#Catering Networking Events

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How to Cater an Office Event on a Budget?

The key to successfully Catering For Office Events on a budget lies in meticulous planning. Start by defining your budget constraints and the number of attendees. This will give you a clear idea of how much you can afford to spend per person. Next, consider the dietary preferences and restrictions of your guests to ensure that everyone is accommodated.Catering an office event on a budget doesn't have to be stressful or expensive. With careful planning, creative thinking, and a bit of negotiation, you can host a memorable event that delights your guests without breaking the bank. By following these tips, you'll be well on your way to successfully catering an office event on a budget.

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A New Kind Of Normal (Prologue)

Pairing: Dad!Rafe Cameron x Reader

Warnings: SMUT.

Pronouns: She/Her

Word Count: 2.7K

Summary: A night at work leads Y/N to the bed of the Prince of Kooks and it results in a small miracle.

Masterlist

Working at a catering company is not exactly Y/N’s life dream, but it helps her pay for tuition so she deals with it. The black cocktail dress she is forced to wear for this event is driving her insane. It is itchy and so short that she worries every few minutes her underwear will show. She is struggling with the heels, fearing she’ll trip with no way of catching her fall. The tray in her hand holds lemon buttercups that make her mouth salivate like a dog. She navigates around the wealthy partygoers and offers anyone who looks interested a sweet treat. Most people barely look in her direction, let alone thank her; the wealthy really need to learn some manners. At least she only has three more hours of this. 

For once, Rafe didn’t get high as soon as he got off of work. He knew he had to accompany his dad to this networking event and he wasn’t about to make the same mistake of going to a work event high again. Not after last time. His regret for being sober is starting to grow, but the smell of vanilla makes him glad he can think clearly. Her bright smile is the second thing he notices after her vanilla perfume. It amazes him how she can still be so happy, knowing she’s been working since the start of the night. He wants to go get a lemon buttercup just to have an excuse to talk to her; however, the button on his suit jacket has another idea. It falls off of its string and starts rolling away from him. They watch as the button gets farther away and both go after it. Their eyes are focused on the button, which causes them to run into each other. 

Buttercups go flying everywhere and Y/N falls flat on her bum. Rafe tries to stop his fall, but all he really does is change the direction he falls in and he tumbles on top of her. His chest presses against hers. She feels his breath fight against hers and she tries her hardest to keep the attraction out of her eyes. Her mind snaps back to reality. She quickly pushes him off of her and she stands back up. 

Her hands search for the tray so she can go back to the kitchen to replace the soiled treats. He wants to go after her, but his dad stops him in his tracks under the pretense of talking to a client. The rest of the night is spent looking for the vanilla-scented waitress. He finally sets eyes on the one person he wants to see near the end of the night. Her body sits in a nook hidden away from everyone. She has her knees folded close to her chest and he can see she is reading something placed on her lap. The cold night air breezes through her hair, getting into her face but it doesn’t seem to bother her. The dress she is wearing absolutely drives him crazy. It hugs her curves perfectly and with the way she is sitting, he catches a glimpse at her underwear, which he has to pull himself to look away from her. “I’m glad I found you again, Buttercup. We didn’t get the chance to talk last time.” 

She looks up from whatever she is reading, giving him a small smile that doesn’t compare to the one before. He vows to make her give him that smile again. She can’t help but admit that she thinks he is funny and handsome. She thought that everyone at the event would be a high society person, who would look down at her. But whoever this guy is, he talks to her like she is human. Joking around with her and flashing her a charming smirk. His blazer is thrown across his forearm and she finds it attractive how the sleeves of his button-up are folded up his arms. It takes everything inside of her not to smile like an idiot when he speaks to her. “And it’s Button. Did you manage to get your button back?” she asks. He walks over, sitting on the wall across from her, “Yes, thanks for trying to help. Sorry, I knocked you off of your feet. What are you reading?” “It’s okay. It was my fault too for not looking. And I’m reading a script. I have an audition tomorrow for a student film,” she explains, flashing him the script she is reading. He gently snatches it out of her hand, “So you’re an actress, interesting. I could see that. Anything I would have seen you in?”

“No, just a bunch of student films for university. That’s it. But one day, I’m going to move out to New York or maybe LA and then get my big break. For now, I’m okay with just going to university and acting in student films.” 

“Well I’ve never seen you act, but I know you’ll make it big. I mean with a smile better than Julia Roberts’, how could you not?”

“Aww, thanks! Aren’t you going back to the party? Or are you hiding out too? You seemed to be a hit with the other business dudes.”

He looks at her with a grin, playfully knocking her foot with his, “You’ve been watching me. I’m hiding out from my father. He says I’m useless and can’t be trusted, yet he seems to want to parade me around at events like these. I just don’t understand him.” His hands play at buttoning his watch on and off. She looks at him with sad eyes, feeling bad about his parental pressures. He hates that he is the one to make her sad and all he wants to do is to give her the world to cheer her up. “I’m sorry your dad is such a jerk. The only useless thing I see here is your suit button,” she jokes to lighten up the mood. This is when she flashes him her award-winning smile and he wants to melt, “Thanks. I’m used to it by now.” Silence falls over them before Rafe feels the need to tell her more about his dad. She has eyes that tell him she can be trusted and if she is as sweet as her perfume, she must be hella sweet. “He doesn’t understand that I’m protecting him and the company. That’s me. Not Sarah. Me, Rafe. I’m the one.” His tears start to fall as his fingers press against his thumb to point toward him to punctuate his point. 

She isn’t sure what to say to him; she never had any problems with her dad. She moves to sit beside him, bringing his head onto her shoulder. He revels in her touching and lets himself feel comfort in her neck. After a few seconds, he looks up at her. Their eyes lock for a second. His lips near hers and she takes the chance by smacking their lips together. Their mouths move in tandem, his tongue moving against her bottom lip to ask for entrance. She lets him in and they fight for dominance. Eventually, she gives him full control. His hands move to the neckline of her dress, moving it out of the way so he can kiss her collarbone. 

Before things get too heated in public, she moves his head away from her skin. She places her forehead against his and quietly pants, “I really do want to continue this, but maybe not in a place we’d get arrested.” He loves the way she says it taking her hand into his to drag her to his truck. 

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Rafe spins her around so her back slams against his door. His teeth gently tug her bottom lips and let it go to give her a kiss. His hand finds the back of her thigh, so he can hike it up to his waist. He separates for a second and brings his mouth to her ear, “My name is Rafe by the way. You’ll need to know it for when you are screaming my name later on.” She feels shivers run down her spine. His lips begin to descend the column of her neck and drops down to his knees. His head ducks under the skirt of her dress, using his teeth to pull her underwear down her legs. Once he has clear access to her pussy, he dives in to make her feel good. He starts his assault with her clitoris, swirling his tongue around the bud. Her head swings back in pleasure and her leg wraps around his shoulder. “God, I love the sounds you are making. You are doing so good, Buttercup. Do you want more?” he praises, looking up at her.

