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Regarding the difference between tenth doctor and fourteenth doctor, I never read the line that fourteen is more loving than ten as ten being unable to love. Itās quite clear that ten loves his friends and companions, like, a lot. The only difference is that fourteen is better at vocalizing his love than ten due to their personality differences.
Ten is hold back by his trauma and regrets from the time war, so much so that the idea of being the last of his kind is so ingrained in his psyche, that he cannot process the thought that it is entirely possible to have a happy life just as the humans. You could say that ten, whose biggest enemy is none other than he himself, is doomed to end his life in a tragedy from the very beginning. In contrast, fourteen has three regeneration to heal and grow from his own trauma, thus gradually loses the ālonely godā aspect of ten and becomes much more affectionate.
It is not that fourteen loves others more than ten; it is that fourteen is finally capable of saying those lovingly confession that ten never had the chance to say in his life time. In other words, fourteen is actually āhelpingā ten to say what he would actually think, rather than bottling them up and suffering from the consequences afterwards.
#doctor who#tenth doctor#fourteenth doctor#anyway both of them are dearest to me#one is cathartic to watch while the other is a great comfort character#we cannot have one without the others#the specials really confirmed my interpretation that ten could be happy if he decided to have a family with rose or stay with donna#but he canāt. heās really not that kind of character#also his relationship with simm master is not healthy but I love it more than them being wholesome so thatās that
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Actually so tired that people mainly focus on the bdsm when they talk about La Pianiste when we literally have this dynamic right here. Like, that's insane.






What if you were a little girl in her 40's who couldn't grow up because of your mother-wife who made you sleep in her bed and forced you to repress every sexual desires and thoughts of becoming your own person just to keep you close to her ? What if you fought back and yearned for dangerous things out of her reach ? But also, what if you let her because it's all you've ever known and been taught to want ?
#these two are so entangled with each other and in the roles they play#(mother and daughter. husband and wife. prodigal or ungrateful daughter. adoring or mocking mother)#that they cannot handle it when something else is thrown into the mix#There's no space left because they fill all the roles in each other's lives.#but at the same time they never give the other exactly what she wants#The fights never last. Erika will never live up to her mother's ambitions. And her mother will never give her any form of affection which#might satiate her hunger for love. And so on.#They are deeply imperfect- Love and Despise each other but they could never bear the thought of being separated#When I read the part in the book where Erika talks to Walter for the first time and all she wants is to go back into her mother's womb...#you can't make that shi up#when people talk about toxic yuri that's what they could mean but unfortunately we live in a society#gradually learning to accept the person I'm becoming who would've been burned at the stake by my younger self <3#been having so much thoughts about this film once again. And I know that nothing written here is new but I'm a little sad no one really#talks about this relationship online since it's really the heart of the story for me#Of course everything happening with Walter is important. But none of that would be there without the mother-daughter situation#la pianiste#the piano teacher#haneke#sheep stuffs#isabelle huppert#also I'd kinda get it if it was another film and it made people too uncomfortable to talk about it. but I mean this is literally La Pianist#*
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i think the primary reason why K/S has such overwhelming appeal is and always shall be that it is, at its core, a soulmate bond that has to be forged. the only way a t'hy'la bond can manifest is through shared toil, hardships, and undying devotion; it must be given effort and put together piece by piece - but at the same time, by the nature of its creation, it alters all realities on a cosmic level, to the point that Kirk and Spock must meet in every universe.
t'hy'la is not spontaneous. it is not a soulmate mark, it doesn't spring to life at first sight or first touch or first word. it is destined - because it is chosen, time and time again. you cannot have one without the other
#star trek#spirk#k/s#spock#kirk#s'chn t'gai spock#james t kirk#captain kirk#see it's about the will of two people intertwined with the will of the stars. it's about devotion being the Point#k/s said Do Not Separate#so the universe said ugh fine but no soulmate marks no freebies no guarantee you'll ever know each other or fall in love again#and k/s said Bet#see the core appeal of the soulmate tropes is not Spontaneity. it's Reassurance#it is a guarantee that someone out there is Meant to love you and it appeals to people who have been fundamentally Unloved#and k/s still absolutely has That#but at the same time. the core appeal of a slowburn is the time and effort and history it takes to build something lasting and powerful#and k/s is also That in every way#you cannot have one without the other#no destiny without love no love without effort no effort without will no will without life no life without destiny#and it all goes full circle#k/s said we will be Destined because we will make it so
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Anyone else thought about this?
