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This is a rant about the built-in cultural bias that is there in my drama club. I’ve told this story to everyone around me already but it’s still boiling in my brain, so now Tumblr gets it.
I joined my college's drama club as a scriptwriter. It's been two semesters. Two. And I have done nothing even remotely related to writing. Not one discussion. Not one script. Nothing. Just vibes and disappointment.
Now here's where it gets worse: the entire club is dominated by Marathi speakers. That isn’t the issue. The issue is that they make zero effort to include anyone who doesn’t speak the language. I mean zero. Like if you're not part of the Marathi-speaking circle, you might as well not exist.
Our debut play? Full-on Marathi. Script already written. No room for writers anyway. But the problem wasn't just that the script being ready—it was why the hell was it in Marathi? This was a FIRST YEAR welcome production. Meant to bring everyone together. Instead it excluded every single person who couldn't understand what was going on. So tell me, how’s that inclusive?
Then during a college event, I got put into a group to make signs and decor for our stall. I missed two meetings because I was literally sick with a fever and heatstroke. But I still sent in the majority of ideas and laser cutting files. Still contributed. And yet I was the one the seniors decided to call out for “not doing anything.” Meanwhile, a guy who sent one idea and made one file just slipped under the radar. No criticism. No accountability. Just me being used as the punching bag. I tried to explain the group chat stopped being used, there was a communication gap—they didn’t care. They didn’t want to hear it.
And THEN, on the day of the event, I was in the first shift to set up the stall. Everyone else there was speaking instructions in Marathi. The entire time I just stood there, confused, unable to help, while they laughed and chatted in a language they know I don’t understand. I tried to join the convo—they’d talk to me for like one sentence, then bounce back to their group talk. This happens in meetings too. One person starts in Marathi, someone else responds, and then it’s like the whole meeting shifts languages and I’m just...there. Invisible.
Then comes Maharashtra Day. Surprise surprise, we’re doing another play. In Marathi. And you know what? It kinda makes sense—for that day. But let’s look at the bigger picture here: our college has had six cultural events so far. Guess how many the drama club participated in?
Three. And those were:
Onam (in English, thankfully but it's a most popular event out of all of them)
Ganeshotsav (also in English, but very Marathi-coded)
Maharashtra Day (Marathi play + the drama club is literally co-hosting and promoting the whole event)
What happened to:
Pongal?
Sankranti?
Durgotsav?
Baisakhi?
Nothing. They didn’t do a single damn thing for those. Didn’t perform. Didn’t promote. Didn’t care. Didn't give it a thought.
So yeah, even if the Ganeshotsav play was in English, the theme and energy was still Marathi-centered. Yeah, Pongal was non-marathi but it was the most popualr event, this was for pure publicity. And then they go ALL OUT for Maharashtra Day—doing plays, co-hosting, hyping it everywhere—while pretending like the rest of the cultural calendar doesn't exist. That’s not “celebrating culture,” that’s just picking favorites.
These cultural events are meant to share culture, not gatekeep it. What’s the point of doing a play in Marathi for Maharashtra Day when the whole idea is to introduce the culture to people who don’t know Marathi? Who are you even performing for—yourselves?
Let’s call it what it is: systemic exclusion dressed up as fake inclusivity. This whole “we’re all one big club” vibe? Yeah, no. Not when the language, the leadership, and the spotlight are reserved for a select group while the rest of us are pushed to the sidelines.
And here’s the cherry on top: I’m the only writer in the team who can’t speak or understand Marathi. There’s one other girl who can understand but not speak it. So what are we even doing here? Because it feels like they just keep me around to say “Look! We’re diverse!” without actually treating me like part of the team.
Newsflash: you won’t have your token next year.
Anyway, I’m tired. That’s the story. Thankyou for coming to my ted talk.
