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okkalo · 8 months

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We have theme week next week at school and like on tuesday its dress up as your type. Like how am i suppoused to dress up as a pink haired drtug adict, gang member, who is 172 cm tall, blood type is AB asnd is a middle child like life is so hard sometimes

naw bc i would be so embarrassed if that was one of my spirit week days

#like imagine someone thinking ur type is them #but it’s not #bro #NO #I ONLY LIKE THE BONTEN TRIO #STAY AWAY ‼️#maybe this is why i hate dates so much #reserved for fictional men 🤞#kalo replies #conan ★ ˙

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tavysboy · 25 days

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No other love can warm my heart, now that I’ve known the comfort of your arms.

Unedited version under cut 💛

#john soap mactavish #simon ghost riley #soapghost #ghostsoap #doodles #getting inspiration to draw them cuddling after playing with my soapghost sims and seeing them cuddle like yeah i can do that #i gotta draw them in their outfits too … especially their date night ones they are adorable i Hate them #also i know i didnt draw soaps tattoo okay . i am a loser i normally draw but didnt feel like it <3 sorry #i just susushdjfkglg i love them so much and this is how i cope <3 #i hope to draw more of them … i still need to doodle them in my marriage ome*averse fic with simon and his pretty collars …. sigh #why am i even censoring that Anyways. much love to my first art piece that i have felt the need to finish since TWO YEARS AGO … AHAHAAAAAAAA #(two is pushing it more like one . maybe)

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kastillia · 2 months

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#aiba #ai the somnium files #aistf #today's va spotlight is erika harlacher-stone - voice of the silly :)#(though i think she's still known professionally as just erika harlacher)#whoops another cop #you guys remember the second somnium in the first game right #if you tell her to sit on the merry-go-round she sits on the horse and makes this exact face and it like haunts me idk why #maybe it's just the emotional disconnect bc she makes this face while mizuki is right out of frame crying fdhskjdf #and then date goes 'you look cute like that' guys there are more important things going on right now!!!!#i love them so much i hate them #my art

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lunarharp · 1 year

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into the deep end - 30k T orufrey fic, focusing on memory trauma, disability, and romance.

the sweet oblivion of the victim, the poisoned freedom of the other.

for one moment - it had felt like two parts returned - the needed reunion of two disparate halves. no more secrets, no more pain.

the moment you get to give back what you never wanted to take. that moment, under the night-blooming flowers, when they had both let out the same single broken sigh of relief.

but they were never whole to begin with, were they?

qifrey swore he wouldn't say 'sorry' to this man any more if he could help it - sorry is cheap now. he didn't want to be in a position ever again where you only have 'sorry' left. so he just looks down into the threads of his blanket, strains his eye until it hurts, feeling his insides - his throat, heart and head - burn with pain. he expects more, but olly says nothing.

olly says nothing.

#witch hat tag #orufrey #sorry i wanted to make a new post for my fic since the first illustration is new.#*stands in the middle of a desolate field in the pouring rain* Please Read My Tale...Blease..Oh god please..*collapses to the ground*#someone asked if there's spoilers in it. Um...yes. Sorry...it's about everything #maybe i should describe it more? it's about qifrey becoming more and more disabled - as i feel is his canon trajectory #and both of them processing the choices that have been made. it was necessary for me to explore this in order to fully understand orufrey #and for them to have the cathartic conclusion-that's why this is important to me for my witch hat fanwork making life. this connects it all #and having dived into qifrey's mind and lived through oru's feelings i was able to get to a place that is possible for them.#the hit/kudos ratio is so pathetic idek what happened. ppl opening it realising its long and saving it for later or just bailing lmfao #idek any more i hate advertising my writing i hate trying to get more ppl to read my long fics it's so hard 🥲#i'm so much prouder of this than my art...i was able to sink deeply into the orufrey feelings i had always wanted to fully explore #so. it's there lol.........i reread the date/kiss segment today after trying to forget about it thinking maybe the fic is just BAD lol #and like.....nope! i like it very much and this is what i was trying to get across. and it's always there to be read by anyone who wants to #and i will always remember the bliss i felt while writing when i was just lost in their world and living as them. dear GOD i love them.#i'm grateful to myself that i put in the work and love to make this so that i can always come back to it. i wanna illustrate scenes properly #but i'm never satisfied with drawing things i've written because i just can't capture the vivid experience in my mind. maybe one day.

