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💪 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙄𝙄𝙄 - 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙩𝙤𝙥𝙨 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙚𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧?

Today we continue our journey of chatting about what things might be stopping you from really jumping into your Infinite power with both feet.

We all have unique gifts and talents to utilise and share in this lifetime. Sometimes we have a natural tendency for something since we were young, and then it's also quite common for certain gifts to seemingly become available when we embark on the consciousness journey.

Many people on the spiritual path often hide away their gifts for fear of judgement from the outside world, or perhaps massively underutilise them ... in other words, they play small and don't fully allow themselves to shine their light in their unique way.

There are many reasons why we may shy away from fully stepping into our gifts.

We may fear just how powerful we truly are so we "hold back" the full expression of our inspiration. We might tell ourselves we don't know what our gifts are or understand how to use them. There can be a learning curve involved to learn new skills and we may hold ourselves back from taking the necessary steps to support the unfolding of our newfound talents.

It is also easy to fall into the ego trap of thinking we are the actual ones "doing" the talent rather than being the vessel for the inspiration of the infinite to flow through us and out into the world. In this way, we can get stuck in our head and feel overwhelmed working out the "how to's", thinking it's the "little me" who is running the show! By being the channel for the infinite, we have access to much more potential and support.

So much was covered in today's conversation! It is one of our longest conversations to date because it is such a jam-packed topic and an area of life that we can struggle with.

We are here to be the infinite expression of our soul. What does it look like to jump both feet into your gifts and talents? Have you allowed yourself to play full out?

Let us know in the comments what comes up for you from today's conversation. And please share what your unique gifts are ... we would love to hear!

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💪 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙄𝙄 -𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙩𝙤𝙥𝙨 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙚𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧?

Today we continue our journey of chatting about what things might be stopping you from really jumping into your Infinite power with both feet.

Often when we are on the consciousness or spiritual path we find ourselves initially wanting to tell everyone about it. We are excited at the shifts we are feeling and we feel it could help everyone if they too had the insights we had.

Then we start to feel even a bit arrogant when we get push back from people, and they don't seem as fired up or excited to make the shifts we are or get the insights we got, so we start to almost feel like we know more than others... that we have the true path and those not on it are somehow less, or stupid even.

But then it can be like the pendulum swings back fully and we almost end up in hiding.

We don't want anyone to know that we are doing this work, or that we attend courses and seminars on spirituality or consciousness. We almost put ourselves back into the closet for fear of what others might think or say, or the judgements that will be placed in us.

In effect, we have done the opposite of what we might be trying to achieve by doing consciousness work, which is to expand and live our true authentic selves in every moment, no matter how that looks or who sees it.

So why do we do this? Why do we shut down and not let some people see our conscious or infinite side, especially since it is generally a massive part of ourselves and our lives?

Well, there might be a few reasons, and no doubt you will relate to quite a few of these...

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💪 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 𝙄 -𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙎𝙩𝙤𝙥𝙨 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙛𝙧𝙤𝙢 𝙎𝙩𝙚𝙥𝙥𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙁𝙪𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪𝙧 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚 𝙋𝙤𝙬𝙚𝙧?

This is such a big and important topic that we felt it worthy of a mini-series... our first one! haha

So over the coming 3-4 days, we are going to dissect this topic and pull it apart from all angles.

Starting with the question... What comes up for you when we say 'Ok it's time to step 100% two feet into your Infinite Power... there is no going back from here?’

What fears just hit you right then? What doubts came up? Is being infinite allowed in this human game? what would happen if you full jumped in? Is it scientifically even possible?

In today's first part of this series, we explore the larger concepts like what does science tell us, what fears and thought processes commonly come up, and what would it look like if you did fully step into your infinite power?

This was a very rich exploration into why as humans we do not fully step-in boots and all into our powers, and the 'stories' we have bought into that say we can’t!

Strap in.... it's going to be one hell of a ride!

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😃𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙊𝙥𝙥𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙪𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙮 𝙤𝙛 𝙖 𝙇𝙞𝙛𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙢𝙚...

How often do you try and change your current story... like lose weight, improve your money situation by working harder, or fix your relationship?

We have all fallen prey to trying to change our reality by focussing purely on our reality and the story presenting that we're just not happy with.

But the funny thing is, reality itself cannot be changed! 