“Yes, please. More,” she cries out and brings his mouth back onto her. He gives a low chuckle at her words, moving his fingers to his mouth to get them prepared for her. His fingers move from his mouth to her vagina. It penetrates her hole and she is begging for him to give her more. Her hips start to buck to meet his movement. He adds another finger and the sound she lets out is music to his ears. Her walls start to tighten around his fingers. She lets out a loud gasp as she climaxes. He pulls his fingers out of her and cleans them off in his mouth. 

Standing at full height, he towers over her now. She gives him a wicked smile and stands on his tiptoes to whisper in his ear. “As much as I love the nickname Buttercup, I want you to be yelling Y/N for what I’m about to do.” It's her turn to kneel on her knees and pull down his clothes. He can cum in his pants just at the sight of her like this. She begins by pumping his cock in her hand, bringing the tip close to her lips. She gives it a little kitten lick and then continues to jerk him off. “Y/N, Y/N. Please, take me in your mouth. I need to feel you,” he moans out, lacing his fingers through her hair to push her head closer to where he needs her. She happily envelopes him in her mouth, using a hand to bring pleasure to what isn’t in her mouth. She continues to bob her head and swirls her tongue around his dick. 

She feels him twitch in her mouth, but he brings her up to full height before she can help him climax. “I want to come in you,” he begs, heading over to his bedside table to get a condom. She strips as he goes to get it, “Will you hurry up and get that thing on you? I need to feel you inside of me.” He quickly rips the condom wrapper with his teeth and rolls it onto himself after giving it a few pumps. The sight of her naked makes him want to drool; he knows she probably feels self-conscious being the only naked person in the room, so he rids himself of his clothes.

Her perky breasts are calling his name; therefore, he brings his head to suck on one of her nipples. The swirling of his tongue around her bud and her head jerks forward to rest on his head. “Enough foreplay, Rafe. Get your dick back in me before I take matters into my own hands,” she orders, moving his head from her boobs by his hair. He groans at her words, “Y/N if you do that, I’m going to have to punish you.” But he obeys her demands anyway. His fingers find their way back to her core to make sure she is wet enough for him. Finally, he brings the tip of his cock and pushes into her at a rough pace. He brings her leg back up to his waist and presses his chest against hers so she has better support with her back pressed against the door. With each thrust, her back rubs against the wall in a slight discomfort, but the pleasure he is giving her makes it worth it. “You are doing so good. Look how well you are taking me,” he breathly praises him. 

“What can I say? You’re pretty good at stretching me out,” she teases, wrapping her arms around his neck. He gives her a dark look, “I must not be doing a good enough job if it’s only pretty good. I have to kick it up a notch then.” As promised, his pace quickens and gets rougher as her moans increase in volume. He feels like he is in heaven and he knows he is going to come soon. His hand goes down between them, rubbing her clit to help her get close with him. His thrusts mixed with his rubbing fingers help bring her to her orgasm. “Keep going, I’m almost there. You feel amazing,” she admires as she feels herself clench around him. His orgasm washes over him too and he lets out a loud moan with his head thrown to her neck as his thrusts begin to slow down. He rides out both of their highs before pulling out of her with a peck to the lips. 

She slouches against the wall a little tired from their activities and he brings her other leg up to his waist so he can carry her to the bathroom. Her legs tighten around him; her head buries into his neck. He feels the faint brush of her lips against the skin of his neck. He places her on the toilet, turning away so she can go in privacy. With her bladder now empty, he returns to her with a damp towel to help clean off her sticky cum. The condom he is wearing comes off and is discarded in the garbage. Her legs wobble a little as she tries to make her way to the sink. Rafe lets out a small chuckle at her Bambi-like walking and helps her to the sink so she can wash her hands.

After they finish getting ready for bed in the bathroom, he carries her back to his room and gently lays her down. He gets in on his side of the bed, bringing her head against his chest. She thinks of saying something to break the silence, but sleep finds her before she can. 

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It has been a month since that fateful night with Rafe. She left the next morning without waiting for him to wake up. Yes, they had an amazing night, but she didn’t think he was the relationship type so she wasn’t going to put him through the awkwardness of asking her to leave. Ever since that night, she’s been experiencing sore breasts, nausea, and mood swings; however, she just attributed those symptoms to her period coming soon. The trigger that brings her to where she is now is her missed period. Her period turned regular when she was sixteen so she shouldn’t skip a month. She stares at the wall of tests in front of her, trying to figure out the best one. She feels like everyone in the store is staring at her and just decides on whichever one she can grab first. 

The drive home is filled with anxious silence as she looks over at the bag on her passenger seat at every red light. She gets home and follows the instructions on the box. Waiting for five minutes has never felt this long before. Y/N paces the bathroom with the fingernail of her thumb in her mouth and runs towards the pregnancy test when the timer goes off. She looks in the little window on the test. Her panic seeps through her as she sees the words ‘pregnant’. Her first thought is to find Rafe and tell him, but then she remembers all the stories she’s heard about him after they slept together.

He does drugs. He has anger issues and hurts people. It is all completely different from the person she spent the night with, yet everyone has said the same thing. And that is not the type of father she wants for her baby. She doesn’t know if she is going to keep the baby, but she knows that whatever she decides, Rafe cannot be involved.

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Introducing the "Sugar Baby" mod – a tantalizing mod that adds a touch of opulence and allure to your Sims' lives. Dive into a world of luxurious relationships, elegant gifts, and lavish experiences as you explore the dynamics of sugar babies, sugar daddies, and sugar mommies.

Unleash your Sims' desires with the three unique traits this mod introduces:

Sugar Baby Trait:

Transform your Sim into a charismatic and enchanting Sugar Baby. They possess an irresistible charm that draws the attention of wealthier Sims, and their whims reflect desires for pampering, expensive gifts, and romantic indulgences.

Sugar Daddy/Mommy Trait:

Bestow upon your Sim the persona of a powerful Sugar Daddy/Mommy. These Sims are financially affluent and thrive on the thrill of providing for their Sugar Babies. Their whims lean towards giving generous monetary gifts, planning extravagant dates, and enjoying the companionship of their adoring Sugar Babies.

(note: Sims must have sugar baby & sugar daddy/mommy traits for menu to show up)

Experience a world of luxury with interactions unique to the Sugar Baby mod:

Money Requests: Sugar Babies can artfully request monetary support from their Sugar Daddies or Mommies. Gauge their interest and connection, as the outcomes of these requests may influence the course of their relationship.

Gifts and Flowers: Shower your Sugar Baby with extravagant presents, from simoleans to fragrant bouquets, and watch their affection for you flourish.

Exquisite Dates: Plan romantic outings with your Sugar Baby, whether it's an opulent dinner at an upscale restaurant or a serene evening under the stars. Sugar Daddies and Mommies can generously provide money during these dates, while Sugar Babies aim to maximize their earnings. You have two different perspectives you can do the dates on. Sugar Baby or Sugar Daddy/Mommy.

