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As a mother, it’s a terrifying concept to me that these are the types of people that could have had access to my children when they were younger if they’d been active on social media sites.

And to have banned the one person that said “Hey this is very weird behaviour and you shouldn’t be around children if this is the case” and not the person who has vehemently talked about the ways in which they want to harm children in particular is appalling to me.

TCC be aware of this discord user!

They have demonstrated insanely vile behaviour such as sympathising with the Coloumbine School Shooters, talking proudly about their urges to harm children and calling people the R slur multiple times.

This user is the owner of a server that involves children and once their behaviour was brought to the attention of the other server owner, they said that there was nothing they could do about them and “not to involve them”

This person should not be in any position of any kind of power or authority around children whatsoever, they have repeatedly excused their behaviour and, as you can see, have said it’s not their fault if they say horrible things.

How the fuck do you think learning to control impulses work? There’s no such thing as “It’s impossible to control myself” it may be hard yes, but it is not impossible. Helping violent impulses sort of involves not feeding into your impulses.

This user has claimed that their behaviour stems from their ASPD but I will be the first to call bullshit on that. People with ASPD are often DISTRESSED about their behaviour, not this stigmatised bullshit you see online, wanting to hurt children and ASPD are not linked.

Not to mention the very rape-y logic of “Well I can’t control my urges if you’re gonna regress around me” this is straight up predatory, as violence against children is.

Please be aware of this user if you happen to stumble across their server, they should not be in a moderator, let alone OWNER position and great shame on the other server owner too for doing nothing about this and nothing to protect their own community and the children in it.

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Oof, this behaviour is never okay from either of these people! Cavalry’s actions are foul and disgusting and Atlas’ actions are just as bad (Something else you missed here was there’s a screenshot of Atlas admitting if what happened between them and Jamie got out, they would be trialed as an adult which very obviously shows just how aware Atlas IS of what they’ve done.)

On the topic of “it was my friend in my account” look.. I’ll be real, I don’t believe that for a second, that sort of thing is so easy to fake, but let’s just say it IS real, then you are friends with and supporting a groomer, so you’re still a terrible person.

Now, Atlas has admitted that the “I masturbate every night” message was them, they also admitted that they vented to Jamie who was 11 at the time a lot too. Apparently a lot of you online are really fucking stupid though and don’t realise that THAT is also grooming, grooming is not explicitly sexual, you don’t have to be sexual with someone to groom them, their age gap was inappropriate, 11 and 14 is creepy, a 14 year old venting graphically about how they’re going to kill themselves to an 11 year old IS a form of grooming and you’re either dumb, ignorant or just as bad if you cannot see that for what it is. The sexual shit aside, which btw, I believe Jamie on that because Atlas was weird with other people before the server was deleted too, the venting and power imbalance in the age gap alone is grooming.

So A) Atlas did it, Cavalry is supporting a groomer or B) Atlas only did SOME of it, is friends with a groomer and Cavalry is supporting TWO groomers. Which wouldn’t surprise me given Cavalry’s own history of having predators for alters. What a shame.

Edit to add: I don’t know if I find it sad or just downright pitiful how avidly Cavalry is defending Atlas after Atlas said to a stage of strangers that they believe Cavalry would molest their little siblings if they were left alone with them long enough. Frankly, I think it’s pitiful you could forgive something like that so easily, you need some self respect and need to learn when people need to be permanently cut out of your life because an accusation like that, said to a bunch of strangers, can get you locked up if the wrong people hear about it.

Lmao had to re upload because I fucked up the format

I didn’t expect to be back here only three months later but here we are 🤷

I’ll start with Atlas, who, to me, was always weird. They joined a now nuked server about a month ago, one dedicated to sharing experiences and, to put it bluntly, talk shit about Cavalry, which Atlas did AVIDLY, Atlas would join calls and talk shit for hours on end, one such call I have screen recorded for a little while. I’m not going to add all the screenshots of all the dirty Atlas did, I couldn’t be fucked getting met with the “it was my friend, Athena!!” excuse because either way; YOU are a groomer or your friend is a groomer, no one cares.