Yes, you did read that right.

It just looks like it changes when we do things to improve our situation. What's really happening behind the scenes though is that we ourselves have changed internally, and that then unfolds into our new reality. In fact, reality itself can never be changed unless we shift our own perception and consciousness around it.

What is already manifested into reality cannot shift. It's like watching the movie screen in a theatre or on a TV. The film itself cannot be changed by walking up to the screen and trying to change it in some way. You have to change the film being shown to create a different outcome on the screen.

So what's the importance of the storyline then?

Is it just a tool to explore our different emotions and provide us with an opportunity to dive into fears that hold us back from being anything less than infinite?!

In today's chat, we dive into this concept more…

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😐𝙃𝙤𝙬 𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙄𝙣𝙩𝙚𝙧𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘿𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙀𝙣𝙚𝙧𝙜𝙚𝙩𝙞𝙘 𝙁𝙚𝙚𝙡𝙞𝙣𝙜𝙨? Do you feel affected by Mercury Retrograde? Does life seem to slow down to a snail's pace, technology stuff up, and agreements and commitments go haywire?

What if all that was just a 'story' you have bought into and Mercury actually has no effect on you at all? Other than the power you have given it of course!

We can be so quick to judge when we're feeling low... you've been on the consciousness journey for some time now, so surely you shouldn't be feeling low any time anymore right!?

How often when we experience life's ebbs, do we then look for reasons and justifications in our 'story' as to why we feel that way. Maybe somehow it relieves the pressure to know that Mercury is doing something funky and that's why you are feeling 'off’!

But what if we just feel low, or disconnected, or un-abundant, or depressed for no reason at all. What if that's just an experience we are meant to have at that moment... with no labels, judgements, no justifications, and certainly no story surrounding it...What does that look like??

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😲𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙩 𝙍𝙖𝙣𝙩... 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙇𝙞𝙣𝙚 𝙞𝙣 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙎𝙖𝙣𝙙 𝙃𝙖𝙨 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝘿𝙧𝙖𝙬𝙣! Enough! When we will it be time to STOP all the ego BS... the trying to fix, change or improve ourselves - our story, our finances, our body... the focus on the story to get 'insights', the strategies, the trying to become enlightened, the ascension, the awakening! It is ALL EGO! It is time for a REVOLUTION... a new paradigm in the Consciousness world. We have gone on long enough trying to understand, deal with and even smash the ego. And the Ego is loving it! Because it has your attention! The more energy and attention you give it the more it comes. It will NEVER STOP! Until YOU draw a line in the sand and say enough! Enough focus on the ego and its dramas and stories. For now on, in every moment, I am ONLY going to give my attention to the truth of who I really am and how my reality and story is created. The truth is You are ALREADY Infinite! You do not have to ascend, awaken or even find your infinite powers, you have them right now... you just need to see and use them. The REVOLUTION has begun... we are drawing the line in the sand and asking any One that resonates with this message, anyone on the Consciousness journey that is sick to death of looping over and over again in their story and dramas of life, no matter how much consciousness work you do, how many courses you do, how many books you read, seminars you attend...It is time to step up into the Truth of who you really are... You are Infinite. You have everything you need right here, right now. There is nothing wrong with you or your story... just the way we have all been looking at it. This Revolution is a complete 180-degree change in the way we look at our life, ourselves and the Universe/God/The Infinite. If this resonates for you, then please join us in this Revolution at https://theinfinite.me/is-coming

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You were already infinite long before you had a physical body, there was a money game and even other people to play with! So why do we allow the physical world to define us? Today's discussion is all about the remembering of our infinite nature and the dissolution of the definitions and stories we have about what is means to be "human".

