#this is the bottomline

[magicalflowerlight]

The Sopranos〡S1E8

[bloggingboutburgers]

I like sex and romance but only in fiction so I react with absolute disgust at self insert stuff. I know it won't disappear but I just... Really dislike the shift in fandom these last years. We aren't just fans of characters, obviously if you love one you want to have sex with them. Tag of them is filled with horny post.

Yeah sex was present before! But it was mostly around bl ship. It still exist to this day but there's much more self insert than before

And yeah don't be sex negative, don't shame women... But you always have the one to make an effort. It's never tagged. everyone is assumed to be into this.

A character can't be appreciated without loading him with romance and sex. Even canon aroace characters suddenly get hit by the "it's just fiction" argument because they can't do anything with a character than ship stuff

And today I realized.... it'll never change. Because to them all, we don't exist, and when we do express of we feel we are party popper, we shame them, we act superior.

I am basically venting. But I am tired to try to take less space and sugarcoat all I say about this subject so I'm not accused of things I do not say.

We will never be affected. So what's the point of being endlessly nice when we are still compared to plants and robots?

...Yeah, pop off. It gets exhausting, feels like nobody realizes how much it does but it does, so it's only fair to be fed up sometimes.

It's definitely the fact that no one ever seems to make an effort to think of us that gets me. And beyond that, no one ever seems to make an effort to respect us if we dare to voice anything. We're always the ones expected to either adapt, shut up, or idk, "change our minds" or something, like it's all that simple. It's very unbalanced and it gets exhausting.

[kookjinnies]

seokjin and chris martin dancing on rehearsals 🥹

[frankiebirds]

My brain isn't working fantastically right now so this may not be super coherent, but I'm having Thoughts on the way Morgan profiles, especially in season one, where he has these moments of "okay, I'm the unsub. Why do I..." while the rest of the team says "okay, why would the unsub..." even when he's not talking about the psychology of the unsub (which he isn't really in this scene: this scene is him realising that the victim didn't hear the unsub break the silverware because he did it after killing her) even the language he uses differs from the rest of the team.

I don't know. I might come back to this more coherently later, but I think Morgan's empathy is one of his strongest traits, and I think the fandom, and sometimes the writers, forgets that in lieu of portraying him as Macho Man #503 (can't imagine why... /s)

I think the rest of the team, as skilled as they are, tends to stand on the outside and guess what being on the inside may have felt like, while Morgan tries (and often succeeds) at getting inside.

[alien-ally]

i just... want to point out the way yoh looked at the end of ep 7... a little scared, breathing heavy, filled with anticipation,,, especially once segasaki said it suits him...

[such-a-downer]

Well, you see, Oshi No Ko fandom.exe has crashed

No need for the full image but yeah, you got the idea

[jmdbjk]

So can I ask do you think they are a couple or not ? Your own opinion?

Because I saw you mentioning whatever it is many times lol usually Jikookers here does that when they feel they were/are not a couple.

Hey, Anon.

For one thing, it is none of my business. They are the ones who have the right to say anything about something that personal.

I only say things from what I observe. I'm not in their bedroom.

But I will say this much: over the years I have seen Jimin and Jungkook's behavior toward each other occasionally step over the line of "bro culture" skinship and more into a grey area of "what was that? that was not heterosexual behavior" I don't care how much you buy into skinship, some of their behavior is not that either. There are moments of tender touches that are somewhat ever so slightly too tender for it to be in the friend zone when Jungkook massages Jimin's neck... or lips touching necks (after hours, not in front of a camera) and we find out about it later? lips on ears? If you think that is something your (hypothetically) straight brother and his straight friends would do, you will probably come to a certain conclusion that straight guys do that. If your straight brother and his straight friends would NEVER do such a thing... that's different conclusion. Am I right?

We all bring our own life's experience into this thought process so I encourage everyone to watch original content and draw your own conclusions without listening to people pushing a narrative.

I also think if Jimin and Jungkook did not want us to think certain things about them, they would cease behaving certain ways. So my thoughts there are that they are secure in whatever their relationship actually is so they don't care what we think. But it is still their choice whether to publicly state whether they are or aren't.

For myself, I am not going to declare something like that to the world about them when its not my place to do so.

