#periwinckleblue

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Improving as a person and a woman is work from the inside out, an important part is being a better friend - so how can I be a better friend?

This is a basic guide on how to be a better friend. The most important part of being a better friend is to communicate properly. Not all friendships are the same and will ask for the same things. Talk to your friends and figure out how you can be a better friend for them. Although, don’t drastically change yourself. 

BE CONSISTENT. Check up on your friends, ask them if they’re free, hype them up on their posts, and be consistent with it. You’re not friends with someone if you only talk to them twice a year, plus it makes people feel good when they think that you’ve been keeping them in their thoughts. 

AVOID JUDGEMENT. A big factor in a friendship, but it tends to be neglected in the moment. It is completely okay to question someone’s actions and give feedback sometimes, however, you have to know when judgment is not wanted or needed. Typically, avoid judging someone at all, consider their perspective. 

HONESTY. Be honest with your friends. If you do something that impacts them, tell them. If you happen to talk about them without their presence, tell them. Many people are much more forgiving if the person owns up to it. A friendship founded on lies, will not last. 

USE YOUR SKILLS TO HELP. If you excel in a certain area, ensure that you help those who struggle in that area. An example, teaching your friend how to code, or giving them advice starting in the gym. Moments of when someone willingly and happily helps you, are not easily forgotten. 

MEAN > GOOD. The heading is a bit odd, but to continue off my last point, it is much more easier to remember a small mean act, than a small good act. Likely, no one is going to remember if you held the door for them however, they will remember if you ever talked behind their back. So, think about your actions, and their effect on how people will perceive you. 

PRAISE YOUR FRIENDS. Start finding the joy in your friend’s successes. That same good energy from those successes will find you. If you curse or envy them, you will be bound to failure as you cannot share that energy. The small things like a compliment or a cute note on their locker increase that energy.

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Hi, I'm back here again to ask about a fanfic that takes place AFTER Paris and Andy is a famous person in the fashion world, she also has a daughter. I remember some details:

• Nobody knows her identity, she is a designer

• If I'm not mistaken, she lives in Paris and meets Emily, who sees documents (drafts) in her bag and tells Nigel what she discovered.

• Nigel thinks people call Miranda the Ice Queen, but he understands why they call Andy the Fire Queen or something like that

• Andy is really cruel

Unfortunately it's not the one where Andy calls herself Dreya, but it has the same style. I lost this fanfic many months ago, afraid it had been deleted.

Dreya's fanfic: The Miraculous Discovery Of Dreya Goldman

(・・?)

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"Kara."

by PeriwinckleBlue

The one where Oísin has buttons to communicate.

Or:

The one where Oísin talks about the dead hero.

Words: 951, Chapters: 1/1, Language: Português brasileiro

Fandoms: Supergirl (TV 2015)

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: Major Character Death

Categories: F/F

Characters: Lena Luthor, Kara Danvers, Oisin

Relationships: Kara Danvers/Lena Luthor

Additional Tags: Angst, Hurt No Comfort, Grief/Mourning

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UMA MANHÃ COM PANQUECA QUEIMADA

by PeriwinckleBlue

PLOT: “Eu fiz café da manhã!” “Está tudo queimado” “Foi feito com amor, não habilidade”

Ou: aquele em que a Kara tenta surpreender a namorada com um café da manhã surpresa!

Words: 280, Chapters: 1/1, Language: Português brasileiro

Fandoms: Supergirl (TV 2015)

Rating: General Audiences

Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply

Categories: F/F

Characters: Lena Luthor, Kara Danvers

Relationships: Kara Danvers/Lena Luthor

Additional Tags: Silly, Lena Luthor Knows Kara Danvers Is Supergirl, Fluff, Domestic Fluff, Kara Danvers needs cooking lessons

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