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🤔 𝘾𝙤𝙪𝙡𝙙 𝘼𝙪𝙩𝙞𝙨𝙩𝙞𝙘 & 𝘼𝘿𝙃𝘿 '𝙎𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙧𝙪𝙢’ 𝙋𝙚𝙤𝙥𝙡𝙚 𝘼𝙘𝙩𝙪𝙖𝙡𝙡𝙮 𝘽𝙚 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙊𝙣𝙚'𝙨 𝙒𝙄𝙏𝙃𝙊𝙐𝙏 𝙖 𝘿𝙞𝙨𝙤𝙧𝙙𝙚𝙧? As a society, we have created a lot of labels to attempt to explain certain mental “conditions” that seem to fall outside of the “normal” way of operating. The diagnosis of Asperger’s Syndrome, ADHD and Autism seem to be on the rise, and the medical community has responded with treatment protocols and pharmaceutical drugs to “manage” these so-called disorders. We’ve probably all seen the movie “Rainman” or have witnessed the amazing capabilities of people on the spectrum and there is no doubt they are geniuses! But above all that, the most fascinating aspect that stands out is their ability to be in the present moment. We ourselves have certainly seen how joy-filled these people are … how nothing worries them, they have a refreshingly simplistic outlook on life, everything feels different to them all the time, and the details are fascinating to them. But the irony of all this is… aren’t we are all trying to get to that very space too? Maybe, just maybe, they have it right…?! Maybe it’s not a “disorder” at all! Maybe they are showing us all our innate infiniteness and how possible it is for us all to operate from that space. However, society views this as a “problem” because how do you control a bunch of individuals who do not respond to being told what to do or are quite simply bored out of their brains by the monotony of “sameness”. What if certain people that we have ‘labelled’ as having ADHD or ADD just display a very focused set of values and know exactly what they love to spend their time doing? What if they will stop at nothing to express what’s moving through them in the moment and not apologise for being who they truly are? Do these people actually have an attention deficit when they can literally sit for hours focussed on the one thing, like a video game? Or have we labelled them because are they simply just not interested in what we want, expect or need them to be interested in? What if some people just possess a radically different set of filters and natural tendencies in how they interact with reality? What if they are actually being driven by a complete zest for life? Perhaps we are being shown what it looks like to embrace our own genius and how to bring it into the world without apology or filters on our expression? We would love to hear your feedback on this conversation as it is certainly not the normal discussion that abounds on “spectrum disorders”! Consciousness does not make mistakes, so what are we being shown by the increase in the number of individuals who operate from this way of being in the world? It is certainly fascinating! *Important Note: We do not in any way intend to offend anyone who might have been diagnosed with ADHD, Asperger’s or Autism and have been labelled as being “on the spectrum”, by using the terms “condition”, “disorder” or “these people” as if they are a different race or there is actually something wrong! It is merely a way for us to have this juicy conversation exploring what might be REALLY going on, as since we ourselves (Nat and Mandy) do not appear to have these specific “disorders”… although since reading the signs and symptoms for such “disorders” we can certainly say we display some of them to some degree. It makes us wonder if these so-called “disorders” are actually the path of consciousness since they are very much aligned with how many of us report to feel and act once you have been on the consciousness journey for some time. As we hope you gathered from our video discussion, we most certainly do not buy into the labels of society and we absolutely question the obsession to fit everything into the “normal” box!

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😕𝘿𝙤 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙀𝙫𝙚𝙣 𝙆𝙣𝙤𝙬 𝙒𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝙒𝙖𝙣𝙩?

Have you ever created a Vision Board? Probably most of us at some point may have dabbled with creating one where we have cut out pictures from magazines of things we think we’d really love to manifest in our life. It can be a really fun activity … but are we creating a vision that is actually true for us? 

We live in a world surrounded constantly by what a successful life supposedly looks like and are bombarded with marketing messages telling us what will make us feel good and look good. It’s no wonder then, that we often put quite materialistic based ideas on our vision boards, believing that having these things will make us feel more fulfilled and happy, and even loved and admired. 

We can then become very attached to the form those visions need to manifest in, because of the stories we have running about what manifesting those things will mean for us and our life. In effect, we create future projections of what our status or enjoyment levels will be when we finally have the things we want.

But do we ever ask ourselves if we would REALLY want that lifestyle we see on social media? Would it REALLY be what we would want to spend our time doing, or even spend the time it takes to maintain the ‘image’ of that perceived lifestyle?! 

If we dig beneath the surface of the initial excitement of owning that object or living that life, can you still say that it feels true for you to have that… or is it simply become a borrowed vision from someone else?

As humans, we come from such a limited space of what’s possible for us in the world — we approximate what we think we want based on our past, the possibilities we see around us, and the people we spend our time with. More often than not, our ideas come from what we already know to be possible and will, therefore, always be limited in nature, purely because we are using our human mind to inform our choices… and even create our visions in the first place.

