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"The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it’s all that matters." -Steve Jobs

Not a long piece but here's a quote to live by for today. Feeling a little under the weather, I'll be back with more longer pieces next week.

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Time Management Tips for Busy Young Adults: Mastering the Art of Juggling Responsibilities in Adulthood

As a young adult making your way into adulthood, juggling a multitude of responsibilities can be overwhelming. From work and social commitments to personal goals and self-care, finding the right balance and managing your time effectively is crucial for your overall well-being and success. In this blog article, we'll explore some valuable time management tips for busy young adults and offer friendly advice to help you navigate the challenges of adulthood with enthusiasm and positivity.

Prioritize Your Tasks One of the first steps to effective time management is prioritizing your tasks. Identify what needs your immediate attention and what can wait. Make a to-do list and rank tasks based on urgency and importance. Focus on completing high-priority tasks first to ensure you stay on track with your responsibilities.

Create a Schedule Creating a schedule or daily planner can help you stay organized and ensure you allocate time for all your responsibilities. Block out specific time slots for work, social activities, personal goals, self-care, and downtime. Stick to your schedule as much as possible to maintain a sense of structure and productivity in your daily life.

Set Goals and Deadlines Setting clear goals and deadlines for yourself can help you stay motivated and focused on your tasks. Break down larger goals into smaller, manageable milestones and set deadlines for each step. This can help you track your progress, stay accountable, and work towards achieving your long-term objectives.

Avoid Multitasking While multitasking may seem like a time-saving strategy, it can actually lead to decreased productivity and increased stress. Focus on one task at a time and give it your full attention. This approach can lead to better quality work and a more efficient use of your time.

Learn to Delegate As a busy young adult, it's important to recognize when you need help and learn to delegate tasks to others. Delegate responsibilities at work, enlist the support of friends or family for personal tasks, or consider outsourcing certain activities if needed. Delegating can free up your time and energy for more important priorities.

Take Breaks and Practice Self-Care Taking breaks and practicing self-care are essential aspects of effective time management. Schedule regular breaks throughout your day to rest and recharge. Make time for activities that help you relax and rejuvenate, such as exercise, meditation, hobbies, or spending time with loved ones. Taking care of yourself will help you stay focused, energized, and productive in all areas of your life.

In conclusion, mastering the art of time management as a busy young adult is a valuable skill that can greatly benefit your personal and professional life. By prioritizing tasks, creating a schedule, setting goals and deadlines, avoiding multitasking, learning to delegate, and practicing self-care, you can achieve a better balance and make the most of your time. Remember, it's okay to seek support and adjust your strategies as needed to find what works best for you. Embrace the journey of adulthood with enthusiasm and positivity, and don't be afraid to reach out for advice or guidance if you need it. Best of luck on your time management journey ahead!

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Knowing Your Worth: Overcoming Imposter Syndrome

As a young adult navigating the complexities of adulthood, imposter syndrome can often rear its head and make you question your abilities and worth. Let's define imposter syndrome first: imposter syndrome is that nagging feeling of inadequacy and self-doubt, despite evidence of your accomplishments and capabilities, individuals experiencing imposter syndrome often attribute their achievements to luck, timing, or other external factors, rather than their own capabilities.

It's a common phenomenon that many young adults experience as they push themselves to succeed in their personal and professional lives. Today, we'll explore how to overcome imposter syndrome with enthusiasm and a judgement-free perspective, and helping you embrace your worth and confidently step into your authentic self.

Recognise and Acknowledge Your Feelings

The first step in overcoming imposter syndrome is to recognize and acknowledge your feelings of self-doubt and insecurity. It's important to understand that these feelings are common and that you are not alone in experiencing them. By acknowledging your imposter syndrome, you can begin to address and challenge the negative thoughts and beliefs that are holding you back from recognising your true potential.