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polyvees · 6 months

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may I say something controversial?

I personally like velval more than voxval and voxvel pls don't attack me, and ofc voxvalvel is still top tier for me

#maybe it's cause vox is also my least favourite vee and not ecen in my top 5 favourite characters #I still love him don't get me wrong #Val and Vel are just THE top 2 characters for me #and since their relationship hasn't been explored as much as voxval and voxvel #I get to draw my own conclusions #I said it before but to me Velvette is a lesbian and Valentino is genderfluid #they're toxic yuri ok #Vox doesn't understand ok #it's so in character for me to not only like a rarepair #but a rarepair within the rarepair #I don't think I met anyone who ships velval on the level I do #and why I hate voxvalevelin a poly vee where valvel isn't dating but are “siblings/besties 🤮” instead #anyway #valvel #velval #velvette #valentino #hazbin hotel velvette #poly vees #hazbin hotel #it would go:#1. velval #2. voxval #3.voxvel #but that's just my opinion

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massiveladycat · 2 months

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me asf with nick davis

#no because when i bring up the fact bree and nick were still together when bree started making out with sel im WRONG #what the hell is with that?#okay maybe she's 'young and dumb' but she definitely knows cheating is wrong. she KNOWS. so why are we ignoring it??#clearly if it'd been nick who cheated (he would never) the entire fandom would be on his ass #but when bree's making out with sel in a forest of fireflies it gets ignored #then again this is just my opinion its fine if you think differently #nick davis #selwyn kane #the legendborn cycle #oathbound #tracy deonn #bloodmarked #brianna matthews #bree matthews #legendborn #and also bree and nick are canonically together. literally. canonically dating.#i love bree i love nick i dont feel much for sel but i dont hate him so this is NOT me going after bree #my friends being in a polyamorous relationship means every person in that relationship has consented and is aware of the other #nick has NOT consented to bree making out with him and sel from what im aware of. he is only aware of selwyn having a crush on bree #so that my friends is CHEATING!!!#friendly reminder: i am not anti bree or sel #im only anti glorified cheating trope.

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kiwikiwiandkiwi · 2 years

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#at some point you make peace with the fact that that's harry’s image #he is a womanizer #but god why do these stunts always have to be with the worst people ever????#i know next to nothing about her but i’ve seen the news about her and her latest dates #so it’s easy to assume she is not good news #but i really try to understand what’s their goal (and by their i mean harry himself and his team)#honestly after the mess that it was dwd and also holivia #and the way his comment about gay sex backlashed like so badly #and also after his grammy speech not being well received #i’d assume the best thing right now would be to keep things low and quiet #like he’s only touring right now nothing to promote nothing to be relevant about #so why not keep it this way #i just would think sometimes that would be for the best??? at least just for a little while #i guess i can answer my own question by saying they’re trying to keep his name relevant and keep people talking about him #just keeping his name in the news #so people don’t forget about him or whatever #maybe i’m being naive but not all press is good press #that’s more than clear now after how much hate he’s gotten in the last 7/8 months #so why do they always go back to the same route??#we are all tired - not just his fans - but every single person that’s perceiving harry is tired #people start to resent anyone who is in the media for too long #specially if said person keeps giving you reason to maybe not like them #i’m not even angry or feeling anything really - by now i’m used to it #but you can’t tell me that the same M.O. over and over and over and over again is good #this formula has already proven (many times!!!) to not always being the right answer #like seriously what's their goal?? because harry being a womanizer is more than well established by now #i don't think we need 'proof' of it for people to say 'oh it's just an excuse for the storyline of the next album'#we actually don't need any kind of proof anymore for the rumors to exist lmao #i guess all of this is me saying that i really wish i could have the answers i'll never actually have #anyway rant over i said nothing new goodnight

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serpentinespider · 6 months

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My (maybe controversial?) Spideyflash opinion is that Flash has an unbelievably intense crush on Spider-Man but has no feelings for Peter Parker whatsoever