#blabber#LIKE GO FUCK YOURSELVES#WHAT THE FUCK IS THIS EXCLUSION#I asked around and it turns out a lot of non-marathi seniors left the club for this exact reason#not to mention the hierarchy#they keep saying that the whole senior junior thing doesnt exist over here#but it does#Juniors are blamed for everything especially first years#WHY SELECT OTHER PEOPLE FROM DIFFERENT CULTURES IF YOU ARE GOING TO DO THIS?#NOT TO MENTION HOW MUCH THEY ARE AGAINST NEW IDEAS#and then they want to compete in competitions in the state where the plays are supposed to be in hindi or marathi#but they are going to pick marathi idk why....we could have done hindi which is so much more inclusive but no#and then there is like minimal effort to make it inclusive#and oh my god#the script writers group#we made a chat group#which has been dead since i have joined#and then two weeks before maharashtra day they club head sends a message in the main group#asking where the script is#only i have no idea what script she is talking about because nobody mentioned shit to me.#ME WHO IS SCRIPT WRITER DIDN'T KNOW THERE WAS A SCRIPT#and then the main script writer sends the maharashtra day script in marathi in the main group
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what if i told you guys i actually decided not to drop out of college
#bee talks#not marine biology#‘take a year off’ but I don’t think I would have gone back to be honest#I was doing really bad for a while but I’ve been doing better#and things with my family are. easier to manage now and I don’t feel like I’m walking a tightrope trying to keep all my parents in my life#and I. I talked to my aunt and she helped me make a plan for the next two years.#well what actually happened was I asked her for help and we made a pros and cons list of dropping out#and well. staying at school had some major pros that going home didn’t#so then we made a plan#about my classes and about my job and where I might live. we went through everything#my aunt is good with things like that. I love her a lot#and she is going to help me#i felt really alone for a while like I couldn’t ask anyone for help#but I can#I love my aunt so much#I love my uncle too#and my mom#but my aunt is really really helping me right now#also i taught my aunt what ‘’locked in’ means and she won’t stop saying it#she renamed my group chat with her and my uncle to ‘LOCKED IN 💕🙌’ lmao#anyway sorry for talking so much in the tags I figured probably no one wanted to read a long post but you can skip the tags if you want to
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(said in Wise's voice) "Maybe it was a mistake letting Anby borrow our subscription password for that movie..."
#zenless zone zero#zzz#zzz cunning hares#zzz billy#zzz anby#zzz nicole#spark talks about nothing of relevance#now that's what I call shitposting#spark's edits#made when we were discussing stuff in group chat about Wise losing his completionist PSN account with the Phaethon login#belle: it's okay Wise! we can just redo it all!#wise: yeah.... sure........ *internally in agony over having to perfect all Crash 1 levels all over again*#WHOOPS also ->#zzz phaethon
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you guys like me going off on random DA tangents and musings, right?? because I've been awake too long so you're getting another one
I have been sat here trying to figure out Why Lucanis' prison looks like a bunch of ice and why it was so far away from the "lab" settings for a while now. (arguably two rooms fit this description, the one where Lucanis tells you about Zara and the one right outside his phylactery room) Like, even without that bridge being broken, it's in such a bizarre corner of the Ossuary. And I mean, it wouldn't really matter with a normal prisoner, but Lucanis was a notorious Crow and mage killer on top of that, plus he was Zara's special little guy to fuck with. You would not want to take him for a long walk to experience the worst shit on earth every few days. Maybe it's close enough to the little room where he mentions Zara and maybe she wanted him close to the door so she didn't have to go far to torture him, but again, leaving such a challenging subject close to the exit seems like a bad choice. You want him to have to get through so many guys and doors before escaping so you have time to take him down.
This also ignores the magic required to leave, but they're not clear on what that is and not all the Venatori are mages so there's gotta be a mundane way out he could snatch off a guard. I digress, the whole ice cage and far off room doesn't make sense. But we know they were shipping demons to Zara. (I'm pretty sure the few demons you confront in Minrathous were Zara's little pets set loose so we can assume she wanted them in the capital for the eventual Venatori coup on the crown) If Zara was about to be stuck in Minrathous for the foreseeable future, setting things into motion for Elgar'nan, I could see her wanting her pet Crow at her side. Especially if you consider the initial idea for Lucanis: he was going to be a mind controlled murder puppet before you break him out.
Sure, Spite didn't crack open his ribcage and crawl out like some new horror, but having a demon in Lucanis lets her control him via the phylactery if not just outright with her blood magic. Maybe his will was too strong for mundane control, but the phylactery works. We know it works based off of Lucanis' dialogue about it. So we know she had a surefire way to keep him under control. (There's a whole other post exploring the amount of dead Venatori and the fact that Lucanis still has his leathers and weapons [which would make sense if he was Zara's murder puppet, but alas] and whether Lucanis recently made a break for it or if the loose demons/spirits/undead killed them all) Maybe he kept his leathers because Zara wanted him presentable upon delivery, I don't know.
But I do think he was being prepped to move. The Ossuary is falling apart, Zara is pulling all the best results, they're losing personnel and servants without being given more; Zara was clearly moving on from that location. But she wanted her little Antivan prize. He's too dangerous to move normally, a Crow is likely to escape if given an inch especially a skilled one like Lucanis, so they need to lock him down somehow. Ropes and chains aren't reliable, not with a Crow, but he's not a mage. You can use magic. You can literally put him on ice. I think they were packaging him up in an ice cube and doing it next(ish) to the door so they could more easily move him. I think Zara was going to take him and his phylactery to Minrathous and use him to cause some absolutely ruthless mayhem in the city before her cult took it over.
