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Am I mentally deranged if I want be loved like in a fantasy romance book?
#with a bit of spice of course#unrealistic standards#actually bpd#bpd#bpd culture is#bpd feels#bpd safe#bpd vent#bpd problems#bpd thoughts#cluster b#fantasy#romance
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Mfs will say they know the cure for inceldom then proceed listing absurdly high requirements just to be with someone who's mid while the same 10-20% top-tier men can get nearly whoever they want merely due to attractiveness
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just in general i dont really like the slow and steady uptick in posts encouraging people to pick apart their behaviors for something that can be vaguely classified as ocd. please dont let this be the next new trendy internet diagnosis that gets watered down into nothing
#im still not over that post that said if you critique the democratic party it means you must have moral ocd bc ur holding them to#unrealistic standards
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Can we just normalize body hair on women already…?
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Like I mean, seriously y'all... I don't want to spend four hours in the shower every two nights shaving every part of my body to appear smooth and hairless like society sells us to be… ;-;
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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ I AM A WOMAN. ˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥
I HAVE NORMAL BODY HAIR, ON MY ARMS, FACE, TORSO, LEGS, UNDERARMS, BACK, BUTT, WOMAN PARTS, FINGERS, AND EVEN MY TOES!
SOME OF IT IS DARK AND COURSE, SOME IS LIGHT AND FINE, SOME MIGHT JUST BE PEACH FUZZ…
💖 IT’S NORMAL. I’M BEAUTUFUL. 💖
☆‧͙⁺˚*・ IF YOU THINK OTHERWISE YOU GO HUG ON A RAW CHICKEN IF THAT’S WHAT YOU LIKE, YOU PIECE OF UNREALISTIC TRASH… ☆‧͙⁺˚*・
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(Just needed that off my chest...)
#women body hair#normalize women body hair#female body hair#female#fake female standards#fake society standards#unrealistic standards#unrealistic women standards#unrealistic female standards
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Anyone else felt knocked upside the head by the casting for Duan Jiaxu and Sang Yan?? This is what I get for thinking they were going to pull exact webtoon replicas out of ✨thin air✨
CUZ GIRL—— WHAT IS THIS?




They’re handsome, but compared to the god tier art?? has me like-

#hidden love#hidden love: can’t be concealed manhwa#hidden love: can’t be concealed#hidden love drama#sang yan#duan jia xu#how could u do this to me#they massacred my boy#dafuq#unrealistic standards
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My standards:
"Man, I'd love to have a cute girlfriend who understands me and thinks I'm funny and also makes jokes, who likes anime and games and is self ironic and kind and sweet and also as weird as me."
Also my standards:
"I'd take anyone at this point. As long as they breath."
Also also my standards:
"Sans. Actually, skeletons. Actually fictional monster characters. Non humans. Let's settle on non humans. "
#unrealistic standards#Dating is hard when you don't even try to put yourself out there#“Mmm i wonder why i don't have a pardner”#I'm a dumbass#Srsly tho#Why skeletons so hot?
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👉 THE DUMBEST THINGS SOCIETY EXPECTS FROM YOU BY 21.

