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ronanlynchusurper · 1 month ago

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i don’t think we talk enough about declan being equally as down bad and ‘all or nothing’ with romance as ronan is. like yes ronan said he would start wars and burn cities for adam’s true smile, begged god for adam after he first saw him and fortuitously had all his objects of worship were in one downtown block etc but ronan had known adam atleast 18 months at this stage. whereas declan really risked it all to get tyrian purple overnight for a first date gift after ONE conversation…the man was discussing their marriage as a ‘when’ not an ‘if’ before we even saw them kiss like what’s his excuse lmaoo

#and I know he went all in bc he never could before and honestly this is the only accurate way to respond to Jordan’s presence #like your real king it’s ok I understand #and I know that there is a deeper character growth at play with their relationship development and I could get into the analysis of it #but on a surface level this is really funny to me #like Declan is scowling over Ronan telling Adam his secrets in cdth acting like Adam is a loose thread #but then proceeds to upend his life for Jordan after probably 2 week-2months of knowing her #I love men who love like this to be clear #at dinner someone makes a joke abt ronan being downbad for adam early on and declan is joining the teasing & jordan is like hm remember when #the person teasing ronan is either henesssy or adam himself #like ronan jokes about how gross and romantic bluesey is or soemthing when asked how their friends are doing #and adams like don’t let him fool you he made me a mixtape before we got together all teasing #and henessey is like pffft I saw some class A pining from this fucker #and right when Declan joins in Jordan is like lmao Declan you mentioned our wedding before we kissed don’t even try to tease your brother rn #and then Matthew starts asking questions that unintentionally embarrass both his brothers abt them being romantic #and Declan and Ronan are sitting there embarrassed and glaring at each other out of annoyance and also solidarity #but also they wouldn’t change a thing and are secretly proud that they love their partners so much #the urge to write jordeclan with background pynch fanfiction is returning #declan lynch #ronan lynch #the raven cycle #trc #tdt #the dreamer trilogy #adam parrish #jordan hennessy

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call-me-pup2 · 25 days ago

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Ask follow up questions 🗣

You know, actually try and find information about the person you're talking to thats deeper than just, for example, finding out the name of their favourite movie. Ask them why its their favourite, would they recommend it, how does watching it make them feel, there's so many details to get!

Its not that hard to show a little interested because otherwise you just look like you don't actually like the person you're talking to 🥴

(This isn't about my asks on here lol I mean in actual one to one conversation)

#it took me way too long to realise thats what happens basically anytime i talk to folk #like i knew it felt one sided but i just thought i asked a lot of questions #recently understood that nope i just genuinely wanted to learn deeper details #and it wasnt a two way street #like you can learn so much about someone when you ask little side questions #that's how an actual conversation between two people that like each other should be!#when i like someone i want to learn all the things about them because its fun #im on one about this topic lol #but its so true and its ridiculously bad nowadays #i dont understand how anyone expects to make a genuine connection when the conversation is so surface level #reeeeee #no clue why i wanted to post this but its been kicking about my brain for the last few so imma dump it out here #do with the information as you will #and if it wasnt clear i did in fact not make it to bed by 2am since its now 6am #tired pup has all the brain things and 0 filter sooo #okay i really should try and sleep now since one of my siblings is coming to hang out this afternoon lol #feel free to comment or leave asks or whatever about the actual post topic if yah want #im not like grumpy as such or maybe i am in general? more frusted i think #and annoyed i wasnt able to call someone out on this in the moment because it didnt click this is what was happening but ah well #i know now and so do you so we can all do better right? right?!#okay imma go for reals now #my tags do be descending into madness #a cookie for the people that made it to this point 🍪

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silverthelovebug · 1 year ago

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We never really got to see them hang out one on one during the events of Camp Cretaceous (except once, and they were competing to see who’s lack of a childhood gave them the better skill set so) Idk, we only get a snippet of their dynamic in Chaos Theory, I just think their friendship (especially as adults) would be pretty interesting :3

(Yes, some of these are headcanons ^^)

(Look, you don’t just sprain/break your ankle on concrete and not have lasting consequences without the proper treatment. Yaz was running on that foot on the daily !! And you can see it still affected her all the way through Season 3 !!! So, yeah, Hits her with the chronic pain beam)

( ‼️Also Major Chaos Theory Spoilers ‼️)

