#starfallposts

[amity-moonrise]

[sparkly-amity]

Yall i got a much more cooler sideblog i barely use my main 😭

Here: @starfall-sys

[amity-moonrise]

I don’t think people understand just whats going on here

The back of the cat is an erogenous zone that should not be stimulated like that. The owner is overstimulating the poor cat. Please don’t do this to your cat. Most of the time, the cat does not enjoy it and they are unable to fight back because they are overstimulated. Ive seen this exact video on instagram and now im seeing it here and no one seems to realize just how bad this is. If you care about your cat then don’t do it.

It bothers me how uneducated or ignorant some people are and it shows. People need to learn and treat animals better

This black car looks so funny 🤣🤣😺

[amity-witchcraft]

Welcome to my witchy sideblog where I will focus more on witchcraft, deity stuff, book of shadow stuff, and just general witchy and cosmic stuff.

About me:

Call me Starfall (we will not reference ourselves as a system here just for the sake of simplicity :’> ). I am bodily a minor, and a closet witch. I practice all kinds of magic, and have been practicing since 2022. Idk I felt compelled to make this blog for some reason.

Other blogs:

Main- @sparkly-starfall

System blog- @starfall-sys

Headspace blog- @starry-headspace

Littles blog- @little-star-squad

Qpr blog- @sunset-soulmates

DNI is the same for this blog (check DNI on our system blog)

Hope yall enjoy

[amity-moonrise]

I see so many people tell others online to avoid shein, temu, Ali express and other businesses that often profit off of unpaid labour and child labour with harsh working conditions and every. single. time…

They forget about those who are literally unable to afford anything else that is NOT from those brands or other similar cheap businesses.

I understand why supporting these companies is wrong and we personally try our hardest to avoid these brands, but not everyone is as lucky as we are. For many, Amazon is too expensive, or local small businesses and in store places. And with the tariffs going on, it’s getting worse for anyone to live a decent life.

You could argue that people don’t need cute and aesthetic things to survive, that if they can’t afford it then they don’t need to buy it because it’s not as important as food, water, and shelter. Except this argument treats poor people like they don’t deserve luxury or that they don’t deserve BASIC stuff like a nice tshirt or a cute bracelet once in a while. Do you realize how insulting that is? Especially when that person has worked so hard to live in a system that is DESIGNED TO FAIL THEM ON PURPOSE. You are reducing them to something that should only focus on surviving when there is much more to life. You are shaming them for trying to make their lives just a bit easier to handle.

You could also argue that they can just make it themselves. Well uh, guess what, they still need to buy the materials to even make it, and now the TIME to make it, which is often not possible for many who work multiple jobs just to pay for rent and food. They won’t have as much free time as someone with better income. This argument again, reduces poor people as something that don’t deserve an ounce of luxury, and that they HAVE to work unrealistically to get that luxury, while rich people can get that luxury in a second.

These companies are evil, we’re not saying that they are not. What we ARE saying is that before you decide to shame someone who buys from these companies, maybe consider their situation. They could be poor, they could be living in a rural area where there aren’t many small businesses to buy from so they have to order online. They could be disabled and find that the cheapest option for them to get anything is to order online from these stores. People forget how expensive it can get for someone who is disabled and needs medical equipment.

Boycotting is not as easy as people make it to be. People fail to recognize that there’s people out there who are reliant on certain products because of their circumstances. So maybe instead of shaming people who don’t boycott, maybe help them instead? Give them actual resources on alternative business that are ACTUALLY AFFORDABLE, because so many times we see these alternatives and they are not affordable at all for people with low incomes. Or better yet, if you yourself have old stuff, DONATE. Not just to a thrift store or a charity organization, give them to people personally who are struggling to make ends meet. If you know someone who can’t afford a nice tshirt, give them one if you have that kind of tshirt. Don’t just take an organization’s word that they will give your belongings out to people, actually give it to someone who needs it if you know that they need it. Theres SO MANY clothes and items that are being discarded because people don’t take them or get them from anyone.

If you’re able to boycott, then do it. If you’re not able to boycott, then don’t feel ashamed about it, especially when you can’t do much about it. And if you see someone who is unable to boycott for whatever reason, help them instead of shaming them for it.