If you are really honest with yourself, does your life today even match what you might have put on your vision board ten years ago? If you think about the things in your current life that you really truly love, are they the same as the things you thought back then would make you happy? We bet they aren’t!

What if we left it up to the Infinite to see what is actually true for us? What if we were to spend our time sitting in the knowing of ourself as an infinite being and seeing what wants to unfold through our human form… instead of our human form trying to figure it all out from its limited perspective? 

The infinite potential can provide amazing creations for us when we get out of the way of thinking we know what we want. When we stay in the unknowable, imaginative energy of the infinite, anything is possible.

The truth is, we never really know how life will turn out! We get glimpses of visions that feel true for us, but we will never be able to fully see how a creation will unfold due to the ever-changing, creative nature of the Infinite. We can be the human vessel for a vision to come to fruition in this world, but the Infinite unknowable energy is really what’s driving the bus… let’s be honest!

So create a vision board if it feels true for you, but perhaps use it more as a catalyst for your imagination to expand into what’s possible when we leave space for the Infinite to deliver that car, or house, or lifestyle that you envision… “or better”!

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🤗 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚𝙡𝙮 𝙇𝙖𝙧𝙜𝙚 & 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚𝙡𝙮 𝙎𝙢𝙖𝙡𝙡 - 𝙩𝙝𝙚 𝘿𝙞𝙛𝙛𝙚𝙧𝙚𝙣𝙩 𝙋𝙚𝙧𝙨𝙥𝙚𝙘𝙩𝙞𝙫𝙚𝙨 𝙤𝙛 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙄𝙣𝙛𝙞𝙣𝙞𝙩𝙚 When we think about the concept of infinity – that we live in an infinite universe with no beginning and end – it is very hard for the human brain to actually comprehend the sheer scale of our reality and the unfathomable depths of creation.

When scientists use high powered microscopes to peer into the quantum world, inside every atom that exists, at the most infinitely smallest of scales, it has been discovered that there is nothing but energy there. There is actually no physical form at all!

So everything that we see around us with our eyes in our physical world – our body, furniture, house, other people, trees, animals – is nothing but energy vibrating slowly enough that we “see” it appearing as solid form. It is quite simply an illusion - a trick of the eyes.

When we zoom right out into space, the same thing is found - nothing but energy! Even the most sophisticated NASA telescopes have failed to find anything that is not “empty space” at its core.

The “Powers of Ten™” video is an awesome exploration of the massive scale of our physical universe – and that is just what we know about! The video can be viewed here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0fKBhvDjuy0. It is an absolutely mind-blowing journey through our reality.

So what is the significance of this in terms of us human beings living our life here on planet Earth? If everything we think is “real” is actually empty space and an illusion, then how does that change your perception on limitations, fear and what is possible?

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😳𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘼𝙬𝙖𝙠𝙚? The journey of “waking up” to who we really are is not a straight road. Each person’s experience is unique and usually follows quite a winding, often tumultuous path! But ultimately we are all heading towards the realisation and embodiment of our infinite nature.

Often it can start from feeling "outside" of the rest of the world, perhaps even as early in life as when you were a child. Maybe you just see life differently to everyone else. You don’t quite understand why we have so many rules in life and feel the chaotic energy of our world at a very deep level. You might feel misunderstood or not heard by those around you. Or perhaps you just feel like you are here to do something different to the status quo.

Sometimes we have a wake-up call in the form of a life-altering experience which causes us to question how we have been living up until now and if there “more to life than this?”. 

Discovering you have a major illness like cancer, or are involved in a serious car accident that almost takes your life, a long-term marriage breakdown that results in divorce or you are suddenly fired from your job – all these scenarios can act as catalysts to us looking more closely at what we REALLY want from our life.

These catalysts can lead us to becoming very curious about what else is possible and we may start to step out of our known universe and start exploring consciousness or spirituality. Perhaps someone suggests a book you’d really find interesting or you watch a TED talk that sparks a new direction. You might go to a seminar that leads you to sign up for an intensive personal transformation course or you might decide to finally follow your passion and start a new business.