Challenge Your Inner Critic

Your inner critic can be a powerful force fuelling imposter syndrome— we are in fact our own biggest critique. Challenge these negative thoughts and beliefs by reframing them with more positive and empowering statements. Practice self-affirmations that highlight your strengths, accomplishments, and unique qualities. Remind yourself that it's okay to make mistakes, that no one is perfect, and that failure is a natural part of the learning and growth process.

Seek Support and Validation

Don't be afraid to seek support and validation from trusted friends, family members, mentors, or colleagues. Share your feelings of imposter syndrome with someone you trust and let them provide you with encouragement, perspective, and reassurance. In some cases you'll even find out that those very confident friend you have have also gone through it or are still going through the same imposter syndrome that you are. Surround yourself with a supportive network of individuals who believe in your abilities and value your contributions.

Embrace Vulnerability and Growth

Embrace vulnerability as a strength rather than a weakness. It's okay to not have all the answers or to feel uncertain at times. Allow yourself to be vulnerable, take risks, and step out of your comfort zone. Embrace challenges as opportunities for growth and learning, and remember that progress often comes from pushing yourself beyond your perceived limitations.

Celebrate Your Achievements

Take time to celebrate your achievements, no matter how big or small they may seem. Acknowledge your hard work, dedication, and perseverance in reaching your goals. Keep a journal of your accomplishments, positive feedback, and moments of success to remind yourself of your worth and capabilities during times of self-doubt.

Practice Self-Compassion and Self-Care

Be kind to yourself and practice self-compassion on your journey to overcoming imposter syndrome. Treat yourself with the same kindness and understanding that you would offer to a friend facing similar challenges. Make self-care a priority by engaging in activities that nourish your mind, body, and soul, such as mindfulness practices, exercise, hobbies, or spending time in nature.

In conclusion, overcoming imposter syndrome as a young adult in the journey of adulthood requires self-awareness, self-compassion, and the willingness to challenge your inner critic. By recognizing and acknowledging your feelings you can cultivate a sense of self-worth and confidence that empowers you to thrive and succeed. Remember, you are worthy, capable, and deserving of all the success and opportunities that come your way. Embrace your worth and step boldly into your authentic self – the world is waiting for your unique talents and contributions.

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Do I, Don't I: All I Know About Love

If I'm telling the truth "all the things I know about love" is absolutely a fluke. I have had experiences with love but I still know nothing about it, whatever book of love that Peter Gabriel was singing of would be really helpful now. But for now here's what I've learned:

Navigating the world of love is no easy feat, especially as a young adult who is just trying to figure out who we are and what we want, and where we fit in everything.

It seems like everywhere we turn, there are conflicting messages telling us to love freely but also be cautious, to follow our hearts but also use our head— all that's taught me is love is contradictory. So, do we dive headfirst into the deep end of love, or do we stick to the shallow end and dip our toes in cautiously?

First and foremost, it's important to remember that love is not one-size-fits-all. What works for one person may not work for another, and that's okay— remember that you are the only you there has ever been and that exists. Don't feel pressured to conform to societal norms or expectations when it comes to love. Trust your instincts and do what feels right for you.

That being said, it's crucial to take the time to get to know yourself before jumping into a relationship. It's easy to get caught up in the excitement of a new romance, but it's essential to make sure you are in a good place mentally, emotionally, and spiritually before committing to someone else. Self-love and self-care should always come first. From my experience I would become too much of the other person in the relationship and for me, a person who dates for longevity, I found myself stuck being my partner for all the years we date. And by the time we broke up I realised I'd lost my spark and my individuality in the heat of the relationship.

Communication is key in any relationship. Don't be afraid to express your feelings and needs to your partner openly and honestly. If something is bothering you, speak up. It's better to address issues head-on rather than let them fester and potentially harm the relationship. This is one of those things I still struggle with to this day, but I'm working on it.

