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the-stray-storyteller · 2 months ago
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This is a rant about the built-in cultural bias that is there in my drama club. I’ve told this story to everyone around me already but it’s still boiling in my brain, so now Tumblr gets it.
I joined my college's drama club as a scriptwriter. It's been two semesters. Two. And I have done nothing even remotely related to writing. Not one discussion. Not one script. Nothing. Just vibes and disappointment.
Now here's where it gets worse: the entire club is dominated by Marathi speakers. That isn’t the issue. The issue is that they make zero effort to include anyone who doesn’t speak the language. I mean zero. Like if you're not part of the Marathi-speaking circle, you might as well not exist.
Our debut play? Full-on Marathi. Script already written. No room for writers anyway. But the problem wasn't just that the script being ready—it was why the hell was it in Marathi? This was a FIRST YEAR welcome production. Meant to bring everyone together. Instead it excluded every single person who couldn't understand what was going on. So tell me, how’s that inclusive?
Then during a college event, I got put into a group to make signs and decor for our stall. I missed two meetings because I was literally sick with a fever and heatstroke. But I still sent in the majority of ideas and laser cutting files. Still contributed. And yet I was the one the seniors decided to call out for “not doing anything.” Meanwhile, a guy who sent one idea and made one file just slipped under the radar. No criticism. No accountability. Just me being used as the punching bag. I tried to explain the group chat stopped being used, there was a communication gap—they didn’t care. They didn’t want to hear it.
And THEN, on the day of the event, I was in the first shift to set up the stall. Everyone else there was speaking instructions in Marathi. The entire time I just stood there, confused, unable to help, while they laughed and chatted in a language they know I don’t understand. I tried to join the convo—they’d talk to me for like one sentence, then bounce back to their group talk. This happens in meetings too. One person starts in Marathi, someone else responds, and then it’s like the whole meeting shifts languages and I’m just...there. Invisible.
Then comes Maharashtra Day. Surprise surprise, we’re doing another play. In Marathi. And you know what? It kinda makes sense—for that day. But let’s look at the bigger picture here: our college has had six cultural events so far. Guess how many the drama club participated in?
Three. And those were:
Onam (in English, thankfully but it's a most popular event out of all of them)
Ganeshotsav (also in English, but very Marathi-coded)
Maharashtra Day (Marathi play + the drama club is literally co-hosting and promoting the whole event)
What happened to:
Pongal?
Sankranti?
Durgotsav?
Baisakhi?
Nothing. They didn’t do a single damn thing for those. Didn’t perform. Didn’t promote. Didn’t care. Didn't give it a thought.
So yeah, even if the Ganeshotsav play was in English, the theme and energy was still Marathi-centered. Yeah, Pongal was non-marathi but it was the most popualr event, this was for pure publicity. And then they go ALL OUT for Maharashtra Day—doing plays, co-hosting, hyping it everywhere—while pretending like the rest of the cultural calendar doesn't exist. That’s not “celebrating culture,” that’s just picking favorites.
These cultural events are meant to share culture, not gatekeep it. What’s the point of doing a play in Marathi for Maharashtra Day when the whole idea is to introduce the culture to people who don’t know Marathi? Who are you even performing for—yourselves?
Let’s call it what it is: systemic exclusion dressed up as fake inclusivity. This whole “we’re all one big club” vibe? Yeah, no. Not when the language, the leadership, and the spotlight are reserved for a select group while the rest of us are pushed to the sidelines.
And here’s the cherry on top: I’m the only writer in the team who can’t speak or understand Marathi. There’s one other girl who can understand but not speak it. So what are we even doing here? Because it feels like they just keep me around to say “Look! We’re diverse!” without actually treating me like part of the team.
Newsflash: you won’t have your token next year.
Anyway, I’m tired. That’s the story. Thankyou for coming to my ted talk.
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ilovecoelacanths · 19 days ago
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what if i told you guys i actually decided not to drop out of college
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spark-circuit · 1 year ago
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(said in Wise's voice) "Maybe it was a mistake letting Anby borrow our subscription password for that movie..."
