#std sti

[sapphire---art]

this is simply for data, zero judgements here! 🫶🏼 i've seen statistics as high as 1 in 5 sexually active adults so i'm curious about the tumblr data. you don't have to put your anwer in the tags but please know but you aren't alone and you are loved! 💞

[chaoticace2005]

Cherri: You wanna go upstairs?

Sir Pentious: Sure...

Cherri: You have protection?

Sir Pentious: W-why? What's up there?

[sapphic-sex-ed]

despite never having sex before I plan to get tested for STDs since I know you can get them through other means as a precaution, what type of tests do I need to do to make sure I don't have any type?

That’s not really necessary at all. The only ones would be the blood borne ones and if you don’t have a history of using dirty needles (injectable drugs, shady tattoo shops where you haven seen the artist open the packaging for the needle) or having had blood transfusions recently (as in the past 3 months). Some STIs are asymptomatic but not the blood borne ones so you would probably be aware if you had any.

This isn’t aimed specifically at you, anon but this over-anxiety about STIs and sex in general has me worried. Yes, there are risks with sex, as there is with crossing the road, jumping on a trampoline or cooking dinner. Do get tested 3 weeks-3 months (incubation time varies between infections) after an interaction with a new sexual partner or if symptoms occur but to get tested without any real risk of exposure is like going to your doctor and asking to get screened for the plague because you might have been near a rat at one point in your life (side note: the treatment for chlamydia is used for one other infection — the black plague!). It’s an anxiety-driven safety behavior. It’s understandable, because sex is so taboo and moralized about, and at the same time it’s not helpful in the long run. In America, there’s a personal cost to you, and in countries where we actually get healthcare at a reasonable or no price at all it’s a resource and cost question for the institution.

-mod liz

Note: HIV can be transferred by blood contact. Always wash your hands after handling human blood, and if you have an open wound touch someone's blood you should get the post-exposure medications and/or testing to be safe. The virus can survive for hours outside of the body and it's not worth the risk of unsafe handling.

-*Mod Star*

Note: while HIV can sometimes survive for a few hours outside the body, that’s a short time compared to other viruses. It’s known as a fragile virus. Be careful of course and use common sense (avoid touching blood that isn’t yours, keep any wounds and scrapes covered with bandaids or gauze, wash your hands regularly, basic hygiene things), at the same time don’t be overly cautious or afraid. If there is a known outbreak in your area you ought to be more careful than usual, otherwise it’s not something to worry about in your day-to-day life. Being risk-aware, ie taking appropriate precautions like, again, avoiding touching blood and washing your hands, is not the same as constantly worrying about infections and having it control and limit your behavior are not the same things. My main point in the original response is to normalize proportionate reactions and worry about infection because the question itself alluded to some neurotic tendencies towards health. As a counselor within the healthcare sector I meet people with these tendencies often and most of the time it’s an expression of deeper patterns of anxiety/neuroticism where the best course of action is to stop doing the safety behavior (for example screenings, checking in on the body trying to notice if things feel “wrong” etc) that on the lower end are mild and can easily be managed and other more severe end have developed into full compulsions and are often then diagnosed with OCD as a result.

So yes, take appropriate precautions, don’t ignore risks, and at the same time also limit safety behaviors because they may temporarily ease anxiety but in the long run they will cause that same anxiety to increase. It’s not dangerous to feel anxious sometimes.

-mod liz

[breadbut3d]

Little doodle I did in PSHE (sex-ed)

[demensionz]

I remember seeing someone else say this but it struck so hard with me I have to rephrase it. In Falsettos, no one understands Whizzer’s character more than a trans man. The struggle to yes, pass as a man, but still be placed in a feminine position in the relationship is so real and agonizing. I think that’s why I relate to Whizzer, and why I love singing in his parts.

As a gender-whatever-the-fuck person who’s AFAB I absolutely feel this.. disappointment. No matter how much I attempt to exist as myself I fear in a relationship with a cis man that I will not be treated as masculine in any way. That I will be just a wife when I am more complex than that. I am stronger and more amazing than just that title.

Guys I love Falsettos so much 😋😋😋

[classycookiexo]

THIS

Also it’s the main ones who walk around thinking they’re better who end up catching something, I’ve seen it in real time

[nonvieose]

Due to health issues which seem to happen anytime when I get close to people, I lose time to recover and have to take antibiotics, thus in a city which is called to be most liveable, but with the clear indication that the locals are a total lackluster. I don't want to life here, still. It might be promising with enough perspectives and a nice circle, I don't feel that the latter one is even available in this town for all or most of my important needs. So, Vienna is simply not liveable enough for me?

I don't conclude about it. Heal through it, increasing efforts to guard myself in an absurd close to presidential level and to work on an exhibition in may.