On the flip side, it's also important to listen to your partner and be willing to compromise. A conversation is defined as communication between individuals and it is implied that for this conversation to happen, individuals must listen to come another— remember that you could be hearing someone but not listening. Love is a two-way street, and both parties need to be willing to put in the effort to make the relationship work. Remember, it's not always about being right, but about finding a solution that works for both of you.

Lastly, don't be afraid to take risks when it comes to love. It's natural to feel scared or vulnerable when opening up to someone, but sometimes, the greatest rewards come from taking chances. Trust your gut and follow your heart, even if it means stepping out of your comfort zone. Even if it means getting hurt a little.

Platonic love is deeply underrated and that's something to always have in mind. If I didn't have that one girl friend with all the same interests, that I enjoy doing miscellaneous chores with and the one I am comfortable sitting with in complete silence, I don't know how far I would be now. For every positive/healthy thing I know about love, I owe it her and my cousin who helps my crippling insomnia subside.

In the end, there is no right or wrong way to approach love. It's a journey filled with ups and downs, twists and turns. Embrace the uncertainty and enjoy the ride. Love is a beautiful thing, and it's worth all the trials and tribulations that come with it.

So, do I, don't I? The choice is yours. Just remember to love boldly, fiercely, and unapologetically. You deserve it!

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Hey! Out for this week. Will be back next week.

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The Art of Networking: Building Professional Connections

As a young adult embarking on your journey into adulthood, building professional connections and networking can be a valuable asset in advancing your career and personal growth. Networking is not just about exchanging business cards or attending events; it's about cultivating meaningful relationships that can open doors to opportunities and support your professional development. In this blog article, we'll explore the power of networking for young adults and offer enthusiastic and judgement-free advice to help you navigate this important aspect of your journey.

Be Authentic and Genuine

When it comes to networking, authenticity is key because every can smell pretentiousness from a mile away. Be yourself, and let your true personality shine through in your interactions with others. People are more likely to connect with you on a personal and professional level if you are genuine and authentic. Show interest in others, listen attentively, and be open to sharing your own experiences and goals— relatability always softens people's heart and helps in letting down their guard.

Utilise Multiple Platforms

In today's digital age, networking opportunities abound on various platforms. Utilise online platforms such as LinkedIn, professional networking events, industry conferences, and social media to connect with like-minded individuals and expand your network. Be pro-active in reaching out to potential connections, sharing your expertise, and engaging in conversations that can lead to valuable relationships.

Offer Value and Support

Networking is not just about what you can gain; it's also about what you can offer to others. Be generous with your time, knowledge, and resources. Offer to help others with their projects, provide insights or advice based on your expertise and experiences, and support your connections in their professional endeavours. Building a reputation as a valuable and supportive networker can lead to long-lasting and mutually beneficial relationships, it can also spark other's interest in you as they know they are gaining a valuable network by connecting with you.

Attend Networking Events

Attending networking events and industry conferences is a great way to expand your professional circle and meet new people— during my undergraduate studies we were forced to attend these as part of practicals and I came to love them rather than see them as another task to be done. Be proactive in seeking out networking opportunities in your industry or field of interest. Prepare an elevator pitch that succinctly describes who you are, what you do, and what you're looking for in terms of professional connections. Approach conversations with confidence, curiosity, and a willingness to learn from others.

Follow-Up and Stay Connected

After making initial connections, it's important to follow up and stay connected with your network. Send a personalized thank-you message after meeting someone new, connect with them on LinkedIn, and consider setting up a follow-up meeting or coffee chat to deepen your relationship. Maintaining regular communication with your connections can help you stay top of mind and nurture valuable professional relationships over time.

Be Patient and Persistent

Building a strong professional network takes time and effort. Be patient and persistent in your networking efforts, and don't get discouraged by setbacks or rejections. Keep an open mind, stay positive, and continue to seek out new networking opportunities and connections. Remember, networking is a long-term investment in your personal and professional growth, and the relationships you build along the way can be invaluable in shaping your career journey.