#Maybe it’s just because I’m aro and hate the romance aspect itself #but I much prefer this dynamic for its comedy potential. For the same reasons it’s funny in canon #Like. This normal guy likes this other normal guy? Yeah okay I guess. I’m not intrigued. Go on with your day.#But… this guy has a celebrity crush who also happens to be the person that he doesn’t gaf about / hates so much (depending on the media)?#now THAT’S exciting. You can do so much with that #and yeah I do love repressed feelings but ehhh idk the teenager romance dynamic that some Spideyflash enjoyers are engaged in just #isnt that appealing to me personally #Do I think Flash/Peter can be written well? Yeah absolutely!#but does the CANON suggest that Flash or Peter have any romantic feelings for each other at all (in any version)? No I don’t think so #Tasm Flash/Peter works the best in my opinion… thinking specifically of that deleted(?) scene where they hug at graduation #but “guys who dislike each other and then date aww” is just. A bit boring for me #this is SPIDER-MAN we’re talking about #why are we getting rid of the superhero aspect #this fully is just me ranting to nobody in particular. To the Flash/Peter enjoyers I see you and I appreciate you it’s just not up my alley #(most of the time)#spider-man #spideyflash #fish.txt

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nyaacatboy · 8 days

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hey aros/aces of tumblr has anyone else figured out to express the sentiment "I hate it when people complain about being single to me" to allos without them launching into the perfectly valid ways in which they are unhappy with their singleness or conflating "complain about being single" with "talking about dating or being attracted to anyone."

#tempted to just make it i hate it when people complain about being single to me because if you're not happy single #you won't be happy in a relationship. bc that's more acceptable than being like. yah its bc im aromantic #like i get it i get it it's a big thing! its a valid complaint! making it to me is the equivalent of talking about how much you hate kids #to someone who has kids. im glad i tested expressing this opinion to my good friends first before letting it Breach Containment #maybe like i hate it when ppl try and commiserate with me about being single. although that does exclude just the person who complains abou #being single and then when you offer possible solutions they reject all of them and like. alright fuck me do you really want a partner or n #although i might be having an autism moment there and that one is also. commiserating. which explains why im ok w my more autistic friends #complaining bc they mean what they say. bc like if i can't relate to ur emotions. at least let me fix problem #aro #ace #aroace #idk like i'm fine with hearing about my friends dating lives crushes funny moments etc. love that! love that for them #want 2 be up to date on the lore. but when it starts being 'you know how being single is the worst thing in the world' like nope! not me!#please you are making me so uncomfortable do you know how long it took me to accept that i don't want what you want?#do you know how much it hurts that you think i want something that i would never be happy in?

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my-thoughts-and-junk · 2 months

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been thinking about how danse is who nora is endgame with in death shroud. it compels me

#random thoughts #fallout #okay first of all. and this is largely unrelated but i'm watching a danse romance comp #and??? his authority over you and his desire for your obedience + him saying machines need to be controlled = need to see him on his kneess #i don't like him but i need someone to fuck this man #okay anyways. nora's husband who was in the military was killed. nora then shacks up with a member of an evolved version of the military #and the way danse is written. like he very much could dedicate himself to nora in the same way he dedicated himself to the brotherhood #dude is very vulnerable to cult tactics idk what to tell you #also the fact he's like 'physically im a synth but mentally and otherwise im a human being' and doesnt stop ans think #'oh hey maybe other synths are also human beings' like dude thinks he's the exception #also nora adopts synth shaun. danse is assumedly his adopted dad. ???#this man is so good at compartmentalization like jesus #even funnier if you consider the headcanon that nora is also a synth. they're both just like 'i hate synths but you and i. we're different'#how do nick and curie feel about nora marrying danse.#like wtf you're romantically involved with someone who actively views synths as lesser???#'he's working on it' WELL MAYBE DON'T FUCK HIM WHILE HE'S DOING THAT???#and hancock!!! HE LITERALLY. HE. HE HAS NO EXCUSE FOR HIS GHOUL BIGOTRY #'he was raised in a cult' yeah and he should work on that. maybe the person who's friends with several minorities shouldn't DATE HIMMMM #like yeah be friends with him sure that's fine people in cults need friends outside the cult when adapting to the outside world #but nora. girl. why are you doing this #all this could be cool if they meant to do it but i know they put zero thought behind it #also my headcanon for nate and nora is nate was an asshole who pressured nora into quitting her job as a lawyer to be a sahm #like in a 'it's just temporary honey! unless...' way #and nora absolutely did not bond with the baby and started hating her husband and her baby (very guiltily) and her life #and then she started getting really into cheesy noir dramas. to cope.#that was absolutely unrelated but i needed to get that out there

