#poly-problems

[last-starry-sky]

Had a dream last night of alpha!141 discovering omega!reader through her small “daily life” youtube channel.

Just the thought of four massive men pressed together, jostling one another to watch you on one phone screen (held in a fucking death grip) as you film yourself setting up your nest or making a smoothie.

[michi-chelle-draws]

my fave power throuple <3

[polyamorousmood]

The 3am search history of a polyam in denial

How to tell romantic from platonic love

Romantic vs platonic love differences between

Am I in love with my friend

Can you be in love with two people at once

Advice in love with friend

Advice in love with friend reddit

Advice in love with friend reddit already have a girlfriend

In love with two people how to choose

in love with two people what is wrong with me

how to stop falling in love

how to be content in a relationship

How to delete search history

[agoraphxnics]

I swore I would never go down the cod rabbit hole. I literally had keywords banned for YEARS. And then whadya know, I stumble across a poly! 141 x reader fic and now I’m whipped for these men.

Do I know anything about cod? No, nor do I give a shit (Activision can go fuck themselves.)

Do I know how these men act outside of the fics I’ve read? Nope.

Hell, I’m not even into masks.

But somehow I’ve just fallen in love with how people write them, and I find that so beautiful.

It’s just this idea of four men who don’t need labels, who don’t need to be defined by ‘boyfriend’ or ‘queer’ to just be so intrinsically bound to each other.

And then there’s you, who somehow finds their way in the mix, and it’s just understood that you belong to all of them. Like it’s not even a question.

And it just makes me feel so many things 😭🥺🥵🥰

[krotiation]

Has this been done yet

[elysianightsss]

To answer the poly141 reader callsign question, I feel like it'd depend on the temperament and personality of the reader.

For example, it could be a reader who's more quiet, and the backbone of a squad that supports in ways that often go unnoticed but are valued and impactful regardless, someone who goes above an beyond without demanding recognition, brushing it off with a "just doing my job". Someone who's loyal to the job and efficient no matter what because they recognize what's on the line. I'm thinking something akin to a "Patron Saint" a protector above all else. So maybe something like "Savior". The person everyone subconsciously seeks out or hopes they see when times get rough or in the heat of a battle.

Or for something more serious, that maybe "Overseer", or for a reader that's similar in "Boogeyman" status to Ghost than, you could do "Specter". Ooo or maybe "Stalker" if they're someone that's known for their prowress in stealth and efficiently taking out enemies. (Assuming reader is a soldier)

Though if you're going for something softer, maybe a callsign given to them for their approachable and caring nature, than I'd say "Teddy" like teddy bear. Or!!!! Maybe something silly like "Ant" because reader is small but packs a punch lol.

Lol sorry for the long rant. Just some of my brainstorming to fuel your brainstorming😋

Don’t be sorry! I love them all, I love the long rant. Teddy has my heart🥹🥰 but I do also love the idea of naming them around stealth. They are part of the task force and a master of disguise so maybe Veil might be a good idea??? She can hide in plain sight, even from the guys. Once shes gone from view you’ll never spot her unless she wants you to.

[fuckterfs-deactivated20221212]

some possible arguments:

yes, because the cishetpatriarchal society we're in is obsessed with the nuclear family model and while anyone not straight or cis deviates from that and challenges its validity, anyone with more than one romantic/sexual partner does as well

yes, because just as gay people couldn't marry in the past and still can't marry in many places, pretty much any place that allows marriages doesn't allow you to be married more than once at a time

yes, because having more than one partner at a time is as (or sometimes even more) taboo in non-queer circles as being trans or gay or ace in some way

depends on who one has multiple relationships with, if all of them are straight then no, otherwise yes

no, the amount of romantic or sexual relationships you may choose to have at a time doesn't change their nature enough to be considered queer

no, someone can be cishet and polyamorous, and in that case their polyamory would be the only queer thing and cishets can't be queer

no, they're not actively discriminated against enough to be considered queer

[kerizaret]

Cultural differences

[witchymommy27]

Tell me how I have only been in The Lost Boys fandom for almost THREE WEEKS, and I’ve already liked over 300 fics.

[xx-vamp1r3-k1ss3s-xx]

being poly (technically amibiamorous but who cares) is having a crush on MULTIPLE PEOLPE

[teartra]

Holy Terrors spoilers

I love how Lilje saw Gisele and Ragne and was like “hmm I want that type of relationship” so she joined that relationship. Dream big guys

[polyamorousmood]

accidentally stepped outside my curated tumblr bubble and was reminded some people fr think they're hot shit for ragging on us for loving too much. Bro get a HOBBY lmao you ain't a part of this conversation

[waterberry-strawmelon]

TRYING TO SURVEY PEOPLE!!

So I’m doing a group project where we’re pitching 3 romance novel titles/concepts to a panel of judges. One idea our group had was about a trio of lesbian witches who are in a polyamorous relationship together. One girl (who herself is gay) is pushing back against this and refuses to let us pitch it as a polyamorous relationship because “it perpetuates harmful stereotypes,” and “a lot of queer media does [poly relationships] already.” 

[renthesilliestbeing]

All hyperfixations/special interests I've had active this year

Yes I get hyperfixated on things way too easily, if you're wondering

[lunarneo]

Poor Neo- "Wait a Second...."

[meatcarnival3000]

also poly bi rouxls is. really good but im going be needlessly contrarian and claim rouxls as arospec. maybe in addition to being poly and bi, maybe not. but like i really dont think he was actually romantically attracted to lanino or elnina at all like guys he was just here for tenna's attention. and hes not attracted to tenna either