#/gen /srs

[iristhemuse]

Journalers..HOW DO YOU PEOPLE DO IT???

No really , like, how do you make your life so interesting you can say a different thing that happened every single day??Like do you guys just randomly have the most incredibly exciting life ??Cuz when i journal it's always the same 3 things that happen every single day, how do you people manage to idk go out every other day , buy a ton of cool but kinda useless stuff just for the pretty of it?? :""l

[actualdannyfenton]

Right so I'm autistic and I need someone to help me understand if something is acceptable or not. I really really love dp and sometimes I like to deep scroll through things that I've reblogged, and I kinda want to reblog them again bc they're wonderful and I haven't seen them in a while and want to share them again. Is that weird? Like I don't want anyone to feel as though I'm stalking their pages or something, I'm stalking my own if anything, but would people be offput by me reblogging say fanart or fics they posted a few years ago? Please help lol

[guckies]

I could be talking utter nonsense but I feel like a reason blue’s wins are never praised or celebrated by others is because everyone else is fighting with honour and frankly blue’s loud actions aren’t honourable.

First Win they were violent the entire day, killing other which caused a big rift between them and Red because they were ended up just killing people with nothing.

Second Win they got most points by spawn killing Jaiden which although jaiden entertain. Red didn’t really like nor did green despite elquackity doing it but he is an outlier and imposter so shouldn’t be counted.

Third Win two team members didn’t listen to their elected leader which harmed their rep (even if they don’t believe in the leading system proposed) and possibly doomed their friends.

[fluffyfairyzz]

gender envy

[fishy--friend]

Hi! It's come to my attention that my previous poll wasn't very good in its tone and options (the lack of an other option and the tone being very harsh specifically). Since these things are entirely my fault, I've decided to make a new poll with better options!

Again, I am so sorry for the previous poll being offensive/hurtful to some or just not inclusive. I hope this one is better than the previous poll!!

[thevirgodoll]

Sometimes I think about how society genuinely rewards hyper-independent behavior. It’s more acceptable to be avoidant and detach than it is to go inward. Wanting connection during a tough time gets met with a lack of perspective. It breaks my heart to see so many people lose their support systems.

And, honestly, I’d say that hyper-independent response has risen due to the pandemic. We were all detached from each other and missed out on intimacy. As a response, there is a longing for connection but a gap in knowledge as to how frequent and how proximal that connection should be.

There’s also a loss of empathy because everyone’s for themselves and have had to be for so long. This is why people are afraid to share their struggles with their close friends in fear of “dumping”. I hate how no one knows the difference between dumping and venting due to these armchair psychologists on TikTok, Twitter, etc. And, yes, there’s a possibility that you can cross the line but avoidant behavior will only isolate you even more and rob people in your life of the opportunity to give you love.

Friends are supposed to be there, and while all of our friends may show up differently, this obsession with extreme avoidance (often disguised as self preservation) is why people have so much trouble keeping their friends in their 20s. Boundaries are always important to discuss because they are the foundation of so many relationships.

At the same time, the key is recognizing these needs while allowing friends to support you in a time of need. The key is taking the time to schedule ~friend dates~ and talks. The key is trusting yourself to trust others, and working on whatever is in the way of that. This is how you nurture closeness…at this age it takes dedication and courage because education won’t always be a commonality to do the work for us. Eventually, we will have to learn proper communication skills and that is only possible if everyone looks in the mirror to address emotional immaturity.

We have to show our friends we love them, we need them just as much as a romantic dynamic. It’s unwise to ignore that humans have always had some form of platonic connection… to convince yourself that that is not necessary is a first class flight to self sabotage.

What I’m trying to say is attachment and detachment must coexist in a balance. An extreme of one or the other is a trauma response. Avoidance truly is suppression disguised as safety in a room full of traps.

[nugiios]

i want to die.

[oh-look-a-homosexual-punk-bitch]

Is anyone else's paranoia so bad because of there mom, cuz she makes mine so much more worse than it already is, cuz she knows a lot of people and if they see me in public without my mom or dad they are designated reporters for her, sometimes she'll even call them and tell them where I'm going and it always makes me feel like I'm being followed and watched, and listened to, it's horrible, I can't sleep sometimes because of it

[diaryofadisorderedboy]

as much as i love an appriciate this community, i have realized that i can get better from this. Ana does not controll my life, and i should be listening. after watching a bunch of people's eating disorder stories and how recovery saved them and they became happier becuase of it, i have realized that i would much rather be happy and have a repaired relationship with food, living like a normal teen, than count my calories, starve myself, and slowly end up kiling myself.

so as of now i am not an eating disorder account anymore, but i will be trying to track my progress in recovery.

i know this seems very sudden, but ive had an epiphany and all of what my friends have been telling me is finally making sense. recovery is the answer and i will be following the answers.

goodbye edblur

shut the fuck up ana

cause i want to be a normal boy again.

[davidthephoneguy]

why did no one tell me the majority of steamboat willie is just mickey treating animals poorly to make a duet with minnie before gleefully drowning a parrot with a potato?

[inka-boi]

guys, the song “Good Lookin’ ” is.. lovesickle(farm killer)/bloodycrop(horror farm) 💀

[sister-lucifer]

when most people have a mental breakdown they change their hair but i changed my entire name

also you can stop dming me to make sure i didn’t kill myself thanks guys

[miguel-owhora]

what if i, hypothetically, changed my name to miguel🧍‍♂️

[fluffyselfships]

looking for 3-4 selfshippers to lay around on our tummies and kick our feet as we talk about new f/os and crushes 🫧

[transphilza]

the ycgma anniversary stream performance of it’s all futile! it’s all pointless! changed me fundamentally as a person

[t0mies-b0dy]

LETS FUCKING

GOOOOOOOOOOOO