Odd Jobs for Sugar Babies: Explore new odd job opportunities that cater to the Sugar Baby lifestyle. From yacht parties to event companions, your Sugar Baby Sim can enjoy a range of lucrative roles that align with their lifestyle aspirations.

There are seven odd jobs for sugar babies:

Sugar Baby Date

Yacht Party

Gala Event

Networking Mixer

Nectar Tasting

Art Exhibition

Premiere Party

Indulge in a world of decadence and relationships like never before, as the "Sugar Baby" mod adds layers of complexity and excitement to The Sims 4 gameplay. Create captivating stories, shape enchanting dynamics, and elevate your Sims' lives into a realm of luxury and extravagance. Are you ready to embrace the glitz and glamour of the Sugar Baby universe?

Public Access September 14th DOWNLOAD Patreon | CurseForge

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02/02/2024 Daily Recap

TLDR; SaveOFMDCrew Tumblr Updates; How To Help; Twitter Hashtags; Daily Lists; Reminders: Appreciation Events; Live Rewatch OFMD Party with Q+; Operation Auxiliary Wardrobe; Cast & Crew Sightings; New Watch Partys; Actually reasonable Articles; Stats; Petition Status; Morale; Love Notes; Daily Darby/Tonight's Taika

= Save OFMD Crew Tumblr Up =

The SaveOFMDCrew Tumblr is finally up and running! Due to some weirdness with accounts they'll be under @saveofmdcrewmates as opposed to the regular name. This will have the same news as the other platforms so feel free to give them a follow.

== How To Help ==

Twitter folks: looks like @SaveOFMDCrew as well as several other people who've been leading the charge on twitter wanted to remind everyone on when to use what hashtags. Apparently there's been some cross pollination and they wanted to try and clear it up. Thank you to @havethisonelife for summarising.

Haterade Posts:

#OhBloysHeMad , #TheNumbersWereThere, #FinishOurStories Avoid: #DontStreamOnMax

When Advertising ourselves:

#SaveOFMD #AdoptOurCrew

Horny Posts:

No tags (Edit: @SaveOFMDCrew said it was ok to use #OurFlagMeansDeath on horny posts, just no other tags).

Suggestions for How to Help

Looking for ways to help? There are still daily ideas for you here: How To Help Save OFMD Task List - US How to Help Save OFMD Task List - Outside US

==Reminders!==

Cast Appreciation Events!

Tomorrow is Day of Damien! A day to shower Damien Gerard (Father Teach) with support and kindness for all he's done for our fandom! He has been hitting #SaveOFMD events pretty hard trying to support us! 

When to start: Saturday February 3rd, 6 AM CST, 7 AM ET, 4 AM PT, 12 PM GMT  Hashtags: #DayOfDamien

His Social Media Accounts:

Linktree (has his cashapp, etc) / Instagram / Twitter / Twitch / Tiktok

== Live - Rewatch Party with Q+! ==

This rewatch party is particularly important because the crew is really trying to get people hyped for the BBC launch of s2 on Feb 5. Everyone is hoping that if the s2 launch in the UK shows huge interest it'll be a huge boon for the potential for s3 with the networks.

Sunday Feb 4, 2 PM GMT / 9 AM ET / 6 AM PT

Watch Party Hashtags:

#OurFlagMeansRewatch

#AdoptOurCrew

#SaveOFMD

#OurFlagBBC

=Operation Auxiliary Wardrobe=

Do you do applique, crochet, cross stitch, embroidery, knitting, needle felt or any other textile-based OFMD Art? Wanna join a fun group of participants? Starting next week there will be a recruiting drive for a new fabric+thread project mid-month if people are interested! If you want to jump in now you can message @ForceMonument on twitter, otherwise other avenues will be opened sometime in the coming weeks!

=Cast & Crew Sightings =

This is from 01/26/2024 but I missed it and I feel like it needs to be shared. Dominic Burgess being a goofball badass as Jeffrey Fettering singing a 18th century version of the Friends theme song. <3 (Apologies for the quality of the video, I had to record it off my screen so people didn't have to go to Twitter). Twitter Post.

Wee John Wednesdays Mondays are back!

Mon 5th Feb, 10.30pm on Kristian Nairn's Instagram

=NEW WATCH PARTIES =

You can see a running list of current/upcoming watch parties here.

Thank you @libbyroseitm for the new Watch Party!

Uncle Season 1 watch party on i-player. Thurs 15th + Fri 16th Feb (GMT - 8 PM , ET - 3PM, PST - 12 PM)

Catered specifically for the UK crew, but we'd be thrilled for anyone else using VPN's to join in too! Here's an article on how to join via VPN

WatchParty Hashtags:

#ForTheNewUncle

#SaveOFMD

#AdoptOurCrew

== Articles ==

Finally! The Q+ Article is wonderful and very uplifting.

Our Flag Means Death: Why It Deserves to Find a New Harbor

The 10 best TV shows to watch this week, from Mr and Mrs Smith to One Day

Hairy Bikers Go West, Death In Paradise and Wheel of Fortune: TV highlights this week

The Uncertain Fate of “Our Flag Means Death” Season 3: A Closer Look

Every show canceled so far in 2024

Netflix adds one of ‘the best shows of 2022’ after it was dropped by HBO Max

== STATS ==

Thanks to @Seven_Sugars over on twitter for this info and analysis.

Also, as always, more fun stats from @meowzawowza on twitter from the Netherlands.

== Petition Status ==

Almost to 84K signatures friends!

== Morale ==

I know we're ending day 24 of being the Gravy Basket. It's been a lonnnnng several weeks. We haven't heard from chaos dad in around a week now, so it may seem again like things are slowing down again. As several folks have mentioned before, not every day can be ground breaking, but seeing everyone in the community getting together, having fun with watch parties, discussing ofmd meta, making new art and fanfiction, it feels like the momentum is still there. We often don't see many updates on the weekend so take this time to relax, take a break, maybe do the rewatch party if you have time on Sunday. I did want to bring up, this article on The Tourist is cool because it highlights that HBOMax has cancelled some very highly rated shows in the past and Netflix has picked up on them-- and while we didn't see anything from the 2024 Netflix announcements (as @poison-into-positivity mentioned, even if it was picked up it wouldn't be for 2024) that doesn't mean it's not still a possibility. So don't give up hope. It's going to take some time to get through to the networks, and we'll keep keeping at it.

If you are feeling down or concerned, be sure to reach out to your fellow crew, we're all here for you.

== Love Notes ==

Hey lovelies. You are so incredibly strong, do you know that? No matter what's going on in your life, you're still here. Every single day you get back up, and you keep going. That is incredibly powerful, and incredibly strong, and don't let anyone tell you any different. Do you think our buddy Rhys let's anyone tell him he's not the baddest ass mf on the planet? Nope.