Not everyone wants to or is able to fight back, protest, or boycott. And assuming that they are horrible people for that is wrong.

on a different note, if any of yall know of good businesses to buy aesthetic clothing and accessories from, pls let us know because we don’t want to have to resort to fuckin SHEIN.

[amity-moonrise]

Migu

[amity-moonrise]

Its been ages before I have had to speak up about someone elses harmful actions since that system hottake blog.

But I am actually done just sitting around doing nothing when anti endos like this person are encouraging bullying towards endogenic systems

This doesn’t make me any less anti endo, nor does it mean that we support endogenic systems, in fact, we personally don’t believe that it’s even possible to be endogenic and that most of them are either:

- misguided by those who prey on minors (like sophie),

- have DID but don’t remember their trauma,

- are confusing their symptoms for DID when they probably have a different disorder,

- are experiencing something that no one is able to give a proper name to so they make it sound like a CDD when it’s clearly not,

- or are just straight up insane (ahem, like sophie)

You do not, under any circumstances, bully people, even if they have hurt you or you really really hate them to the core. “Oh but endos are evil, they’re ableist scums of the earth and they constantly hurt us and shit-” YOU DONT STOOP TO THEIR LEVEL.

Wanna know why they absolutely despise us? This is why

When you give radical anti endos a platform to speak, a platform to target endos who are most likely just trying to exist, you get people bullying them. You get people who are attacking the other community and harassing them. When you enable radical anti endos a platform to speak, you are hurting both communities

Anti endos have been fighting for ages to get basic respect from the other side and to just be left alone and not have people roleplay or romanticize the disorder, but radicals literally undo all the hard work by giving pro endos a reason to bully and harass back and invalidate all of us because of a select few, which is also exactly how we treat them when we are being attacked by people like sophieinwonderland or other radical pro endos

I could probably guarantee you that the majority of the system community just wants this useless fighting to stop and for all the bullying, harassment, and ableism to stop. I can guarantee you that most people on BOTH sides are not fully one or the other, and that we fall closer to the middle and have nuanced stances on certain topics. We are not robots, we have complex opinions, and syscourse is no exception.

If you don’t want the other side to interact with you then block them and set your boundaries. Filter out tags you don’t want to see, block people like this person who you know are toxic and hurt people regardless of what their stances are. You are responsible for how you want to interact and contribute to the community. It is your responsibility to be the better person.

And if you see problems within your own community, SPEAK UP ABOUT IT. When you stay silent knowing that you have seen the problems that exist within the community, you are complicit in the bullying and harassment. You are letting radicals dictate the reputation of your community. This goes for both anti and pro endos. Stop staying silent, otherwise nothing will change.

I know this system community can do better. I have seen the good from both sides. We really should stop fighting and actually respect each other and understand that our experiences are different from one another and it doesn’t automatically make their experiences invalid just because they don’t match yours. Who knows, if we can actually get along we would be a lot more empathetic towards each other and maybe, JUST MAYBE, we could stop the actually ableist fuckers and the bullies who are ruining it for everyone. We could actually work together and take down harmful spaces like r/syscringe and r/fakedisordercringe, these harm BOTH COMMUNITIES and are places that ENABLE BULLYING AND FAKECLAIMING.

Nothing gets done when people stay silent, when people stay divided, and when you ignore the problems in your own community that the opposition has constantly been highlighting on for ages. Learn what makes someone radical in their beliefs, learn the difference between what is actually wrong versus what is just an opinion that conflicts with your own beliefs because those two are NOT the same. Learn to stay away from toxic spaces and warn others of these places, like the K9 Cave server on discord or r/syscringe on reddit. Educate yourself, not just on CDDs and how they actually work but also on endogenic experiences and how they affect people who genuinely believe that they are endogenic. You may not personally believe in them, but if you stay educated on these topics then it benefits both communities and you could actually help someone who may have something misunderstood or is unknowingly spreading misinformation about it. You really can’t expect pro endos and endos to do their research about CDDs but then also not listen to their experiences and their ideas on the complexities of plurality. You don’t have to agree with it, but if you refuse to even listen to them then its pretty hypocritical to ask them to listen to you.

