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Screw ‘narcissistic abuse awareness day’

Your abuse was valid. Your ableism is not.

Narcissistic people don’t have some special secret way of abusing people that no one else is capable of doing.

If a NPD haver happened to be abusive, they’d use the regular abuse tactics every other shitty person uses.

Autistic people can be abusive, but we don’t call it autistic abuse. People with cerebral palsy can be abusive, but we don’t call it cerebral palsy abuse.

Being abusive is a choice, having a personality disorder is not.

Blame the person, not the disorder.

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I hate people sometimes (aka, fucking all the time)

Totally gonna vague post lmao

but, I just saw someone who was tagging narc abuse (ew) and someone kindly said that they shouldn't use terms like that (like really nicely imo) and this person just said narcissism isn't a mental disorder? I'm sorry, but this bitch is so stupid I'm almost entertained. What the fuck. This bitch blew up for no reason

God I love ableism /s 🙄

(periodic reminder, if anyone uses the term narc abuse or anything like it, either quit being ableist or block me)

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Danganronpa headcanons ypu might want to use? I'm not good at writing HCs and idk if you're still taking those, but here you go :)

(of some of my favourite characters)

THH: -

Leon: is taught his music talent by ibuki as it is closer to his desired genre.

Sayaka: Idk why but ibcan see her making those room ate cooking videos watching a show on a laptop and cooking in her bed with aesthetic and cute appliances.

Kiyotaka: Can sing really well sue to being a group leader can project his voice far. Taught by Sayaka. Learnt piano at a young age but didn't pursue as a career, gets along with Kaede for that reason.

Mondo: gets along with mukuro (<- before tragedy) and he and chihiro trained together, sometimes meeting up with Aoi and Tenko.

Celestia: Once won against Nagito furing a gambling competition. (<- Canon in one of her FTEs "a silver haired boy with luck of the devil" take this as you please, might be fun to write!)

SDR2: -

Kazuichi: Really really good at maths. <- not exactly shown in Canon but he has to be smart to be a mechanic/engineer.

Mahiru: has worked for famous models in the past and took the photos from THH (<- Leon mondo chihiro photos. Mukuro celeste and hifumi photos, group photos, basically all the official art used in the main game.)

Ibuki: Disbanded from sayakas group (<- a popular fan theory that is cool to think about)

V3: (haven't played so dodon'have many favourites or HCS)

Tenko: Really good with weights and weight/stamina excersises, goes on runs and to the gym often with Aoi. <- as as practising her Neo Akkido. Tried to get Himiko to the gym multiple times but couldnt drag her out of bed.

Kaito: Unironically has galaxy themed bedding. Leon helped him grow his goatee thingy, Shuichi and him trained prior to V3 (<- IDK how the last one is bc Idk the story all that well.)

Sorry if I forgot anything, this is off the top of my head and took me 20 minutes to write. :)

>:3 tysm!!

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I saw your post about a job and abusive situation. Have you thought about a bagger at a small grocery store or the people who do the online orders going around the store collecting stuff for others? If you go in social security I really caution about that. In the ways of I saw automatically approved for ssi/ssdi. When it was all done my father became my pay repp. So I just recommend be cautious if you’re already in an abusive home the person can say you can’t legally be equipped to handle the money. Again I’m just speaking from personal experience and this isn’t anything from official advice. More I’ve been financially abused and controlled for years so just be cautious about the whole money situation. They also have apps you can walk people dogs and stuff. Again just be careful about financially being abused in general if you’re already in abusive situation. They also have disabilities offices can help finding jobs that are equipped for your struggles. Wishing u luck 🍀. I’m rooting for you.

thank you <3 ill keep all this in mind :)

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OOO give my danganronpa headcanons! (any, THH, DR2, DRV3)

i need inspo for my au character's profiles >:3

(comments, reblogs and asks are all welcome!)

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im needing to move out of my mega abusive household~ any advice for getting a job and saving money? advice from people from cluster b would help the most, especially ASPD (and anyone with DID too!)

tags are for reach!