One) It is weird for a 14 y/o to date an 11 y/o, I think we can ALL agree on that. That on its own isn’t okay, regardless of the validity of the screenshots of Atlas saying sexual shit to an 11 year old, venting to an 11 year old, SRPING with an 11 year old, etc and if it really WAS your friend (Which I don’t believe, why wouldn’t you say it was your friend the first few times you were called out if this was the case?) then your friend is a groomer, you are friends with a groomer.

Two) I also think we can all agree it’s weird for a 16 year old to date someone who just turned 14 too, legally and morally that isn’t okay. Cavalry has been the number one Atlas meat rider so far which tells me SO much about them, a real friend would have pulled their mate up and said “Nah man, that actually is really weird.” Real friends let their friends know when they’re wrong.

Three) I just wanna get it out there that based on the dates I was given, I’m not saying this for certain but based on these dates. Atlas cheated on said 14 year old with Cavalry.

Four) Atlas has accused Cavalry of A) Sexual Harassment, B) Forcing them into incestuous situations, C)Attempting to force them to send nudes, D)Said Cavalry sent them porn, self harm and pressured them into drawing things like that, E) Suicide Baited Atlas, F) Said Cavalry tried to force them to do a Minecraft voice call sexual roleplay, G)Said Cavalry stalked them and found their address and H) Atlas has allegedly reported Cavalry to the cops twice already.

Five) As I already stated, Atlas would join calls/stages and talk shit about Cavalry for HOURS, how much PTSD Cavalry has given them, how they don’t like them, how they’re only pretending to be friends with them again because of their anxiety, etc, Atlas has made TONS of accusations about Cavalry, almost all being of a sexual nature, that leads me to question why Cavalry even believes and defends them in the current situation, you were also one of the people Atlas accused of grooming and sexual harassment.

Regardless of the validity of the screenshots that both sides provided, it still goes without saying that Atlas, at fourteen dating an eleven year old is wrong, weird and predatory, as well as dating a just turned fourteen year old at sixteen, that is also wrong, weird and predatory.

Moving on to Cavalry. We are obviously back on the allegations of them and their alters being predatory to minors once again, as well as attempted doxxing and dead-naming.

Starting out with their Damien alter, him being “ageless” isn’t a catch all, it actually makes his behaviour with a fifteen year old all the weirder!! Damien flirted, spoke sexually around and then flirted with a fifteen year old AGAIN after being asked not to do that, but it was suddenly okay in his eyes because “it was a joke” wrong! It was actually you walking all over peoples boundaries AGAIN and having a predatory alter AGAIN! You just don’t learn huh.

Two) Remus. Your entire Remus alter is a problem, Remus is ALWAYS unnecessarily sexual to random people and *checks screenshots* thinks it’s FUNNIER when he’s sexual to minors, huh! You know what that makes you? A predator!! Again!! Goddamn man, how many times can you be called out for being predatory before you get a grip and stop being predatory!

Three) Trying to SRP with a fourteen year old.. creepyyy, you know what the appropriate response to finding out someone is 14 and asking to do an SRP? “No, I’m not doing a sexual roleplay with a minor” “No, now that I know how young you are I don’t want to do this.” The INAPPROPRIATE response is “I’ll roleplay with you if you’re sure about the age gap.” That makes you. A. Predator AGAIN! That’s three times this year man, are you going for a world record?? It sure seems like it.

Screenshots in the next reblog of most, if not ALL of these things.

Cavalry, maybe YOU shouldn’t believe everything Atlas says because they have slandered you as a groomer and a perpetrator of sexual harassment for a month now, you as someone they had already accused of grooming and sexual harassment should have questioned them instead of schmeat riding. It doesn’t matter whether some of the SS were actually Athena or not, they admitted they did date, the timeline they gave in the server before it got deleted showed them cheating on Jamie WITH you, they dated and that is still wrong, 11 and 14 and 14 and 16 isn’t okay either for more reasons than just legally.