If all you did today was get out of bed, or take a shower, or walk your dog, and nothing else, you kicked today's ass. If you wrote fanfiction, or watched a tv show, you kicked today's ass. They say that "what doesn't kill you makes you stronger" and while I see where that phrase is coming from I like to think of it a bit differently. What doesn't kill you, gives you a glimpse of just how strong you already were. You are the reason you are kind, you are the reason you are strong, you are the reason you continue to grow. You. Outside forces can help shape you, but you have always been strong even when you have felt your weakest, it's just not always easy to see. That strength is so important, and so is your need to rest. Remember to take a break from all the stressors of your life, whether that be a shower, or a 5 minute walk, or a day or a week away from the internet, whatever works for you. Even the strongest bridge in the world can break when there's too much weight on it. That doesn't mean the bridge is any less strong, it means something extremely heavy pushed it past its limits. Anyway, enough of my ramblings, just please know, everyone out here in the crew are so incredibly proud of you, we're rooting for you, and we're so very grateful you're still here with us.

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Speaking of resting....Reminder! No recap for 02/03/2024 unless someone else wants to do one! Please feel free to, obviously! I will be off drinking after taking a dip in some hotsprings and then watching OFMD with two friends who have yet to see it. So if I show up lurking and drunk-tumblr you all, I sincerely apologize, but I hope if I do that drunk Abby is at least amusing. Love yall <3

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== Daily Darby / Tonight's Taika ==

If you wanna see someone else other than these two in these gifs from OFMD let me know, we can switch it up a bit.

[visit-new-york]

What recreational activities are available for visitors in Brooklyn Bridge Park?

Brooklyn Bridge Park stands as a testament to urban revitalization, transforming an industrial waterfront into a vibrant green space that attracts locals and tourists alike. Nestled along the East River, this 85-acre park offers breathtaking views of the Manhattan skyline, the Brooklyn Bridge, and the Statue of Liberty. Beyond its scenic beauty, Brooklyn Bridge Park provides a plethora of recreational activities for visitors seeking an immersive and enjoyable experience.

Cycling and Rollerblading:

A network of dedicated bike paths and scenic routes makes Brooklyn Bridge Park a haven for cyclists and rollerbladers. With the gentle breeze from the river and stunning vistas, exploring the park on wheels is a favorite among locals. Visitors can bring their own bikes or rent from the park's various rental stations.

Picnicking and Relaxing:

For those seeking a more leisurely experience, the park offers ample green spaces perfect for picnicking and relaxation. Visitors can bask in the sun, enjoy a meal with friends and family, or simply unwind amidst the lush lawns and gardens. Several designated picnic areas equipped with tables and grills enhance the overall experience.

Kayaking and Paddleboarding:

The park's waterfront location makes it an ideal spot for water-based activities. Brooklyn Bridge Park Boathouse provides free kayaking and paddleboarding sessions during the summer months, allowing visitors to paddle along the East River while taking in iconic views of the Brooklyn Bridge and Lower Manhattan.

Basketball and Volleyball Courts:

Sports enthusiasts can engage in friendly matches at the park's basketball and volleyball courts. Whether it's a pickup game with friends or a more organized match, these facilities provide an energetic outlet with the stunning backdrop of the city skyline.

Fishing at Pier 5:

Pier 5 features a dedicated fishing area, attracting anglers of all skill levels. Fishing is a popular pastime, and the park's location along the river makes it a prime spot to cast a line and enjoy the peacefulness of the waterfront.

Children's Playground:

Families with children can take advantage of the well-designed playgrounds within the park. Featuring modern play structures, water features, and sandboxes, these areas provide a safe and entertaining environment for kids to expend their energy.

Fitness Classes and Events:

Brooklyn Bridge Park frequently hosts fitness classes and events, ranging from yoga sessions with a view to outdoor boot camps. These activities cater to fitness enthusiasts of all levels and offer a unique way to stay active while enjoying the park's scenic surroundings.

Conclusion:

Brooklyn Bridge Park stands as a shining example of urban green spaces that cater to the diverse recreational interests of its visitors. Whether you're an avid cyclist, water sports enthusiast, or someone who simply wants to relax in a picturesque setting, the park has something for everyone. As you explore the various offerings at Brooklyn Bridge Park, you'll discover that it's not just a park; it's a dynamic and engaging destination that invites you to experience the best of outdoor recreation in the heart of Brooklyn.

[shaunamilfman]

hhiii i just read ur hcs about jackie on your birthday and i was wondering if u could do lottie as well? <33

How Lottie Acts on Your Birthday

pre-crash headcanons

i definitely think that Lottie, as someone whose parents were never very present for her special events, would put a lot of energy into making your birthday special. Lottie's going to spend a shit ton of money on your gifts because worries about buying something you might not like, and instead just buys everything she thinks you might want

she has her own gift table at your party piled high with everyone else’s cards sitting pathetically on the table next to it.

she’s going all out on your birthday party. normal people would order pizza and put bags of chips out, but not Lottie. Your birthday party will be a catered event with all of your favorite foods and your favorite cake flavor.

lottie stresses herself out whenever your birthday comes around. she’s so concerned with trying to make it special because she never wants you to feel like she did when she was a kid. her parents always made her birthday a networking event if it was remembered at all. maybe she overcompensates a little (a lot) but you know her heart is in it.

lottie’s very clingy in the week leading up to your birthday, needing a lot more reassurance than usual. she has a desperate need for physical touch, always finding it very grounding when she’s nervous about something, and you’re more than happy to give it to her.

i don’t think lottie would throw you a surprise party, just because she herself wouldn’t want one. if you asked for one i think she’d try, but she wouldn’t be very good at it. she’s all like “hey, are you doing anything next saturday? no reason though 😁.” one day she's oddly emphasizing that you should wear something nice when you come over to her house to watch a movie. “no, seriously though. like party clothes or something, haha.”

this one isn’t birthday specific but like lottie would definitely get you jewelry as a gift that has her name engraved on it somehow. it wouldn’t be outwardly visible, but on the inside of a ring or a bracelet or something like that just so she knows that you're wearing it. she gets so much joy from seeing you wear it, like your taking a part of her wherever you go

you wake up the morning of your birthday to see lottie sitting up next to you just watching you sleep as she waits for you to get up. she always gets too excited when the day finally comes to sleep in, but she always waits for you to get up naturally. lottie briefly considered trying to cook you something herself for breakfast but ultimately decided not to risk it.

lottie wants to spend the whole day doing whatever you want to do, even if it means hiding her face in your neck at the scary parts of your favorite movies. lottie’s a lot more affectionate than usual on your birthday.

lottie’s also a big fan of birthday sex but unlike Jackie she’s patient enough to wait till the end of the day, enjoying the knowing looks you send her as she walks around in your favorite outfit of hers all day.

