#tagtalking

[sheliesshattered]

#this is literally a thing we have always had in my family#'did I do the thing or just think about doing the thing?'#'oops I meant to do the thing but I just thought about doing the things and so didn't actually do it'#both of my parents did this (Mom still does); I do it; afaik all of my siblings do it#it's a very real problem but saying it out loud around others who have experienced the same thing definitely helps (via)

To quote someone on Facebook:

"So for anyone who didn't know, there's a thing ADHD brains do sometimes, which is thinking about doing a thing is roughly equivalent in our brain to doing the thing, so our brain checks off having done the thing EVEN THOUGH WE DIDN'T DO THE THING"

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*raises hand* Me. I didn't do the thing I thought I did.

[iteratorsex]

void worms and iterators knew about each other they could be friends. and they could hate on the guardians together

[brokendreamsandpyramidschemes]

It think there's a very important distinction between Boy wonder 1 and Boy wonder 2, as Grayson as Robin and Todd as Robin.

Richard "Dick" Grayson:

Anger issues

First born son (first robin)

Was taught that the mission comes before feelings

Adultified in very early age.

Jason Todd:

Trust issues

Wild cat (was an orphan growing up in bad neighbourhood)

Second born son

Was taught life is precious.

So, in my literary analysis, is people read the characters wrong. Dick has rage issues and Jason has betrayed issues. It is the most simple rhetoric in a family. The first born is taught to obey, to suppress rage, to be what is needed. And the second born is allowed to express but punished for it, asked to emote but harmed for it. The first born craves solace in words of praise, knowing that they could never compare. And the second born is always shot down in the shadows of legacy, knowing they could be better.

[bestagons]

2012 | 2024

[vulcanette]

📸: adamrosssi

[twilightalks]

Oi, casal! Não sei se vocês ajudam com isso, mas não custa tentar. Eu sou obcecada pela Brooke Shields dos 80s e eu queria saber se vocês conseguem dar uma luz com fcs parecidas ou que poderiam ser uma "versão mais jovem" dela, tipo uma filha talvez?

Oi, cinza!

Acho que é a primeira vez que respondemos algo assim mas vamos lá! A Brooke dos anos 80 tem uma beleza super marcante, ne? O olhar expressivo, as sobrancelhas icônicas e um ar clássico! Algumas fcs que podem ter uma vibe parecida ou funcionar como uma verão mais jovem/filha dela, são essas:

✨ Lily Collins – Tem sobrancelhas bem marcantes e um ar sofisticado que lembra a Brooke. ✨ Kaia Gerber – Dependendo da foto, ela pode lembrar bastante a vibe jovem da Brooke. ✨ Odeya Rush – Olhar intenso e traços clássicos. ✨ Lauren Tsai – Uma opção diferente, mas com feições bem fortes e elegantes. ✨ Ella Purnell – Tem um ar clássico e olhos expressivos, poderia funcionar bem! ✨ Barbara Palvin – Lembra muito a Brooke em algumas fotos, especialmente pela estrutura facial e sobrancelhas grossas. ✨ Margaret Qualley – Tem um ar clássico e elegante, além de olhos expressivos. ✨ Grace Elizabeth – Modelo com traços marcantes e um charme retrô que lembra bastante a Brooke. ✨ Meadow Walker – Filha do Paul Walker, tem uma vibe natural e sofisticada parecida. ✨ Diana Silvers – Sobrancelhas marcantes, olhar intenso e um rosto bem estruturado. ✨ Kristine Froseth – Uma opção um pouco diferente, mas com uma beleza clássica e traços que poderiam funcionar como uma filha da Brooke. ✨ Camila Morrone – Em algumas fotos, lembra bastante a jovem Brooke, especialmente o olhar.

Espero que alguma se encaixe no que você precisa, meu bem!

[niimda]

I've been following some of those plural poll blogs for a little while now. I think it's fun to answer questions, especially ones that make me have to think really hard or consult others. It's a good way to learn about the worlds I inhabit and the people I inhabit them with, but I've been noticing some (if not most) of the questions are almost.. not applicable to us or our experiences. Specifically now: questions that want you to answer as or for the collective.

"Collective favorite [X]", "[Y] that describes everyone", "Collective opinion on [Z]."

While thinking about these questions I realized that it probably feels pretty bad to be expected to be radically different from everyone you share a brain with. That kind of expectation can unintentionally de-legitimize peoples' experiences and make them feel like they aren't "separate enough" to count.