When we start to really question our reality and everything we have thought to be true, it can be quite shocking to see just how much bullshit we have been buying into! Outdated habits that hold us back, relationships that no longer serve us, staying at a job that sucks the life force out of us or allowing others to walk all over us and not speak up about it.

Bringing awareness to our life in this way is like putting everything under a microscope and really seeing for the first time what is actually going on. We might start to make changes to what feels like it is no longer working in our life, only to discover that it is our WHOLE life that needs an overhaul! 

It quite often feels like your entire life is falling apart - and this is not that far from the truth! The ego is especially confronted by our now conscious awareness of our limitations and the commitment to expand our life, and it will fight tooth and nail for it’s existence to remain as it was. An epic battle between your ego and your consciousness can ensue!

However, when you start to know your own inner power, nothing can remain the same and your current reality has to fall away to match your newly realised consciousness. This is like death to the ego and it can be excruciatingly painful! Even though we know something is not serving us anymore, it can be hard to let it go just because it can look scary to move completely into unknown territory. 

Having support through this growth period is particularly helpful as it will assist to “normalise” your experience and expedite your awakening to your true self. Often mentors and guides show up for us that perfectly match where we are at and greatly assist our journey. We start to step more and more into our true creator power and find we are now manifesting a life we truly love.

We start to move from just intellectually knowing ourself as a conscious creator to really embodying what it means to be an infinite being playing a game here on Planet Earth. The more we come to deeply act from this knowing, the more we can play with it all and access the infinite potential of pure creation! Welcome home, infinite being!

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😓 𝙃𝙖𝙫𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘽𝙚𝙚𝙣 𝙄𝙣𝙙𝙤𝙘𝙩𝙧𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙚𝙙 𝙞𝙣𝙩𝙤 𝙩𝙝𝙚 "𝙃𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙒𝙤𝙧𝙠" 𝙈𝙞𝙣𝙙𝙨𝙚𝙩? No doubt many of us have heard the saying that "hard work is a virtue", and we are so bombarded by society around us driving home this message too that is it no wonder we think this is a normal way to live our life - "Life is a struggle and you have to work hard to get ahead"!Do you ever stop to question where these beliefs around working hard came from? And if it even feels true for you anymore? Many times this mindset was formed from childhood and seeing how our parents related to work and their ethics. We witnessed how they spent their day working hard and how it made them feel and noticed their conversations about it all. We formed beliefs about the world and how we needed to show up too. So we go about our life doing what everyone else around us is doing and often feeling miserable and unhappy. We might start to question if we are working so hard, then why are we not further ahead in life or fulfilled by it? If we do not enjoy what we do in life, then it will most definitely feel like very hard work! The ego loves to play the game of deriving its value from hard work. So much so, that you might notice that you even judge yourself and feel guilty for taking an afternoon nap when you really "should" be working! Then when we have had a hard day working, we tell ourself we "deserve" to drink that glass of wine and veg out in front of the TV all night. It's funny when you start to really become aware of your beliefs and learn more about how to live more consciously that you discover that the paradigm of "hard work" is such an ego game to keep us going in the opposite direction to who we truly are. If we stay engaged in the stories, then we will never wake up to our infinite nature. If we are always busy, then we never create the space to tune into our infinite self. The ego keeps us constantly engaged so we don't wake up to the fact that our inspiration and joy are found in the stillness, and that we can live an effortless life when we follow what we love to do. Everything feels like hard work when we are living our life from a bunch of "shoulds"!The feminine energy of creativity and intuition has been majorly suppressed over our history because of the infinite power that lies in us embracing that true nature. We have been sold the "hard work" story to keep us disempowered so that we don't learn to access our superpowers. What if embracing our creativity is actually the key to knowing ourselves as an infinite being and breaking the story of "hard work" that runs our life? What if slowing down to feel the infinite feeling moving within us is how we exponentiate our life without effort? Sure, there will still be "work" to do, but it will feel like play! How has the belief around hard work run your life? Can you see where it came from for you and how it influences your daily choices? Share in the comments what came up for you from today's conversation - we would love to hear!

