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otamotone-dnp · 2 years
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teamsasukes · 1 year
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people rightly criticize how team 7 reacted to sasuke's pursuit of justice for his clan, but one thing i feel is always overlooked in these discussions is how sakura literally is not granted the option by the narrative to learn about what sasuke has been through — not in the way that naruto, kakashi, or even team taka are. throughout all of part 2, she is operating under the assumption that sasuke killed itachi and then turned on the village for no apparent reason.
in part 1, she offers to help sasuke with his plan to kill itachi and even says she'll come with him so he won't have to handle a clearly dangerous and unstable sannin alone. she tells him she wishes he would be more open with her because she wants to understand what he's going through. (all of this stands in stark contrast to naruto, who says he'll break every bone in sasuke's body to bring him back, or kakashi, who projects his own traumas on to sasuke.) then in part 2, she can't bring herself to hurt him despite ample opportunity and even though (as far as she knows) he's become a violent criminal. throughout the series, she's averse to inflicting harm on others (aside from the punching naruto gag). is it really so unreasonable to imagine that if she knew sasuke was avenging the state-sponsored genocide of his clan, she would respond differently? with more empathy and compassion for his circumstances, and anger of her own towards konoha?
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deluweil · 4 months
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I feel like the characters of Buck and Eddie's specifically are so underdeveloped it borders on crime at this point.
Because Buck has traveled all over the world, he was a so called sex addict, and sought (still seeks) attention from every breathing relatively human form he comes across.
He was a bartender and his communication skills are limited to flirting mode (see 911 LS hold the line) - It's like right there where TK from LS felt the need to tell Buck that he has a boyfriend - and you're telling me he never experimented?? Never been kissed by a drunken man?
He has gay friends, has he never been to a gay club??
And Eddie! The man was in the army, he was never in love with Shannon, he loved her - sure - she was the mother of his child, they had sexual chemistry but there was nothing there emotion wise.
Also often they'd have sex after they were reunited to avoid actually talking to each other.
Eddie went and reenlisted to a job he knew there was a fair chance he may not return home alive from, to avoid actually having to deal with the realization of Christopher's diagnosis and not being able to adjust and not wanting to be a husband to Shannon.
He didn't want to get married, he did that because he knocked her up not because he wanted to get married - his way of running was enlisting. - It was his personal suicide mission. - Like he said in 5X14 - his friends are gone and he's still here - "not sure why." - it wasn't just survivor's guilt, he never planned to live in the first place.
And you're telling me that with all his time spent with soldiers most of them men, not thinking about his wife, just his son - because when he was in a dire situation it wasn't a picture of Shannon and Christopher, it was just Christopher.
And in 3X15, He does see Christopher but he also sees BUCK! ALOT!
Are you telling me that in this very intimate connection he has with Buck, that he seems so comfortable in - there was nothing similar that preceded that? Eddie broke down when he found out all his friends from the army were dead, was there something more there? Other than failing to save them from themselves and bad luck?
I feel like 7 seasons later and all I know of Buck and Eddie from before can be summarized in one paragraph each and nothing more - I can write articles about what I deduced watching them with each other the past 7 seasons, but nothing that explains that intense, intimate, tension underneath the surface between them.
I want to know where it's buried. Give me less LIs and chemistry-less relationships - And give me a history that can connect me to the here and now, that explains what made Buck and Eddie, almost instantly, BuckandEddie - buddie.
I want them to be developed characters, and not just the scratch the surface we got so far.
I have so many questions!!!
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vulpinesaint · 3 days
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i just think that their actual relationship where they care about each other and want each other to be safe and their conflict is based on the moral conflicts that arise from venom's definition of "justice" is so much more interesting than the "wow i hate my ex" relationship that some people seem to want them to have. people hate to see two people have an amicable divorce and still care about the person they used to be with. and still see the person they used to be with even beyond the way they've both changed. anyway
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wyfy-meltdown · 10 days
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I'm on page 5535 and oh wow I fucking hate Jane
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joshuaalbert · 1 year
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I don’t think about actual show jack ever unless I’m forced to but beverly’s weird little adopted changeling kid jack…..he is in my brain a little bit I will not lie to you
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odysseys-blood · 10 months
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while im trying to fall asleep i dont think ive ever shared one of the most personal reasons i hate the big reveal about the dual mizukis in aini
so one thing i related to with mizuki in the original aitsf was her relationship with shoko. despite how much shoko hated mizuki and loathed her for not being a perfect child (which is not something that exists but that is the point when you think of why her treatment of mizuki is so cruel its an unobtainable task for her) mizuki still loved her. because that is her mother. the person who gave birth to her. no matter how terribly mizuki was treated she thought it would all be okay if at the end of the day she could make shoko proud of her.
