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Navigating relationships in the modern world can be both exhilarating and challenging. With evolving societal norms, increased access to technology, and shifting gender roles, modern women face unique dynamics in their personal and romantic lives. This blog will provide practical advice for modern women on how to build and maintain healthy, fulfilling relationships.
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Letting your business partner pretend you're abusing him so you can con the living daylights out of foreign diplomats that you kept waiting for nearly three hours is crazy. And to rub it in by planning a skit where you bring him iced coffee and he complains about it? Iconic showstopping never seen before this is EVEN BETTER than the little show they put on for Taewon which was one of my favorite jinjae moments truly I feel like I just received a surprise custom-made cake after ordering a custom-made cupcake
#jinjae#chaotic ramblings#also the fact that immediately before this hyunjae was coming to terms with treating yoojin as a person and an equal#and yoojin was coming to terms with his new responsibilities that come with being a person in hyunjae's eyes#like even in an extremely uncertain time in their relationship they still manage to cooperate seamlessly and it adds all the more charm to#how vulnerable and turbulent and honest and conflicting they are behind closed curtains.#outwardly they pretend to be natural partners pretending to be a problem case which makes it all the more delicious to know that it takes so#much effort for them to actually navigate the inherent power dynamics. it's so hard for yj to hold hj accountable and for hj to treat yj as#a person. and I just think it's great that geunseo contrasted the reality of their relationship with two different pretenses#hjyj#han yoojin#sung hyunjae#sctir#the s classes that i raised#speaking of cake sctir would be great cakeverse material
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DOCTOR WHO: THE NINTH DOCTOR ADVENTURES Big Finish Presents ✧ STAR-CROSSED ✧ 2024
#doctor who#ninth doctor#river song#christopher eccleston#alex kingston#big finish#dwedit#dwgifs#tvedit#docriv2025#doctor x river#doctorriver#roserayne#&.mine#tv: doctor who#you ever just go absolutely crazy for a few days working on a set lmao but this was really fun#happy anniversary to my parents#🥰🥰♥️♥️🥰🥰✨✨♥️🥰🥰#and i made it to post for the free day prompt eyyy#i made each gif somewhat to the plot (ish) of each ad hopefully that translated alright lmao#i was working on limited items here we gotta do what we gotta do#this boxset is really fun ! and such a journey between them !#and like the adventures are fun yes but this boxset really kinda touches more on them#and how this particular them's relationship progresses#the more they really get to know each other and navigate each others quirks and nuances and build trust and warmth between them#because they're quite different in this pairing and they clash here since both their personalities are really strong#but the way it works still and you root for them is kinda insane#and the end oh the enddd you just gotta listen to it#THE WAY MY HEART WAS SO FULL AND ACHING AND SO TOUCHED#😭❤️🩹❤️🩹🥹🥹🥺❤️🩹❤️🩹🥺🥹🥺❤️🩹♥️
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brewing love: how the truce started
#brewing love#drunken romance#kdramaspace#kdramaedit#kdrama#mostlyfate#syaring#baek1nho#haeyeongs#useryd#samblr#ship#*m#*gifs#*brewinglove#*ship#*kdrama#*2025#ep 11#juju couple#this is an emotional scene for me and it was such a refreshing scene for me too. this argument they had was hard and challenging.#they faced a really complicated issue that would typically lead to ending relationships bc it was the easiest path#but i loooove how they were able to communicate it clearly#and agreed to create this truce to navigate their emotions and deal with their contrasting similarities and complementing differences.
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Just reading some comics and saw a panel I thought you might like. :)
ah fuck, characters reminiscing always get to me ;__;
but i will never ever get over that fond way these two talk to and abt each other. especially when they’re poking fun, you can just hear the love in their voice it’s SICK.
















