#traditonalism

[thecurlyhousefairy]

Reasons why I won’t regret being a stay at home mother (even if I were to divorce, or something happened)

I married a capable man who has only developed and grown since we got together. If we were to divorce, the law is on my side and I would still get by with child support, even without working.

Said capable and loving man has a huge insurance in case he dies, so me and my baby would be able to live a couple years on it and I would have enough time to make my own business, as I despise corporate and would never go back to it. That if I don’t remarry first.

Why would I remarry?

Because my baby deserves a father. Because the world is full of loving people and I believe in my capacity to heal.

I don’t know if I would remarry if I ever, god forsakes, became a widow, and I don’t ponder on that. BUT, if I were to divorce, I would absolutely remarry, and here is why:

I would only divorce if my husband is completely out of integrity. If he did things like cheating or gambling or becoming addict, or became physically and emotionally abusive. Those are not small things. If he ever decided to dirty his soul like that I have the right to keep going, for me and my family. If he ever decided to forget his path, I still have the right to be happy and to have a family.

I married so the law would protect me. I chose a capable men so my family could be sustained. I also chose to cultivate myself so if he didn’t have a job for a while or he was sick, I could work too, I have hands and a capable mind. I’m safe, and no matter what, I would keep going.

Even if I ended in a tight situation, these years with my baby have been worth it. She is so educated, she is so loving, we have so many memories, so many little traditions. I’m her love and she is mine, and nothing can ever make me regret that.

So I won’t ever regret it.

This post is a little bit crude but I think it’s important to talk about this stuff. We not only decide to stay at home and forget about our future. We are deciding what’s best for us and our family every instant, it guides our path. And for us, being traditional is right ❤️

[grrlterrier]

Tag yourself

[cornflakesdoesart]

Little zine I drew this past sunday at the Budapest comic festival at a "workshop" , theme was spring!

[frostedmagnolias]

Morning at the pond of Rastede, 1906

Hugo Duphorn (German, 1876-1909)

[idrawr16yt]

Strange inspiration today🙈

[spaghetti-doodlesart]

[tombraiderrocker]

If they claim they can cure your condition that you have been told is incurable, run. If they claim they cured themselves, run. If they claim they have cured everything from cancer to lupus holistically, run. If they claim you have to buy only supplements from them, run. If they claim they that only thing that will cure is x but x costs tons of money, run. If they refuse to run tests or address your diagnosed conditions before insisting you do an expensive treatment not covered by insurence, run. If they offer a one size fits all treatment/cure, run.

I have been scammed by "holistic" and "naturalistic" people before as a chronically ill person. In fact it was an actual doctor who went to medical school who scammed me for years. So watch out. If it seems too good to be true it probably is.

[simonn0el]

I Hope The Guilt Eats You Alive

[disfuccional-mayu]

A page of my sketchbook with drawings of Mizuki with differents types of outfits that I saw on pinterest and I thought would look great on her!

[kellkyy]

Leagues under the sea

[zuccnini]

Slither Wings Flower Field

[tosteur-gluteal]

Mob man and fart kun

[thatsalotofsemen]

I heard tumblr likes frögs

[lulila-safu]

[novelteeth]

eat ☼ the ☼ sun

[inchplant]

pixel puppy