and i get it! hell im sure plenty of us do. ill be the first to say i am not my mother's favorite child. i spent so much of my childhood being berated and insulted for this or that, asking for nothing making myself small and doing everything i could to make her proud only to get a 'do better'. being called slow and having my intelligence diminished so often and made to feel useless for years but at the end of the day she's my mother and i wanted to prove i could be a child she could love. and i found companionship with mizuki in that!
and then aini tears that all away and is like "nope she's a clone and adopted :)" like please fuck offfffff this sucks.
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highlifeboat · 1 year
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Elizabeta's moms constantly make stupid mom jokes :p But they make Donna laugh so hard🤣🤣
(She has low standards for humor... Or more like no standards :p)
Nah because Donna can definitely tell where Elizabeta gets her own humour from. Because her and her moms make almost identical jokes.
And Donna thinks they're hilarious but doesn't actually show it beyond maybe a snort, but Angie would be on the floor.
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lilgynt · 1 year
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#personal#my mom told me yesterday my brothers paying to have my door replaced today or tomorrow bc he misses me and thinks is affecting our#relationship badly#and she wasn’t supposed to tell me but i’m glad she did cause like#she tried saying she’s getting it replaced immediately grilled her on where the fuck she got that money since i know we have more important#issues and she IMMEDIATELY snitched#anyway i feel complicated. thank you for the door. that you already said you would do. what was the point of all of this#and i’m re reading the messsges maybe i was too mean but also 8 months no door and everyone being mean to me about it#he told my mom he misses me and she said how sweet it was to hear that and i should consider just. letting this go#and she doesn’t want to minimize the door or what it represents beyond just the door#but didn’t really get it when i was like it matters if he’s doing this bc he misses me or bc he thinks he did anything wrong#like he can do both but. i just want to know he’s not thinking i’m some brat for asking for something? normal? or that this won’t happen#again cause this always happens.#she was like isn’t it more romantic that he misses you so much he doesn’t care if he’s right or wrong? girl what the fuck are you on#anyway i feel weird bc like. it’s nice but i didn’t need him to shell this out#and i feel oddly like a brat to get this expressed done from when i said im upset with him#like 20 days later but feels fast. and i wish he could have reached out and talked to me#but also i’ve been so angry and resentful i don’t know if i’d want to talk especially if it’s just the same convo over and over#i don’t need grand gestures i just wish this stuff wouldn’t happen in the first place#and i’m worried that after the door my mom will get upset if i’m still upset with my brother after#and i’m not sure how he thinks we’re gonna get back to talking if i can’t acknowledge he got the door.#like can’t be like hey thanks! also we need to talk about how you use money instead of ur words.#like in this case i genuinely really needed the door but also it’s just hard to be like hey you did this thing that was unacceptable#also thanks for the full tank of gas dinner and 100 bucks. unprompted. anyway it’s unacceptable-#like it sounds stupid right? anyway i don’t know if he’ll tell me or just try to slide back into talking without ever talking about it#i don’t know and i feel like an asshole no matter what route i go#but will say funny i hid that he broke it from him and he’s hiding that he’s fixing it for me something something#i just feel weird about it. i miss him but also don’t miss getting shit from him or the other one lately i’m just#honestly doing my own thing and just getting through the day or enjoying it too much to think about him sometimes#but i do miss him and i don’t want to be constantly fighting or arguing with my family. it’s not a nice feeling.