the halbarry love language is annoying each other, but even more than that, it’s being each other’s exceptions
#panels#sent to me#halbarry#hal jordan#green lantern#barry allen#the flash#dc#danswers#the halbarry love language/exceptions thing btw is a whole thesis i have in my brain#their love language incompatibilities; their willingness to compromise and make it work; the way they’ve never had a friend like this#hal esp is almost like a completely different person around barry. like he’s still Hal ofc but it’s obvious that he’s never navigated a#relationship like this before. yes i’m talking abt ‘what do you guys see in each other?’ / ‘yk… i have no idea! ☺️’#hal is so aro-coded for someone i don’t hc as aromantic. and that’s only bc barry came along (another whole thesis o’ mine…)#god literally the rare exceptions to each other#been thinking abt writing a halbarry fic abt their love languages (5 chapters 1 love language for each)#not rly sure what that’d even be abt but i do think abt this often so maybe writing smith would help me process/explore/share my analysis +#interpretations of how that works between them#idk i’m not a writer we’ll just have to see
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Anyway the movie ends with lesbians and a kelpie puppy so 10/10 five stars no notes. 🌈
#Runt#so last year my partner came out as trans#so now I am in a queer relationship#I've never identified as queer in any way because I've only been in one relationship and for 12 years it was with a man#it felt like stolen valour to label myself something that seemed outwardly incorrect#and I'm a very private person anyway so it was like whatever it doesn't matter#plus I've always been an ally anyway#but now things are different#I've always used the word partner but now I also use she/her pronouns when talking about my partner#so the whole way I navigate conversations with strangers etc is different#and I also now feel like I can lean away from heteronormativity even more#not that my partner and I were heteronormative anyway#but idk things are different now#so anyway I most identify with the word pansexual since I've always had crushes on people regardless of gender#and that's my gay story ✌️
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"do you ship them as friends or do you ship them romantically" i ship them as It's Fucking Complicated
#being aroace and lowkey into relationship anarchy and also being a shipper is fun#because i'll be like 'oh i ship these two' and other people will hear 'i want them to kiss/date/have sex'#but i'll mean 'i want them to rent an apartment together cuz neither of them can afford rent on their own#'and try to awkwardly navigate their messy history from canon now that they're in a similar-yet-very-different situation#'and i want to explore their canon parallels and how they're forced to navigate their canon environment differently because of their gender#(yes this is about wakaba and saionji. at least the tags. the Complicated shipping extends well beyond rgu for me lol)#rgu#cuz i think you guys will get a kick out of it#shipping#aro shipping#fandom
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thinking about a comedic sequence of watanuki calling himawari for romantic advice 'for a friend' (what friend. your only unrelated human friend is like 12 and would not be at the club) that gets more and more oddly specific and desperate every time until he's practically crying into the phone because he's at his limit . and hima getting the popcorn whenever the phone rings like yayyy!!!! barely disguised updates on my favourite comedy show straight to my phone....endless entertainment...for free...
#'so theres this guy.' 'i have no idea who this guy could be! but i think your friend must b obsessed w him or something'#i knowwwwww they would have the funniest fucking conversationsss#like 5 hour calls where everything under the sun happens lmao#yes i know abt the official lore idgaf let them yap#ok but imagine the reverse happening and hima is asking for dating advice and hes like actually giving advice but super embarrassed abt it#idk i just think that being oomfs is something that can be so powerful#i also hc that hima is actually quite tentative and nervous abt the idea of relationships happening TO her#because she has so much baggage and personal stuff to do w her not curse curse that she has to navigate#so i feel like because of that they actually have that tentative fear in common but for different reasons#so i think that mutual understanding that cracks through is super important to both of them idk#i also just think that theyre funny#i also like to imagine hima probably ramps up her these bitches gay bit the closer things get to dw actually getting together#i like the idea that despite hima being an untouchable ray of light or whatever to watanuki he catches on when this happens#and hes like shes an astral plane angel that can do no harm but she is a DEMON#his brain going back and forth between this girl is making fun of me in my time of crisis (unserious) and shes laughing so i win!!!#when she picks up the call and hears 'himawarichannnnnnnnnn its fucking over for meeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee its over its so over'#she knows its gonna be good
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Part 1/3 the Tal'darim
Part 2/3 the Khalai <- you're here Part 3/3 the Nerazim
Part two of this ask, the Khalai
Erzadar. Formerly Erzolun (Because I have another Khalai OC named Talizun and I thought the names were way too similar) First concept was from 2022 (can be seen on the far bottom right of the art compilation) She was originally a tiny researcher from the Shelak tribe (??? I think??) Erza and her team of Khalai protoss were essentially Auir’s equivalent to Shakuras’s delegate team of Nerazim/terran diplomats/researchers/whatever.
