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Can some please tell me how to let go of feelings and things? I genuinely don't understand how to do this or what this even consists of, and I'm so so tired of people telling me I need to learn how to let go and frustrated with myself for not knowing what that's supposed to mean. If I feel my feelings, I'm not letting go, but if I don't feel them, I'm ignoring and repressing them. What am I supposed to do??? What am I doing wrong???

Please, someone explain this to me. Please

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Reblog and put in the tags how you would die if your URL predicted your death

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Yes! Shout to boys/masc peeps of all body types! You are beautiful and handsome just the way you are!!

WHEN WILL PEOPLE FUCKING REALIZE THAT

MEN

ALSO

ARE

GIVEN

UNREALISTIC

EXPECTATIONS

DO YOU HAVE ANY FUCKING IDEA

HOW IMPOSSIBLE IT IS

TO LOOK LIKE THIS???

IT’S 100% FUCKING ILLOGICAL TO EXPECT MEN TO HAVE THIS RIPPED SIX-PACK ABS AND BE SKINNY AND HAVE PERFECT SKIN AND FACIAL COMPLEXION!  MEN ALSO EXPERIENCE BEING UNCOMFORTABLE WITH OUR BODIES ALL. THE. FUCKING. TIME.

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Pretty boi hours! (I also posted this pic on my other account lol)

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Your three most recent emojis describe your past life

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Oh shit

Growing up my parents taught me that if you’re too sick to [insert responsibility here] then you’re too sick to [insert something that makes you happy here].

It took me a really long time to unlearn this. When I would get sick or have a “bad day” I would deprive myself of anything that made me happy. Watching movies, eating something I enjoyed, going for a walk, playing video games or just browsing online looking at funny cat videos. I wouldn’t let myself do these things because I was always told that if I’m too sick to go to work, or do homework, or go to school then I must be too sick to play Mortal Kombat or watch Unsolved Mysteries lol.

Whenever I wouldn’t feel good, which I later learned as an adult was due to sleep deprivation caused by my ADHD and depression (and of course the depression itself would cause me to feel like shit), my parents would tell me “if you’re not throwing up, then you’re not sick.” And when I would stay home from school (or even work in my later teen years) my parents would make sure that I didn’t have any “fun.” No TV, no movies, no games, no going outside, no arts and crafts, no books, no nothing. Just lay in bed and feel miserable.

I’m happy to say that I no longer do this to myself. Now when I’m having a bad day or I’m sick (cold, flu or whatever) I allow myself to do the things (within reason lol) that I actually love doing. If I’m not too sick to step outside for a few minutes then I’ll go for a walk. I’ll watch my favorite movies and if it’s a bad day or a cold (something that doesn’t hinder my appetite too much) I’ll eat my favorite foods. I don’t guilt trip myself anymore for having a “sick day.”

Just because you’re sick (whether physically, emotionally or mentally) doesn’t mean that you can’t do things you enjoy. You’re not any less sick because you watch TV. You’re not any less sick because you’re playing video games. 

Actually you SHOULD be doing these things when you’re not feeling good because they make you feel better. The better you feel, the faster your heal. 

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TMI Alert

Another great thing about living away from my family: I can buy and wear whatever clothes I want!

Long socks? Heck yeah!

Men's pants? They actually fit! Suck it mom!

Men's boxer briefs? They comfy!

New cute rainbow skirt and men's underwear?? You'll never know, but so nice 👌🏽

Catch me being confident enough to walk around the apartment with just a sports bra and pants on!

Watch me be wild and sleep with just my underwear and sports bra because they literally shorts and so gender affirming!

(Actually, don't. Why are you sneaking into my room to watch me sleep anyway? Creep 🙃)

Me with my men's clothes and 2 skirts that I'm slowly starting to replace my wardrobe with? I'm A Real Boy Now^TM

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It's a lovely morning in the camp ground and you are a horrible raccoon

raccoons make no sense because they will leave your birdseed and garbage and garden and compost pile alone but they WILL open a barrel and pull out an empty 5 gallon gas canister and unscrew the lid and leave it in your yard and also untie the dog tether from your porch beam for no reason

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we need sluttier music…..

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The stuffed chicken breasts did not go as planned Make sure to follow me on Instagram @theshittyfoodblog: http://bit.ly/2Bk7pUa

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i made one

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It’s with great pain that I must announce you were devoured by clowns.

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Last year I did a series for @tenderlymag about a little mushroom named Delicious Bradley and his gentle adventures in the forest. I had to take a break cuz I was too overwhelmed with projects at the time, but I’m gonna start posting them here and maybe make some more! 🍄💛 https://www.instagram.com/p/CCrsRm3gH08/?igshid=oag733fhp9fl