I don’t have to accept their experiences as pure fact or scientifically proven, but I can respect it and be empathetic instead of bullying them and understand that in reality, we don’t know everything. I shouldn’t have to risk “looking like a pro endo” or seem like I am siding with them when I am very much anti endo to get this point across:

That bullying someone for having completely different opinions, views, and experiences is wrong, and you cannot justify it.

I’m not here to say that “oh endos are valid” or “oh endos are invalid” that is not my point. My point is that even if you don’t share the same views, opinions and experiences with them, you have no right to bully them.

There is a fuckton that we don’t know. This world is already against all of us in general. The best we can do is work together and have basic respect for each other. Just, basic respect, you don’t even need to interact with the other side, just respect each others boundaries.

Please reblog and share this, both anti and pro endos. And please don’t go harassing this person, don’t give them a reason to target you. This post is incredibly important for both communities especially since the rise of bullying from BOTH sides has caused extreme turmoil for those who end up getting caught in the crossfire.

[amity-moonrise]

just learned about polyminds

shits very interesting ngl, very cool thing

i read this carrd about it cuz yea, its got the basic gist of what a polymind is.

people are truly interesting when it comes to concepts that are similar to plurality and stuff. Like damn, our brains do be like that sometimes huh

(fyi btw, polyminds arent systems nor do they want anything to do with the system community. Saying this before someone comes raging into my askbox 😭)

[amity-moonrise]

LISTEN UP!!

Writing this on my laptop so post format is gonna be WAY different than what i normally post but this is an important PSA for everyone who follows me or interacts with me and uses Octocon

tw for mentions of abuse and p3dophilia, read with caution

(READ THE TAGS FOR AN UPDATE)

Please please PLEASE read through @octoconbeware 's posts, which to sum it up, talk about how the octocon discord server actively harbors a p3dophile KNOWING that the person had abused minors. They have taken zero action in regard to this and are failing to provide a safe community. The person is still in the server, please please PLEASE be careful and stop supporting their bot/app. If this is how they treat their server members, by endangering minors, then they cannot be trusted to handle sensitive info of everyone who uses Octocon. We really hope yall are safe, we're spreading this to get people's attention and make sure they are aware that this is happening

REBLOG THIS AND SPREAD THE WORD.

[amity-moonrise]

We used to be like that. When I first found out about the others I had literally zero communication with almost everyone (except for James and Ari (old host) for some reason)

Its pretty difficult because you don’t know what happened while you were switched out. But theres always a possibility of it improving and gaining internal communication. If not, thats okay. Theres plenty of systems out there who have limited or zero communication, and systems who dont even have headspaces (our headspace wasn’t always very lively, it didnt exist at all initially)

Everything will be okay. Yall are perfect just the way you are

i definitely think one of the oddest things for us is seeing people. actually able to communicate with the rest of their system.

like the leaving notes out for other headmates so they can respond back just. doesn't work for us, because we don't switch that frequently.

we can't just communicate in our head. the person in front is locked out of the rest of the system. and even in the few times someone else manages to break through it's gone after a few words

it feels isolating in the community, seeing systems who've made posts where they've actively got two headmates talking, or when a lot of the advice tends to only be applicable to those who switch often enough to actually make use of it.

[amity-moonrise]

remember kids, you don’t bully people just because they have conflicting views and experiences about something.

[amity-moonrise]

I found this on pinterest and it gave me a cool idea for some hidden messages art or for like secret nature themed codes.

what if i could write encoded messages on just a single line?

[amity-moonrise]

Ive seen non traumagenic systems online claim to have dealt with ableism regarding their plurality and calling anti endos ableist and sometimes it makes me wonder if they even realize what they’re saying.