Also the fact you have taken the side of someone who said they only forgave you and continue to be your friend because they feel like you’re pressuring them into doing it tells me a lot about how lonely you are ☹️

Atlas was in on every single ploy and game that was played as a front to get Cavalry to say something they could use to call them out with, quite frankly Atlas ORCHESTRATED a very large portion of those incidents, including but not limited to; Giving people invites to servers Cavalry was also in and giving people fake identities to get dirt on Cavalry, trying to trick Cavalry into making sexual comments to minors so they could call them a pedophile, was a part of a different call out post made about Cavalry, etc. They have spent an entire month saying Cavalry is a groomer and a pedophile, not to mention on a call, Atlas also said Cavalry is the type of person who would fiddle their younger brother and sister.

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This breaks my heart for you as a mother myself, praying you can get somewhere safe ❤️

This is not something I would usually do or content that I normally post but I have truly ran out of efforts and this is honestly my last resort and the only thing left that I can think of, and I really, really need the help

I, along with my sister and my dad, have been stuck in an abusive situation with my mom for going on six years now. We have reached out to police and other services for help but have been consistently disregarded and shrugged off, my dad is of Aboriginal descent and has been consistently disrespected and mistreated by the police officers of this town who are 99% white

My mother controls the finances, and I am not old enough to have my own money and nor can I work as I have been diagnosed with psychically disabling scoliosis and agoraphobia and anxiety that makes it incredibly hard for me to even leave the house, having little to no resources or support for disabled people in this town, I am really struggling

My dad is also disabled, he is blind and only gets paid $500 biweekly, rent alone is $230, and we have to provide electricity and water and for ourselves with the remaining $270 which leaves us with literally nothing

Mom has left but the abuse has not ended- She still continues to abuse us over text message and attempts suicide if we cut her off, ignoring her results in her showing up at the house, barging through the back door (The lock is broken) and coming in to yell and scream at everyone, her abuse extends to my other oldest sister, my grandmother, and my brother who she has also taken everything from

She continues to withhold money that she only gets to care for us with and our attempts to report her to authorities have been completely futile, she will rampage at everyone and if you don’t let her abuse you and scream or hit you, then she calls you a narcissist and claims you don’t care about her

Today she tried to come back and flew off the handle at us when we said she couldn’t live with us again, claimed that meant we don’t care about her and then followed up with multiple abusive and degrading text messages like she always does

She has stripped us of almost everything and we have absolutely nothing to provide for ourselves with, and we cannot provide for our animals and us at the same time either, If I give them up, since all the shelters are full- They will be put down, and nobody is interested in buying or adopting them in our area

We have no form of transport, no support from anyone aside from grandma, older sister and brother who I mentioned earlier who is also struggling just as much, we have to rely on our abuser for money (Right now we have argued and she is not helping us at all) and we have tried everything we can to get out of this situation, I hate asking for handouts online but we truly have nothing and no other forms of support, she has taken everything from everyone in the family and we are all struggling just to get by, buying our animals food with what little we have and going without so that they can eat

I feel pathetic coming to the internet and asking for money but I really, really need the help- Even just the smallest amount we would be unbelievably grateful for, everything is a step closer to getting out of this situation and getting away from our abuser, It would mean the world if you could share this around if you cannot donate 🙏❤️

I’ll be adding my PayPal Link below

Again, It would really and truly mean the world, even if you just shared ❤️

[redredcherrywine]

Tumblr crashed and wouldn’t post my RB

Thank you for having a civil conversation about this, that is very rare on tumblr these days and I am so glad your stay ended up helping you and having you still be here with us 💕

Dear willogenic "systems":

You are delusional. DID is not something you can willingly choose to become. It takes repeated childhood trauma such as abuse or a major accident happening multiple times to become a system

People like you make real systems look like they are faking for attention. You are pathetic. You cannot make or sell alters, you cannot trade alters, it is impossible to suddenly choose to become a system.

Willogenic "systems" aren't real systems.

So, if you support willogenic folk, get off my blog :) they are not real.

Endos are the exception due to the nature in which DID forms.