[trans-cuchulainn]

i shared something a few months ago about allergies and food disabilities and it recently started accumulating notes again and now it's at 5.7k, so obviously my activity page is just people trauma dumping about their awful experiences with allergies in the tags which is. Fun.

but what's really getting me is how i made a comment early on in the reblog chain about how many personal and professional activities revolve around food and how much it sucks to have to either put yourself at risk or miss out on those opportunities, because people often react badly either way if you cause them even the slightest inconvenience

and EVERYBODY who has responded to that comment. and I mean everybody. has focused on "personal" and made comments about how "if your friends don't respect your food disabilities, they're not your friends" and "you'll meet more supportive people in future" and all of that

and not one of them has paid any attention to the "professional" part of that. I'm talking about work Christmas dinners where if you don't go you're not a team player and will probably get passed over for future opportunities, but if you go, you'll get sick and HR will be mad about the extra time off. I'm talking about networking dinners and business lunches and meeting people at the buffet table at events, all of which are fraught if not impossible. I'm talking about travelling for conferences or other events and having to bring an entire extra bag with food because the venue can't cater for you (hand luggage only just ain't even an option at this point, so yay, extra costs if you're travelling further afield)

and also! smaller things like job interviews where you have to wear "smart" clothes (fitted waistbands and IBS? A Nightmare). dress codes in general. working in a building where the nearest toilets are on the opposite side. not being able to trust the work kettle/microwave because it might be contaminated but not having the facilities to bring/use your own. not being able to use communal tea/coffee/milk supplies for the same reason. all of those little everyday things

it isn't just about friends. it's about LIFE. i'm in an industry where events, lunches, etc are a common occurrence, and a nightmare for me. in academia, it feels like every other event involves a wine reception, which is shit when you don't drink and don't love being around people who are drinking a lot. in the office, i can't participate properly in any of the seasonal social gatherings, whether they're tea and biscuits or a Christmas meal

food disabilities have PROFESSIONAL impacts. because they are disabilities. it isn't just about having fun or hanging out with friends. it affects my career and my opportunities and it is INVISIBLE because people don't even know to recognise the ableism when they're doing it

i am tired of people ignoring that facet of it all

[deusexmachinawitch]

Day #8, #9 & #10 Slade Subliminal Self Challenge

Subs Listened: Problem Solving Potion, Evolution, I Am, Obelisk, Pillar, Nomad.

Time Listened: Short loops of around 15-20 minutes each sub. I did end up listening to "Pillar" overnight by accident one of the days.

Other methods: Robotic affirmations, visualization. Didn't listen to any other subs, just some meditation tapes. I did some self-care and decided to indulge in LoAss content videos for two days tho.

Today’s results:

(Day #8)

-Got a haircut for free, I look gorgeous.

-People buying me a lot of things for me out of the blue so I would look nice, including press-on nails.

-Got free dinner.

-Actually the day was really nice and peaceful at home and work, which is pretty rare especially at work so I am really happy and calm.

(Day #9)

-Got free clothes.

-Got free lunch.

-Someone that I really care actually told me they got me a surprise gift and that I'll see it next week, so I should look forward to it.

-That same person caring for my opinion and being grateful for my help and care towards them.

-Suddenly having custom-made catering in a networking event that we didn't expect to have actual catering in.

-My team getting prioritized in an work event that we didn't expect to get advantages with. This really increased my team's morale and everyone seems really happy and working better.

-Someone who's known to be a really hard person to deal with but with a lot of influence saying that they really respect me and that I have their support. Apparently, they were magically related to someone I've been caring so deeply and helping them with their dreams (I taught them about LoAss) and because they feel much better than ever before since LoAss, this person is really grateful and wants to help me in everything they can. LoAss does really work in magical ways, even creating links in people I would NEVER imagine they would actually be related in some way.

(Day #10)

-People highly loving me and respecting me after taking a step forward myself and taking a hard decision without hesitation. Everyone started following me and praising me.

-Actually having half of the day off and being able to relax. Another calm day at work, I really needed to manifest this good vibe at work.

-Someone hinting a gift for me. Lately I'm getting a lot of random gifts from people I wasn't expecting.

-Getting hired by someone I wanted to be hired with.

-SP being nice after a stressful rough patch he had.

-A highly respected person actually going after me for advice and comfort after a bad experience with a person in our field.

-------------------------------------------------

Lately my life is finally calming down even though it is one of the most stressful moments at my work since something big is happening for us.

I am loving the gifts and the tranquility, I guess I do love being spoiled. I want to still be spoiled and live an effortless life forever.

[cuddlytogas]

OFMD Big Bang 2023: I Just Need Some Air

that's right baybeyyy guess who did another big bang and managed to bag my cool friend doing the art <33

Title: I Just Need Some Air

Author: hoc_voluerunt / cuddlytogas

Artist: @tsunderejon / wellsussed

Beta reader: reneeissanc3

Characters: Stede Bonnet, Blackbeard | Edward Teach, The Crew of the Revenge, Lucius Spriggs, Roach, Israel Hands, Wee John Feeney, Jim Jimenez, Oluwande Boodhari

Relationship(s): Blackbeard | Edward Teach/Stede Bonnet, Stede Bonnet & Crew of the Revenge, background Black Pete/Lucius Spriggs

Rating: T

Additional Tags: AU - Modern Setting, AU - Australia, Naarm/Melbourne, Social Anxiety, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, The Crew of the Revenge Loves Stede Bonnet, Crew of the Revenge as Family, Neurodivergent Stede Bonnet, Getting Together, Stede Bonnet Has Self-Esteem Issues, First Kiss, Bad Parent Stede Bonnet

Warnings: anxiety, panic attacks

Summary:

Stede Bonnet's been having panic attacks for almost as long as he can remember, suffocated by pressure and expectation. For years, he and Mary had an understanding, necessary for every stuffy networking party and corporate gala: I just need some air. And Stede would find the nearest exit, while Mary distracted the Badmintons before they could figure out where he'd gone. When Stede finally takes his life back — divorces Mary, moves to Melbourne, starts his own event management business — things get better, but he's still no good at parties. He still needs some air, even at the very events he's brought to fruition.

Meanwhile, Edward Teach, renowned chef and owner of Blackbeard's Catering, is wondering why the newest bigwig in events still hasn't hired him.

Modern AU set in Naarm/Melbourne, Australia; a family found and a romance grown in the alleyways behind galleries and function rooms.

Wordcount: 25,874

Link to art: https://twitter.com/wellsussed/status/1729256166830797143

Link to story: https://archiveofourown.org/works/51737674

[lurafita]

Mundane Magnus

So, a wonderful person in the discord Malec server I'm in once prompted the following: A Malec show AU where most everything is the same except club owner Magnus Bane is a mundane with the Sight whose club Pandemonium caters to both mundanes and Downworlders. He first meets Alec when he and his siblings follow a blood peddling demon into the club.

And my mind immediately went "Backstory!" (under the cut for those interested)

Since I'm a fan of keeping some of a character's poignant developments when changing stuff around, I tried to come up with a way to keep a bit of Magnus' backstory that we have seen in the show the same, while giving it another environment.

