#offences

[loveyourlovelysoul]

Sometimes it happens to take things personally, and sometimes it may be cause of your upbringing: you've probably been told (or unconsciously taught) everything and everyone was your fault and responsibility. You were basically being controlled through guilt trips. This may be the reason why you may need to keep everything and everyone under control. And this may be the reason why you try to make things better for everyone, to be in control of their feelings, to please others... and to second guess yourself (you feel unworthy, unlovable, unsafe if you don't act like this).

It's okay if you feel hurt when you get what may be considered a negative feedback, especially after all you do for others. Just try and realize if the other person's words are there to only hurt (they may be projecting on you) you or to trigger your sense of safety and worthiness (or are telling you something that you know it's true deep down, and you may need to accept it and work on it -it may take time, take all of that you need).

You can change this mental pattern. It's not on you to control others and how they react to life or even you. You're not in charge of their happiness. You can learn to say no, to set boundaries, to put yourself first when you need. Take things slow. Be kind with yourself, and recognize you're deserving as much as anyone else. And even if someone is trying to criticize you, it's mostly their pov, not the reality of things. You can check within yourself too for confirmations (be objective though) and maybe change a behaviour if you need to change it for yourself.

[the-big-picture-bible-blog]

Delivered for our offences

V.25 highlights 2-crucial factors for our salvation: The death of Christ, which atones for our sins. The resurrection of Christ, guaranteeing our own resurrection and eternal life with God. The crucifixion of Jesus as atonement for our sins holds a central position in God’s plan of salvation. Without His death, we cannot receive justification or the imputation of God’s righteousness to…

[corneliusbella]

Learning to Live Void of Offences: A Path to True Freedom

In our journey of faith, one of the most challenging yet rewarding paths we can take is learning to live void of offences. Holding onto offences is a heavy burden that can hinder our spiritual growth and rob us of the joy and peace that Christ offers. The Bible provides us with profound wisdom on how to navigate this path and find true freedom. The Call to Forgiveness Jesus set a powerful…

[go-4-legal]

Let’s know the law and rights for Section 377

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[samdeancrimespree]

unfriendly reminder that this is what sam and dean looked like when sam left for stanford

[manny-jacinto]

RAHUL KOHLI as Napoleon Usher in 'The Fall of the House of Usher' (2023) trailer

[ivyithink]

don’t worry, they make up by smoking danny’s book and bitching about armand together

[elegantzombielite]

"It is almost impossible to carry the torch of truth through a crowd without singeing somebody's beard."

Georg Christoph Lichtenberg, scientist and philosopher (1 July 1742-1799)

[heartorbit]

back to our yuri programming

[wernerherzogs]

[xxx]

[corneliusbella]

Holding a grudge is a weight we were never meant to carry. It hampers our growth, damages our soul, and opens doors to negative spiritual influences. However, through the divine gift of forgiveness, we can break free from the chains of resentment. When we forgive others, we align ourselves with God’s love and grace, experiencing the transformative power of His forgiveness in our own lives. Let us heed the wisdom of the Bible and choose forgiveness over grudges, for in doing so, we not only heal ourselves but also draw closer to our loving Heavenly Father.

[gotocourt]

Assault laws in Australia by state 

[alabs1]

Adeleke: I’m Compiling Long List Of Offences By Oyetola’s Government

Adeleke: I’m Compiling Long List Of Offences By Oyetola’s Government

Osun Governor-elect, Senator Ademola Adeleke, says members of his team are already compiling a long list of infractions committed by the outgoing Gboyega Oyetola-led government, warning that he would not condone such infractions under his administration. From padding state payroll to multiple engagements outside due process, the collective assets and treasury of Osun are being distorted, diverted…

[originalaccountname]

My turn to be skk-posting

in my ideal vision, when they finally get in something resembling a relationship (as adults, they were Not There as teenagers), it's because they both want it, which means they unlock previously forbidden features with each other like sharing a bed instead of a couch (you all know about my weird obsession with skk and couches), but also freely touching.

Dazai is a rather tactile person; my guy is freed after 2 weeks in prison and the first thing he does is dance, poke at, lean/hug and play with the hair of the first non-evil person (a stranger) he meets. Being with Chuuya, he constantly finds himself in Chuuya's bubble, and indulges in ways he usually can't with others. That often means direct skin contact, not even with ulterior motives, but really just because he is allowed and he wants to.

Chuuya on the other hand has never done something gently ever: he is fierce, he cares and loves intensely, and he never lets go, but he barely knows the concept of a reassuring gesture (working on it). Dazai being in his bubble wouldn't bother him at all by that point, but the handsy part? it's awkward. needs some getting used to. It's a learning opportunity.

And when Chuuya gets used to it and finally makes a move to return the favour? it's Dazai who short-circuits.

[overtake]

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