#Compass for a Family
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#recovery#stop enabling#self care#self care is not selfish#doing the hard stuff#self care is not an indulgence#codependency#boundaries#relationships#unhealthy relationships#family#friendship#mental health#make yourself a priority#self compassion#healing#low contact#no contact#dysfunctional family#people pleasing#fawning#love#find your people
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heres a crappy venn (??) diagram explaining the dynamics in the tl4j time travel au bc it's easier than trying to write a full plot
#tl4j time travel au#slightly longer ver is cal and ezra have 1. accepted what's happened to them and 2. know tragedy has given them an amazing found family#which they wouldnt have if everything was 'fixed'#and ezra knows from the wbw that changing the past is a Bad idea (which alongside the found family thing cal accepts n agrees w)#but ahsoka cant take her own advice and insists fixing this is Different to the Kanan thing#bc she has not accepted it the same way and her life is soo much more depressing and seeing the live republic reminds her#if she fixed the timeline she'd have her whole family back (bc rn she just has luke) and thered be so much less horrible horrible loss#and luke is the force's specialest boy so he assumes itll all work out great#its basically 'attachments + compassion for those the empire killed' vs 'attachments + acceptance of the world that exists now'#like both 'sides' are going half good jedi ideology and half attachment ig (tho cal n ezra i think have a one-up on jedi-ness of their idea#misc tag#but even tho cal n ahsoka/ ezra n luke have opposed goals theyre the only ones who understand what the other is going thru#so u get fun dynamics as shown by the diagram
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*clutches head in hands* kirk and spock have such a beautiful relationship....it doesnt even matter if you like them platonically or romantically.....'you belong at his side....as if you've always been there and always will'.....*uncontrollable sobbing*

#get urself a friend whos the only place that feels like home#LIKE?#its so lovely to me that they just love each other#their friendship is canonically just intensely tender and trusting ARRRGHHHHH#and the way jim goes out of his way to defend spock and the way he is#and to create an accommodating atmosphere#that doesnt expect spock to be anything other than himself#oh the queerness of it all#the found family#the COMPASSION#OTL i fear i shall never recover#spirk#star trek#star trek tos#ramblings
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Global Love Day!! 🌎❤️
In the wise words of the Beatles, “Love is all you need.”
Global Love Day is celebrated annually on May 1st and promotes unconditional love and harmony among all people. The day encourages individuals to engage in acts of kindness, compassion, and understanding, regardless of differences in background, beliefs, or culture. It was established by the non-profit organization The Love Foundation to promote the idea that love can bridge divides and inspire positive change in the world.
On this Global Love Day, I feel inspired to share from our collection, What Color is Love? by Joan Walsh Anglund, an American author and illustrator best known for her children's books and poetry. Published in New York by the American publishing firm Harcourt, Brace & World in 1966, it captures the essence of love in its many forms, expressing emotions in a way that is accessible to readers of all ages. The illustrations in the book beautifully complement the text, featuring gentle and whimsical imagery that evokes a sense of warmth and innocence.
Together, the illustrations and prose align perfectly with the spirit of the day, encouraging people to reflect on love in its various forms. It's a beautiful reminder to celebrate not just romantic love, but also the love shared between friends, family, and communities.
Our copy is a gift of Megan Holbrook and Eric Vogel.
-View more from our Historical Curriculum Collection
--Melissa, Special Collections Library Assistant
#global love day#love is all you need#what color is love#joan walsh anglund#harcourt brace & world#the love foundation#american author#american illustrator#historical curriculum collection#love#friends#family#community#unconditional love#harmony#compassion#holidays
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Sam + Human Sacrifice 1/? | 3.12, 3.15, 4.22, 7.03, 9.03, 10.19, 10.23, 11.01
#it's so crunchy. delicious#there's a lot of adjacent momence I did not include here but it's soooo fascinating 2 me personally#sams moral compass#3.12#3.15#4.22#7.03#9.03#10.19#10.23#11.01#good gifs with free tools challenge#sam + human sacrifice#sam and human sacrifice#sam the family man
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Seen at Hartsfield-Jackson Atlanta airport:
“Dear person behind me, the world is a better place with you in it
Love,
the person in front of you”
#this actually lifted my spirits#especially after visiting a sick family member in the icu for a week#nice people rock#kindness#compassion#shoutout to the healthcare workers and nurses at peidmont hospital - u fuckn guys rock!
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It probably is already noticed by many people.