In conclusion, networking is a powerful tool for young adults making their way into adulthood to build professional connections, expand their opportunities, and support your career development. By being authentic and genuine, utilizing multiple platforms, offering value and support, attending networking events, following up and staying connected, and being patient and persistent, you can create a strong and diverse network of contacts that can help you achieve your goals and aspirations. Embrace the journey of networking with enthusiasm and an open mind, and remember that every connection you make has the potential to impact your future success. Happy networking!

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Navigating Career Exploration and Development

The journey of career exploration and development can be both exciting and daunting. From choosing a career path that aligns with your passions to climbing the corporate ladder, there are numerous challenges and opportunities that lie ahead. I recently started a new position and thought this would be something cool to blog about, let's delve in, maybe I can share a trick or two that I have learned.

Embrace Your Ambitions and Passions

As a young adult, it's crucial to embrace your ambitions and passions when embarking on your career journey. Don't be afraid to dream big and pursue goals that truly resonate with you, just don't reach too high and get greatly disappointed. Whether it's climbing the corporate ladder, starting your own business, or making a difference in your community, let your passions be your guiding light as you navigate your career path. My most practical example is how I had always told myself that I'd probably go into accounting, it was too obvious because I loved the subject, as a career but my passion for publishing and graphic design lead me to study publishing and here I am 4 years down the line working in the field, scheduling my own times and still doing further education. I wouldn't have been here if I stuck to the ambitions forced on me by my parents, follow your own aspirations and passions because at the end of the day your parents won't be there when you have to go into the office for a 09h00 to 17h00.

Seek Mentorship and Guidance

One of the most valuable assets in navigating career exploration and development is mentorship. Seek out successful individuals in your field who can offer guidance, support, and advice as you make your way into adulthood. A mentor can provide valuable insights, help you navigate challenges, and offer a fresh perspective on your career goals, and even potentially get you special opportunities that you wouldn't have any other way else. I never understood the importance of a mentor until I had one, try it out. You're bound to learn something new or if not at leats you've started networking.

Invest in Your Professional Development

Investing in your professional development is key to advancing in your career as a young adult. Take advantage of training programs, LinkedIn Learning offers a lot of free courses that also add certificates and achievements onto your LinkedIn profile, workshops, seminars, and networking events to enhance your skills, expand your knowledge, stay ahead of the curve in your industry and potentially meet future employers. Continuous learning and growth are essential for success in today's fast-paced world, what you needed to know yesterday is not what you need to know today.

Build a Strong Personal Brand

As a young adult entering the workforce, building a strong personal brand can set you apart from the competition and boost your career prospects. Invest time in crafting a polished resume, optimising your LinkedIn profile, and showcasing your skills and accomplishments in a professional manner. This is the most fun part about entering the career world, you get a fresh new slate and you can decide to be perceived in any way that you wish to be, for me I went for the personal brand that I'd always seen myself as which was professional, minimalistic, tech-efficient and graphically inclined. Your personal brand is a reflection of who you are, how you want to be perceived and what you bring to the table— so make it what you want!

Network, Network, Network

Networking is a powerful tool for career exploration and development as a young adult. Make an effort to expand your professional network, connect with like-minded individuals, and build meaningful relationships that can open doors to new opportunities. This can be by simply connecting with everyone in your publishing module class on LInkedIn if you're planning to potentially go into the field professionally. Attend industry events, join professional associations, and leverage social media to network with influencers and thought leaders in your field. And more especially, DO NOT BURN ANY BRIDGES. Specifically for me, the publishing field is the size of a private company's offices and that's for the nation, meaning you probably interacted with everyone at least once in your life so you'll have to be nice and professional with everyone because you might end up working with them at some point.