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Adult topic, minors dni

Omegaverse (or A/B/O dynamics) is part of my story! its a comfort genre for me, and i feel like i should say something before i say ANYTHING on the topic of my fic. and its this:

look, i know omegaverse sexualizes gay men. and i fucking hate it when its OVERLY sexualized. I understand somewhat, because technically its a genre of smut/nsfw fic but shut the fuck up. It makes me uncomfortable when cis women just. fucking. sexualize it that much, COMING FROM A GAY MAN BTW. i'm not saying theres anything wrong with a cis woman consuming/writing omegaverse content, im not gatekeeping, but it makes me uncomfortable when its spoken about in a fetish-y way.

THAT BEING SAID! if your going to consume my (mostly) fluff + angst omegaverse fic (that will have little or no nsfw in it) in a fetish-y light. get the fuck out. /srs

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im sure you've heard of this fanfiction im writing~

AHAHA I HAVENT WRITTEN FANFIC SINCE I WAS 13 (it was a cringe south park fic too..... ) BUT HERE I AM WITH ANOTHER CRINGE FIC THAT STEMS FROM ME NEEDING TO COPE THROUGH FICTION!!! WHOOOOOOOOOOO

what fandom is the fic you ask..? danganronpa !! i love the series and im have found myself coping through the characters! if you dont like danganronpa yet you follow me, you can block the tag! all the dangan stuff will be tagged #danganronpa naturally, so if you dont want to see it, block it! easy as that, because i like it and im going to post about it :P

this fanfiction is going to pretty much be me having headcanons for the characters and giving good representation for stigmatized disorders!

Kokichi Oma is a main character! i hc him to have NPD and ive been researching NPD so i can give pwNPD some good rep! (i love kokichi so much give him all the love)

this is a saiouma fic! (shuichi x kokichi) and its called Divine Despair

This fic is actively being worked on! it will be posted on toyhou.se and ao3. I think it might be posted in.... at most a year maybe? no guarantees tho.

This fic is 17+ BUT i would prefer if anyone consuming it was 18+

it is mature! (i say 17+ bc the game is 17+, however there may be implied nsfw or written. idk yet lol. if i decide to actually write nsfw it WILL be 18+)

feel free to ask questions about the fic or give tips for any disorders/conditions !!

(note ik dangan can like. write disorders wrong looks at toko... so im going to fix all of that :3 .. except toko. toko will not have DID in my fic lol)

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i've seen quite a bit of confusion about this, so let me attempt to clear things up :

empathy is the ability to feel somebody's emotions as though they are affecting you personally. for example, somebody tells you "my dog died last night!" -> you now feel as though you've lost a pet personally -> you feel grief and sadness just like the other person. not everyone has empathy. it's a trait some people develop and others don't. some have high empathy, some have low empathy, some (like me) have none.

sympathy is the ability to understand and care about somebody else's struggles, even if you don't feel them yourself. so, somebody tells you their dog died -> you realize how this affects them emotionally -> you care about this person, and are upset that they are suffering. not everyone has sympathy either! it's a scale, just like empathy.

compassion is doing something to relieve another person's suffering or make them feel better. somebody tells you their dog died -> you don't want them to remain upset -> you come up with ways to help them feel better, like offering comfort and distractions, or other forms of support. compassion is a learned trait, not something you can be born with like empathy or sympathy. anyone can learn to be compassionate, although some may struggle more with it than others; it's a skill, just like anything else.

however, none of these are required to be a good person. that's a choice you make on your own accord. i hope this clears things up!

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i know theres this reputation for pwASPD to be 'edgelords' right? and i know that there is not an insignificant number of us who sorta delight in this image.

but i always think that at its core, ASPD stems from fear. not emotionlessness or sadism or whatever else.

when its developed in childhood its because of fear, right? if you have absent caregivers, for example, you fear the loss of resources you need. theres a fear of being unworthy of affection, a fear of being completely dismissed and left to fend for yourself.

and with only yourself to manage that fear and soothe yourself, you figure out how to survive should those things happen. you figure out how to get your own resources, how to manage with what you have. you discard the idea of affection and love. perhaps you even deem it worthless because that way you arent wanting something youll never have. in being scared, in being terrified, you are forced to become the only thing that can make you get rid of those fears

then, when youre out, the fears have changed. now vulnerability is terrifying, because being vulnerable hurt so much when you were smaller, now honesty is scary because you cant control how that narrative plays out.

most importantly, allowing yourself to need other people is the most horrific of all of them, because the last time you needed anyone you were left to fend for yourself.

idk i just think its interesting to think about.