With the popularity of Mouthwashing as a game, I've seen people who talk about it talk about the mouthwash itself as a metaphor for Jimmy (and they're definitely correct in their read imo), but dear god NO ONE is talking about it as a potential metaphor for Pony Express itself as a company.
This is an item considered to be an essential. It is a dental hygiene product dentists would generally recommend you have. 99.9% of bacteria gone - but this one is loaded with sugar. Using this is going to be detrimental to its own cause and probably worse than using no mouthwash at all.
Pony Express? No matter your start, it seems like a good, stable job and a promising future. People will always need goods transported to other planets. It even has a cute mascot representing pride in their work that they sell toys of to kids!
Butttttt, the caveats. Oh boy, the caveats. All of those cute images are done to soften the blow of little red pieces of text about how doing things to the point of basically existing means your credits are going to get docked - something that's just as much Aperture Science-esque dark humor as horrible foreshadowing. Late delivery? Docked. Resting in any manner for more than five hours? Docked. Using medical support in any manner? Docked. REPORTING ISSUES TO HR??? MOTHER. FUCKING. DOCKED.
And trying to avoid any of those dockings; those detriments? Pretty much impossible, and that would spell doom for anyone: including members of a certain ship. With every one of those rules, if they survived that payout would be hilariously low. The usual rules; made by out of touch people in fancy suits.
The members of the Tulpar all (mostly) had reasons to be there, even at radically different life stages. Reasons why they needed the work, and reasons why it should fulfill those reasons and enrich their lives.
It was meant to be Jimmy's ticket away from struggling on earth. It was meant to be Daisuke gaining direction in life. It was meant to be Anya finally getting into medical school. It was meant to be Swansea gaining a stable and fulfilling life as he made it into sobriety, and it was meant to be Curly making it further up into his career path with glowing words of praise.
As per capitalism's usual spiel that we were even shown in the game itself via public domain cartoon, taking this job was meant to be joyous opportunity and innovation for their lives; but with so many flaws in the system around them around them - including the words on those posters - just trying to find benefit in the system they needed in order to survive was nothing more than fatal poison. The dead pixel, the sugar, and the 0.1% all working together.
#husbandothings#basically one clear major read of this game is corpos are just...not fun and a lot of bad things can happen in them#i feel like most people only look at the character angle of things and uh...no meta reference intended but not the bigger picture#it's about human failings and cruelty in a system intended as impossibly robotic by people we dont see we CANNOT have one without the other#jimmy mouthwashing#both together are what make this story really cool imo.#swansea mouthwashing#daisuke mouthwashing#curly mouthwashing#mouthwashing#mouthwashing game#anya mouthwashing#mouthwashing analysis
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albus "I hope I die first, because I can't live without you" potter
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scorpius "I hope I die second, so I can save you from that grief" malfoy
#i spent a very long time debating which way around they would be#had me sweating#do you love someone so much you cannot live without them#or love them so much you hope they never have to live without you#personally am the first āš» my fiance better fucking die after me i cannot be doing that#i know im fucking jinxing it rn#absolutely horrendous we cannot die at exactly the same time im suing#if we do die together in a car crash or smin just know that that is the best case scenario for us lmfao#jilys death is honestly the dream š¤š»š take us out together or dont take us out at all#i cannot imagine scorbus dying seperately im gonna be honest#imagine one of them at the others grave im going to throw up#absolutely not#headcanon that they die by fucking up a potion or even just dinner and setting their house on fire and dying of smoke inhalation together <#hashtag romance šššššš#scorbus#hpcc#scorpius malfoy#albus potter#harry potter#its 6am i havent gone to sleep yet hope this is coherent šš#harry potter and the cursed child#albus severus potter#scorpius hyperion malfoy
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it is very telling that average genshin players cannot comprehend seeing an actual mature, qualified leader that is actually good at taking her job seriously after meeting archons who either is still childish, clowning whimsically, or straight up incompetent.