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midnightwind · 6 months ago
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you guys like me going off on random DA tangents and musings, right?? because I've been awake too long so you're getting another one
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I have been sat here trying to figure out Why Lucanis' prison looks like a bunch of ice and why it was so far away from the "lab" settings for a while now. (arguably two rooms fit this description, the one where Lucanis tells you about Zara and the one right outside his phylactery room) Like, even without that bridge being broken, it's in such a bizarre corner of the Ossuary. And I mean, it wouldn't really matter with a normal prisoner, but Lucanis was a notorious Crow and mage killer on top of that, plus he was Zara's special little guy to fuck with. You would not want to take him for a long walk to experience the worst shit on earth every few days. Maybe it's close enough to the little room where he mentions Zara and maybe she wanted him close to the door so she didn't have to go far to torture him, but again, leaving such a challenging subject close to the exit seems like a bad choice. You want him to have to get through so many guys and doors before escaping so you have time to take him down.
This also ignores the magic required to leave, but they're not clear on what that is and not all the Venatori are mages so there's gotta be a mundane way out he could snatch off a guard. I digress, the whole ice cage and far off room doesn't make sense. But we know they were shipping demons to Zara. (I'm pretty sure the few demons you confront in Minrathous were Zara's little pets set loose so we can assume she wanted them in the capital for the eventual Venatori coup on the crown) If Zara was about to be stuck in Minrathous for the foreseeable future, setting things into motion for Elgar'nan, I could see her wanting her pet Crow at her side. Especially if you consider the initial idea for Lucanis: he was going to be a mind controlled murder puppet before you break him out.
Sure, Spite didn't crack open his ribcage and crawl out like some new horror, but having a demon in Lucanis lets her control him via the phylactery if not just outright with her blood magic. Maybe his will was too strong for mundane control, but the phylactery works. We know it works based off of Lucanis' dialogue about it. So we know she had a surefire way to keep him under control. (There's a whole other post exploring the amount of dead Venatori and the fact that Lucanis still has his leathers and weapons [which would make sense if he was Zara's murder puppet, but alas] and whether Lucanis recently made a break for it or if the loose demons/spirits/undead killed them all) Maybe he kept his leathers because Zara wanted him presentable upon delivery, I don't know.
But I do think he was being prepped to move. The Ossuary is falling apart, Zara is pulling all the best results, they're losing personnel and servants without being given more; Zara was clearly moving on from that location. But she wanted her little Antivan prize. He's too dangerous to move normally, a Crow is likely to escape if given an inch especially a skilled one like Lucanis, so they need to lock him down somehow. Ropes and chains aren't reliable, not with a Crow, but he's not a mage. You can use magic. You can literally put him on ice. I think they were packaging him up in an ice cube and doing it next(ish) to the door so they could more easily move him. I think Zara was going to take him and his phylactery to Minrathous and use him to cause some absolutely ruthless mayhem in the city before her cult took it over.
I think Rook showing up weakened the spell being cast just enough for Lucanis and Spite to break out, and I think it saved a whole lot of lives.
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intramoon · 9 months ago
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She could be tying her hair back for any number of reasons ...
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cursed-creationist · 4 months ago
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Ink Kinnies (A defense)
Hey y’all!! I think we need a chat about some UTMV kinnies. Specifically Ink kinnies! Because. WHAT THE FUCK. WHY DO THEY GET SO MUCH HATE. HELLO??
People are allowed to feel connected to characters however they want! Why is it OUR business whether someone relates to positive or negative traits. It helps people cope, and sometimes even seek help!
I’ve met a lot of Ink kinnies over my years. I’m mostly a silent tumblr user. But I get around. There’s been some good ones, some bad ones, some neutral ones! But calling all of them ENERGY VAMPIRES?? Stating that they give NOTHING in return? That they’re all SELFISH?? All because of ONE PERSON. Who, by the way, HASN’T DONE ANYTHING YOU’VE CLAIMED!! Where’s your evidence? Where’s your proof? Why did you feel the need to try and ruin the platform they’ve built? Why is it your business to bring up the past? Why is it your business to spew LIES.
Plus, last I checked, you STALKED the person you’re trying to attack. And also threatened a friend of theirs! And you thought you could get away with it, because this platform is so vast and wide. Nice try.
Also they are DELUSIONAL(/nm). NOT A KINNIE, EVEN! WHAT THE HECK DUDE!!
Ink doesn’t want to be soulless. He wants to love. He doesn’t want to be at the creator’s beck and call. It’s even canon by Comyet that he has CRIED. Over not being able to do something. Because it was in the script.
Ink is a beautifully complex character, a character that many see themselves into because of imposter syndrome, of feeling like an outcast. Like a part of you is missing and rotten and you so desperately want to fix it but. You can’t. But these people are capable of love. They just need help to access it. People are complex.
I would put my trust in an Ink kinnie. And I have, according to your standards. And I don’t regret it at all. Let people be people. Let people relate to the good and the bad.
Let people live how they choose, for creator’s sake!