[ozzyfromthecafeteria]

a… little nervous about our upcoming appointments…

[anx13ty-astr0naut]

A reminder to all Earthlings & Aliens out there celebrating pride;

There is no shame in getting yourself tested.

Get tested! Make donations! Throw bricks at cops! Be honest & open in your relationships!

Stay smart & live your life to the fullest!

I hope you all have an amazing pride not only this year, but for many more to come!! ♡

[certifiedsexed]

could you explain how somebody who’s never had sex could get an STD/STI? /genq if they’re sexually transmitted and only sexually transmitted how could that happen without having sex… or is the name a little misleading and you can get them other ways?

Well, herpes (HSV), which can cause oral and genital sores, is well known for being transmitted sexually but it can also be transmitted nonsexually, like through a kiss or sharing lip gloss!

Depending on the type of STI/D, the way you can get it can really vary though.

See, STI/D doesn't mean it can only be transmitted sexually, just that it can.

Often, it's just that that's the more common or most well known way. It's definitely a little misleading and some of that's definitely just fearmongering, unfortunately.

This is an article with a good rundown on some different STI/Ds and how they can be caught and identified, if you're interested!

Hope this helps! Lemme know if you have any other questions. <3

[pansy-placebo]

*+°✨🪷💮~ Remember to get tested, everyone ~ 💮🪷✨°+*

Anyone can catch or carry an STI!

It's always better to know for sure than than to live in the dark, because you can't treat an infection you don't know you have, after all.

Many STIs are asymptomatic when you first catch them, so it's important to check even if you don't have any symptoms.

There are many options available for getting tested, from visiting your local sexual health clinic or your doctor, to ordering (usually free) test kits online which come in discreet packaging. There's no reason not to! :)

Reblog to spread this reminder, because it's vitally important to get tested once a year.

[sapphic-sex-ed]

my girlfriend and i want to get more intimate with each other but im concerned about possibly contracting an STD/STI. can we contract one of we’re both clean and use no dams? or is protection always the way to go?

STD/STI are acronyms for Sexually Transmitted Diseases/Sexually Transmitted Infections and as with any disease, if you are not exposed to the virus/bacteria that causes it, you cannot transmit it. If you have been tested and have the results come back negative, you do not have the disease and cannot transmit it*.

If you have not been tested but don't experience any symptoms (and has had previous sexual partners), you can still be infected and transfer the disease. It is believed that upwards of 80% of humans are infected with herpes (HSV1 or HSV2) but most don't show any symptoms, called being asymptomatic. Other STIs where it's common to be asymptomatic are chlamydia, HPV/genital warts (only some strains cause warts), and latent syphilis (although you would have noticed syphilis symptoms like rashes before the latent phase, which is a phase that sometimes occurs before the third/final stage of the disease).

If neither of you have had partners before**, or if you have been tested negative 3 months after your last sexual encounter, you don't have an STI.

Furthermore, hand and oral sex on vulvas are considered the safest ways to have sex when it comes to transmission of STIs. Now, I don't know you or your partner's genitals but I'm guessing based on the dental dam comment that it's likely that the sex you'll be having will mainly involve vulvas. While you absolutely can contract an STI in your throat, the amount of vaginal fluid you would have to guzzle to get enough pathogens down to your throat to cause infection is a lot. Semen is a lot more effective at transmitting diseases because, uh, its purpose is to get that shit (spermatozoa) in there, so to speak. It's not risk free, but nothing in life is. This is so low risk that the Swedish organization for sexual and reproductive rights and education (founded in the 30's, leading org for SRHR in the nation) which also produce and sell condoms, at home pregnancy and STI-tests, lube, etc, don't sell dental dams at all. That being said, dams can be fun to play with vis a vis sensation (taut dam vs relaxed dam, for example) and if you want to use one I would never dissuade you from it.

I do wanna bring attention to the usage of the word "clean" to denote that you aren't infected with an STI. It's a common way to phrase it, but it does stigmatize those who have been or are infected with an STI. To say that one is "clean" to mean "not infected" directly implies that to be infected is dirty or unclean, which it is not. This is part of the stigma of contracting and living with an STI, where a moral judgement is cast upon the person. As some STIs are life long, like HIV, herpes, and sometimes hepatitis, the stigma can also be life-long. In the future, I suggest using terms like "not infected" or "tested negative" to avoid this.

-mod liz

*because of incubation time, you have to wait up to three months for some STIs to show up on a test, so if you sleep with a new partner, getting tested the next week may not yield accurate results.

**some STIs are not exclusively sexually transmitted. You can for example contract HIV at birth if your parent was a carrier, hepatitis C can spread through blood, and herpes can infect both mouth and genitals and sharing a glass of water with somebody with oral herpes can transmit it. Unless there's any reason to suspect that you have contracted HIV or hepatitis from somewhere else (like a tattoo or injection needle, or if you mixed your blood with somebody somehow like in an accident) I wouldn't be too worried though.