Let me point out two very important things…

1, anti endos are not ableist, we’re literally trying to defend our disorder because it’s already stigmatized and demonized a lot by social media and having non traumagenic people associate themselves with us in any remote way makes it harder to convince people to take CDD systems seriously. Yes, some anti endos are rude, mean, and sometimes bullies, and thats not right because people shouldn’t be hurting each other, but you need to understand that the level of trauma systems have been through to even get a CDD is severe (in a subjective standpoint since everyone experiences and processes trauma differently), so when we see people who are like us without the bad parts, without the memory loss or the trauma, we see it as a mockery 90% of the time, as something that invalidates our experiences that we didn’t ask for. Not all traumagenic systems have gone through recovery, which means many will carry negative traits and habits that they picked up from their trauma, us included. We have not gone through any sort of recovery yet and we will make mistakes, it’s just how our disorder is at the moment, but it doesn’t excuse our actions and we should be held accountable if we make a mistake. If you are being harassed by anti endos, then walk away and block the person.

You can’t expect CDD systems to be nice to you, especially when a lot of us have dealt with ableism and trauma from non traumagenic systems. It’s the Internet, if you don’t like something, scroll.

2, if your non traumagenic plurality doesn’t hinder your life and make it difficult to live then it’s not a disability. If it’s something you willed into existence and quite literally asked for (talking about willowgenics and tulpas to some extent) then it’s not a disability. And if it does affect your life negatively then it’s something that you should actually get checked because chances are, you’re probably otherwise traumagenic or deal with something else with similar symptoms. There may not be enough research on CDDs and non traumagenic plurality but if it actually is making your life difficult then you need to seek help, because regardless of your origin, plurality is not normal. Humans are not supposed to have multiple parts/alters because our brains are not meant to handle separate parts that way without leaving negative consequences; at most we are supposed to have a 3 dimensional identity that is still one whole and can change and adapt over time, but also shouldn’t affect your memory, your mental health, or impact your life negatively.

Ableism is hate targeted towards disabled people, which can include autistic people, people with ADHD, people in wheelchairs, people who wear glasses or are legally blind, cane users, nonverbal people, people with personality disorders, people with schizophrenia, and of course, people with a CDD. Every single disabled person will tell you that they did not ask for this disability and would rather be normal instead, because like we said, disabilities impact peoples lives negatively.

If you’re someone who genuinely understands the struggles CDD systems face yet also deal with non traumagenic plurality, then you would know when to not overstep and push CDD systems at their limit. You would know to not misuse medical terms which are meant for CDD systems to use. You would know to look into your plurality and see if it is truly non traumagenic or if it’s an actual disorder or a CDD and get treatment, rather than taking no action on it. You would know to stay away from CDD spaces and not invade them.

Plurality is not studied enough, and theres a good chance that there might be an answer to what causes non traumagenic plurality or what it even is, but regardless of what it is, it is definitely not comparable to a CDD. If you relate more with CDD systems than non traumagenic systems, then you really should look into it.

[amity-moonrise]

Reminder that if you just wear glasses, ur still disabled

“But i have a light prescription” you are using an aid that helps you see, like how a paralyzed person uses a wheelchair to move around or how someone with joint pain uses a cane to stand up and move around properly.

Doesn’t matter how “small” the aid is, it’s still an aid, and vision issues are a disability.

Yes, its a very common disability, as in billions of people wear glasses, but it is still a disability because it affects your life negatively. And it CAN GET WORSE. Please never underestimate an issue, especially when it’s a medical issue. Always make sure to keep your health in check.

[amity-moonrise]

if someone got upset at a joke you made, you say sorry and you don’t say that joke to them again.

The second you start to make excuses for it you are telling everyone that you don’t care about the persons feelings and you would rather justify your actions so you don’t feel guilty about it.

“But theyre too sensitive and unreasonable” okay then go somewhere else. No ones gluing you to one person. Just say the joke elsewhere online.

At the end of the day you are the one who is responsible for what you say, you’re not responsible for how others react. If people react negatively to you then it’s your responsibility to move, not theirs to ignore their own feelings so you can get away with it. Its gonna hurt sometimes, but if you don’t do that you will hurt yourself and others will get hurt too.

This world is not nice sometimes. But it’s all on you to decide what you make of it. And being a prick isnt it. You can still joke around without hurting people’s feelings unnecessarily.

[amity-moonrise]

I CANT STOP LAUGHING, SPECIAL EDITION BUNDLE IS INSANE 😭 (we were talking about DID and one of our singlet friends said that LMAO) -❤️‍🔥