And next time you want to bring someone down because you’re obsessed with them, seek therapy.
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samaraxmorgan · 5 months ago
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I doodled a little Sukuna on the whiteboard at work and when I came back from my delivery the other driver drew Gojo I love it here
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nebulastarss · 3 months ago
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My experience with being aroace:
Me at 13: I've never been good at telling the difference between romantic and platonic love, so I'll just say I'm pan till I figure it out
Me at 14 near the end of that same year, reading the asexual definition: Oh ok that makes sense. Haha, no wonder I think everyone's so overwhelmingly horny.
Me, later: there's different ones for romantic attraction?? Panromantic asexual till I figure that out too I guess.
Me, discovering aromantic: oh. Well, I should've guessed that really.
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gaygatsbyy · 1 month ago
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I got cock blocked so hard last night by my coconut allergy.
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vile-br4t · 24 days ago
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Just one time I’d like to do the thing stupid men do where they try to mass message a girl and start a group chat but! I want to make a fake account so, when I ultimately get embarrassed leaving all my hoes alone in a group chat, I can still see the shit being talked - under an alias so there’s no filter, it’s genius
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huellitaa · 1 year ago
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chat is this flirting am i being flirted with
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arcane-vagabond · 3 months ago
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#so I have a ‘friend’ who is a complete control freak and I’m starting to think she’s a narcissist too lowkey#I wanted to host an ides of March party on Saturday and she was so vocal about how dumb she thought it was#until our other friends voiced interest in it. then she was all over the idea.#well she automatically assumed we were having it at her apartment until I said I thought we could have it at my place since we have#the fenced in yard and fire pit and it’s supposed to be perfect fire weather this weekend. she got huffy about it but ended up agreeing#well I made a comment in our groupchat saying I would get little ceasars pizza to add to our potluck#(everyone was supposed to bring a stabbable food or Roman themed food or whatever)#she immediately starts ranting about how gross she thinks little ceasars is and how we cant possibly do that#I told her she was supposed to bring a dish anyway and that I was paying for the pizza#and she was like ‘why can’t we just get a different brand and stab it with knives?’ and at this point I’m over the entire conversation and#I’m just like ‘do whatever you want ig’. so then she sends a pic of frozen pizza and asks if that would work and I was like sure Idc#so TODAY she makes a comment in one of the group chats about how her fuck buddy is coming into town and she’s bringing him to the party#I messaged her privately and was like ‘I don’t think I’m comfortable with him coming.’ and she goes ‘#‘can I ask why?’ and I very calmly go ‘because I’ve never met him before and this is my parent’s house.’ also she never asked me if it was#okay and I’m exhausted from traveling the past two weeks and don’t have the bandwidth to meet new people rn. I just wanted to hang out wit#my friends. and she comes back with ‘I just assumed we always had an oven door policy so I didn’t think I had to ask maybe because we ALWAYS#hang out at your place??? who in their right mind just assumes shit like that? so she starts saying that she doesn’t think it’s fair to#leave her fuck buddy at her apartment for that long and that she’ll just skip. I told her I didn’t want her to think I don’t want her to go#so I offered to move it to next weekend so more of our friends could come too and she agreed. then she asks if I want to tell everyone or if#she needs to and so I sent our group a message just explaining that since a lot of people were too busy this weekend we could move it to#next weekend so everyone could go. THIS BITCH then proceeds to send a message about how she’s probably busy next weekend but everyone can#come to her house on Saturday to watch movies instead. like wtf???#I feel crazy rn because she’s making me feel like a grade A bitch over this#and I’m just…..SO fucking mad about all of this.#Liz’s personal tag#Liz rants
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boatboys · 4 months ago
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Ohoho I'm excited by book 2, but that's a monster length. How many words is book 1 again? For comparison. Also, separate thought, where do the short stories fit on the timeline between books 1 and 2?
Shit, I had not actually checked until now! But it looks like AtS was about 185.5K. So at the current length of 395K, the next one is more than twice as long. I need to lie down!!! How and why do we do this to ourselves, haha.
RE: timeline, all the little novellas so far (with the obvious exception of Midnight Chicken) will fall between the two! The next one (working title Run Aground) takes place approximately a year and change after Taste of New York.
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heretherebedork · 5 months ago
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I might not be in any group chats (by choice) but I do have friends and I am very loved and I give assignments to get them to watch shows sometimes, lol.
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lordsardine · 5 months ago
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thatscrazyrandom · 10 days ago
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Why can no one be normal about Lando Norris omfg
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