So, Magnus grew up in Indonesia, but his mother was badly depressed, and killed herself. His stepfather, who had resented the fact that his wife already had a child, had been livid and held Magnus responsible. Without magic to protect himself, child Magnus was then helpless as his stepfather grabbed him and tried to drown him in a nearby lake. Ragnor happened to be close and saved Magnus. This traumatic event gave Magnus the sight. Ragnor then took the boy in, taught him many different languages and cultural customs, and explained about the shadow world. Introduced him to other downworlders like Cat and Raphael. Magnus learned fighting in the military, in which he enlisted because in his last year of highschool, he had a sudden streak of independence and didn't want to keep relying on Ragnor to pay for his college and everything. A recruiter for the military who came to the highschool offered a program where, if Magnus enlisted for a few years, his further education would be paid for. (Something that Magnus and his downworlder family possibly had a falling out over) So Magnus saw combat and knows how to fight (just like his magical counterpart in the series.) When his enlistment was over, he came to NY and used his degree, and opened up his first business, Pandemonium.

Which he intentionally made a safe place for downworlders with the help of Ragnor, Cat and Raphael (and whoever else he got to know through those three).

He also has a bit of a network to help other mundanes with the sight, because while he was still a child when it happened, it was still jarring to have this whole new world opened up to him, and it must be even more disconcerting for those who get the sight when they are older.

Maybe Magnus even got to know some "disgraced" Shadowhunters, who after having been deruned, joined the military as well in hopes of finding some structural familiarity.

Not like ex-circle members, but people who were deruned for what the Clave saw as undesirable behavior, maybe. (like freeing downworlders who had been unjustly imprisoned, or having an actual relationship with a downworlder.) All of this would put Magnus in a better position to help Alec fight off the Clave's indoctrination against the downworlders.

Which, assuming that night in Pandemonium leads to the two of them talking and meeting a lot in the following days, could put Alec in a state of mind where he already has some doubts of his own regarding the Clave's handbook procedurals and attitudes when it comes to downworlders, by the time they get the order to arrest Meliorn. Which causes him to take different actions.

non-warlock Magnus makes me think that maybe portals weren't invented. Or that warlocks didn't share this invention with the shadowhunters. That could be interesting as well, if shadowhunters had to travel the mundane way between institutes.

(The wonderful person who posted the prompt also came up with an alternative reason for Magnus' enlistment with the military, which is the following):

Instead of Magnus just deciding that he doesn't want to rely upon Ragnor for everything, he could have had a relationship with Camille (to keep that part of his backstory), and it ended so terribly that he fled as far as he could, which is part of what landed him in the military beyond the basic education benefits.

Oh, he could have ended up assigned to a foreign embassy in Peru, and while he's not technically outlawed from the whole country, they'd really appreciate it if he never came back (for a reason that's never disclosed to the reader).

(I liked that possibility as well and had to add to it)

Then Magnus could have already been in college/uni when he met Camille through Raphael (who had wanted to keep Magnus away from his clan leader, knowing that she would only play with him and break his heart. But Magnus might have seen that as a challenge rather than a warning, and stubbornly pursued a relationship with the vampire leader.) Then when Camille shows her true colors, Magnus needs to get away from the city, and he happens to wander past a recruitment office. Might be a 5 year contract in which he does basics and one or two tours. Then he comes back to the states (with a polite but firm "Please don't come back to Peru"), finishes his degree and opens up Pandemonium.

Or Camille actively seduced him while he was still in highschool and underage, which then caused him to enlist when it all blew up spectacularly.

[frogfrizz]

FreenBecky (BeckFreen) and WLW representation after Gap the Series

I’m once again pulled into the world of Gap the Series, but in particular, the rich, warm fandom that has become FreenBecky or on occasion, BeckFreen, in its wake. As we all grapple with Gap the Series finally ending, the fandom seems to have gravitated towards the main stars, namely Rebecca “Becky” Armstrong and Freen Sarocha. This is a thing unto itself and vastly different from the fan service that the Rich Man’s Daughter gave us.

(Source)

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Here, we find an army of fans translating nearly all content from the actors across Tiktok, Twitter, Instagram, and Weibo from the Thai language to others’:

(Source)

It’s a concerted effort among a web of individual to fan-club-run accounts that drum up enormous coverage, enthusiasm, admiration, funds for billboard ads or fan projects, and even gifts for the pair.

The fan community is self-sustaining in its growth; it is massive in Southeast Asia and South America, hashtags trending in one country or another, and even globally nearly every day. I have the impression that this fandom never sleeps and there is new content to traverse and giggle over every 12-hour cycle. It’s refreshing to see this level of self-sustained, growing adulation for actors of an LGBT show in countries that have traditionally been so conservative in their views and sorely underrepresented in mainstream media.

But it isn’t just the fans. There is consistent, honest regard in Freen and Becky’s interactions with each other, a world of memes and a language of their own that they share between themselves and with the fans (ex. “mami” and “honey” lines, the “phi-nong” interactions *wink-wink*).

(Source)

We have so little of this attention and enthusiasm for and in the LGBT community with mainstream actors, but these two! They demonstrate a commitment to the fans that is unwavering and unprecedented. They are clear and vocal about their acceptance of the LGBT community, which make up so much of their fan base, trumpeting their advocacy at every opportunity simply by showing up together.

(Source)

And oh! Do they have opportunity. They sell record amounts of product as the faces for a variety of brands on live streaming –from make-up, to magazines, to something as innocuous as seaweed chips.

Together or individually, they are constantly being promoted in magazines or on bright, LED billboards in Thailand and even so far as New York’s Times Square:

(Source)

A magazine seems to be released nearly every week, and it has left fans languishing with empty pockets as they faithfully try to collect every single one. Though these magazines aren’t distributed internationally, an informal network of locals purchase them for international fans (or interfans, as they’re called), and ship them out at the buyer’s expense, which interfans are more than willing to cover.

(Source)

Freen and Becky are adored, loved, and fiercely protected. It’s an amazing phenomenon to watch, and even more extraordinary to contemplate that their popularity has brought their relatively new promoters IdolFactory tremendous exposure and a mountain of ad cash. To an extent, because of such exponential growth, the company has been criticized for poor security and an inability to cater for a large fan base during events as it continues to hire woefully small, inadequate venues.

(Source)

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We deserve to be heard. LGBT content, specifically wlw content, is valuable, loved, adored. If it came to just the bottom line, it is also incredibly profitable. What a message to send to media creators, to brands! I want this to be heard loudly, and for media executives to realize that they are missing out by cancelling so many wlw-centred shows on their streaming services:

(Source)

I wish FreenBecky every success, good health, and happiness.

I want Gap the Series to have even more exposure and recognized as the phenomenon that it is –as the first wlw web series that has breached more than 17M collective views on YouTube. It is the singular show pushing very, very hard against the norm: whether against the persistent cancellations of many wlw shows, catering to a mainly Western audience, or the more Western narrative perpetuated in majority of famous LGBT media today.