#it's kinda funny that the best God in terms of actually fulfilling their duties to the T is the mortal one#there's absolutely nothing wrong with the other archons their flaws make their characters extremely compelling#but it's kind of insane to call mavuika bland for being good at her job as if she's still not inherently flawed with the martyrdom complex#people keep pointing out to her: aren't you tired? don't you have dreams of your own? isn't your want important too?#she's such a fascinating character yknow#mavuika#that is#she cares so deeply about the humans in natlan and she has abundant love for them and actively doing things to give natlan a better future#and yet she could NOT remotely take her own advice and wisdom for herself#you kinda have to remember not all archons are here because they want to be archon#nahida did not ask to be an archon neither did ei#and don't even get me started on furina#zhongli and venti take archonhood like parenting as expected from them but they're so ancient that they're entering their silly granpa era#focalors is the first instance we see of 'new' god doing something... godly#she is forever the punkest archon for what she did but her plan still equired a great suffering nonetheless#after all when you want to save your nation by going AGAINST the system you cannot do it without sacrificing a soul or two#which leads me to why people think it's irrational to kill off capitano when what he's doing is also punk#focalors dared celestia by returning the hydro authority to the dragon they stole it from and destroyed hydro throne#forever changing the institution that is The Seven#capitano dared ronova by giving his immortality to lord of the night and by that rewriting ronova's curse on him#he changed the rules of the ley lines forever#anyway.#narratively speaking capitano is a great foil for mavuika and I'm just glad it's him we met in natlan#hyv didn't make the short animated for mavuika just for you to call her bland
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Gonna say something controversial.
Ford Pines is a nuanced character who is neither good nor bad. Absolving him of his crimes is actively a detriment to his character and does a disservice to the storytelling of Gravity Falls, but defining him exclusively by his mistakes without taking the time to understand him is a purposefully bad faith take that actively makes your enjoyment of the show worse.
He is neither a good or bad person, because "good" people and "bad" people aren't real. There's just people. And people fuck up sometimes.
If no one fucked up and if no one held onto those fuckups sometimes out of sheer desperation, the world of fiction would be way more boring, unengaging, and dull.
Ford Pines is a mess and I don't want him to be sanitized or demonized. I just want him to be a mess.
Thank you
#sorry someone keeps sending bad ford takes into a server i'm in and they're getting to me#he's a prideful and arrogant man and also deeply insecure and compensating for that with ego#he wants to be a good person and do the right thing while accepting influence from the worst people in his life because he respects them#he's placed his entire self worth on a pedistal because everyone else held him to that bar#and he'll never reach it because he keeps putting it up higher and higher before he even can#like he coulda published his research at any time but chose not to because he wanted to make a wave in science so big he couldn't be ignore#he felt like if he wasn't someone extraordinary then there was no point to him at all because he cannot be ordinary#it's either excel or be outcasted. and he was done being outcasted#so he used that to build himself up as compensation for that looming feeling#and as a result he tried to reach up as high as he could and took bad deals#bill made it clear; it's the hillbilly or me. he's going to betray you. and as soon as ford thought bill was right it was joever#bill manipulated him onto that train of thought but he ultimately made that call at Greasy's that night#that's the fun part! there's the nuance!!#ford wouldn't have acted that way without bill's influence but bill did not actively tell him to treat fidds like that#it's so interesting because it's so layered and intertwined. so many variables rely on each other to happen.#this is a good man pushed in the worst direction possible by a being who intends him harm and ford is nonethewiser until it's too late#idk why it's controversial to say that i like my ford messy but here we are. i like him messy. he's not an angel but he's not a demon eithe#he's a goddamn human and the show treats him like one#journal 3 and TBOB also support this. hell TBOB's entire *point* was to show how bill managed to manipulate him#and show the horrors that came after. then it showed us that ford has nothing to be ashamed of there. it's not his fault#no one in his family blames him or thinks he's stupid for falling for bill. why do some people think he is or think TBOB thinks he is?#i dont get it#dimond speaks
