#jonathan decker

[iscahmckrae]

"It's really hard to be the adult, because they often ask for love in the most unlovable of ways, with the most unlovable of behaviors; but Jess always needed a place to belong. He did not belong with his mom—his mom had all sorts of problems. He belonged in Stars Hollow—he belonged with Luke. [side point rant redacted] Just the fact that his uncle fought for him and tried so hard—and got it wrong so many times, but his heart was in the right place—Jess noticed.

"If you've got a teenager that feels like -nothing- is landing, nothing is registering—it is smarm and sass and sarcasm nonstop—DO. NOT. GIVE. UP. Keep providing love, keep providing structure, and keep holding to consequences, and accept that they're gonna be a pain in the butt for a few years; but, sooner or later, a lot of 'em—most of 'em—come back around."

—Jonathan Decker, Marriage and Family Therapist on the relationship between Luke Danes and Jess Mariano

[nerdygaymormon]

[ramavoite]

[andylantsov]

I need Jonathan and Alan to react to Jugjugg Jeeyo (the bollywood movie) and specially the couple of Varun Dhawan and Kiara Advani (Kuldeep and Nainaa).

I just need to see that one happen

CINEMA THERAPY PEOPLE I HOPE YOU HEAR ME

*manifesting it*

(But also be careful. Bollywood idealizers can be crazy)

[starlight-bread-blog]

A Boy and the Heron episode is in the works and now I can sleep at night.

[merp-blerp]

*Rises from the grave*

[davidtennantgenderenvy]

I want mended light to do a good omens video so badly

[tangents-within-tangents]

Nobody:

Me, in any semi-relevant conversation: Well, Jonathan Decker, licensed therapist who loves movies, says…

[themoldysausage]

"Before you can ever be happy in a relationship, you have to be happy single" -Jonathan Decker, Licensed therapist who loves movies

My good people, I give you: Amatonormativity.

[blogthebooklover]

Therapist Reacts to INSIDE OUT with the filmmakers! Meg LeFauve, Kevin N...

[gr33rdraws]

💥🦅🇺🇸DECKER🇺🇸🦅💥

[feralgodmothers]

I admire every white guy who’s ever been dedicated to nailing his Sméagol/Gollum impression.

It’s like they’re all tapping into something primal about themselves and I mean that in the most complimentary way possible.

I love my men when they’re scrungly weirdo nerdy freaks

[ivygorgon]

I am allo (except for those years my hormones were wack) and I have qprs. When questioned about this I described it as like Jonathan Decker and Alan Seawright from Cinema Therapy calling each other their movie wives.

They're just bros. It's just bro love between 2 guys. They couldn't share their love of movies with their legal wives so they share it with eachother.

hey guys do the allos know that they can have qprs too? like do they know that being alloromantic doesn't mean they can't choose to be in a qpr anyway? because qprs aren't "romance-lite" for aros, they're an entirely separate kind of relationship that anyone can have. you can do this with fictional characters too. you can put characters that aren't aroace or are even canonically dating in qprs with each other just because you think that would be a cool way to play with their dynamic. it's actually very cool and you totally should.

[ramavoite]

[jonathanbyersphd]

I am once again thinking about

Jonathan: We can't call Hawkins without alerting the military, putting El in danger. Fine, then we'll just go to them.

AND

Nancy: Whatever's happening in Lenora is connected to all of this I'm sure of it. But Vecna can't hurt them. Not if he's dead.

[totheidiot]

if you sit down and Think about Everything for a little bit, eventually you will have the sudden epiphany that you have based every man above the age of 25 from fictional media that you Think about a lot, either after your father or your math teacher from 7th and 8th grade.