move out at 18
pay for college
get a “real job”
buy a car
save money
be independent
buy a home by 30
and smile through it
…with what money, exactly?
🧾 THE REALITY:
rent: $1.7k/month
avg income at 20: $41k
student debt: $38k
39% of 20-somethings live with their parents
youth unemployment: 10–15% globally
most of us won’t own a home before 35+
but sure, go get that mortgage and build a “career.”
you’re not behind. you’re being crushed under expectations from a timeline that expired in the 1990s.
this is a system failure — not a personal one.
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#societal expectations#broke at 21#housing crisis#student debt#cost of living#gen z rant#dead economy#job market lies#career pressure#rent inflation#homeownership#side hustle#digital income#faceless hustle#gumroad seller#unrealistic standards#broke proof#pdf hustle#capitalism burn#timeline lies
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HEY. smells like Someone™️ doesn't even know how fucking badass they ALREADY are. so this is ur reminder to recognize that within yourself!!! remember that focusing on others constantly will always rob you of your own happiness!!! recognize yourself first!!!!
#this is also to remind myself of this#comparison is and will always rob yourself of happiness#envy#unrealistic standards#and comparison#will never bring you towards anything sustainable#in the age of social media it's easy to lose sight of that but PLEASE listen to me#youre okay#you've always been okay#GREAT even#keep going
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lost focus and had a consensual workplace relationship
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The way he’s a struggle to hold for some…. Fat babey
Metric Fuck Ton of Baby
#can’t be expecting rewind to hold a fully grown dude#tailgate begins to set unrealistic standards for his fellow minibots#they suffer egregiously#asks
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It is amazing how the "people that love and uplift transwomen" website will instantly fucking maul a transwoman if she even remotely insinuate that using radfem rhetoric harms trans people
#this is about punkitt making a post literally just saying ''you shouldn't treat masculinity as a threat because it harms trans people''#and straight up getting death threats over it#how is it so hard for people to understand that treating masculinity as a threat directly harms transwomen#that it treats transwomen who show any sort of masculinity as a failure#it reminds me of trans people on 4chan because it enables so much self-loathing#you cannot argue ''men/masculinity are inherently evil'' and claim it's different from radfem/TERF rhetoric because you're trans#it just projects unrealistic body standards onto women#many women including cis women have masculine traits. I know women who have stubble and grow shittons of body hair#like—''biological sex'' is NOT a binary it is a social construct just like any other#and also only hyper focusing hate on masculinity because of patriarchy isn't an effective way of addressing patriarchy at all#hating a group of people based on their traits is not the same as being progressive. acknowledging—and more importantly. teaching people—#—and how it gives them certain privileges over others and to call it out and dismantle those systems is so fucking powerful you have no idea#also I'm going to be so for real with you. the vast majority of transmen do NOT have the privilege you think they do#it's the privilege of being able to pass more than anything. which any trans person would know thats really fucking hard!!!#I love rambling in the tags so much it's so great#sorry for this lol#queer discourse#also addendum: when I say 'women' it's all encompassing. if anyone gets pissy at me for saying 'women' and thinking I'm not including —#—transwomen in that then I'm killing you! you are the problem!
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when i'm in a yearning competition and my opponent is ao3 jack abbot
#the pitt#jack abbot#mohabbot#rabbot#like hello????????#i love how we all collectively agreed that a) that man is a yapper and b) he YEARNS like there's no tomorrow#and i eat that shit UPPPP#i blame him for making my standard for men unrealistically high
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for some reason my roommates and i were on the topic of favorite animals, and one of them (lets call her Roomba) was laughing rlly hard for some reason.
Roomba says "okay, tell me your fav animal and 3 reasons why and then ill tell you why im laughing"
so my other roommate (lets call her Hershey) goes first, she says "I like killer whales because theyre the biggest in the ocean, and they have spots that look like eyes, and they have huge teeth"
Roomba says "i like sharks because they were the first animal i researched in school, they stay in their lane & they're cute"
i think reallllyy hard because i cant pick a favorite and eventually go with my fav when i was a kid. i say "cheetahs bc they can run up to 65 mph, they have a special ribcage to go fast, and they have cool spots"
so then Roomba shares that she was laughing bc in the past she had a kooky roommate that insisted on psychoanalyzing every single thing, so when this roommate repeatedly asked Roomba her fav animal and 3 reasons why, she revealed that "it shows what you want in a partner"
so Roomba wants a partner she can research (?) that is cute and stays in their lane
Hershey wants a large partner (not just large, but the LARGEST) with fake spots for eyes and huge teeth
and I want someone who can run 65 mph, has a special ribcage to help them go fast, and has spots.
so basically, if you or anyone you know fits my criteria, hit me up i guess
#dia talks#soon as i said 65mph roomba fell on the floor laughing. Reasonable#more unrealistic standards for men i guess#what can i say i know what i want
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