She (and all the OCs from this story) were in kind of a limbo as they laid forgotten high on a metaphorical shelf of my mind, collecting dust, while I played with other OCs and stories. Until I was *this* video like half a year ago (no, it is not a Rickroll) and was like oh my god. oh. not to be a lesbian but oh my god. oh my fucking god Jesus Christ- we all know the meme.
Anyway, since then she became a tall, beefy adept.
She’s still mostly in development and therefore there’s not much to say about her. She’s a former zealot (became an adept during the events of LotV) With a friendly personality in a way only people in their early 20s have. She was assigned as a bodyguard/guide to the Dominion delegates Auir hosts and quickly becomes friends with most of them, namely Victor. And yes, I absolutely do plan to drag these two through months and years of delicious angst and yearning and denial and more angst before I allow them to become a thing. Their fault they’re my OCs.
Talizun is also a character who I’ve had for a looooooong time too (2018????? Before 2020) but I never really fleshed him out despite his key importance to the plot of Zhakul’s story. He didn’t even have a name until late 2021 ahaha oops. Most of his story was also conceived that year, meaning it’s pretty outdated and also prone to change in places, but I think it’s skeleton will remain.
Tali is a chill templar from a fringe Khalai colony so far away from the empire that it was entirely excluded from the great war that took place during the events of SC2. Him and many of his templar brethren were in stasis for centuries, only awakened AFTER the war was concluded, which is also the reason why he still bears his cords and is tethered to the Khala. (One of the big changes in this AU, aside from Shakuras not exploding and the Daelaam not being a thing anymore, is that the Khala prevails. This could be a separate yap session for later, I’m just making this clear now in case someone is confused over me mentioning it)
Anyway. He’s very chill and level-headed for a zealot, which actually came in handy because Zhakul needed to do some serious deconstructing of the bullshit Dal filled his head with and Tali was up for the job. The two end up bonding over a similar experience (being removed from protoss society for so long they feel like complete outsiders) become friends and eeeeeeeeeeventually form a Zhakul-centred polycule that also includes Jake and various other terrans and protoss.
Tali eventually gets himself killed in a border skirmish with the Tal’darim (originally it was Y’rash that yeeted him, now I’m not sure that’s canon anymore) he’s stuffed into the shell of a dragoon and does his best to continue with his life as well as he can, which is made much more complicated because he ends up having an oopsie baby (who we will also talk about later) and from then on struggles with the crushing feeling of knowing he can never be an adequate parent to them because his broken body must forever remain locked in a dragoon exoskeleton.
The Talendir Orchard Head FamilyTM
The main characters in Project Sammuro. There’s very little to say about them for now because the story they were created for is at its infancy and therefore their characters are also very underdeveloped. They’re a down-to-earth family of protoss living in rural parts of Auir, growing and harvesting sammuro fruit for it’s rich blue dye, then distributing it across the Khalai empire as needed.
The story focuses on this entire process and also works as a lightbulb moment for Victor, who realises that the strongly capitalistic society of the Dominion is very very flawed in comparison to the more traditional, socialistic economy the protoss have where culture, tradition and the well-being of it’s people are far more important to them than profit and power.