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😎𝙁𝙧𝙚𝙚𝙙𝙤𝙢 𝙞𝙨 𝙖𝙣 𝙄𝙣𝙨𝙞𝙙𝙚 𝙅𝙤𝙗! Freedom – arguably the top value that we all want! The all elusive thing we are ultimately seeking, whether it's through more money, our job, relationships, our lifestyle or material possessions. We just want to feel FREE! But true freedom can never be an external thing. It can never come from something outside of you. It is an internal state that you feel, regardless of your outside circumstances. As long as you make attaining freedom reliant on external manifestations, you will never attain inner freedom, as you are always putting your power outside of yourself. The premise of the ego is that we are always seeking more and more to feel fulfilled in our life. Our natural progression as human beings is to want to expand, but the ego has us think that if we just had more money, or a better relationship, or a better body, that THEN we would be free! When we chase freedom through the ego, once we finally reach a certain level of achievement that we think represents freedom, we often then find ourselves feeling like we could now LOSE that perfect state we have reached! So once again, freedom is still something that could be "taken away".The ego will tell us that freedom is attained by escaping the pullings of the outside world through physical manifestations, whereas true freedom is an internal feeling of inner peace which actually has nothing to do with the physical world at all! When we come to know ourself as an infinite being and we listen to our intuition, we start to follow what is moving through us to do and we feel fulfilled by what we are creating in the world. We feel a sense of inner freedom when we know we can show up 100% as our true self and not feel pulled by the outside world. A sense of inner spaciousness is our new norm and the ego monkey mind quietens right down! Ironically, from this embodiment of inner freedom, we now can manifest in the outer world all the physical "things" that we were desiring and we find that we open more and more into an abundant life where it just keeps getting better and better! Is freedom something you crave? Do you feel like you are chasing freedom in the world outside of yourself? How can you start to cultivate a sense of true inner freedom? Share below what you got out of today's topic!

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😍𝙐𝙣𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙫𝙨. 𝙍𝙚𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙞𝙣𝙜 - 𝙋𝙖𝙧𝙩 2 In today's conversation, we jump back into the huge topic of how to deal with loved ones who are going through tough times, and how you can support that person from a conscious space without getting drawn into their dramas. It follows on from our Part 1 video chat recorded on August 14th, 2019 so be sure to check that out. This has been a very juicy topic, and is an issue that is very common and can definitely pull on our heartstrings! What does it look like to live consciously when you are going through major life challenges with loved ones? Mandy shared a powerful transformation story of a friend who is going through separation and divorce after being married for 29 years, and the subsequent relationship breakdown with her daughter, and how she navigated this tricky time in a very conscious, empowered way. A real hero's journey! It can be a very rough ride, but making a conscious choice to go through whatever comes up and confront all those things is how you actually move through it. You have to take responsibility for everything that takes place in that scenario and how you're feeling about things and your reactions – it's not about the other person, it's all about you! It's about choosing yourself over the story - over and over again! Even in the face of major challenge and opposition. Keep telling the truth and standing in your truth regardless of how it is received. Remind yourself consistently of who you truly are. Lead the way for YOU! Put the focus back on yourself and get on with your own life by bringing the joy back in. By doing this we keep showing our loved ones what it's like to show up for yourself. You become empowered in yourself, but you are also showing that you are interested in everyone involved becoming more empowered too. By not buying into the stories, we can reinforce to those around us what it looks like to consciously live our life. It's about you reclaiming the power out of the stories, modelling unconditional love and not engaging the reactions, and showing what is possible. Reminding those around you that they too can choose to make choices consciously. The conscious transformational journey with your loved ones may also involve grieving the potential or actual loss of a close relationship. Sometimes we have to walk away as the other person may choose to stay in their story and blame you for their challenges. By taking your focus off the drama outside of you, it will start to dissipate. Ego loves feeding off the drama so shift the focus back to you. Great questions to ask yourself are: What do I want? What makes me happy? Who am I outside of this relationship? It's all happening FOR you – not to you. You have created it all in your storyline for some reason, so what is it all about for you? What are you getting out of it? Often times, the drama playing out allows you to consciously be aware of what triggers you, so you can move through it without you having to be the one to actually go through the challenge that your loved one is navigating! The great thing is, deconstructing and collapsing the stories is infinitely faster than how long it took to create the complicated twist of ego games! Just like a high-rise building can take years to build, it can be brought down in an instant with strategically placed dynamite! That's the power of awareness and remembering who you truly are. Phew! It's been a big conversation with so many perspectives to come at it from. Do you feel like consciously choosing to navigate a tricky situation with a loved one could bring you more freedom to be you? Have you experienced the drama falling away by taking your focus away from outside of you and choosing to place your attention on you and your joy?