But I adore the fact that even when the main cast hasn't formed yet, momo's friends is still kind of a weird unique assortment of people.
Also, look at all of em they're so beautiful in their own way (some are questionable, but still beautiful nonetheless)
Also, fun fact! Some of the girls in here actually appeared more than in this panel!

Like her!
#dandadan#momo ayase#she may ignore the inner nerd#but her compassion will always catch up to her no matter what#been a while since i posted#life slap me in the face with so many events my family decided to go to
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I know this has already been said and I’m super late, but Mia as the protag of RE8 would have been so good. The contrast between Mia, the Lords, and Mother Miranda would have been absolutely interesting. I'm shoving everything under a read more because damn I have so many thoughts about Mia.
Lady Dimitrescu is a woman that cannibalizes and drinks the blood of her servants and intruders. On top of that, she tortures before preying on them. She does this willingly and very much derives pleasure from doing so. Lady D’s gothic triplets hunt any poor fool that wanders in. It’s a fun family activity for them just as much as it’s for sustenance.
Do you know what this parallels? The Baker family under Eveline’s control. They patrol the estate and anyone who rejects the “gift” either ends up molded or on the dinner table. This family also partakes in a fucked up version of a family dinner, eating the victims that refused their little girl’s “gift.”
However, a major difference between the Baker and Dimitrescu family is their willingness to participate in these activities. A family of cannibals; one forced while the other relishes in it.
Mia is still very traumatized by her three years in the Baker’s estate. Breaking into the castle to find her daughter would force her back. Hello to all the emotions that come with those memories, the ones Mia has been trying to forget. The harder you try to forget something, the more you think about it. What better way to make Mia acknowledge Dulvey, Louisiana than by forcing her into something so similar?
And while she’s still reeling from remembering her time in captivity, why not push her a bit further down memory lane with House Beneviento? Mia has demonstrated at multiple points in RE7 that she does care about other lives. She lies to Ethan to keep him from getting caught up in her work. She tries to save Alan and crew members of "The Annabelle" (the crew members are a bit more indirect, she mainly focused on Alan) by containing Eveline. After Jack finds her, Mia keeps her distance to keep from infecting them while trying to write a warning. She tries her hardest during RE7 to save Ethan.
Mia’s hallucinations could center on her guilt. The failure to stop Eveline and the lives ruined as a result. How she was always too late to help anyone. Ethan curing her, a criminal, over Zoe, the person helping him. Leaving Zoe behind in the shattered remains of her home and family. Surviving. Visions of Ethan hinting at his “condition” could lure her to the manor. A little nudge to the whole “he was mold the entire time” plot twist without fully giving it away.
Moreau, lacking in self worth and very attached to a woman who doesn’t give him the time a day, yet still he considers her as his mother. Most of his actions are for the attention and validation from his “mother.” No matter what Moreau does, he’ll never have her affection or time. It’s sad, isn’t it? To witness a man try so hard only to be rejected. And isn’t that familiar? Mia once felt compassion for someone with similar traits.
Remember the little girl who considered you her mother? The one that spent three years waiting for you to love her after you promised? The one you had a hand in killing? What makes you think you could ever be a good mother after what you did? Why are you trying so hard to save Rose when you didn’t even extend the same courtesy to Eveline?
Y’all know how Mia’s past is a mystery? Like why she was working for the Connections and how she was even recruited and all that. Heisenberg would be a great way to explore it. A man taken, forced into becoming something else, and stuck in a family he doesn’t want. Mia can relate. He wants to use her daughter as a weapon. She was willing to let another child be used as a weapon. They’re alike, so surely Mia would be willing to side with him.
But Heisenberg is cocky and Mia isn’t the person she was prior/during 7. Even if she was on board with using Eveline as a weapon to end all wars or whatever bullshit the Connections told her, she’s not willing now. Not after what she’s seen and been through. This section could be Heisenberg goading her through the tvs/intercoms about her past to change her mind with Mia remaining steadfast in her refusal.
And then there’s Mother Miranda. Two mothers trying to get their daughters back through vastly different means. Because of the group photo showing Mia and Miranda with Eveline this encounter can go one of two ways.
Miranda and Mia know each other and have worked together before. Whether it be on the E-Series Project (with Mia becoming the caretaker and spending copious amounts of time at the lab) or though some other means at work.
They’ve only briefly met when the Connections were in a hurry to transport Eveline.