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As a nurse, forced hospitalisation is one of the worst and most violating things you can do to a patient. It takes away their voice and more often then not, it is violent, people are transported from hospital to psych ward in handcuffs with police escorts for as little as disclosing suicidal ideation to a doctor they believed they could trust.

It means a loss of agency and control for the patient and as Cassieberry said, more often then not, it is a patient who didn’t even need to end up in a psychiatric ward. Using treatment as a threat takes away a patients want to voluntarily get help and in the long run, it leads to more people killing themselves instead of seeking out treatment due to just how violating and demeaning it is to be forced into restraints, drugged and taken to a facility where your autonomy is stripped from you.

People who end up in psychiatric wards often leave them to find they have lost their homes and are now living on the streets.

It is not just a personal fear of hospitalisation, it is a statistic backed by evidence that patients who are forcibly hospitalised are more often exposed to neglect, fear, and traumatic stress. These things are facts, while I am not discrediting the cases where forced hospitalisation has helped some people, the statistical evidence shows that it has harmed many more and leads to less people wanting to seek help. It is called Medical Kidnapping for a reason.

On top of it being traumatic given that the patients are treated like criminals with police escorts and handcuffs, it leaves us with less beds to hospitalise people who willingly want to seek psychiatric help, therefore leading us to have to turn them away because facilities are overcrowded and have no space for willing patients that require inpatient treatment.

Dear willogenic "systems":

You are delusional. DID is not something you can willingly choose to become. It takes repeated childhood trauma such as abuse or a major accident happening multiple times to become a system

People like you make real systems look like they are faking for attention. You are pathetic. You cannot make or sell alters, you cannot trade alters, it is impossible to suddenly choose to become a system.

Willogenic "systems" aren't real systems.

So, if you support willogenic folk, get off my blog :) they are not real.

Endos are the exception due to the nature in which DID forms.

[redredcherrywine]

As a mother, the stress of adulthood is tripled when you have little lives depending on you too, I have four kids, (my youngest is 17 and my eldest is 23 so u can kinda get the gist of how old I am lol) I was 18 when I had my first born and boyy, let me tell you- it is hard, now you’re not responsible for just yourself, you’re responsible for a kid too and as a teen mother I was demeaned horribly, people don’t treat me like a person, they treat me like a mom, just an addition to my kids and I have absolutely no free time on top of working, taking my kids to school, doing chores, taking my eldest two kids to their TAFE courses, my schedule has to be meticulous so I can make sure everything happens when it should and I miss out on a lot of things to make sure my kids don’t miss out on anything.

It’s especially hard when they’re young and aren’t capable of helping but since growing up, my seventeen year old has helped so much in the house with the dishes when she sees them dirty and I’m at work, she makes dinner when I have a Night Shift and come home tired, she’s a true blessing just like her siblings.

I worry a lot about money with them, it’s hard to get enough groceries when prices keep going up and I’m not my own priority, my kids are- that’s something you never understand until you’re a mother, the stress of it. You can raise your younger siblings and feel that stress sure (I practically raised all six of my siblings with my brother) but you never understand a parents stress until you are one. It’s completely different and it’s so overwhelming and more often than not: frustrating.

There had been so many times with kids screaming and crying and my two hours worth of sleep that I swore I regretted bringing a baby home, but that’s stress talking, coming home from busy work to a still dirty house with toddlers screaming and needing to be changed, bathed, fed and then I have to make dinner for myself and my husband at the time, and then after dinner I have to wash the dishes, vacuum the house, pick up that days play toys and put the kids to bed too; you get the gist of the workload and as a parent it’s stuff you have to do, you can’t slack on it, there’s obligation and that obligation there is also pressure. I cant properly describe it because again, it’s something you wont ever know until you’re a parent for the first time but that kind of stress on top of daily adult life? It’s one of the worst kinds. I can’t count of both hands the amount of nights I went hungry so my kids got to eat, the showers I never had time for so my hair was matted and greasy, the fact I slept so little I would pass out in the living room trying to breastfeed, everything I owned was filthy or broken because kids don’t understand sentimental value when they’re that young, etc