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Finally getting the answers to what the plans for HetaOni were honestly feels like this
#personal#hetaoni#on one hand i can finally stop wondering what would have been and longing to know what else the creator had in store for it. i am free.#on the other hand? the answers have only given me even more to think about both on how the ending would have played out#as well as how an hypothetical sequel with everyone else saving italy would go#(because i Do Not accept an ending where italy isn't saved too as The Ending. it cannot end like that i simply refuse)#AND have also recontextualized the entire game when taking the plans for its connection with romaheta into consideration#while still leaving me pondering how it could've gone without the simulation angle. since while very interesting#it Does change a lot about what we previously knew. and so i still have hetaoni-as-its-own-thing (with the game so far as we knew before)#and hetaoni-as-a-trilogy (with all the new info we have now) coexisting in my brain as alternate versions of the story#thereby only giving me even more stuff to ponder about it#anyway happy one week anniversary of the hetaoni ending reveal!! (of when it got to tumblr/when i saw it anyway)#so happy to finally learn what was planned for it!! ive been hoping for this day for over half my life at this point its a dream come true#doesn't change the fact that this game continues to live rent free on my mind and i will keep thinking abt it forever til the end of time š
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i want you to understand. i need you to understand. that shipping these two or whatever is not just something that carmy/sydney truthers came up on a whim. the writers and directors and crew and actors and producers of the bear fx are in fact encouraging us, the viewers, to make with these two like two dolls. put their lips together. and make them do a lil kissy kissy. a smoochie. "u could do this without me" "i couldnt do it without u. i wouldnt even wanna do it without u" "u make me better at this" "and what if i just melt and fuck up and fail?" "i wont let u". excuse me??? they want us to do it. they're begging us to do it.
#the bear fx#the bear season 2#sydney adamu#carmy berzatto#carmy x sydney#im sorry. im sorry yall thats just the truth#the claire x carmy storyline was cute and nice but put two motherfuckers together in one frame and have them do like a thing symbolic of a#we are two sides of the same coin we are the two halves of a singular force that cannot survive without the other#type of relationship and it is DONE#IT IS OVER#like no amount of soft lighting & head tilted giggling & kissing and sex can withstand the might of a soulmates-coded dynamic
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Also, I refuse to entertain the discourse as to whether acespec people are āoppressedā or not, but I will say itās really fucking lonely ā especially if you fall somewhere on the spectrum thatās a little more unconventional.
Iāve discussed many times before how I feel absolutely no attraction whatsoever except towards my lovely partner. I went through the phases queer men tend to: exploring many types of pornography and cruising on Grindr. I really tried, and none of it has ever done anything for me. It wasnāt until I started having sex with my partner that I realised, ohhh, so thatās how most people feel. And even then, enjoying sex with him is far more of an intimacy thing than the actual physical sensations. I do not fantasise about other people or consume porn. There is only him.
And yet when Iāve spoken about this in acespec spaces, Iām still treated as some sort of weirdo who doesnāt belong. Iāve literally been told many times that I canāt be demisexual because demis will still fantasise and consume porn (although that doesnāt line up with my understanding that demis require a close bond to feel sexual attraction, but never mind), and Iāve even been accused of having some weird internalised Christian puritan shit going on because I genuinely cannot comprehend ever looking at or thinking about someone in that way who isnāt my man. As if anything about this is a choice for me and it is offensive to them somehow. As if only feeling attraction to one person is like⦠āworseā than never feeling any attraction at all. Iāve never once shamed others for how they experience sex and sexual attraction and never would, yet people act like thatās what Iām inherently doing just by speaking about my own experiences.
So no, I wonāt say whether acespec people are āoppressedā or not because honestly, when is this shit ever going to come up in conversation and ever be that relevant? But the fact I donāt feel I can talk about it even amongst other queer people, even amongst others in the acespec community, kind of speaks for itself.
Being a queer man who canāt relate to all the stereotypes and anecdotes about enjoying casual sex is one type of loneliness. Being a queer acespec man who canāt even relate to most others in the acespec community is another. I can never win, and either way I do not fit in.
