#mixed origin system

[cavityinmybrain]

just gonna say it one more time for anyone who didnt hear it:

ENDOGENIC IS NOT SYNONYMOUS WITH NOT DISORDERED. ENDOGENIC SYSTEMS CAN BE DISORDERED AND HAVE TRAUMA AFFECT THEIR SYSTEM EVEN IF IT DIDNT FORM FROM TRAUMA.

[disaster-cryptids]

Good day/evening to every system except the ones that participate in validity olympics. How a system experiences their plurality doesn't concern you.

-Legion

[ven-system]

Anti endos will always bash our experiences

You do not know what is going on in OUR head, we are simply labeling our experiences the best way we know how

I have headmates, I have voices and people in my head

And that's valid. Stop making my experiences look like nothing

I'm not saying that being a system is always fun or "quirky" because it isnt

You never know who you are and you never feel in control and/or in reality

My experiences are valid. Stop telling endos to fuck off or even off themselves

That is honestly going against everything you stand for

If you have boundaries that's fine but do NOT act like we are below you

Okay rant over :) - Ven 💜

[thecrypticsymphony]

Love autism creature hehee - Rory 💜🧸

[sirenium]

I wish every 'endo free traumagenic blog' a very realize mixed origin systems exist

[thefeathercollective]

here's some love for mixed origin systems, y'all get too much shit for just existing. you all are the absolute best thank you for being part of the plural community

[endo4endo]

learning to accept and support other plurals queers has been the best thing to ever happen to me !! genuinely, theres no right or wrong way 2 be a sys , and theres no right or wrong way 2 be queer :PP remember that ur valid no matter what origin ur sys is or how u experience being plural!!!

[jellylich-collective]

Getting frustrated over anti-endos saying that endogenic systems are just systems who don't remember their trauma. First, even if that was true, it's extremely dangerous to prompt someone (unintentionally or not) to uncover forgotten trauma. Especially if they're not mentally ready for that. Second, endogenic systems can still have trauma! Endogenic just means their trauma wasn't the cause of their system forming. Third, what about mixed origin systems?!?

Take us for example, we've had childhood trauma and formed many traumagenic alters. But we also have both spontaneous AND created alters. Hell, I'M a willogenic alter!! We literally can not and do not want to be labeled as anything other than mixed origin

And you know what? I DON'T WANT TO HAVE OUR SYSTEM CENTERED AROUND OUR TRAUMA ANYWAYS! Let us decide how to label our system!!

- ⭐️

[mixed-origin-culture-is]

Mixed origins culture is everyone assuming you're endogenic when you actually fall more under the traumagenic umbrella

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[theharbingerofxhaos]

Our boyfriend just had a bunch of shit said to him by some moron on this site preaching anti-endo ridiculousness, citing themselves as legitimate sources, and calling him abusive.

So we want to reiterate:

We are a mixed origin DID system. We have non-traumagenic headmates. Endogenic & Non-traumagenic systems are repeatedly mentioned medically, and we are medically recognized by trained professionals, as mixed origin.

Endogenic systems are real, and supported on this page, if you have an issue, then feel free to block us.

Thank you.

-Reaper

[kpopwerewolf]

All systems are welcome to interact!

Please do not vote if you are a singlet :)

[deepwater-abyss]

Fellow plurals, I love you, but please do not give your exact age if your a minor. Ever. That is so unsafe. Saying minor is enough, you don't need to specify the exact age of the body.

Sincerely, a very concerned big brother

[ven-system]

I want people to understand that fictive-heavy systems are just as valid as any other system

We're fictive-heavy as well due to comfort characters and neurodivergence

This doesn't make us a "fake" system, we're just as valid as any other system

So hey fictive-heavy systems we love you <3 /p - Unknown

[thecrypticsymphony]

I want people to realize that yeah, non-human alters/headmates do indeed exist lmao

Like

We have plenty of hybrids and actual animals

Doesn't make them any less of a headmate and are still peopleee

Like no matter your source/species, you're still valid <3 -Nat 💜 + Izuku 📗

[npdemu]

i hate having to remind myself that me simply existing as mixed origins isn't engaging in discourse, even though there is discourse around my existence.

[paluimbel]

Earlier today we saw another anti-endo post crop up on our feed and something about the phrasing pissed us off. It's important to us to try to keep discussions we engage in online relatively civil, so usually when we don't have the energy to respond politely, we just block and move on. This time it just... ticked us off enough that we need to vent.

We're tired of being told that we're stealing terms from people when those terms were never just theirs in the first place.

We're tired of seeing the same handful of misconceptions over and over again.

We're tired of strawmen and bad faith arguments we can't do anything to counter no matter how hard we try.

We are tired of people insisting that the experiences of endogenic and traumagenic systems are completely different and trampling all over systems that fit somewhere in between, systems like us.

We are tired of people who can't seem to see that this divide in the community is hurting everyone.

We are tired of systems actively choosing to target other systems instead of the societal oppression that harms us all.

We are. So. Fucking. Tired. Of systems that assume their experiences are universal, and then treat any attempt to say otherwise like it's invalidating them personally. Your struggles do not give you the right to say that our experiences, both positive and negative, are impossible.

We are absolutely exhausted of constantly feeling unsafe in spaces that claim to support systems like us, systems whose trauma played a fundamental role in their creation, and continues to shape how they function to this day.

We are tired of people seeming to think that just because we don't struggle in the same ways or as much as they do, we don't still have struggles, that we are less worthy, less in need of community and support, that we don't need to see people like us out there too.

We are tired of being talked down to by systems who think they're being kind. We know that we're traumatized. That doesn't mean we're willing to stomp down parts of ourselves that don't fit the mold of what you think that should mean.

We are tired of being terrified that singlets will think they're justified in invalidating our experiences, or prying into our trauma, because of some stupid discourse they heard online.

We are tired of treading on eggshells trying to be respectful to people who have, and who continue to, hurt us. Tired of being blamed for spreading misinformation solely by existing as openly as we safely can. Tired of having to mince words, to carefully tailor how we describe ourselves, solely to avoid being kicked out of spaces that claim we should belong there.