I am curious as to why my opinion about it is important? Who cares what I think? You gonna write me off because I've not declared which side I'm on?

[ice-devourer]

gonna go to my local fav cafe tomorrow and start reading my pdf of The Biographical Literature of Mori Ōgai!! i’m shaking from excitement AAAAHHH!!!

[grvntld]

09 june 2023—we finally got a break from all the buzz in our lives! my gosh izzo frkn nice to just go out and have a moment. we watched the latest guardians of the galaxy, and i finally had my latest coco milktea fave, which is salty cream mountain tea with egg pudding. today's also my first time to hv fresh lumpia inside the cinema. lmao. my friyay was rlly such a friyay, and i wouldnt hv it any other way!

[yumenikke]

god of course u dadtruder people are mostly proshippers. if this makes you mad go ahead and interact so i can block u. just anyone who is dumb enough to be uwu owo about adam and the intruder

[blorbosexterminator]

Hey, hi! Its been pretty long since I last saw you but I wanted to ask smth :

Will there be a Blockbuster Berlermo 2023?

Hey, Kal!

Yes, I've been ridiculously busy lately, but hopefully all of that will ease soon and I'll have more time to return to berlermo blogging haha.

I definitely hope so! I don't see why not. I really enjoy the annual event and as long as there's at least one other person who wants, then there will be. I hope you have ideas for fics!

[puccafangirl]

"Do you ship Manny, Sid, and Diego as a polyamorous couple? Or as really close friends?"

[alien-ally]

So. Yesterday, a classmate asked me a very interesting question. (I’m out to her btw) Lolol honestly me clarifying in between that i’m actually 100% on the far end of being aro kind of collapsed the quo but i told her to ask away anyway. It was something like ‘Hypothetically, if u happened to meet an arospec person in school and you guys managed to really hit it off together, so much that you felt like you wanted them in your life even after school ended, would it…’ basically you get it. So she wasn’t really asking if i would date them but if it could possibly lead to any kind of partnership/if i could see myself in that sort of a companionship. and actually. what a brain-gear turning quo. The answer is no btw, that’s not the brain gear turning part. cause the quo ties to me Also happening to be aplatonic. which means nothing of that sort has happened to me till now and i frankly see the possibility to be very low. There has never been an instance where i’ve ‘hit it off’ with someone so profoundly that i end up ‘wanting them in my life more intensely’. (which doesn’t mean i don’t ever hit off with people or ever find happiness from having them in my life. No, that would be a gross misconstrue.) Uh anyways, i’m not going to explain the phenomenon of being💥apl💥top to bottom once again, just know that the answer is a direct no for me without any further ruminations. However the brain-gear turning part to me is that i nevertheless see meeting a fellow aroace(apl) person as the next biggest thing to happen in my life. And i have fantasized about it on many occasions. cause that would entail an exquisite kind of understanding i’ve never experienced in my life and mark an important milestone. which i’m sure won’t be happening until later. school is about to end in less than 6 months. So then what would it be like? Given that i am what i am. What form would that grandeur take? What form can it take?

On a lesser note, it also made me aware of the sort of ‘lack of determinism’ on my part. cause i have always been so led to want things i don’t truly want, which part of the yearning is real and which an inherent conditioning? Yeah you don’t see anyone asking straight people if they would ever turn gay but it’s allowed to aspecs? And it’s a thing we repeatedly ask ourselves too due to the same conditioning. Given that growing up and finding partnership doesn’t invalidate your aspec-ness in any way? As harmless a quo (my classmate’s) it was, led to a cascade of thoughts all over again. Good old Aromanticism.

[ragingbullmode]

seeing my edas going around & thats fine (ty for enjoying how i draw her o7) but i got followed by a lotta weirdos 🗿🗿🗿🗿🗿

[tinkertech]

i couldnt tell you the punchline to this to save my life but i remember laughing about it rly hard

[aria0fgold]

Actually the more I think about Halcyon's character the more obvious it becomes how Alec-coded he is it's so unreal orz... The big difference between Alec and Halcyon is that Halcyon is like a combination of Alec and Ray's characters that it becomes even more unreal. Hal isn't just Alec-coded, he's also Ray-coded, oh why have I done this...