Either way, Miranda would compare them. As a mother, Mia must understand what she’s trying to accomplish. Would Mia not do the same as she? Maybe at this point Miranda shows she killed Ethan to demoralize to prevent her from interfering with the ceremony. Tells her she’s too late once again and to give Rose to her because she’ll be the superior mother.
Idk, I guess you could switch to Ethan instead of Chris so he can still have Eveline tell him he’s moldy. But he’s a stubborn man and he forces himself back to weaken Miranda so Mia can kill her. Chris shows up and Ethan does the same thing he did at the end by blowing himself up with Chris forcing Mia (with Rose) on the helicopter. That way the Shadow of Rose DLC can still be about Rose and Ethan.
TLDR; Mia should have been the protagonist because it would have allowed us to explore her character and background more. It was a missed opportunity especially since so much of RE8 centers around mothers. It would have played out better as closing off the Winters Family saga as well since we could have tied the loose ends that came with Mia’s mysterious past.
#resident evil#resident evil village#mia winters#mother miranda#lady dimitrescu#karl heisenberg#donna beneviento#salvatore moreau#ethan winters#eveline re7#my text#mia and zoe are also still infected or moldy like ethan and it feels like it's very much being ignored#because there's a document in the salt mine that says if you've been infected for to long that the cure would kill you#and those 2 are very much still alive so they have to be infected like or in a similar way to ethan#it was for 3 yrs there is no way to undo that shit with a shot or two#not when all their cells would have been infected with mold by then#the line about mia feeling compassion about evie's situation is from the guidebook#and i think moreau would dredge up for those feelings that have long since been buried because of the baker incident#since he's doing similar-ish things to what evie did for a family/love#anyways morally grey characters really interest me so i really just want to know more about mia lol#i also really want to know what happened on the ship#because i don't believe the imprinting protocol alone would make evie that attached to mia as her mom#when she could have had marguerite as her mom like why is mia so special you'd wait 3 years for her to comply??#anyways that's for a whole different post lol
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Rubydust now has an official family tree of her own~
#how to train your dragon#httyd#fury family verse#oc#light fury#rubydust#compass#scorch#coldflame#riot#whisper
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Self-care is great, but the truth is, it only goes so far.
#kindness#compassion#community care#you matter#family#friendship#found family#we live in a society#activism fatigue#compassion fatigue
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thinking about the post-dragon demise dynamic of Amaya, Janai, and Miyana.
Janai and Miyana, who are Technically sisters-in-law but there was no marriage and Karim is both what brings them together and a wedge apart. Janai mourns in her own way, as does Miyana but she's more bitter about it, and knows her children will be looked at with even more mistrust. Janai throws herself into rebuilding and revamping Lux Aurea now that it's been so thoroughly destroyed it's come back around to being cleansed...
But Miyana is lonely, and Miyana is pregnant, and Amaya was there through both of Sarai's pregnancies and does not have the same complicated history with Karim and loved her first nephews so... Amaya stepping into hold Miyana through the morning sickness, to get Janai and Miyana to a point where they can feel more comfortable around one another, and feel like family
Just... three very different women with very different perspectives learning to grow and foster love with one another amid the loss and pain and hope they've been given
#the sunfire royal family#aka this'll get alluded to in my miyana oneshot Someday but#probs needs another for its focus in its own right#post season seven#post dragon demise#arc 2#tdp miyana#tdp amaya#tdp janai#headcanons#mine#janaya#miyana#brotp#amaya#like amaya has so much love and compassion#tdp#the dragon prince#tw pregnancy#she keeps me warm
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Adrianne Lenker - Not A Lot, Just Forever
#his dark materials#hdmedit#hisdarkmaterialsedit#hdm#masriel#marisa x asriel#asriel x marisa#marisa coulter#asriel belacqua#mrs coulter#lord asriel#philip pullman#bbc his dark materials#hdmsource#ruth wilson#james mcavoy#masrieledit#stelmaria#golden monkey#mypost#pantalaimon#lyra belacqua#romanceedit#fantasyedit#the amber spyglass#northern lights#the subtle knife#the golden compass#hbo his dark materials#chaos family
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It drives me crazy when people claim that Luke's compassion comes from Padme. I love her, but she didn't raise him. She had less of an affect on his morals than Anakin did. Luke's compassion doesn't come from his uncle Owen either. It comes from his aunt Beru. The woman who took in a child at great personal risk and helped turn him into one of the galaxy's kindest. Beru made Luke compassionate: She made him care. Padme may have given birth to Luke, but Beru raised him. She was an incredible mother figure and shouldn't be discounted because she isn't blood related to him.