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me when my parents call me selfish as an insult

why yes i am, i am the selfish-est selfish person! i do only care about myself :3 except when i dont, then i dont care about anyoneee. and yknow what :0

its cuz of trauma that YOU gave ME. "and youre going to hell" they say. yep. i am. not ashamed. (except i dont even believe in the christian hell LOL)

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Occasionally fantasizing about myself being hurt or abused because I feel like I haven't been hurt enough to be considered complex and interesting

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I am normal and can be trusted with the privilege of human connection

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thank you for the tips! i dont plan on having him "cured" as you said, as i have ASPD and if someone made an oc/headcanon fic where they "cured" it id probably get pissed off and throw something (i also, am trying to work on things)

I do think eventually ill try to make him ""better"" (as in functional lol) but thats a long ways away, probably towards the mid-to-end of the fic (maybe ill make a part 2 fic with the ship child i totally didnt make last week; maybe part 2 will show him being functional in everyday life while still letting his NPD traits out, maybe still having some of the "unhealed" parts cuz i honestly cant picture him without them LMAO)

ill probably post things about my fic on this blog instead of my art blog bc i plan on it being very disorder (and PD specifically) oriented (PDs/other disorders need some good rep ^w^) especially since the canon does have characters with disorders, but sometimes theyre written wrong and im determined to fix it LOL

Hello!!

Steak here~ i have some questions for PwNPD!! or, just one mainly.

What are some common traits/symptoms that you experiance?

Also, what are misconceptions!

I have an character im writing (or au character) that i headcanon with NPD based on what ive seen on cluster b tumblr, and i want to write him accurately and respectfully. I most likely dont have NPD, just ASPD. I'm mostly looking for advice for writing my baby correctly cuz he deserves the world and i think PwNPD need some correct representation!! along with all of cluster b really

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I actually relate to some of that! that makes my baby boy easier to write! ive written him (or, "written" in my head) to be very cocky and private with others, keeping up with his 'front'. He's not very good at masking, but is good at controlling his emotions. He "fake" cries a lot! (its not fake but hes very good at making people think it is) usually when people insult him or criticize him.

Ive also written him to have lots of trust issues! as of the part of my pretend fanfic That I Will Totally Write that has happened, he only trusts his partner (love the gays). he only really opens up to him :3

does that sound somewhat accurate? any suggestions

Hello!!

Steak here~ i have some questions for PwNPD!! or, just one mainly.

What are some common traits/symptoms that you experiance?

Also, what are misconceptions!

I have an character im writing (or au character) that i headcanon with NPD based on what ive seen on cluster b tumblr, and i want to write him accurately and respectfully. I most likely dont have NPD, just ASPD. I'm mostly looking for advice for writing my baby correctly cuz he deserves the world and i think PwNPD need some correct representation!! along with all of cluster b really

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being irritated w/people doesnt make you special omg 😭

uh. im... not saying it is? and i by all means am not special! i have a disorder, yes, but im not special. while sometimes i view myself as everyone's god, i am not special.

i am different. i have a personality disorder. i have issues with anger, homicidal ideation, morality, and things of that nature. I am not normal, because prosocial people have morals. i. do. not. and ill add, i was irrationally irritated (assuming the post youre talking about). I was genuinely wishing death on that person. and i will until they fucking die.

give yourself a pat on the back, because you got a response. consider yourself an ableist dick too :)

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Hello!!

Steak here~ i have some questions for PwNPD!! or, just one mainly.

What are some common traits/symptoms that you experiance?

Also, what are misconceptions!

I have an character im writing (or au character) that i headcanon with NPD based on what ive seen on cluster b tumblr, and i want to write him accurately and respectfully. I most likely dont have NPD, just ASPD. I'm mostly looking for advice for writing my baby correctly cuz he deserves the world and i think PwNPD need some correct representation!! along with all of cluster b really