#I know Iāve not really mentioned being demi much here#But this is kind of why lol#Had to get it off my chest though#I know my experience is fairly unique#But idk itās just hard finding absolutely no one to relate to#Even my own partner has fucked many many men casually and when he and other gay men I meet talk about itā¦#Their experiences are valid and very common but I just feel like idk. Left out almost? Because they experience and view sex so differently#To me sex is the absolute most intimate thing you can do with another person and itās only ever felt right for me with my partner#Whereas to him and many others sex isnāt inherently intimate and itās normal for them to have a quick fuck and forget their name forever#Thatās mindboggling to me and itās hard for me to discuss how left out I feel without seeming like Iām judging#Because Iām really not. I cannot comprehend feeling that way at all but I understand itās common and normal#Idk Iām waffling and idk if Iāve explained myself well#But I hope even just one person out there relates#This experience is so specific and isolating I need someone else to not feel so alone#I love my partner more than anything in the world btw and heās so so supportive#But we canāt relate on every level yk#personal#rant#vent#long post#text post#international asexuality day#asexuality#asexual#demisexuality#demisexual#acephobia#relationships#acespec#aspec
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Jacob Anderson and Eric Bogosian couldnāt be at the panel so they sent messages! #SDCC24
J: āIām here in London doing music stuff, jumping around on stage, which youāre going to see a lot of Sam Reid doing in the future. So i dont know, I send you a video or something. Take notes, Samā
via holdthegirI, armandvampyr and hiimbobbi
#jam reiderson#jacob anderson#eric bogosian#San Diego Comic-Con 2024#i dont think this is in the official video#unfortunately bc they should have added the raw video they sent#so we could not only see jacob in a better quality video but we could also heard him without the fan screams#i wish we had sam reaction to his message but by the beginning of the video it seems there was no one in the table yet#so this was right at the beginning of the panel before they called the cast and producers#i know sam giggled when jake was teasing him#quoting tweets from the links#managed to mention sam twice in less than a minute i said oh i'm sure#managed to involve sam in his message somehow jdhdid PLEASE#He really couldn't get through this without mentioning sam š#these two cannot stop talking about each other omg
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watching sinners just makes me think again how much of a shame it is for people to cut themselves off from entire swathes of stories just because they fall under the label of āhorror.ā how can you connect fully with the most beautiful parts of humanity if you refuse to let yourself even safely explore our ugliest, scariest parts
#horror and beauty go hand in hand. you cannot have one without the other.#sinners#thinking specifically about someone i know who asked me what sinners was about when i told them i was gonna go see it#and well i didnāt know exactly what it was about!! because i hadnāt seen it yet and the trailer was quite vague!!#so i told them it was a horror film and was gonna go a bit into the brief summary the marketing provided#but before i could even finish my thought they stopped me and were like āhorror?? oh no thank youā#just brushed it aside like nothing. you are doing yourself a disservice.#we have been telling each other scary stories since the dawn of our existence. and it is often in the most horrific places where you find#the greatest examples of beauty.
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The most important thing about a Megatron ship is that it cannot end well.
#megatron#transformers#I'll talk about the ones I'm insane about in the tags I guess#Megop. Self-explanatory. Most continuities have them being besties until SOMETHING happens and now they're enemies for life.#Their relationship ends in a civil war that dooms their entire planet (and that's when Megatron isn't actively genocidal).#It is not just canon compliant that it ends badly. It is canon NECCESSARY. Most canons cannot exist without that.#Megasound. I love them so much. Even if the Decepticons won (which they don't) I still don't think they could ever be healthy.#Megatron will never be satisfied with his position. He'll always want to conquer more planets or create a bigger army or further wipe out#dissent. Alternatively if he realizes how fucked up he's made things then he will leave the 'cons altogether and work with#the Autobots. Soundwave is loyal to Megatron but she is MORE loyal to the cause in every continuity except maybe Prime.#If Megatron defects she will fight him. And if he stays loyal then she will still always be 2nd place to an end-goal that keeps shifting.#That's all without anything happening to the cassettes or all of the other reasons they are so fucked up /pos. Cannot end well.#Megarod. Jesus fucking christ I love them so much but I firmly believe that even in the 'good' ending they don't end well.