Embrace Challenges and Take Risks

As you navigate the ups and downs of career exploration and development, don't be afraid to embrace challenges and take risks along the way. Stepping out of your comfort zone, trying new things, and taking calculated risks can lead to growth, learning, and new opportunities for personal and professional development. Embrace uncertainty as a chance to learn and grow stronger. In conclusion, career exploration and development as a young adult can be a transformative and empowering journey.

Rejection is not Permanent

If I had a R10 for every time I was rejected by a potential employer, I'd be able to take a solo trip to Cape Town. Job rejection can be disheartening and lead to feelings of frustration and disappointment. It's important to remember that rejection is not permanent and does not define your worth or capabilities. Instead of dwelling on the rejection, use it as an opportunity for growth and self-reflection. Take the time to assess your strengths and areas for improvement, seek feedback from the employer if possible, and use the experience to refine your job search strategies. Remember that rejection is a natural part of the job search process and that each rejection brings you one step closer to finding the right opportunity that aligns with your skills, goals and passions. Stay resilient, maintain a positive mindset, and believe in your abilities – the right job is out there waiting for you.

Remember, the sky's the limit for when entering the workforce, so dream big, work hard, and never stop striving for your career goals. Good luck on your journey ahead!

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Budgeting 101: How to Afford Your Hobbies

Welcome to budgeting 101, my friends! I know, I know—just hearing the word “budget” is about as exciting as getting a root canal. But having control of your money is honestly so freeing. Plus, it means you can spend on the things you really care about, like your hobbies!

When I first started earning money from my part-time jobs, I blew through it like there was no tomorrow. It wasn’t until I didn’t have enough left for my rabbit's food that the realisation hit me: I needed a budget. So here's a crash course on how to make your money work for you!

Track your spending

The first step is to see where your money is actually going each month. It's easy to keep tapping that phone of yours and hearing that satisfying ApplePay tune but where is it really going? Look at the last 3-6 months of bank and credit card statements. Write down how much you spent on essentials like rent, food, and transportation. Also include discretionary spending on things like movies, clothes, hobbies, etc. This will show you where you can cut back.

Set limits

Decide how much you want to allocate each month to necessities and discretionary spending. A good rule of thumb is to spend no more than 50% of your income on essentials. Also set limits for dining out, entertainment, and your hobbies. Start on the lower end—you can always make adjustments as your pay check gets bigger.

Look for “pay yourself first” opportunities

Before you pay any bills, put money into your savings. Start with at least 10% of your income and increase 1% each month. This makes saving money a habit and means you have funds for bigger hobby purchases down the road!

Find cheap or free hobbies

Not all hobbies have to cost an arm and a leg. Check your local library for free events, join a recreational sports league, take up gardening or hiking, volunteer at an animal shelter. There are plenty of rewarding hobbies you can do on a budget.

Budgeting isn’t rocket science, it just takes some practice. But stick with it and soon you’ll have more financial freedom to spend on the hobbies and things that really matter to you. You’ve got this, my thrifty friends! Now go start saving some of that hard-earned cash.

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Self-Care

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My self-care routine is my saving grace. When life feels like a bit too much, I retreat to my cozy space and do things that refuel my soul. Here are a few of my go-to self-care practices:

Journaling

I find journaling to be incredibly cathartic. I pour my feelings onto the page without judgment. I work through challenges, find clarity, and relieve stress. Even 15 minutes of journalling leaves me feeling refreshed and recharged. It doesn't even have to be written words, I have an 'everything page' and this could include sticky notes with words or symbols, a polaroid picture, a sticker that I got for free, a slip from a coffee date and more. It doesn't always have to make sense to the next person. Give it a try!

Yoga or light exercise

Moving your body is essential for your wellbeing. I usually breakout into the few you poses that I know by heart and just do that for a quick 15 minutes or go for a walk around my neighbourhood, peaceful and scenic. Exercise releases feel-good hormones like dopamine and serotonin that boost your mood and reduce anxiety. Go touch grass! Literally, reconnecting to nature is a grounding experience which can bring you back from a stressful day.