#Erza and Victor are essentially Zhakul/Jake but on a different planet#This was done mostly because I wanted to see how I'd turn out if Jake did a complete opposite of what he did when Titania's war came#Also I just. Really love the whole “human and alien are in love and have to navigate their relationship as best as they can” kind of thing#Garrus Vakarian and Talizorah nar Rayya my beloved#Tali is just hearbraking because he hinds out he has a child years after he gets stuffed into a dragoon#And has to live with the knowledge that he will never be able to hug them#Or otherwise be an “average” parent to them#He gets pretty jealous of Jake because of this#Also becomes nearly fanatical about Elyn staying connected to the Khala and not following his Nerazim heritage#Because the Khala is the only place for them to stay truly connected through#I will also eventually start posting about Project Sammuro. A few years down the line I think ifhvbfhb#Starcraft#Protoss#Protoss OC#Talizun#Erzadar#Karanis#Ulnara#Asundar#Norun#Victor Andersen#my art#original character#artists of tumblr
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I'm starting to think the solution to my problems is to open up my mental door to my bisexuality and embrace it and stuff. Or should i continue to suppress it because i hate change and i dont know how to navigate that part of myself and its scary
#like ik its not the olden days and its okay to be bi and all of that but#people treat u differently when ur in a gay relationship#and i dont know how to like. how to navigate it#i should start probably#meh#maybe#maybe one of these days
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Though I hate how Perrin and Faile no longer suck
#they’re one of the few ways the books successfully pull off their theme of men and women navigating their differences#and have one of the best relationship arcs in the books#and crucial to it is the fact that with few exceptions they’re poison for the first 9 books
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daydreaming about cori and shtola have a little fling in ARR that ends bc shtola has Feelings and is freaked out by the fact that cori might reciprocate those feelings…but then cori becomes her one that got away…as a little treat. for me.
#love to look at their relationship and see what might have changed….#tbh this doesn’t change a lot but i think shtola would probably think she messed it up forever#as if she is not in love with the most forgiving person on the star#okay now that i’m really thinking about this actually my headcanon that shtola only had like casual/fwb type relationships prior to cori#kinda explains some things about where they are now (in my mind. which is island fic and not caught up to the game lol)#like how much does she really know about trying to navigate this kind of relationship….cori might actually be the slightly more experienced#one in this matter. with her 6 months of dating haurchefant. ahdhdjsk#BACK TO THE AU#i just think this different kind of yearning. for the thing she had and then pushed away. is interesting :)#i need a text post tag
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Hi, I have a question I hope it's okay to ask here. I'm a ciswoman dating a transgender man. I know that there are a few things that he finds still difficult about being trans (but I don't know everything yet as we've only been dating for a few months). Lately I've noticed him saying some things that make me wonder whether maybe he wants some confirmation that I really see him as a man. Of course I want to do this for him, but I'm not entirely sure how. Do you have any tips?
I think so much of it boils down to being compassionate and direct. There's so much pressure on people in relationships to just "know" through divine interpretation of how to best love their partner, and there is almost no thought given about the idea of offering love being a continuous conversation.
I'm not sure what will "work" best for your partner to show that you see him and not a warped perception, so I really think asking questions about where he is at might be more beneficial, since you'll be hearing direct feedback. I know it can be hard to navigate through something you're unfamiliar with right now, so that makes it even more important that you navigate through it with the person in question.
Trans manhood looks different for... literally all of us, which is why I don't have a direct answer for how you can help your partner feel loved and seen as a man. Since it looks different for each of us, the things that affirm us and help us will all look different, as well as the things that make us feel less understood and hurt.
#ask#anon#trans#transgender#lgbt#lgbtq#ftm#nonbinary#a relationship is basically a continuous conversation starting with 'how can i best love you?'#once you start lessening the pressure of Being A Perfect Partner All The Time you might notice that these conversations become easier#because you won't feel like you've failed at understanding or loving your partner. you will start realizing that both of you are people#and that people are complex and nuanced and our needs and desires fluctuate#it can be hard at times to navigate through relationships where two people have different experiences (trans vs. cis for instance)#but those different experiences can easily shape your understanding because you have to consider more viewpoints#i definitely appreciate seeing people coming to trans people to ask questions like these...#...but we are ALL different. if you met one trans person you have only met one of us...#...and your partner *might* be OVER THE MOON if you show that you are willing to make an effort and take notice of these things...#...because many of us have had bad experiences before and it can make you feel like what you are and how you feel just Doesn't matter...#...while i won't speak for him (your partner) i will say that he deserves to also know where you are and how both of you are doing...#...because you BOTH are in the relationship and both deserve to be with *each other* and learn *from each other*#i think that's what so many human relationships come down to (romance or no)#THAT is what makes a relationship beautiful... not this idealized 'ooh i can divine from the stars how they feel'#or like the idea of just 'knowing' how to love somebody and fulfill them. that is only a fantasy we tell ourselves...
