) and I have yet to figure out which label fits me best, though perhaps I'll also just leave it as queer. For now I'm describing it as me caring more about someone's personality and values and not so much about what package that person comes in. I've noticed I feel proud and excited, It feels as though I have found back a piece of me that was lost.
I am very much aware that I am privileged. I am a white, highly educated woman in a western country with family and friends that I know will have no trouble with my sexuality. This has definitely contributed to the ease with which I have gone through this journey. I've yet to come out to my family and friends... I will when it comes up in conversation, but I'm not the grand statement kinda girl (introversion in practice 😂). The only one I've talked about this is @thv-jk97 (thank you so much M), but I feel it's fair to come out on here.. since I am ready... but also because I understand that to some this space will feel safer knowing that I identify as queer.
Still... I've never been closeted and I don't know what that feels like. I've also not yet lived the reality of people knowing I am queer and the responses that might get me. The most messed up feelings I'm now experiencing myself is knowing that certain people in my life (some colleagues for instance, and telling my ex will probably also be .... an experience...) will have problems accepting this. And I feel oddly insecure about being accepted by the queer community.. since it took me so long to realize this part of me existed. But none of those feelings come close to being closeted and to feeling unsafe.
I have always felt that it's important for people of majority groups to speak up on behalf of people from minority groups. In a world where there's still so much racism and discrimination minorities can use all the support and help they can get. I've alwaus encouraged people to tell me when I get something wrong. Listening to other people's experiences and applying the lessons you learn is so important. We learn as we go 🌈.
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the day this man learns to serve face at this high a level on command… dare i say may be our last day on this earth dear wiz
don't speak to me rn julia i need to be sedated.
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