At the same time, we don't have…a collective anything. Even this body is off-limits to at least one person. Trying to make all of us agree on something has made us run into more butting of the heads than anything else in the past six years, and that feels very strange! Being asked to exist cohesively and uniformly causes some of the most upset I've ever seen.

My favorite ice cream flavor is pistachio. Verin likes specifically Quality Dairy's Death by Chocolate. Oliver wants nothing to do with any of it. To answer with a single "collective favorite" would mean disregarding most opinions in favor of one. It's a silly example, and it's true most of the questions tend to be silly and un-serious in nature. So why should we have to fight over whose favorite gets the spotlight?

There are plenty of other common plural-community things that don't apply to us, being a system of less than ten with only one (introverted) introject. We don't tend to subscribe to common frameworks (roles, origin labels, and the shiny new consciousness labels), and microlabels in general just don't seem to have that luster. Being unconventional isn't new to us for many, many reasons.

The polls aren't even really my main concern here. We don't follow many, so it's possible it's just a few of them. But it's not the only context we're expected to present as less individual than we actually are.

The name of the group, Solsten, is neutral at best for more than half of us, but existing without a link to others in the system online is heavily frowned upon. "System tags" are commonly required in Discord servers that have bots for accessibility. Intra-system communication in public is laughable & weird at best, and outright banned at worst. We are expected to be a very single group of people.

We've known about each other for years longer than we've known about the plural community, so I guess it makes sense that we don't fall in with the norms presented here. We're in the age range now where we're "too old" for the youngest members to be comfortable with, and "too young" for the oldest.

The easiest thing for us to do has been to find others through our interests, and we've been very lucky to find three(!!) other systems who we're now very close with. They don't seem to be as interested in alterhumanity as I am, but I think all I can really do is take what I'm given. They listen and allow us as much space as we need to be uniquely and separately ourselves.

This was sort of an aimless ramble from the get-go. I haven't been here long enough to make in-depth critiques of common trends. (It's my understanding that other platforms like Dreamwidth and some personal websites host wonderful content of that variety.) But maybe we should start making all of our coworkers decide if they all had to be one animal what it would be. Even if our coworkers are already strongly and separately wolves, birds, and human beings.

[sheliesshattered]

miiiiight have spent my entire weekend watching Skeleton Crew for the first time and Andor for the third time, and eating homemade ronto wraps and way too much ice cream

[toestalucia]

guy whos gonna feel like a fraud whenever they end up supporting someone to move on

[m-e-w-666]

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[iteratorsex]

monk and survivor

[bestagons]

If These Sheets Were States + Dan & Phil ©

[roamingswtor]

Been working on a ref/outfit sheet for my twi'lek smuggler, Reena! Finished the nude and Zakuulan dress versions. Now to work on her actual in-game outfit

[twilightalks]

oi voces tem dicas de como montar um blog e principalmente montar tags específicas para rpg?

Oi, cinza!

Eu andei pensando sobre sua ask e fazendo algumas buscas para ver se achava algo que pudesse ser bom para responder aqui. Partindo de que o blog seria no tumblr, essas são as dicas que tenho pra você:

Escolha um Tema Simples e Funcional

Prefira temas limpos, com navegação fácil e um espaço para colocar suas tags organizadas. Temas com um menu lateral ou um sistema de navegação por tags ajudam bastante.

Crie uma Página de Navegação

No Tumblr, você pode criar uma página fixa com links organizados para suas postagens por categoria. Isso ajuda novos visitantes a encontrarem conteúdo mais facilmente.

Use uma Bio Clara

Deixe claro qual é o foco do seu blog e o que as pessoas vão encontrar ao acessar ele!

Já sobre a parte de tags, acreditamos que @jackhelps poderia ajudar melhor nisso do que nós! 😊

[iteratorsex]

I believe in a world where fp and moon can ascend and not rubicon style no

[unluckyxse7en]

I'm cracking up at what I got

Because IMMEDIATELY when I closed the tab this is the one revealed beneath it:

ALL BECAUSE I WAS THROWING TOGETHER A DISCORD-THEMED BRACELET TODAY, BY SHEER CHANCE, AND THEN THE WHEEL GIVES ME HECKING ✨️CHAOS✨️ AS MY POWER AREA

H E L P

You discover that you have control over a certain thing, as determined by spinning this wheel. We're talking full-on magical girl/superhero/supervillain/your label of choice control.