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yuridovewing · 1 year
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idc that much about mapleshade's vengence, mapleshade's a character i stopped caring much about the second they were like "she is the cause of EACH AND EVERY CHARACTER'S DARKNESS!!!!" because they want to flaunt the one female antagonist instead of just making a new one. but man everyone saying that her victims were all completely blameless and even that it was ok to let her kittens die, that it was ok for frecklewish to loudly disown them and call them creatures while advocating for them to be homeless because "they didnt even live long enough for it to traumatize them" (and even trying to pin the blame on their deaths solely on mapleshade) rubs me the wrong way so bad
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Is there something Going On universe-energy wise right now (/the whole last week)? Because goddamn things have sucked lately for many of the queer people in my life. Not even in a queerphobia way! Just other stressful life stuff!!
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timegears-moved · 1 year
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#dl#upset at my mom kinda day#still thinking about what happened yesterday#it's not even that she's unhappy with my relationship that bothers me so much (though it does play a part) because i know she knows that#she'll just have to put up with it and accept it#it's the fact that she refuses to treat me like an adult that can make my own decisions#i have to constantly fight her on this#my godmothers and other friends agree that she needs to dial it back but she doesn't and my stepdad only enables her#i know i complained about him recently but im honestly glad that my dad doesn't get that involved with my life and lets me breathe#and for my mom i think it's like a mixture of autistic infantilization (which i have called her out on before) and a reaction to trauma#the latter of which i get why she's doing it but it's not fair for her to take her issues and insecurities out on me#honestly i do feel fine living here but everytime this stupid shit comes up between us i wanna move far away because she makes me#feel claustrophobic with my entire life#i cant get another cat unless she says so even if my landlord approves. i can't use my money in ways she disapproves of.#i can't live at this place or do this thing or wear these clothes without her judgement#i was scared to get my tattoo last month not because of the tattooing process but because of what she would say#i have no fucking agency and she wonders why i never tell her shit#it's because i need to do everything behind her back to be happy and even then i feel guilty about it#idk how many times i have to argue with her on this before she fucking gets it
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skrunksthatwunk · 1 year
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haruka should be allowed to be mad at kiryu tbh
#not just in y6 but like all the time#dont get me wrong i LOVE them and i love them being sweet and happy and i love kiryu being a good dad ok#but kiryu is uh. not always the best. in ways that i think she should be upset about#and i think the canon narrative doesnt rlly wanna address that bc kiryu is trying so hard and that effort must be forgiven#and for a happy ending to occur the family must be reunited#and i get that but like. haruka's side of the story is often ignored completely#or else boils down to unconditional daughter love in ways that are supposed to be admirable#and again. i love these two dearly. i love them very very much. but i think that tension should be explored#their relationship would be Very Complex and i think it would be Messy tbh. not like screaming fighting per se but i think haruka should be#allowed some moments of Uncle Kaz Im Sick Of Your Shit type stuff#im not even sure why i feel this way specifically bc i know i used to have reasons for it but like. yeah#even if you dont think haruka's justified or that she's missing some details/perspective or whatever i think she should be hurt and upset#about some of The Bullshit. baby girl needs therapy she needs some support and sometimes kiryu just. idk.#anyway go listen to welly boots by the amazing devil. thats basically my thesis statement#look maybe I'm just projecting my own daddy issues or whatever idk. maybe more people should do that with them like. shit#I'll do it someday I'll make that content i swear#sorry thinkjng about the unconditional daughter love again. she's kind of an ideal. she's a fantasy sometimes of a daughter figure who will#always understand how hard you're trying and be cute and love you no matter what. does that make sense??? and it's like. like i almost feel#bad for knocking that bc i get parents are under a lot of stress but i think she should have that power and that agency to be upset with#him. idk if im making sense. she's reduced to the Ideal Daughter and i want her to be loving and kind but with some moments of bitterness
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daydreamerdrew · 1 year
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Iron Man (1968) #51