[escapadebars]

Delightful Spread: Networking Event Catering

Key Considerations for Successful Catering Networking Events.Time of Day: Morning/Afternoon Events: Lighter fare like pastries, finger foods, and fresh fruit platters are ideal. Evening Events: Consider a more substantial menu with passed hors d'oeuvres, a buffet, or plated stations. Dietary Restrictions: Be mindful of catering options that accommodate vegetarian, vegan, and other dietary needs.Flow & Interaction: Choose a catering style that encourages interaction, such as passed hors d'oeuvres or stations.

[the-steambird]

THE STEAMBIRD: WHAT ARE WE?

— a sfw genshinblr organization dedicated to hosting events, uniting the community, and featuring your favorite works.

NOMINATION RULES — NOMINATION FORM

EVENTS — NOV. NEWSPAPER

WHAT ARE WE NOT?

— a network. the steambird is not something you need to commit to or associate with; it is a neutral organization without members (aside from staff) or applications.

WHAT DO WE OFFER?

— frequent events, based on genshin impact and catered to the writers, artists, and readers of genshinblr. — a monthly newspaper released on the 1st, compiling your favorite works, featuring sections for journalists (writers) and photographers (artists). — opportunities to branch out, be featured, find new creators, and have others find you!

HOW DOES THE NEWSPAPER WORK?

— every month, from the 2nd-24th, we are in the nomination process. writers and artists can nominate themselves or others (with their consent). check out our directory to figure out how. (all featured content is posted with consent — we gather this ourselves regardless). — from the 25th-end of the month, the steambird’s editors compile the eligible nominated works and post them in that month’s newspaper on the 1st.

HOW DO EVENTS WORK?

— we do not have a set schedule for events! however, they are most often hosted every month, and typically last a week-the whole month.

[coworkingspaceinpune]

Revolutionizing Work Culture: Exploring the Best Coworking Spaces in Pune

In the heart of India’s bustling city of Pune lies a dynamic hub of innovation, collaboration, and productivity – coworking spaces. As the traditional office setup evolves, more professionals, freelancers, and entrepreneurs are turning to coworking spaces for their flexibility, community, and amenities. Join us as we delve into the vibrant world of Coworking Space In Pune and discover the top spaces shaping the city's work culture.

Pune's Coworking Scene: A Flourishing Ecosystem

Dive into the burgeoning coworking landscape in Pune, highlighting its growth, diversity, and significance in today’s professional arena. Explore how these spaces cater to the diverse needs of individuals and businesses alike.

Location Spotlight: Pune's Prime Coworking Hubs

Take a virtual tour of Pune's most coveted Co Working Space In Pune hubs, each offering a unique blend of amenities, ambiance, and community. From bustling urban centers to tranquil suburban escapes, find the perfect spot to fuel your creativity and productivity.

Community and Collaboration: The Essence of Coworking

Uncover the magic of coworking communities in Pune, where like-minded individuals come together to network, share ideas, and collaborate on exciting projects. Hear from members about their experiences and the value of belonging to a supportive coworking community.

Amenities and Perks: Elevating the Coworking Experience

Explore the array of amenities and perks offered by Pune's top coworking spaces, from high-speed internet and ergonomic workstations to wellness programs and networking events. Discover how these amenities enhance productivity and well-being for members.

Future Trends: Innovating the Workspace

Delve into the future of coworking in Pune and beyond, exploring emerging trends such as hybrid work models, sustainable design, and technology integration. Learn how these trends are reshaping the way we work and interact in shared spaces.

Conclusion:

As Pune continues to embrace the coworking revolution, the possibilities for collaboration, creativity, and growth are endless. Whether you're a freelancer, startup, or established company, Pune's Coworking Space In Pune offer a vibrant ecosystem where you can thrive and succeed. Join the movement and experience the future of work in Pune's dynamic coworking community.

[lunastryinc]

“Oh, monsters are scared,” said Lettie. “That’s why they’re monsters.” - Neil Gaiman

Lunastry Incorporated is of the belief that there are two kinds of people in this world- people who fear the unknown and people who welcome it. Established in 1693 at the end of the Salem Witch Trials, with branches all across the globe, our company has prided itself on welcoming and protecting both the supernatural community and the humans who know of its existence. Offering a wide variety of services, including special community outings and support networks for those who need a shoulder to cry on, we aim to help you live your best unnatural life. Lunastry Inc isn’t just a business, it’s a family.

… Of course, nothing is ever free. Lunastry Inc isn’t asking for much from our members. In exchange for our discretion and support, we simply ask that you keep us updated on the ins and outs of your life. After all, sharing a secret here and there about what happens behind closed doors is worth keeping your identity safe from the world at large, isn’t it? We’re certain you’ll agree with us.

Become a member of the Lunastry Inc family and let us welcome you home.

{ Lunastry Inc. is a freelance bandom rp group with a heavy focus on all things strange and unnatural. With a soon to be active gossip blog and regular events catered to our players, we hope you come check us out! }

Now accepting reserves!

[sunnydayjackass]

Priorities

Ian loved going out, getting dressed up, talking to people, networking, having some drinks with you, and going home to fall in a heap together on your bed. Fixing the collar of his shirt, running his hand through his hair to make sure it was coiffed just so, Ian turned his head from side to side- giving himself one last look over in the mirror before coming out of the bathroom. He'd been going out more often as of late, sometimes without you-- which you swore to him up and down that you were okay with. Ian was starting a new chapter of his life- being accepted into a highly acclaimed school of the arts, being signed to a company that wanted to use him, getting a manager to help him navigate these new waters.

It had been a lot to say the least, a whirlwind of events that sometimes threatened to overwhelm him. But there you were, as you always were. To steady him, to ground him, to comfort him through it all. The gentle way you'd coo to him with words of comfort, how your fingers would card through his hair until he felt himself dozing off, the feel and smell of you pressed against him in a tight hug. Where would Ian have been without you? Your encouragement and support had helped propel him to embrace these dreams and aspirations that were coming true before his eyes, success withing his grasp.

"(Name)...? Are you almost ready?" Ian calls down the hallway as he tugs his blazer on, it's a polished casual look he's going for. He'd tried a few looks before settling on what he had. A boy next door sort of charm with a little edge in his long hair and sometimes introverted demeanor. Really, he was simply shy sometimes but people liked a person better when it was reframed as "mysterious". Or so Ian had been told.

You're coming down the hallway not long after, dressed in an outfit you'd chosen for a party the pair of you attended a few weeks ago. You gave him your usual grin, "Yeah, sorry. Couldn't find my shoes." Ian purses his lips, he likes your clothes, how your hair is styled, the accessories you've chosen, really--he does but. "Oh, you wore that outfit before, didn't you?" Ian knows the answer, he knows you do too, and he knows his manager certainly would too. You give a little shrug, not picking up what he's putting down and instead make sure you have your phone wallet and keys.