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themoonunderstoodmydadjokes · 2 months

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#thinking about how this time last year I was excited and looking forward to hanging out/going on a date with #this guy who would ultimately end up being the reason why I don’t ever wanna date again #and how we needed up spending pretty much the whole day together #starting with getting coffee and him asking me to lunch because he wanted to keep hanging out #and then inviting me to a show with him and his friends #and then we would end up dating for the next three months #taking it slow and getting to actually know one another #ya know that whole three month rule thing 🙄🙄#and how he was so genuine and respectful in his pursuit of me #and how we agreed to be exclusive like two and a half months in #only for him to break up with me two weeks later the day after I got mono (which I’m still positive was from him)#and tell me that he didn’t have anything to offer as far as dating but could we be friends ??#and now we don’t even talk anymore #but he somehow still occupies space in my brain #and I hate it but not him 🫠🫠🫠#anywho it’s been a year since I met him and went on that first date #and sometimes I wish I hadn’t met him #and other times I think it was inevitable #because I probably wouldn’t have reevaluated what I wanted in dating and a partner #but also maybe I would’ve actually still maintained some hope in love and dating #idk we’re having feelings tonight #mine #text post #*ended up Jesus I can spell okay??

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thegetdownrebooter · 1 year

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t*yl*r sw*ft getting dragged every 5 business days... i used to pray for times like these.

#i'm sorry but i hate her so fucking bad #i must speak my truth #god her music is so mediocre and her performative activism actually fooling a generation of young girls is so pitiful #like... you have a bunch of sw*ft*es actually thinking she is some closeted lesbian... bffr #mind you she only started spewing her fake woke “gay rights” shit after she got cancelled in 2016 #like why are you shocked by her dating that awful man? surely her lame rebranding after reputation didn't fool you fr?#god... i miss 2016 #back when people realized she was a performative white feminist that only used feminism for her benefit #lmfaoo i remeber swifties trying to defend her about the private jet shit #i wonder if they will claim “misogyny” in response to her dating an edgelord neo nazi #at the end of the day she doesn't actually practice what she preaches like it's all part of her brand #and also she isn't secretaly dating karlie kloss or whatever #in fact karlie is married to a trump in-law like... the jokes write themselves #anyways if you wanna stand a white pop girl so bad ariana is right there #sabrina is also right there #britney is still standing #in fact britney's blackout album is better than anything she has ever released i can tell you that much #i know i will most likely get jumped by her racist cult fanbase but i must speak my truth #maybe i won't have to hear that stupid anti-hero song at the grocery store anymore

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flickeringflame216 · 8 months

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#It's quite interesting to me that there's so much discourse around wanting/not wanting to be a parent #especially for young people who may not even be dating let alone married? And especially for young women I've noticed.#It's such a non-issue (to me) at this point. Like yeah I've thought about it but I have other focuses.#the answer to that question might be one of the least interesting things about me #I'm sure one day it will matter more than it does now but like? Why do you a random person care whether I hypothetically want to have kids?#I am a college student? I am not dating and might not ever be?#Also! This is not a hating on kids or mothers post!!#I am a summer camp counselor for middle school girls. I work in kids' and youth ministry year round. Motherhood is beautiful and noble and #never something I would diminish!#that belief can coexist with maybe never wanting to be a parent! or maybe just not wanting to have an opinion on it right now!#anyway i would love to hear other opinions here. I'm not sure if this is a common experience #(This being having random acquaintances/family members with strong opinions on your future possible parenthood)#or not #is it just as uncomfortable for people who do know that they want kids? I imagine it would be differently so but I don't truly know.#Or just any relevant takes honestly I'm just curious.