Cherish your teenage years and don’t always look on the bad side of things, don’t doom yourself with Chronic Loner Syndrome and spend all your time locked inside on a laptop, you’re only going to fuck yourself over doing that and you’re gonna be miserable if all you can see is the misery you’re feeling! @astertaster has a great point on her other reblog. If you only see the bad, you’re only gonna feel the bad- and if you don’t look after yourself, you’re not gonna feel good. Shower, eat a decent meal, make friends, don’t waste your teenage years complaining about what it could have been! You have to MAKE it that because it gets worse in adulthood before it gets better

You think you’re burnt out in your teenage years but then you hit twenty, you want to move away from a toxic household and rent alone is a grand at the end of the month if not more so you’re working 24/7 at a job where nobody cares how you are as long as your work performance is good, then you come home to parents who know you have money from your shift and will do nothing but demand you put it towards their house because you can’t ‘live with them and not throw in’ but they’re the reason you can’t leave because they won’t let you save up the money to fucking get out of here, you don’t get time for friends, passions or hobbies because your shifts are five plus hours alone and now you’re just begging to go back to school and to a time where you didn’t have to pay rent or work or worry about any of these things

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ways to be a better friend⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

prioritize being kind

learn the value of silence - its ok to not have something to say or talk about, simply basking in each others presence makes the heart grow fonder

never take advantage of ur friends

never betray their confidence in you

show an interest in what matters to them and their life

be a good listener

remember the little things

support ur friends through what they may be going thru

learn to agree to disagree

ways to make ur friends feel loved⋆.ೃ࿔*:･🧁

make them a playlist

bake them something sweet

create art for them

sending them links to things that they'll like

if u can, buy them gifts that they'd like, and if u can't then do something homemade

ask how their day was and truly listen

DO NOT ;

talk about ur friends behind their backs

hold grudges over small offenses

if ur friend is venting to you, or expressing how they feel to you, dont offer advice unless they specifically ask you too

dont vent or drop heavy topics onto ur friends repetitively or without asking for permission, there's nothing wrong with venting to a close friend, but please ask cuz a lot of ppl dont like that

betray their trust

leave ur friends out of activities, and conversations

[redredcherrywine]

Biggest form of self love…

Choosing yourselfೃ࿔*:･

• Set boundaries and stick with them, girl. Allowing someone to cross your boundaries and hurt you, THEN FORGIVING THEM?? No. That is like the ultimate act of anti-self love.

It can be good to give second chances and be forgiving, but you have to cut out toxic people if you want the best for yourself.

• Say ‘no’ without feeling bad. YOU ARE YOUR OWN PERSON. Do what YOU want to do.

• Be caring and loving towards yourself. Never neglect or hurt yourself. You are the most important person in your life, seriously.

Be kind to others while still putting yourself first.

• Push yourself a bit! Try new things, set goals, and work to improve yourself.

Sometimes self love can mean getting out of your comfort zone and growing a bit. Find new ways to be your best self.

• Relax. Pushing yourself is great, but stretching yourself out too thin is no good. Sometimes you need to rest, relax, and pamper yourself, after all you deserve it.

I love to treat myself.

Go for a peaceful walk. Take a long bath/shower. Lay in bed. Make a warming beverage. Watch your fav show/movie/Youtuber/etc. Make yourself a cute snack or a nice filling meal. Do whatever makes you feel good. <333

[redredcherrywine]

Things I do to take care of myself

Inspired by @theambitiouswoman

Hello girlies! On this blog I'm going to write down all the habits I do to take care of my self. These ones I have been practicing them since a long time and I know they maintain me healthy, happy, balanced and stress free. I hope I can inspire you to discover the habits that make you feel your best and start doing some of the things I do!