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🤒 𝙏𝙝𝙚 𝙏𝙧𝙖𝙣𝙨𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙢𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 "𝘽𝙡𝙪𝙚𝙨" - 𝙎𝙡𝙤𝙬𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘿𝙤𝙬𝙣 𝙩𝙤 𝙎𝙥𝙚𝙚𝙙 𝙐𝙥! Today we ended up chatting about a whole myriad of things!! It all sparked from Nat not feeling very well and feeling into what it was all about for her. It prompted the inquiry "How much discomfort in the body is actually transformational in nature when you are fully engaged on the consciousness journey?" It can be very confronting at times when you go all in because you are now committed to live your life in this way 100%, and scenarios will show up in all areas of your life to help you move through the illusions.

Flu-like symptoms - achy body, tiredness, headaches, lethargy - are common and can be indicative of transformational shifts. What is it actually showing you? Is our infinite self assisting us to make the upgrades by getting the ego out of the way by making us tired? After all, the ego is not active when we are asleep!

Often our body is just catching up to the vibrational level of knowing ourself as "being infinite. There is lots of energy moving through and being released, and "old" thought patterns often come into your awareness that shows you what has been in the way of "waking up" to your infinite self.

There is a natural ebb and flow to life and we go through cycles of expansion and contraction. When we start to feel symptoms in our body, often this is us slowing down to speed up. This could be the most perfect thing to happen to launch us into the next phase of our life ... but we can become frustrated with the "lack of speed"!

When we push ourselves too much, you might find yourself saying "I need a break!" But could this be a distraction from moving on with an area of your life that's calling you to expand? Maybe you are just not fulfilled by what you are pushing yourself to do!

Do you have a story running of "This is too much hard work for not much return! Is it all worth it?!" We can have programming around effort = reward and when our reality doesn't match what we think should be happening, it can be very frustrating! We might even ask "What am I doing wrong?"

There is a real distinction between inspiration and just "an idea". Moving on an idea can be a very head-based journey which inevitably has us focusing on "how can I monetize this idea?" However, when we move purely from inspiration, we are so in the flow of following the feeling and totally fulfilled by this that we don't care about the money aspect so much - it becomes almost inconsequential.

When you are following inspiration, the decision is already made ... the manifestation is already done from the infinite's point of view. From the human perspective, we now just have to follow through on the action steps as they present to bring that inspiration to life. The key point is that all the effort is happening behind the scenes! The practical stuff to do doesn't feel hard when we drop the resistance to doing it or the timing of it and just tune into the present moment.

When we allow the infinite to guide us and listen to our body, then we move into our genius zone and get to co-create with the entire Universe!

What have you noticed on your transformational journey? Do you notice when your body is asking you to rest so it can upgrade to the new energy? We'd love to hear your experience on the awakening journey!

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😍𝙐𝙣𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙙𝙞𝙩𝙞𝙤𝙣𝙖𝙡 𝙇𝙤𝙫𝙚 𝙫𝙨 𝙍𝙚𝙨𝙘𝙪𝙞𝙣𝙜 How do you deal with loved ones who are going through really hard, tough times ... how do you support that person from an infinite space and also from a human perspective, without getting drawn into their dramas and having your energy sucked dry?

You feel like you want to genuinely be there for them but find yourself getting caught up in their stories and trying to "fix" the problem. Often times we can have numerous people around us drawing us into their dramas all at the same time and it can feel really confusing how to best assist, not to mention exhausting!

We are always outside of the story looking in, so we will have a very different perspective to our loved ones actually 'in' the story, and it can be really hard when we can see possible solutions or feel like we know a better way to handle it.

This is such a multi-layered topic that can be approached from different angles so there is a lot that can be discussed. Today we are approaching it from an overview perspective, exploring how the perspective shifts depending on whether you are looking at it from the bigger picture view or from the ego – or somewhere in between!

It's ALWAYS about you from the infinite space - it's never about the other person. It's always a projection of your consciousness. They are playing roles in YOUR story. It's always about you and how any situation, good or bad, makes you feel.It can be very helpful to ask ourself "What am I feeling about this situation right now?" The other person may be feeling completely OK with where they are! They are being taken on their own journey and it may not look like a storyline that we would choose, but it doesn't make it "wrong" either.