[mycrusadestranger]

The Silent Hero: Why Urological Health is the Key to a Happier Life

When was the last time you thought about your kidneys or bladder? If you're like most people, probably not often. Yet, your urological system quietly works 24/7, filtering waste, balancing fluids, and supporting your reproductive health. It's your body's silent hero, and it's time we give it the attention it deserves.

What is Urology, and Why Should You Care?

Urology is the branch of medicine focused on your urinary system and, in men, the reproductive organs. It covers the kidneys, ureters, bladder, urethra, and prostate. While these systems work seamlessly most of the time, when something goes wrong, the impact can be life-altering.

From mild discomforts to serious conditions like kidney disease or cancer, urological health affects everyone. Prioritizing it means protecting your energy, confidence, and overall quality of life.

Everyday Urological Issues You Might Not Think About

1. Urinary Tract Infections (UTIs): More Common Than You Think

UTIs aren't just uncomfortable; if left untreated, they can escalate into serious kidney infections. Women are particularly prone to them, but men can also suffer.

Symptoms:

Burning sensation during urination

Frequent urges to urinate

Cloudy or foul-smelling urine

2. Kidney Stones: Small but Mighty

These tiny mineral deposits can cause excruciating pain as they pass through your urinary tract. Causes include dehydration, diet, and genetics.

Symptoms:

Severe back or side pain

Nausea or vomiting

Blood in the urine

3. Prostate Problems: Not Just an "Old Man's Disease"

Enlarged prostate, prostatitis, and prostate cancer can all affect urinary flow and sexual health. Men over 50 should make prostate screening a regular habit.

4. Incontinence: It's More Common Than You Realize

Bladder control issues affect millions worldwide, impacting confidence and daily life. Causes range from childbirth and aging to neurological conditions.

5. Sexual and Fertility Issues: The Overlooked Side of Urology

Erectile dysfunction (ED), low testosterone, and male infertility often have urological roots. These conditions not only affect physical health but also emotional well-being and relationships.

The Emotional Toll of Ignoring Urological Health

Many shy away from discussing urological issues due to embarrassment, but doing so only worsens the problem. Struggling with urinary problems, sexual dysfunction, or fertility challenges can lead to anxiety, depression, and strained relationships.

Your urological health is directly linked to your mental well-being. Open conversations and early intervention can change lives.

Modern Solutions: Urology is More Advanced Than Ever

Thanks to technology, many urological conditions are now easier to diagnose and treat:

Minimally Invasive Surgeries: Faster recovery, less pain

Laser Treatments: Effective for kidney stones and prostate issues

Shockwave Therapy: Non-invasive help for erectile dysfunction

Robotic-Assisted Procedures: Precision treatments with minimal scarring

Advanced Imaging: Early detection of serious diseases like cancer

Simple Habits for a Healthier Urological System

Good urological health starts with daily habits:

Hydrate: Drink enough water to flush your system

Eat Right: Limit salt, processed foods, and sugars

Exercise: Maintain a healthy weight

Quit Smoking: Lowers cancer risks

Limit Alcohol and Caffeine: Both can irritate the bladder

Practice Safe Sex: Protects against infections

Manage Chronic Conditions: Diabetes and high blood pressure directly affect kidney health

When to See a Urologist

Don’t wait until you’re in pain. See a urologist if you notice:

Blood in your urine

Painful urination

Difficulty urinating or weak flow

Persistent back or side pain

Erectile dysfunction or fertility issues

Early detection can save your health and even your life.

Bottom Line: Protect Your Silent Hero

Your urological health is essential, yet it often suffers from neglect. By staying informed, practicing healthy habits, and seeking medical advice early, you protect not just your urinary system but your overall vitality and happiness.

Don't let embarrassment stop you from caring for your body. Prioritize your urological health—because a healthy, confident life starts from within.

[ozzyfromthecafeteria]

t-shirt that say might have something physically wrong but we can’t narrow down what it Is

[certifiedsexed]

hi, im a cis girl (minor) who happens to be pansexual

im a virgin, but i was wondering if there were any risks of STDs in lesbian sex (or whatever the correct term is)

if so, is there any way to diminish the risk? cause to my knowledge we cant wear condoms

im not interested in sex anytime soon, i was just wondering for the future.

Hello!

It can depend on what type of sex you're having but generally, there's the same risk of STD/Is that there is in non-lesbian sex.

There are lesbians with penises and/or larger clitoris', so some lesbians can/do/need to wear condoms (internal or external!) during sex!

You can also use dental dams, plastic wrap, you can cut condoms to turn them into dental dams, you can use plastic gloves and you can get vaccinated and tested!

You can also have sex that doesn't involve you straight up touching their genitals, like masturbating together, clothed frottage, things like that.

Hope this helps, lemme know if you have any other questions, Anon! <3