My habits

Have a morning and night routine to follow

Sleep 8 hours on a consistent schedule

Eat at least one fruit a day, along three healthy meals and drink enough water

Pray when I wake up

Do yoga in the morning and meditate at night

Do my skincare 2 times daily (morning and night)

Have an "everything shower" 2x times per week

Listen to positive affirmations in the morning

Dress up pretty every time I'm going out

Listen a podcast daily

Read one chapter of a book daily

Dedicate one hour for introspective journaling and healing yoga + meditation 2xtimes per week

Use less than 4 hours my phone (15 minutes max on every social media app)

Unfollow any account that doesn't make me feel good with myself or consume content that doesn't inspire me

Study a language 30 minutes - 1 hour 3x times per week

Spend time with my loved ones during the week

Write down a journal entry before sleep

Be productive and focus on my tasks to be free the more time possible

Make a daily to-do list

Maintain my personal space clean

Take my daily supplements after breakfast

Look from time to time my vision boards

Dedicate time to prepare my meals and make lunch for university (instead of spending)

Keep track of my financial movementes

Focus on living in the present and be carefree about life

Smile, be kind and maintain the calm with people

On my free time do things I love ( like blogging, gaming, watch YT, etc)

Be mindful of all the sensorial stimulation (use less screens and earphones)

Respect when my body needs to rest

Have a optimistic mindset that works in my favor

Play with and take care of my pets (my happy pills)

Have a "Sunday reset" routine dedicated to deep cleaning, laundry, weekly review and planning, self-care, etc

See you on the next blog! 𑄽𑄺ྀ

[redredcherrywine]

people born in 2000 should be like 12-14 now. but they’re not. that’s how fucked up our world is now

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Youtube channels for the girlies

Inspired by @prettypr1ncezz

Vlogs:

Adelala

Annika's Leaf

Daiz

Fernanda Ramirez

Isabela Juliana

mira daisy

Olivia Yang

Tips and Self-Improvement

Carolette Martin (spanish)

Elicia Gougen

Manifestelle

Pershephonesmind

Tam Kaur

TheWizardLiz

Academic tips and motivation

fayefilms

Galacsea

Isadora Vera (spanish)

studyquill

Study to sucess

Beauty

Dear peachie

Diana Gaby (spanish)

Isabel Lopez (spanish)

Jessica Vu

Vogue (Beauty secrets section)

Video essays and educational

Bailey Sarian

Jordan Theresa

Mina Lee

ModernGurlz

Psychology with Dr.Ana

Stephanie Lange

tiffanyferg

Exercise

fitbymik - Weight focused

Jessica Richburg - Yoga

Madeleine Abeid - Pilates

Btw, please recommend me more channels! I will aprecciate it 𑄽𑄺ྀ

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This is horrible :( I’m sure you’re all amazing people who didn’t deserve to be hurt like this or lied to, just know it’s none of your faults 💕💞 If they can’t step up and change and admit their wrongs, that’s their fault

Making this as a seperate post in case people don’t see the reblog for the call out post about Trojan. Yeah, they’re still active and no, they haven’t changed.

The most recent updates on Trojan and their new account is of them lying about their identity and pretending to be a different person to lure people into saying sorry to them (For no valid reason, mind you) and try and worm their way into getting back into discord servers that they were removed from

Here is them admitting to their friend that they are indeed, the Trojan horse collective and here is their partner confirming that it’s them also. Lying about their identity to get back into fandom spaces and to literally go on an account claiming to be a different person to DEFEND YOURSELF is utterly manipulative and incredibly narcissistic and here’s Trojan being ableist, not that it shocks anyone

Talk about ableism but literally, just wanting to use psychotic symptoms with no presence of an actual disorder as a trope for your shitty RP is disgusting, psychotics disorders aren’t just a trope for your cringe RP scenarios, especially given their own lack of psychotic disorder, if you’re gonna throw the word ‘insane’ around and portray a character with delusional symptoms, then do your research and portray it with care and accuracy, don’t just glamorise it for a fun RP

Thought I would make this post to warn you guys that this is indeed them and they will probably lie about it

@spooks-work-quicker @bridgette58 @irlremuscore @clawmachine07 @tsfander @secretaryoflogicaldefense

Sorry for the random tags, I just went through and selected people who reblogged the last posts, please be careful if you see their new account, because as we can see from their actions, they are more than willing to lie about their identity and pretend it’s not them, be safe everyone

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pretty girls love studying {or just being on top}