#you better celebrate yourself

[worstloki]

A blessed Ramadan to all who are taking part ✨✨ remember to give in charity and pray for the oppressed and for forgiveness and take part in boycotting what detriments the innocent and protest injustice where you can ✨👍

[dennisboobs]

i think everyone on sunnytwt needs to be sat down so i can explain to them what basic human empathy is. and then maybe i put them in a blender until they agree to write meta about the characters instead of whether or not charlie day got facial reconstruction surgery.

[sopekooks]

you are a big blog you should support new content creators more often

first of all you assuming i have a big blog is funny, because i don’t. i do support content creators, but this new wave of content creators have zero fucking respect for the tannies and you can quote me on that. making gifs from sasaengs content left and right, making gifs of the boys crying and being vulnerable for some notes. you want me to support that? no thank you <3 there’s a lot and i mean a fucking lot of official content so no as long as they keep making gifs from that type content they aren’t getting my “support”.

[diluc33rpm]

the romance/relationship system in bg3 is genuinely some of the worst designed shit i've ever seen in any game with that feature but at least the memes we get out of it are funny. once saw someone comment something along the lines of 'patch note: waving at gale will no longer cause him to buy a house for the two of you to retire in' and i've never recovered since

[alexcabotgf]

this isn't a hot take by any means but a lot of you would be so much happier if you stopped having parasocial relationships with celebrities oh my god

[13eyond13]

Sometimes I still think about how sweet it was when that anon checked on me last year when I was posting overly dark jokes. Thank you whoever you were, that was kind

[nourishnrecover]

Moving towards recovery from an eating disorder isn't admitting defeat. Signs of recovery are not signs of failure.

You know how school can feel like a choice between shit mental health or shit grades? You try to balance the two, but one always comes out on top. I always prioritized my grades and to be fair that's what we're taught to do, many of us. By our society, parents, the way the system works for those that do/don't, and so on. It feels like the correct decision, the least shameful decision from a window glance.. Recovery feels like that sometimes. As if my eating disorder is a class I'm failing in the name of health.

I'm starting to notice I feel less guilty about my body & all than I did at the start of this but I feel so so ashamed of being "better" or healthier in any way. Like recovering screams "failure!"

This ties to the very things my ED was fueled by to begin with and I know it's the ED trying to hold on to that, to me. The destructive overachieving control seeking overwhelmed with intense emotions person in me. Jeez that's a mouthful 💀

⭐ alright I'll get back to the point of this little journal entry. The part where I talk to myself rather than to the page? You can't fail an eating disorder, an eating disorder makes you fail at living. Our eating disorder had its purpose, sure, but recovery is finding better ways to meet that purpose. Things that are positive to be good at. It won't hurt you to "fail" your eating disorder, that's just it being loud and obnoxious. Screaming, dying, clinging onto you, yeah you get the point. You might feel safer when you listen to that voice, in a multitude of ways even ... but that's the extent of it really. It's not truly safe, and it doesn't add value to the rest of our lives. It DRAINS our life. Our future, energy, health, time, and relationships. These are all examples of things we sacrifice to obey our eating disorder. That sounds like a class you want to drop out of to me.

Being "successful" at an ED is the least profitable thing you could do and getting that "A+" turns out to be dying. So again: Moving towards recovery from an eating disorder isn't admitting defeat. Signs of recovery are not signs of failure. You are restoring yourself and your life. These scary changes are for the better, and worth celebrating 💜

[maybege]

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[itacandraw]

I was very upset when I found out the boys forgot to sell the staple of state fairs, so I decided that Yuu made their own stand with Grim to sell more than literally anyone else.

[anonymousdidsys]

The leftism leaving peoples’ bodies when I tell them that our hypervigilant internet culture which thrives on making callout posts on and cancelling random people for being “problematic” (ie mistakes they intend to learn from, normal parts of growing up they’ll grow out of, shipping something someone doesn’t like, etc) and never giving people second chances is inherently un-leftist

[pisshandkerchief]

I really get why some fall out boy fans hate mcr fans. I get it I really do

[just-rogi]

Some Fatphobia activists see someone having a conversation about restrictive ED’s and somehow make about themselves. ED survivors have a hard enough time coming out and talking about it publicly- Without having people shout that they are fatphobic for talking about it (as If plus sized people can’t also have restrictive Ed’s ???)

[cruelsister-moved2]

not telling anyone what to do but I kinda miss when the understanding abt multiple pronouns used to be that any are fine or different ones apply in different contexts whereas now the default assumption is you need to be constantly switching between them per sentence like that is really inaccessible for a lot of people + difficult in a second language + just genuinely defeats the linguistic object of a pronoun 😭

but I think it came from being a tme she/they who no one ever uses they for which I understand the frustration but i wish we could approach the root causes of that rather than the way I've seen ppl claim not alternating pronouns for someone midsentence is literally misgendering & honestly at the end of the day if you don't want someone to use she pronouns for you, tell them not to use she pronouns! we were all pronouns=/=gender until its "they to show I don't identify with the institution of womanhood, she to show my connection with femininity" but honestly how do you actually like being referred to, worry abt that. if u actually don't like ppl using she to refer to u then tell them that & if the discomfort is bc it shows their perception of u doesn't align w ur gender then like performative language doesnt actually change that anyway so mb if we stopped worrying about this we could actually have way more worthwhile conversations about gender.

[sisterdivinium]

In the off chance Tumblr dies for real, what if we got ourselves a WN message board like in the olden times?

Or maybe I'd just set up a Dreamwidth account (again) and talk to myself, idk. There's still so much to analyse about WN and there's no fun in doing it without sharing it.

[deityofhearts]

anyways other peoples sexualities aren’t your business, it isn’t your right to know other peoples sexualities, it doesn’t matter if they’re friends or family or celebrities they do not owe you this information and it isn’t your right to demand to know or insist that someone is one thing or another stop being weirdos

[explvrer]

been filled with a sense of love recently; sharing some with you