Call a friend

Talking to someone who cares about me always makes me feel better. I call up a close friend or family member and chat about whatever is on my mind, or whatever my day held for me. Laughter and social interaction are vital for health and happiness, try it out.

Do something creative

Tapping into my creative side is rejuvenating. I paint, bake, write stories or whatever sparks my inspiration. This blog is actually a form of outlet for me too, I just get a topic and start typing without any thoughts or direction and by the end the tension in my shoulders is less and I've got something others can learn from, or not. Creativity takes my mind off of worries and leaves me with a sense of accomplishment. You don't have to write, even finer painting does wonders.

Pamper yourself

A little pampering goes a long way. I give myself a skin care day; I deck out all my skin care products from cleanser to serum and more. Go get your nails done, nothing like a new set of claws to make you feel fierce. Taking a long bubble bath with bath salts and essential oils usually relaxes all those tense muscles. Do small things to spoil yourself and boost your confidence. You deserve it!

My self-care routine helps me decompress and renew my positive outlook on life, and if you knew me you'd know that I barely have a positive outlook at all. Make the time for yourself and the things that fill you up. Your health and happiness depend on it. What are your favorite ways to practice self-care? I'd love to hear your thoughts in the comments below!

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Finding Your Passion in Life

Finding your passion in life is so important. When you do what you love, work doesn’t feel like work at all! The key is trying lots of new things and not being afraid to step outside your comfort zone.

Explore Your Interests

Think about the topics or activities that energize you. What do you geek out on? What could you spend hours reading about or doing? Make a list of your interests and see if any jump out as potential passions.

Try new hobbies like photography, crocheting or learning an instrument. You never know what might spark your passion! Do some volunteer work for a cause you care about. Helping others in a meaningful way can be deeply fulfilling.

Talk to People Currently in Roles That Interest You

Reach out to people currently in jobs that sound exciting. Ask if they'd be willing to chat over coffee or phone about their experience. People love to share their insights and you'll gain valuable guidance.

Check if you can shadow them for a day to really immerse yourself in what a "day in the life" looks like in a job that interests you. Ask lots of questions about what they find most and least rewarding in their work. Their answers may help determine if it aligns with your passions.

Don't Feel Limited By Your Degree or Background

Just because you studied one thing in school doesn't mean you're confined to that field forever. Many people end up in careers unrelated to their degrees. Your passion may lead you in an entirely new direction!

With an open and willing spirit, you'll discover that your purpose is deeply meaningful. Don't get discouraged if it takes time. Tuning into what energizes and fulfills you will guide you to your purpose. The key is just diving in and trying new things without judgment. Your passion is out there, go find it!

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✿ Embracing the Unknown ✿

Embracing the unknown—it’s a daunting yet exciting part of becoming an adult. Rather than fear the uncertain, I’ve learned to see it as an opportunity for growth or potential adventure. Here are a few tips I’ve picked up along the way:

Do Your Research

When facing a new situation, gather as much intel as you can. Learn from those who have gone before you, this could be mean older siblings or Reddit chains. The more you understand, the less “unknown” it will feel. Talk to people currently in that role or life stage. Google is also your friend here, go wild.

Start Small and Build Up

Don’t feel overwhelmed by major life changes. Take things step by step. For example, if you're starting a new job, focus on learning the basics before trying to overhaul any systems. Build up your confidence over time through small wins and praise yourself for it— you deserve it!

Ask Questions

There's no shame in not knowing something. Asking questions is how we learn. Whether it's a new job, health issue or move to an unfamiliar place, don't be afraid to speak up when you have questions. Most people will appreciate your desire to do things right.

Be Flexible and Adaptable

Life rarely goes exactly as planned. Learn to pivot when needed, a Friends moment is always welcomed— Pivot, Pivot, Pivot, Pivot! Having an open and willing attitude will make transitions much smoother. Look for the positives in each new situation. Some of the best opportunities come from unforeseen circumstances!