#This is for like 110000 reasons but the big ones are 1) There has GOT to be resentment there on Rodimus's end. And there should be#Even outside of Megatron literally killing him (which I would actually argue was one of the better things to ever happen to Hot Rod#but that's a different post) he basically says that Megatron is worse than Zeta Prime after Megatron compliments him#for what happened on Nyon and orders Bumblebee to be fuckin scrapped and then gets used as a shield BY MEGATRON#(I might be getting the exact order of events wrong; it's been a while since I've read Autocracy)#so like Hot Rod really fuckin' hates that guy. And there's also the dozens of times Hot Rod probably lost someone in the war and#all of that shit is Megatron's fault. Then you've got the 'Megatron killing him' thing and then Rodimus actively wanting#Megatron to be tortured by OP + being upset at OP for seemingly going easy on him...yeah Rodimus hates him and has good reason to.#And obviously Megatron has improved as a person. That is the central conceit of his character in MTMTE (how much/is it enough#is up for debate). But another central conceit of his character is that his improvement doesn't get rid of all the harm he's did.#That should extent to any relationship he has with Rodimus and fits Rodimus's character as well. He cares about and loves Megatron#but that doesn't make the resentment any less visceral. There is also probably resentment on Megs's end but nothing quite so personal.#2) Megatron is still kinda in a 'self-discover/healing/redemption' era and while having that tied in so much with Rodimus is awesome#from a shipping/analysis/I just like it perspective it does not always translate into a healthy relationship.#Despite being literal millenia old Megatron is still changing a lot. We SEE him change a lot during MTMTE and it's awesome#but relationships that last are generally built on a stable foundation. Rodimus is already shaky on that front but Megatron#is NOT in a stable place right now. He's in a BETTER place 100% but he's just been through a major character arc and he needs
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To the illiterate people with 0 reading comprehension that I have seen on tik tok today claiming that Maven deserved Mare, that it was stupid and "unfair" that he didn't get her, and that clearly with his trauma and what his mother did to him he deserved her:
I would just like to issue a sincere Fuck You to you and any future illiterate children you produce.
#red queen#glass sword#kings cage#war storm#it took so so much will power not to ANNIHILATE them#I swear#books like SJM and rebecca Yarrow and others like them are PROMOTING THIS BULLSHIT THINKING#I am going to scream#I literally cannot be apart of the reading community anymore if these are the thoughts people are having#this is utterly ridiculous#tell me you didn't pay attention in middle school english class without telling me#tell me you lack reading comprehension without telling me#tell me you lack basic human brain power without telling me#i'm old and I am angry#this is just ridiculous now#must we cycle though the same stupid rhetoric over and over again?#dear lord#If I hear one more person say he ādeservedā her#I'm going to push them in front of a bus
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the thing about rosquez is that it IS a massively interesting story between two brilliant riders with an impact and tension we still feel today but. The way these two are discussed by some fans online is specifically quite irritating to me.. sometimes thereās not so much insight and analysis of them as athletes and people as there is platitudes about the ātragedyā and the ānarrativeā of it all, and there is tragedy and narrative there, itās just not being discussed in any fruitful way. and often I see Valeās personality and career and previous rivalries flattened to one that is very marc-centric, even when many interesting things about valentino have nothing to do with marc.
#I really do dislike when one cannot do something without the other being brought up#you really really donāt have to make everything about an individual about your ship. Cāmon.#this is pretty common in like. Every fandom however.#That doesnāt mean i have to like it though! and itās especially annoying when we are talking about real athletes from real life#in that case it is paired with another evil. The evil of sports discourse.#but yeah as someone who does like both marc and valentino a lot#and finds them quite interesting as individuals and as a rivalry#it is very tiring!!
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LET SAM AND DEMETRI BE BESTIES AGAIN!!!! I MISS THEM!!!!
#Honestly haters in arms#I think no one else matches their hater energy quite like each other#Also also I desperately want hawk and Tory bestiesm back but I understand why that is more complicated considering they were friends whilst#They were both in like their worst mental states of ever#But like#let Peyton and Jacob be in scenes together again for me#Anyways if I get anything out of the rest of season six I want it to be the return of this duo and it will not happen#See the problem is once Eli and Demetri made up it suddenly felt like they werenāt allowed to have other friends again#Like āoh their besties now they cannot be in a scene without each otherā#Do we get me?#cobra kai#demetri alexopoulos#samantha larusso
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