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icantalk710 · 4 months

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#maybe it's the slight sleep deprivation talking #but i do keep wondering how approachable i come across on the subway to be talked to by a cute guy first #i hate having to be the one to do it first and if i'm looking up and [i think] smiling as i glance at the route list #[as an excuse to brush my eyes along your bulge inches from my face...]#then playing ygo duel links some more #wouldn't that be an invitation to spark a chat?#especially if it felt like we were sorta making decent eye contact there... lol #ofc this guy could've also been straight so i'm overthinking this but #😩 it looked like a nice bulge 😩#ugh he was hot #[also coming off some work stress and sleepiness i wanted this local train to hurry but also wouldnt have minded if he asked about my game]#[kind of a shame the last time a cute guy struck up a convo with me it was Taylor last *June* and that didnt go past our one nice date #and it was cute since it was about me playing a SoulSilver hack on my phone and us both being into ygo and anime #...still don't get why that petered out but he never replied when i said i thought i saw him walking around recently so w/e #anyway all this to sleepily say that despite how some selfies come off or take off i very much have my shy/overthinking moments lol #and also i saw this cute couple by herald square holding hands and ugh i'd like that again #[though also i really want to play with a cute guy's nice cock again... the duality lol]#anywho i should work on sleeping soon 🥱#/thought dump #ore no inochi #*makes you visualize a smiling corgi as thanks for reading all this*

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im2tired4usernames · 4 months

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I might just be dumb but I don't really understand making fun of you partners? I don't understand introducing them to your family like "gets my stupid asshole "I don't understand the play fighting I get teasing on some stuff is fun n cute if your both into that???? but?????my wife's smart I'm not gonna call em dumb to be funny and I'd cry if my wife told their friends I was super dumb n annoying? Yeah people are gonna do stupid things and no one's perfect I know I'm gonna do something that's gonna be annoying and stupid same with my wife n friends n family and well really anyone I just don't get when people talk down their partners to they're friends? Like do you want your friends to think low of your partner Do you want your friend to really think they're stupid and smelly and hate them????Do you actually like the person you dating???? Then why are you telling your friends and family what a stupid irresponsible jerk they are and how you can't stand them????????????? Am I missing a joke goin on is this a humor thing or social thing in just out of the loop on???????

#like it's not even venting it's just a joke?#i hate my wife joke?#couldn't be me? my wifes the best they're smart and talented and hot as the sun and they treat me very kind n patient they're my bestfriend #i get maybe venting maybe i get Getting frustrated and annoyed over some things but it's kinda scary how many people i know....#who just..... don't actually like they're partners... like they're not even friends??????????????#i don't get it?????????? i really don't understand why would you date someone you wouldn't be friends with???????#like i get maybe venting but this isn't venting and honestly you should talk to your partner about things if they're upsetting you so much #i think I'm just dumb because it happens a lot my siblings my coworkers one of my friends they just....talk shit about their partners like #they don't like them and I'm my coworkers case they really should leave their husbands are shit if everything they're saying is true #idk i just can't imagine introducing my wife m being like 'hers my bitch ass nag wife they're an asshole and they're stupid' to my friend #that's????? what???? are you both ok?????#i get like if you needed to like talk to your friend about something for another view just to make sure you aren't in the wrong #an unbiased option if there's a fight or to validate you if your goin through something like my coworkers xonfide in me about her husband's #cheating and financially irresponsible bullshit and frankly i told her he's probably not goin to stop cheating after three times and #like that makes sense #but just talking your boyfriend down to your friends why?#don't get it

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petrichorium · 1 year

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The fav I have the most frequent (and most intense) fights with is actually jing yuan btw

#pattering on the roof #he has a tendency to make me feel stupid and it’s not entirely by accident #he just can’t help himself #like JDNJFNEF I reference it in my meet fruit fic (which was Very selfship coded) but #the first massive fight we have is before we start dating when he’s still like courting me ig #and wheedles me into playing starchess w him #but I’m BAD at starchess okay I hate it I suck at it sucking at it makes me hate it more #and I like him so much and he’s so good and I wanna make a good impression but I SUCK and I leave every time upset #and he knows ofc he does. I’m improving and he loves seeing me improve which is why he keeps asking #eventually he’s like well maybe it’ll help if I let her win #no. it doesn’t. I blow up at him entirely bc I HATEEEE being condescended to and if u wanted someone who could beat u in starchess then go #find someone else u fucking asshole don’t humiliate me like that (<- face puffy weeping literally the only two people in the garden)#and I storm off sobbing. literally refuse to interact w him for MONTHS he’s making every excuse to bump into me and it’s full cold shoulder #I also never fully forgive him for it. we never play starchess again even centuries down the line after we’re married and he’s retired #n e way yeah #p much every fight is similar he just makes me feel dumb sometimes and I lash out at him #and frankly often it’s warranted bc not infrequently he provokes me on purpose #ss.🌧 yujing

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