"I like this outfit." You say simply, "You picked it for me." Either you don't care or don't know but either way, you're ready to step out the door and Ian doesn't want to be late. Maybe it'll be fine. Maybe nobody would notice. The pair of you get an uber into the city to an upscale building, bustling with well dressed people entering and valets scurrying. Ian helps you out of the car, lacing his fingers with yours. The more he looks at you, a little giddy to mingle and have a good night, the more it softens his anxiety as he gives your hand a fond squeeze before gently butting his head against yours. A soft bashful smile breaks his lips as he meets your gaze. "I'm really glad you're here." He murmurs against your hair. You press a chaste kiss to his cheek as you walk in together.

The night presses on, draped in ambient lighting and ornate decor, a dj plays their music set to loud thumping bass while chatter is scattered about the sprawling venue, caterers mill about with polished trays of hors d'oeuvres and flutes of champagne, a crowded bar is at the back with several well dressed bodies pressed upon it with cocktails in hand. For now you're seated beside Ian on a couch you're positive costs more than your apartment, his arm is around your shoulders and you're murmuring conversation and jokes back and forth. A few drinks do miracles to relax you both an an atmosphere you're still getting accustomed to. A few people stop by to chat with Ian and introduce themselves to you kindly, some carry a conversation with him for a while and you're happy to watch.

Ian, the once shy nerdy boy who hid his hentai under the bed was now a charming conversationalist, at ease amongst his peers and soon to be coworkers. You were proud of him, you were happy for him, and you couldn't help the smile and warmth that blooms upon you. As the pair excuse themselves from you, Ian catches your gaze and blushes a little. "Wh-what? Did I say something weird?" You knock your head against his shoulder.

"No. It's just..." you chuckle a little and pat his thigh. "I'm just really proud of you, Ian." Your words are as genuine as your smile and if it weren't for thr fact you were in a crowded party, he may have gotten misty eyed but his heart still thrums wildly in his chest at your words. Ian doesn't think you'll ever know just how much that sentence means to him. Or how much he loves you. Down to his bones, he's never felt more loved or accepted than in the time he's spent with you. You give his thigh a squeeze and push yourself up from the couch. "Where are you going?" He blurts, he doesn't mean to sound so needy but you can't just say stuff like that and leave him, not before he thanks you.

"Just to get a refill. I'll bring you back one too." You bend to collect his empty glass, little sneak you are- you steal a brief kiss that has Ian leaning toward you for more but he's left teasingly hanging as you weave through the crowd to the bar. God, you are just...incredible. Through and through. He loses sight of you as you reach the bar and relaxes against the couch cusions again before weight dips on his other side.

"I've told you before, it's in your best interest to come to these things alone." Oh, goddammit. The sharp clip of that voice belongs only to one person, his manager. His posture straightens, almost like that of a scolded child as he looks over to them. Dressed sharp, teetering on over dressed and exuding authority and refinement. "Every time you bring them, you don't mix and mingle enough." Their gaze pins Ian to his spot. There's a blend of disappointment in him and accusatory in their tone. Ian shifts a little in his seat, this feeling bubbling in the pit of his stomach isn't entirely unfamiliar, it almost feels nostalgic though in the worst possible way.

"I've talked to lots of people tonight." Ian defends himself feebly. "Besides, I feel better when they're here." And it's not a lie, Ian can fend for himself alone at these events as he has before- the smiles plastered to his face, some bullshitting and ribbing, he acts his way through those nights. But when you're here, he can be more himself. He can enjoy himself, with you.

His manager clicks her tongue, fiddling with an expensive watch clasped around their wrist. "They're wearing the same outfit from three weeks ago. You don't repeat outfits at these functions." They cut, glancing disapprovingly at your back. "Ian, you know at some point you're going to have to make a choice about what you want. Do you want to be a star? Do you want to be a celebrity, have the fame?"

"Of co-" Ian is cut off by a glower and a raised finger.

"I'm not finished." They cut coldly, "Do you want all those things you've dreamed about and worked so hard for or do you want them?" The tone darkens in reference to you and Ian swallows thickly. "Do you want some cheap apartment and a ten year old car or do you want better for yourself?" Frankly, he doesn't know why he can't have you and his dreams. He doesn't think it's particularly greedy of him either. Ian doesn't want better just for himself, he wants to give better to you. To share it with you. To spoil you. To give you the life and love you so deserve.

The pause seems to soothe his manager, a little anyway, as they reach to adjust the lapels of his coat. "I won't expect you to answer me now, you've been drinking." Ian waits for them to ask what but they let it slide. "People love single people, the idea they can fantasize about having them. There's an allure about that, and about you being new and fresh to this scene." Their eyes lift to see you approaching with two drinks in hand. "Think about it, Ian."

You return with drinks in hand to see Ian's manager sitting beside him as your boyfriend tries to quickly mask his anxiety. "Oh, hi! I didn't know you'd be here tonight." You've always tried to be amicable with his manager but you've also always been aware that they didn't seem to particularly like you. It didn't bother you, you only saw them a handful of times af best.

They look at you and then drop down to the crystal glasses in your hand. "...I hope that's a vodka tonic. Ian has to watch his diet for auditions." They clip and you resist the urge to roll your eyes just giving a tight lipped smile. It's very clearly a brandy old fashioned that you hand him and your preferred drink in your hand.

"It totally is, how did you know?" His manager rolls his eyes and fluidly raises from the couch to leave before casting a look you can't quite decipher to Ian, before turning on their heel to blend into the crowd and check on their other clients. "...what an asshole." You huff, settling next to Ian and giving him a little smile. "You alright?" You know they have a penchant of running Ian a little hard and you hoped they hadn't spoiled his night. He inhales, stirring the garnishes of his drink for a moment before gingerly taking a sip and setting it on the table. Never a good sign. Sympathy creases your brow as you reach for Ian's hand that feels a little limp, his fingers stalling before closing around yours.

Ian exhales and forces a smile back, he doesn't like acting for you. He doesn't like lying to you. But he doesn't want to ruin your night either. "You know how they are. I'll be okay. They're just...looking out for me. In their own way." Ian nods, almost trying to convince himself as their words whisper in and out of his head. You seem satisfied, at least for now, and don't press the issue. Eventually the tension fades, the drinks keep flowing, and you & Ian become that saccharine sweet couple people envy.

It's the wee hours of morning as Ian leads you out of the building, an arm tightly around your waist as you comfortably press into his side, pressing the occasional kiss under his ear, thanking him for a fun night and how much you love him. Exhaustion is evident in your voice and Ian is looking forward to cuddling up in bed with you. As he flags down your car home, you both slide into the back seat while the driver navigates back to your apartment. Ian smiles softly as you doze off against him as he strokes your hair lovingly. You're perfect. You're perfect and there's nothing that will tear him from you. You guys will make this work, long distance, long hours, Ian will make this work. He refuses to sacrifice you for anything. All that's good in this world, you deserve. And Ian will do whatever he has to in order to provide that for you.