Take Calculated Risks

Stepping out of your comfort zone is the only way to grow. But take risks wisely. Start with smaller risks before tackling bigger challenges. Have a backup plan, have a backup plan for that backup plan in case things don't go as hoped. You'll build resilience over time, and that also a good skill to have.

The unknown may never feel 100% comfortable, it's the unknown, but by learning to embrace it, you open yourself up to new possibilities. Take things day by day, focus on progress not perfection, and remember—you've got this! The skills and wisdom you gain will serve you well on your journey into adulthood.

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My Top 5 Struggles of Adulting

Adulting is hard, am I right? There are so many new responsibilities that seem to come out of nowhere. Here are my top 5 struggles of navigating this new adulthood thing:

Bills, Bills, Bills

Why does it feel like as soon as you get your pay check, it's already spent?! Keeping track of due dates, ensuring there's enough in your account, and actually paying the bills on time is way more stressful than I anticipated. Having a pet went from being fun to having a dependent that relies on you at the snap of a finger... But the best way to handle a pay check is not even debit orders keep your money untouched for at leats 24hours, this is could for your credit when it comes to your personal cashflow record in the banking system. And only start paying off bills after then.

To Credit Or Not to Credit

This was my biggest question when finally earning a salary and being stable with working. In the current economic climate credit is what the makes the world go round, good credit score makes you seem responsible and able to handle a car, a house bond, and apartment lease, and even bigger things. But my advice to you with credit is get an easy credit card, maybe for clothes. By small items less than R500, set it to be paid within the next 6 months but pay it back with the next month. It makes you look responsible, and helps build a credit score fast. Hold off on trying to secure a phone contract, don't dive before you've learnt to swim.

Food at Home

Remember when you went out with your parents and asked for take out but they always said there was food at home? You're going to have to make sure that there's food at home. Your cosy little apartment fridge should have more than just snacks. Which brings us to building a grocery list: start with staples that are used on a monthly basis and can last for a few months on end, then when those are around then you can from time-to-time restock on goodies. For me, my goodies are sugary cupcakes that I buy once a month during my big grocery run and watermelon Jolly Ranchers.

Dirty Laundry

How did my parents do this every week for a whole family?! Between finding time to do laundry, folding and putting it all away, and ensuring I have enough clean clothes for the week, it feels never ending—it’s a loop. Best case scenario, try doing it at night just before you sleep and hanging it in the morning just before leaving for morning classes or work, just make sure you have a clean set of clothes still wearable.

Maintaining Friendships

With busy work schedules, errands, classes and life in general, finding time to stay socially connected with friends gets harder and harder. Making an effort to schedule in time to call or grab coffee with friends is almost impossible, but balancing it all certainly isn't easy. But best way to handle it all is your plain old calendar app, get all your friends to agree on a calendar app to use and each person can add dates of when they'd like to grab coffee or go book shopping or to the movies and the others can all see it and agree to attendance if one is missing, simple hold and drag to a more suitable day. Have fun with it!

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♡ hello ♡

hi! If you're here chances are you've recently entered the "real world" and are struggling to figure out how to adult. Don't worry, you're not alone. I may have a few years on you, but I'm still learning how to navigate this whole adulthood thing day-by-day.

this will be our judgment-free zone where we can figure this out together. This little corner of the internet is my attempt at making sense of it all while keeping things light-hearted, relatable and fun. Here you'll find musings on work-life balance, managing finances, staying social, and adding more meaning and creativity into each day. We'll call this little spot TheDailyOverload.

most importantly, I want this to be an uplifting space where we can support each other through both the highs and lows of this crazy, confusing, wonderful time of life.

so grab your favourite snack or beverage and make yourself at home! Feel free to poke around and explore. If you have any questions about life after college or want to chat about shared experiences, I'd be happy to connect.

the adulting adventures await!