this is a weird post but the idea has been stuck in my head for a while
of course this is not detailed - think of this more as an infographic of sorts ? highly recommend reading from the resources i'll link at the end of the post if you want to learn more about this topic
sources:
https://www.verywellmind.com/fawning-fear-response-7377238
https://www.liberationhealingseattle.com/blog-trauma-therapist/how-to-stop-fawning-traumaa
https://innerbalanceaz.com/blog/what-is-the-fawning-trauma-response
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I just want to make a small rant: I love that the antis are going back to the 'how dare you fetishize mlm' thing again, they'd taken a little break on it for a few years. As a gay man, I love seeing these supposedly inclusive and 'protector' puritans tell me that my very existence and any relationship I have (fictional or IRL) is not a real relationship, but a sick fetish. Thanks for being homophobic, gals. Thanks a bunch. I was starting to relax a little too much.
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i've been wondering, do you know if there are symbols or things associated with the aro community? like ace people have playing cards, intersex people have orchids, what do you think?
there are a few that i know of:
green hearts (and green in general)
garlic bread as a symbol for aspecs as a whole
ice cream has been proposed by some aros (to pair with asexuality's cake)
if anybody thinks of more, please feel free to add them in a reblog etc
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Hi, how do you get out of terf Tumblr????? pls I'm in need of dire help, I liked a post without noticing the tag (it wasn't even about feminism) now I can't get out. Someone rescue me
I had the same problem last year. Eventually, I just went through and blocked all the TERF tags I'd seen. And then when I inevitably see a TERF post that doesn't use those tags, I block the user (lol, I saw somewhere that said there's not that many of them, and they all reblog each other).
Here's a list of the tags I blocked so you don't need to go searching for them:
child mutilation, drop the t, gay conservative, gender abolition, gender critical, radblr, radfem, radfem safe, radfems, radfems please touch, radical feminism, terf safe, terfblr, tra nonsense, trans cult, transgender cult
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i didn’t know you and layton were dating? -tf2heritageposts
Hi comrade!
For the avoidance of doubt, @layton-heritage-posts and I are not dating. The bond between us is more profound than that - we are joined inevitably and irrevocably by the red string of fate betwixt our two fandoms and by our love of The Bit. And by that one person who wrote yuri fanfiction about our blogs on more than one occasion.
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Hey….hey, what if…….what if Axol wore a Victorian-style dress…………
Bold of you to assume I haven't already doodled him in them before :)))
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i dont know if this is what youre talking about but this is saved on my computer as 'seal soulful.jpg'
Today's Seal Is: Simply Soulful...
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one again BAFFLED by people telling me I can't write about trans men being happy to get pregnant. i am a trans man with 3 bio kids and i was never once dysphoric while i was pregnant. in fact my big family wanting preg kink ass was having a GREAT time lmaoo
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the fact that aromantic has one more letter than hot to go is mildly annoying
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