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genius archer's streaming is actually a much more fun read than i was expecting and handles the disability aspect better than i thought it would
#i wasn't expecting to like it much since it's a Genius concept where he's just like. super good at whatever he does#and usually those kinds of plots are boring at best and annoying/obnoxious at worst#but they still manage to keep it Entertaining without being Annoying so it's doing a good job imo#its not a very deep series but it also doesn't feel entirely shallow and it's fun to read#i think they could be doing a bit more with the disability thing but thats coming up more in this new season so we'll see!#if they keep approaching it as they have been it think it'll be handled well. fingers crossed haha#some people may feel differently about how the disability is being handled since his game character is perfectly abled but like#its not like he's magically cured he's just found a different path to aim towards (pun intended) that is accommodating to his disability#we do still see how it affects his day to day life#and how its impacted (and continues to impact. both negatively and positively) his relationships with other people#(and its becoming more of a focus again in this new season as i mentioned earlier. ive got some hopes for how it gets handled)#plus. keeping in mind that he's someone who has an Acquired disability and not one he was born with#AND who's long term goals were sports oriented#it's just like. super common and realistic to feel the way he does. no two disabled people are the same u feel#and the way it's portrayed is like. so#regardless of how the character is feeling about their disability. it's really obvious when the author themselves looks down on disabled pp#it is very clear when the writer themselves does not think a life with disability is worth living. lol. lmao.#this does not feel like that At All despite the mc having negative feelings about his own disability#this simply feels like a character written navigating his own experiences with Becoming Disabled in what was a genuinely traumatizing way#and finding a New Goal/Dream and something he still wants to do while living with his disability#its not Perfect ofc but nothing ever is and i can tell it's trying to be genuine and respectful about it so thats a thumbs up from me#beso babbles
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#also she's the most beautiful person ive seen in my life .#i was feeling weird at a show and left to go do crafts with her .#showed up drunk at her doorstep but not oh so drunk bc she fed me good soup before i left.#we watched a show and talked a little and i slept over. The Love Is There#we just have very different relationships with our bodies.#its interesting being very close to her still as she navigates new complicated relationships#i dunno . its strange and lovely . she's strange and lovely.#n#🌫️
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agents of shield s7 really was a shockingly good conclusion to something I like… like on it’s own it’s a good season but I don’t really realize how highly I think of it overall (it’s not agents of shield s4 who’s praises I’ll sing any day of the week) until I think about how many concluding seasons or books of shows or series I love could have been better if they were more like it in a variety of ways…
#s speaks#currently inspired by me venting about my wishes for a raven king where Blue’s mirror powers were treated more like May’s empath powers#(which is funny since apparently Maggie’s og draft gave Blue literal empath powers although mirror is still in that vain to an extent)#and her having feelings and anger and resentment once LMD Coulson comes into the picture but she doesn’t see him as her Coulson#but also the way he can be a neutral space for her while she’s navigating the powers is comforting#I would have Lurved an arc like that for Blue/Bluesey#and the questioning if he’s real or not thread for Coulson himself and everyone around him and their relationships#which is helped by the existence of s6 which wasn’t the best aos season (although even though it had messy parts I liked how focused on May#it was and that Ming got to shine a lot. I could have done with less fs and far less Deke but that’s-)#but if that season didn’t exist at all s7 wouldn’t have landed because we needed to see those chars Without Coulson. If they had just#skipped to Daisy slamming the button and that’s that then he’s off on his road trip and that’s that—#but outside of trcbrainrot magicians could have used that season as a model so could legacies so could a lot of different genre things w#unsatisfying endings#sometimes I will have to do a list of my favorite conclusions to things since there’s definitely less that I wholly am a fan of and more I’#so so on or dislike.#in terms of tv shows would say community agents of shield and person of interest are the main ones that really hold up to me and are great#endings to shows I cared about#for books: CP2 TKM and others I can’t think of rn
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