I think Rook showing up weakened the spell being cast just enough for Lucanis and Spite to break out, and I think it saved a whole lot of lives.
#I had to scroll so far back in a group chat for that screenshot because 1) I think it's funny and 2) it's what made me think of this#like the Ossuary makes very little sense layout wise for what they claim it is#even as repurposed ruins they really just assigned random rooms for stuff#they don't even have that many cells! it should have been far more harrowing imo#but I may be biased here#anyways I continue to scramble for breadcrumbs about Zara and Lucanis#she could also have just wanted him as a trophy and that was more like crystal and not ice#which means he probably wasn't going to survive that whole thing lol#why she remained in Treviso after the breakout- I'm not sure#maybe she just wanted to see Illario squirm lol#or maybe she was going to send Lucanis ahead while she tidied up in Antiva#I'm not really sure what else she was doing in the city since we don't get much on her#things I've been thinking about while writing the fic etc etc#lucanis dellamorte#lucanis#yeah I am tagging it be subjected to my ramblings#Dragon Age#Dragon Age Veilguard#DAV#DAV Posting
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She could be tying her hair back for any number of reasons ...
#The Sims 4#Sims 4#TS4#intramoon#this sequence of photos wasnt suppose to suggest anything#but after i finished it i feel like it kinda does#or my brain is rotten which in that case my bad#but i love seeing sims do mundane#things like tying their hair up#dying their hair#painting their names etc#finally have free time for sims#got that job#was very off#manager was asking my clothing size in front of#my coworkers which i didnt want to answer#but couldnt figure out how to get out of it?#maybe im over reacting but it made me feel weird#amongst many other things#got another interview at another job i wanted more#turned out to be a 20 person group interview??#a girl i met their got my number we've been friendly chatting#havent heard back yet so we're not sure we got in or not#got a newsroom award which was sweet#quit the first job today#very hectic#when i just want to daydream about the sims
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Ink Kinnies (A defense)
Hey y’all!! I think we need a chat about some UTMV kinnies. Specifically Ink kinnies! Because. WHAT THE FUCK. WHY DO THEY GET SO MUCH HATE. HELLO??
People are allowed to feel connected to characters however they want! Why is it OUR business whether someone relates to positive or negative traits. It helps people cope, and sometimes even seek help!
I’ve met a lot of Ink kinnies over my years. I’m mostly a silent tumblr user. But I get around. There’s been some good ones, some bad ones, some neutral ones! But calling all of them ENERGY VAMPIRES?? Stating that they give NOTHING in return? That they’re all SELFISH?? All because of ONE PERSON. Who, by the way, HASN’T DONE ANYTHING YOU’VE CLAIMED!! Where’s your evidence? Where’s your proof? Why did you feel the need to try and ruin the platform they’ve built? Why is it your business to bring up the past? Why is it your business to spew LIES.
Plus, last I checked, you STALKED the person you’re trying to attack. And also threatened a friend of theirs! And you thought you could get away with it, because this platform is so vast and wide. Nice try.
Also they are DELUSIONAL(/nm). NOT A KINNIE, EVEN! WHAT THE HECK DUDE!!
Ink doesn’t want to be soulless. He wants to love. He doesn’t want to be at the creator’s beck and call. It’s even canon by Comyet that he has CRIED. Over not being able to do something. Because it was in the script.
Ink is a beautifully complex character, a character that many see themselves into because of imposter syndrome, of feeling like an outcast. Like a part of you is missing and rotten and you so desperately want to fix it but. You can’t. But these people are capable of love. They just need help to access it. People are complex.
I would put my trust in an Ink kinnie. And I have, according to your standards. And I don’t regret it at all. Let people be people. Let people relate to the good and the bad.
Let people live how they choose, for creator’s sake!
And next time you want to bring someone down because you’re obsessed with them, seek therapy.
#undertale#ink sans#kinnie#kin stuff#angelpointe#inksans#utmv#underverse#cursed’s rants#first post being a defense?? is that a first??#had to come out of my hole for this one chat#also can we not lump a group of people together#rude#touch grass buddy#‘my source is I made it the fuck up’ lookin ahh#also leave their s/o out of this. what the fuck#fact check first y’all#before you swing baseless accusations
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I doodled a little Sukuna on the whiteboard at work and when I came back from my delivery the other driver drew Gojo I love it here

#this is why no one out pizzas the hut babey#bc we be DOODLIN!!!#I was so excited when I saw it on the board u guys don’t understand asksmmssm#I sent a pic to MULTIPLE group chats it made my day genuinely#samaras yapping
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My experience with being aroace:
Me at 13: I've never been good at telling the difference between romantic and platonic love, so I'll just say I'm pan till I figure it out
Me at 14 near the end of that same year, reading the asexual definition: Oh ok that makes sense. Haha, no wonder I think everyone's so overwhelmingly horny.