#gosh this conflict is actually so interesting and it makes sense why they would break up here#but I can definitely see how this could extend into a longer relationship#where she’s always overwhelmed by visions of what he’s experiencing as Iron Man#and she wants emotional support from him for that#but beyond just him not being great at emotional stuff#he feels that she’s making his problems about herself through her powers letting her experience his experiences#and is frustrated that she wants support for what he’s actually going through#and so isn’t sympathetic to what he sees as not actually her problem#whereas she thinks he’s just an indifferent person that doesn’t care about her#which is how she thinks here#but here his conflict is more limited to one action that she took while overwhelmed by a vision in one specific instance#it’s also interesting that earlier in this issue Tony is very openly upset as Iron Man about the failure of a Stark Industries rocket#which the employees initially react to with surprise because they don’t see why he would be so invested in it as say Tony Stark#and here when Tony is contacted by an employee in crisis he’s relieved for the distraction from his personal problem#and is short with the employee who is upset and then says he can’t be as ‘cool and unemotional’ as Tony is#so people are surprised that Iron Man would get upset not because they don’t expect that he would get upset#but that it’s strange that he would react like he has a personal stake in it like Tony Stark does when he is not Tony Stark#whereas the expectation of Tony is that he is cold and unemotional like a robot#which he framed at the end here like it’s a great thing#‘I may be locked inside this iron machine but it’s a machine gifted with awesome power!’#the expected powers of Iron Man but also the ability to express his emotions#and an escape from what he would be expressing emotions about#marvel#tony stark#marianne rodgers#my posts#comic panels
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othercrossee · 2 years
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Could u imagine irida, altho trained for so long to be the next leader, never believed in herself to sucessfully be chosen? how she felt when her name was called upon after all day shed been telling her older friend palina she was the one to take on duty? Could u imagine the anxiety? The feeling that she had betrayed the only person who had treated her with an ounce of care? The feeling that her entire world was shifting? How she had to keep a smile and a prideful look to appear as the correct answer, a strong new leader to lead her people? How she realizes lina and her could never be friends on equal ground? Although it was never equal to begin with?
#z rambles#the *never equal to begin with* is about their age gap and personality differences. palina is older more calm collected responsible caring#and overall she was....perfect in iridas eyes. she admired her. maybe more than a friend and she was guilty#guilty of how much she was holding her driend to such extend but palina? seeinf irida train and become a leader was....conflicting#on one hand she deserves it she worked so hard but why am i. older and better in every way. discarded from the position#she was happy but she was upset. envious? but between them will aythinf change? hadnt they been.....equal?#baaically irida always see palina stabdinf taller better than her snd she was a mother figure she csnt surpass#so there was no equal in that dynamic#and now palina who had always been standinf tall feel irida is now above her and its strange she feels the dynamic had switched#and she wants it ti he normal. the same as back then but it csnt be cuz back then wasnt equal either#they were never stabding on equal ground. they were never close enough to understood each other#u see irida becoming leader wouldve put them on the same level right? but palina sees different and irida feels like its not right either#but rhats her guilt dripping hersekf talking#its just awful#its complex and its awful and things could nevee go back to how it was. cuz no natter what one of them or both will always be unhappy#to me. these two would have a talk and develop their relationship for years#this aint the type of shit that one talk was gonna fix everything. both of them got issues
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Stop putting Bixcassian negativity in the Andor tag, this is so tiring to see. If you don’t like their relationship and want to talk shit about it all the time DON’T TAG THE SHOW OR BIX we have enough hate from the rest of the fandom. There’s no reason to hate them and it’s not “problematic” or anything, just keep these takes away from the Bix and Andor tag
I have put exactly 2 posts in the bix tag in which I even mentioned cassian, and only 1 that expressed a negative opinion about their relationship— and even that one was mainly about not wanting to see their relationship used as a way to "fix" bix, but rather wanting to see her recover through community and her own strength. (The other was about being disappointed with the writers abandoning Bix's character in the last 3 1/2 episodes and removing all her strength and agency so Cassian can finally come and save her— if you interpreted a post about bad damsel in distress stereotypes and sexism in the writing as negativity about their relationship, I really don't know what to tell you.) I agree that putting these posts in something like the bixcassian tag would be incredibly rude, but I didn't do that. I am allowed to tag a show and character to talk about how much I love that character and how I'd like to see her arc develop. Saying "you can't tag a show with opinions about the show that I don't like" and "you can't tag a character if you don't ship her with the same person I do" is incredibly entitled. Those tags are for all of us who are fans of Andor and Bix to share. If you want to see pure bixcassian positivity, you can go to the tags for that ship.
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