#jurassic world #jurassic world chaos theory #jurassic world camp cretaceous #jwcc #jwct #jwct spoilers #brooklyn jwcc #brooklyn jwct #yasmina fadoula #disability #They’re the type of people who you wouldn’t see becoming friends but their personalities actually mesh really well #They’re both haters /j #Yaz can walk and run just not for an extended period of time #which I feel like is another reason she quit track outside of her PTSD #trauma bonding question mark ?#Aromatic Brooklyn is canon fight me/JOKE #Bc I feel like her feelings for Kenji were more “I know you on a deeper more personal level and you’re extremely close to me”#rather than valuing dates or other romantic things of the sort #like I feel like she appreciates them but it’s not the most important thing about being with someone in her eyes #I feel like Baby Talk is just kinda her thing though #rant over lmao

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transingthoseformers · 2 months ago

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aughhhh now I want to think about a no war / post war froidrung colleagues to rivals/enemies to rival colleagues with benefits au where they, unfortunately, get sucked into a complex dynamic, and I would call it Rescheduling Conflicts

#maccadam #transformers #froid #rung #froidrung #rungfroid #mtmte froid #mtmte rung #Froid misses Sunder (dead) in a peculiar way that makes every story he tells about him sound batshit wild to everyone else #Nobody knows Rung is Primus yet. Maybe_ here_ they never learn.#Froid remembers Rung where everyone else forgets #Rung knows Froid on a deeper level than anyone else at this point #someone will get bailed out of jail #suggestive #a little #did I write an entire post_ reread the phrase rescheduling conflicts_ and decide that would be a banger au name instead??#yes #yes I did

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gammija · 3 months ago

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genuinely, it's so funny to me when jon.elias shippers hate j.mart for the specifically stated reason that "martin isnt good for jon". Yes, the guy with realistic flaws and traits that occasionally create conflicts with Jons own flaws and traits is bad for him, so jmart is toxic. Jon deserves someone who treats him right.

In fact, you know who's good for Jon? The person who effectively used him as a puppet, made a plan centered on scarring him for life 13 times and executed it without remorse, then used his body to end the world, an experience so horrifying that Jon would rather literally kill everyone on earth than risk someone else feeling it too. Now that's a guy Jon deserves!

#not gonna maintag this #i feel like over text this sounds angrier than i mean it #because like. i dont care if you prefer jonelias over jonmartin #have fun with it i can see the appeal even if i don't personally enjoy it #but the specific reason that jonelias would be better -IN CANON- because Martin is bad for Jon.....#lol. lmao. rofl even.#it's such a specific reading of the text #its very... dramatic. jmarts conflicts arent dramatic. they're mundane. thats why they bother people #but marking someone and using them to end the world... that's Drama. Fantasy. doesnt really count as a real life horrible thing to do #spurred on by a recent post but it's an argument ive seen several times #i get that in a more nebulous sense the je argument is that Elias like... pushes Jon to reach his full potential. or understands him #on a deeper level or smthn #it's just. like i said. a funny argument to use against jmart in a canon context #joos yaps #ok gotta spoiler tag tho #tma s5 #- i mean jmarts conflicts CAN be dramatic (finale...) but for the most part it's talking past each other #martin making an insensitive comment here and there #jon not knowing how much to communicate so communicating v little #martin purposely acting dumb so he doesn't have to face reality #mundane shit that gets under peoples skin way easier than 'literally ended the world'#but i think i can say... from jons perspective... ending the world is 🤏 a tad more egregious than not listening to him sometimes

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oreolesbian · 2 years ago

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the absolute lack of media literacy from people who haven’t even seen oppenheimer is making my head spin but whatever

#like - every three seconds it’s someone talking about how it’s us military prop or it doesn’t cover the atrocities well etc etc #when a) it is so definitely NOT us propoganda- it is so clearly critiquing the us military and oppenheimer himself #and b) it doesn’t cover every small detail of the impacts of the bomb bc that’s not what the film is about #it is a screenplay adapted from a biography on oppenheimer #it is about him - a biopic - and how he got to the point of making atomic weapons and ends on a note of undeniable horror #it is a movie that constantly bombards you with anxiety bc you have the burden of knowing the future #it is not in any way forgiving anything - it acknowledges the fucked up nature of the situation #hell it’s mostly a courtroom drama that shows how fucked up mccarthyism was #i’m a big history buff - so this plays a lot into it #but y’all have GOT to just stop seeinf things on a surface level and engage with media w/ a deeper mindset of just ‘thing bad’#anyway - sorry it bothers me a lot #there are genuine criticims that can be leveled at both nolan and this film and i have seen them #im not sitting here calling the end all be all of cinema - but it’s a well made movie w/ something interesting to say and evaluate #not wanting to see it is one thing - by all means - but wringing it through the mud w/ absolutely no knowledge of the actual content of -#the film itself is actively annoying #media literacy #oppenheimer #mini rant

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theblob1958 · 5 months ago

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google search how to become comfortable with physical affection in one week. how to not feel awkward about dating someone. how to be normal about kissing.