Me, later: there's different ones for romantic attraction?? Panromantic asexual till I figure that out too I guess.
Me, discovering aromantic: oh. Well, I should've guessed that really.
#like. ok. story time.#i spent my first pride 'cosplaying' being pan#and i could only go because of a trans and gay student at my school. he was older than me and we became friends#he would constantly show me pictures of the celeb of the week and go 'isnt he sooo cute?' and my answer was always 'uh. no not really?'#so he knew i at least didnt like men and thus took me to my first pride#i made a trans woman cry by saying that our features dont make us who we are (she was upset over her big hands)#a girl hit on me by giving me a 40$ metal bottle for free and i didnt notice it was flirting until it was pointed out to me#watched a drag show and gave some money to a drag queen or 2#there was also a tarzan drag king. you go boo that was cool as shit#figured out that im ace later#turns out that said trans gay friend is a raging aphobe and genuinely doesnt believe that someone can be completely unattracted to anyone#he got so heated over it that i started sobbing into my phone and he yelled about it in a group chat we were in#it was full of trans people and no one was really sticking up for me#well. one person said something but it was just 'not the aphobia...' which. thanks. i guess.#thankfully i blocked him and havent talked to him sense#asexual#asexuality#aromance#aromantic#aromantism#arospec#aroace#aromantic asexual#gotta stop using pan as my go-to but no one will mad about it if you change you mind so it works!#gay#homosexual#lgbt#lgbtq community#lgbtq#lgbtqia
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I got cock blocked so hard last night by my coconut allergy.
#there’s this guy I’m friends with#he messages the group chat asking if anyone wanted to have a movie night instead of going to the bar and I said I’m down#I assumed it would be me him his boyfriend and his boyfriends boyfriend who is visiting town#I get there? it’s just me and him#so I’m nervous as hell because suddenly this looks like a hook up and I don’t hook up with my friends#particularly because I don’t know this person that well on a personal level#real cutie tho#so we watch long legs and both did not care for it#then we watched 27 dresses and he made me a drink#important note: I haven’t drank since February#we get drunk and flirty#start kissing#that old song and dance#and after like making out for at least an hour we can’t contain it and we agree to fuck eachother#right as he is about to put it in me he goes by the way this lube is coconut based so it might feel weird#and I recoil in horror as I almost went into anaphylaxis via my asshole#and then we just cuddled and jacked off#but yeah coconut based lube is a thing#and it almost killed me#woulda been worth tho
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Just one time I’d like to do the thing stupid men do where they try to mass message a girl and start a group chat but! I want to make a fake account so, when I ultimately get embarrassed leaving all my hoes alone in a group chat, I can still see the shit being talked - under an alias so there’s no filter, it’s genius
#I’m actually in a group chat called Carson gone wrong bc a guy tried messaging like 30 girls at once. me being one#and we all made fun of him then became friends and started sending makeup tips and cute selfies and bong rips loool
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chat is this flirting am i being flirted with
#basically for context this isnt the girl ive been obsessing over for the past god knows how long#shes a friend of a friend that i dont really talk to anymore but we wrre in a group chat together#and we started talking and havent stopped and we've been talking since 7pm#and its now 12am#fyi this is the longest ive stayed up in like forever#SHE ALSO IS GIVING ME HER CINAMMOROLL FUNKO.IF SHE ISNT TRYING TO HIT IDK WHAT FLIRTING IS#first time being flirted with guys i cant tell if she's being fr or not though#she also gave the sim she made me her last name#like girl#!!!!!!!!#girlblogging#sapphic#thoughts ୨𖹭୧#my princess ୨𖹭୧
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#so I have a ‘friend’ who is a complete control freak and I’m starting to think she’s a narcissist too lowkey#I wanted to host an ides of March party on Saturday and she was so vocal about how dumb she thought it was#until our other friends voiced interest in it. then she was all over the idea.#well she automatically assumed we were having it at her apartment until I said I thought we could have it at my place since we have#the fenced in yard and fire pit and it’s supposed to be perfect fire weather this weekend. she got huffy about it but ended up agreeing#well I made a comment in our groupchat saying I would get little ceasars pizza to add to our potluck#(everyone was supposed to bring a stabbable food or Roman themed food or whatever)#she immediately starts ranting about how gross she thinks little ceasars is and how we cant possibly do that#I told her she was supposed to bring a dish anyway and that I was paying for the pizza#and she was like ‘why can’t we just get a different brand and stab it with knives?’ and at this point I’m over the entire conversation and#I’m just like ‘do whatever you want ig’. so then she sends a pic of frozen pizza and asks if that would work and I was like sure Idc#so TODAY she makes a comment in one of the group chats about how her fuck buddy is coming into town and she’s bringing him to the party#I messaged her privately and was like ‘I don’t think I’m comfortable with him coming.’ and she goes ‘#‘can I ask why?’ and I very calmly go ‘because I’ve never met him before and this is my parent’s house.’ also she never asked me if it was#okay and I’m exhausted from traveling the past two weeks and don’t have the bandwidth to meet new people rn. I just wanted to hang out wit#my friends. and she comes back with ‘I just assumed we always had an oven door policy so I didn’t think I had to ask maybe because we ALWAYS#hang out at your place??? who in their right mind just assumes shit like that? so she starts saying that she doesn’t think it’s fair to#leave her fuck buddy at her apartment for that long and that she’ll just skip. I told her I didn’t want her to think I don’t want her to go#so I offered to move it to next weekend so more of our friends could come too and she agreed. then she asks if I want to tell everyone or if#she needs to and so I sent our group a message just explaining that since a lot of people were too busy this weekend we could move it to#next weekend so everyone could go. THIS BITCH then proceeds to send a message about how she’s probably busy next weekend but everyone can#come to her house on Saturday to watch movies instead. like wtf???#I feel crazy rn because she’s making me feel like a grade A bitch over this#and I’m just…..SO fucking mad about all of this.#Liz’s personal tag#Liz rants
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Ohoho I'm excited by book 2, but that's a monster length. How many words is book 1 again? For comparison. Also, separate thought, where do the short stories fit on the timeline between books 1 and 2?
Shit, I had not actually checked until now! But it looks like AtS was about 185.5K. So at the current length of 395K, the next one is more than twice as long. I need to lie down!!! How and why do we do this to ourselves, haha.
RE: timeline, all the little novellas so far (with the obvious exception of Midnight Chicken) will fall between the two! The next one (working title Run Aground) takes place approximately a year and change after Taste of New York.
#reader mailbag#it WAS significantly shorter! Then we figured out we needed to spice up the climax and hammered out an outline together#in like a whole day of protracted discussion. like that painting of the philosophers debating in rome or whatever. it was like that.#except like. in discord group chat haha. And then I went briefly out of my mind and slammed out like 30-40K in like a week#making huge structural changes is so intimidating but god it's so worth it sometimes. you have to take a machete to stuff!!#the new ending slaps. We made it so much better. I wish this meant anything to anybody yet lmao. YOU'LL SEE. YOU'LL ALL SEE#I digress!!! Because I worked last night and it's time for me to go to bed. But man I'm so excited to be editing and fine-tuning.
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I might not be in any group chats (by choice) but I do have friends and I am very loved and I give assignments to get them to watch shows sometimes, lol.
#i am on discord#but you have to talk to me and me alone#group chats are my personal hell#but anyway i am loved and i made someone watch another episode of olt#and we suffered together#sort of
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#bought some tulips :3c#miscellaneous#making myself a good lunch and cleaning all my sheets so that’ll feel good#i want to maybe do some writing?#I think I’ve given up on the cafe with the amount of laundry and bitter cold outside#like I just finished volunteering so#in terms of though messaging the two girls about work from home things…. I’m gonna try after Monday#because Monday is when we chat in our critique group#I’m aware there is no rhyme or reason to that But#anyway made myself some tea. started reading a real book for the first time in awhile#life is okay rn
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Why can no one be normal about Lando Norris omfg
#lando norris#formula 1#f1#im in 2 f1 group chats and the reactions to landos crash could not have been more different#but both are imo way too extreme for something that ultimately was landos error; predominantly impacted lando & that he immediately owned#one gc was immediately glazing him like omg mclaren are favoring oscar for no reason and oscar clearly squeezed him off etc etc#and the other is so agressive like omg that was so unsafe and dangerous he should basically get a race ban he couldve ruined oscars race#im like guys please#just be normal i beg#lando made a mistake he copped it#he apologised to oscar for nearly ruining his race and it clearly didnt bother oscar at all#they were racing hard and this is what happens#its happened before for gods sake#i just dont get it#why cant we just be normal about them please#thatscrazyrandom
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