#beru lars#owen lars#luke skywalker#star wars prequels#star wars fandom#jedi#star wars#compassion#adoption#family#star wars meta
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[ cw: violence mention / death mention / ]
Will never stop thinking about how Leo, all alone in an endless void and being beaten again and again and again by the only other living thing around, still finds comfort in that space. The situation he was in was completely hopeless, and in any other circumstances he would not have escaped, at least not fast enough to save him from permanent (or even fatal) damage, be it physical or mental.
And yet, despite the bleakness of his situation, despite the agony and helplessness, all he needs is one glance at a crumbled photograph, one glance to remember his family, and that’s enough of a reason for him to smile.
Maybe that’s why his powers center around manipulating space - because no matter how much space is between them, no matter how dire his own situation may be, just the thought of his family, alive and okay, is enough to give Leo hope.
#rottmnt#rise of the teenage mutant ninja turtles#rottmnt leo#rise leo#the prison dimension is horrifying on its own#add in a monstrous being that towers over you and has vowed to ensure your suffering?#god I can’t imagine how scary that is#Mikey opening the portal was a miracle because if he hadn’t managed it there#it’s really up in the air what could have become of Leo#personally I subscribe by the theory that you straight up can’t die in the prison dimension#so it’s a prison in all ways#but the thought of a Leo who manages anyway who adapts and continues to have hope despite it all…#Leo saying he’s nothing without his family is a double edged sword really#because the thought of his family alone is all he needs to live. to hope.#to smile#nothing without them…but they’re EVERYTHING to him#and maybe he doesn’t realize it but…the feeling is mutual#one thing too is that hope that comforts Leo so much is not just that#should he think his family needs help - that hope can turn into determination#I’m unwell about this family#actually on my point of their powers - I truly do think the abilities tie in not only to their personalities#but to their relationship to family and love in general#kinda like love languages in a way#Mikey with his chains and time abilities values being around his family the most - he wants them to experience living in the moment togethe#Donnie is someone who is 100% a gift giver to show his love - his constructs are exactly that aren’t they? gifts of his mind#Raph is someone who willingly bears the weight of the shield - he protects his family like the best big brother possible#and Leo - he goes off on his own a lot but his mind is constantly on his family anyway#like a sailor at sea no matter how far he travels the compass always point in one direction - and for him that compass points home#even if he can’t make it back - it’s still there#and that’s enough
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Jwct S3 spoilers!!!!!
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I AM GOING TO FKN BREAK SOMETHING. I FEEL SO DEVASTATED, HEARTBROKEN. Sure I'm happy Brooklynn got back and all yadi yadi yada, BUT YAZ AND SAMMY FIGHTING BASICALLY THE ENTIRE SEASON IS NOT OKAY.
Sorry not sorry, I COMPLETELY blame Yaz for their breakup. Sorry not sorry, I did NOT like her this season! Those who know, Yaz has ALWAYS been my favorite, BUT SHE IS ABSOLUTELY NOT THIS SEASON. Sammy basically opened up to her, ish kind of, and Yaz just brushed it off!?! Yapping about Brooklynn all the time!?!? DUDE, WHAT ABOUT YOUR GIRLFRIEND!?!?!? Or... ex-girlfriend now. That feels AWFUL, HORRIBLE to say.
Yaz rolled her eyes at Sammy, sighed rudely when she talked, didn't LISTEN TO HER, said "What.?" in a very rude tone when Sammy sighed when all of them talked about B.
But hey... At least they said "babe" one time each... The same day they broke up... HOW IN THE-. Ugh. I've always wanted them to call each other "pet names" or whatever, and it is awesome that they did. Sammy was the first one to say it, and she was like "Thanks, babe" like IHHHHH. And then Yaz started a sentence with "babe" which is also IHHHHHH, I THOUGHT THAT COULD MAYBE MEAN THEY COULD WORK THINGS OUT!!!! But no. UGHHHHH I FEEL SO HEARTBROKEN.
#at least we know what happened to Sammy's family which is cool#but i expected more compassion from yaz's side because you know she was her GIRLFRIEND and when your partner is CLEARLY struggling YOU HELP#i am so mad at yaz#sammy didn't do much if anything in my eyes#i...i just can't believe they broke up#i genuinely didn't think that was possible#yasmina fadoula#jwct#chaos theory#sammy gutierrez#jurassic world chaos theory#yasammy#jwct s3 spoilers#chaos theory spoilers#jwct spoilers
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