#doesnt date someone ->god i wish i could get a girlfriend. dates someone -> feels intense awkwardness and shame about any physical affection #''what's your comfort level of lhysical contact'' i didnt knoooooww i just got comfortable hugging my friends the past couple years #girl who is so stunted in physical affection suddenly faced with simply holding hands and doesnt know how to react like a normal person #sorry. realizing i might have deeper problems with this than i thought

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tariah23 · 4 months ago

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wait aren’t rin-tezuka and/or rui-cifer also in the antiblack communist crowd like i could have sworn i just saw rin-tezuka straight up imply that racism against us can be overlooked Recently on one of riotbard’s posts

Ohh I’ve had rui-cifer blocked for a long while now (or this could’ve been a differ rui, I forget-) (these ppl keep slipping through the cracks unfortunately. If this is the same person, I think they were one of the losers making light of black ppl talking about black genocide a few years ago as well but I still see people reblog from them) and I’ve never heard of the other person before but they’re one of those people crying about that “if someone watched these anime, would you think that they’re pedos-“ poll (sm ppl that are crying about it has either been weird about kids or has loli or whatever in their bios, at least from the few I’ve blocked in passing...)

#can’t take these ppl seriously and they’re on their blog using the ‘if you think these ppl are creeps for liking these shows then you’re #being transphobic-‘ as if these things correlate at all like huh #I haven’t seen anyone talk about how trans women connect with boochi or whatever it’s a strange thing to stretch when the poll #was started with a surface level question to begin with #nothing deeper than that #I hate tumblr sm man #and don’t let someone be white and lgbt they’re gonna bad faith all day and make everything about them for some reason when no one even #mentioned trans people in the poll about nothing 😭…….#I’m still surprised at how many ppl took the poll that seriously but it’s just a case of anime fans being offended just because of the #things they like being associated with creeps which I get but at the same time it’s never that serious #thank you for mentioning the antiblackness from this person in particular I rly don’t care to go through their blog fr but they’re posts #are already annoying so I’m blocking just off of that lol #antiblackness #tkf replies #anonymous #if I reblog from any of these ppl just know I most likely will wasn’t paying too much attention tbh I’ve been out of the loop tumblr wise #because of work 🗿

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fictionadventurer · 1 year ago

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Sorry, all other sitcoms. "I'm Larry, this is my brother Darryl, and this is my other brother Darryl" is the funniest concept in the history of comedy and I'm afraid it's unbeatable.

#one of these days i'm going to have to convince you guys to watch newhart #not all the concepts work but the ones that work are amazing #see also: the way i am constantly thinking about the always-aborted character arcs for michael #that man fascinates me because he and steph are so horrible and shallow and so happy being horrible and shallow #but every once in a while he shows a glimmer of something that could become a little bit human #if he chose to want something even a tiny bit deeper than surface level stuff #i don't know how they manage to make me care about someone so awful and silly

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girl-of-ink · 1 year ago

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Posts about gaylor by non gaylors and especially non swifties are honestly so funny. They're like "STOP listening to Taylor Swift and critically analyzing her writing 😡😡😡" like. No???

#especially love the comments on one post just now that included someone asking “queer subtext?? WHAT queer subtext???”#and “i genuinely don't know how gaylors can think she's gay”#like obviously! you actively dislike taylor and as such refuse to critically engage with her work #often in a misogynistic manner where you claim there ARE no layers of subtext or deeper meanings to her songs #(bc she's a woman you don't like and therefore she's incapable of nuanced and important art)#anyway.#just basically it's funny when people say they don't understand why people think taylor's music has gay subtext #while refusing outright to engage with her art on a critical level at all #morgan rambles #my ramblings #taylor swift #gaylor #gaylor swift

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strawberrytalia · 2 years ago

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