We need to look at the judgements we have about their story. There needs to be a degree of acknowledgment of how YOU are actually feeling. We often want to alleviate someone else's perceived pain and suffering because it makes US uncomfortable!

From an infinite perspective, we are creating these characters in our story to be playing out these dramas for some reason. Perhaps it is an opportunity for us to withdraw our energy from outside of us and practice not getting drawn into people's dramas, therefore detaching from the ego.

We get to model what is possible. We can call people up to a higher vibration and inspire them to a more expansive way of being. Maybe we get to show them what it looks like to love yourself and others from an unconditional space and practice total acceptance of the moment.

At the end of the day, we don't know why things happen the way they do - it is unknown from the human perspective. Everyone is here to be on their own journey of transformation. We are not here to rescue people from their perceived pain and suffering, but we can love them along their journey.

When you think about it, it's actually quite arrogant to assume that we have a higher wisdom than the person actually going through the drama ... like they don't have access to their own infinite genius and we know better! The ego loves to play that game of "being right"!From the highest perspective, it's all about love – Unconditional love versus our human finite version of "love". Unconditional love is all about everything being perfect exactly as it is. Total acceptance of ourself and others, no matter what is playing out.

It can look like tough love, fierce boundaries, withdrawing your attention from someone to preserve your energy or refusing to enable their behaviour any more. And it can also look like giving someone a hug and letting them cry on your shoulder.

It's a dance between letting the infinite feeling guide us to the appropriate action to take in the moment based on the story, and knowing ourselves as the infinite creator of it all and that the story is not even real!

Do you find yourself wanting to "rescue" loved ones from their pain? And then do you find yourself resenting them for draining your energy? Let us know how you navigate this dance! And join us tomorrow as we dive deeper into this juicy topic! It's a big one!!

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🙃𝘼𝙧𝙚 𝙔𝙤𝙪 𝘾𝙧𝙚𝙖𝙩𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝘾𝙤𝙣𝙨𝙘𝙞𝙤𝙪𝙨𝙡𝙮 𝙤𝙧 𝘽𝙮 𝘿𝙚𝙛𝙖𝙪𝙡𝙩? As infinite beings, we are creating our reality every single moment of the day. You're ALWAYS creating ... whether you think you are or not! The question is, do you want to be creating your life in a very expansive, conscious way or would you rather leave it to the default limited way of the ego? Creating by default is where we are ruled by our belief systems and thought patterns – essentially our subconscious mind – which runs our life on autopilot about 95% of the time. The more aware you become of your infinite nature and your ability to create in every moment, the more you are going to step into consciously creating. We still have aspects of a reptilian brain which operates our inbuilt survival mechanism and instincts. Our survival mode can be triggered by various life circumstances and when we act from this place, we feel out of control, bouncing from one drama to the next. We can get so stuck in the story that we can't see any other way of being, and it can be very easy to get caught up in the default way of being, literally filling up your life with crap! Where your focus goes is a very good indicator of whether you are creating consciously or by default. If you constantly focus on the world outside you, it can be very easy to feel like we are separate to the Universe and that we have to work it all out for ourselves. This is where survival mode kicks in and the ego has us creating to fulfil our needs, and it is near impossible to tap into creative infinite possibilities from this space! On the other hand, when we turn our focus inwards and stay in the present moment, the more we come to know ourselves as the one infinite consciousness and cultivate a real sense of inner space. It is from this space that we're able to access the realm of infinite imagination and feel what is true for us – what we would love to create. We are now able to consciously create by following the feeling that is intuitively flowing through us. The paradox of all this is that the more inner space we create, the fewer things we actually want! It becomes more about the experiences and expression of our creativity than owning material things. We can of course still enjoy the finer things in life, but they are no longer created from need. We find real enjoyment in being a steward of things versus needing to own them, as the truth is when we live in the infinite zone, we are only ever after the exhilaration of the experience we can co-create and play with. Can you identify where you are creating by default and where you are consciously creating in your life? Would you love to be living more in the infinite zone of conscious manifestation? How can you start to shift your focus inwards and create more inner space?