#Enneagram2

[omgvalhalla]

Centres: heart triad

The core neurosis of image types revolves around the idea of needing to earn love. Instead of being loved for who they are, they come up with constructing an identity and the next thing that happens is that they look for affirmation of their image games. This validation is mistaken for genuine love and appreciation. The defense mechanism has nothing to do with questions as to who they really are. If anything, heart types usually avoid “who am I” like the plague. This includes 4s as their supposed self-awareness is about overfocussing on negativity. 

Their construct is what they offer and how they want to control other people’s perceptions of them. For 2s, it’s about the self-image of being a moral and loving person, which is offered to the outside world for validation. 3s construct a self-image of someone who is always developing and improving themself. For 4s the validation is a paradoxical one as they seek this in terms of what they are not. People not understanding them affirms that they lack something and this suffering is what they use to get validation and sympathy. 

[valeria-prieto]

I have created my enneagram and now I’m offering hand painted enneagrams, they are amazing as a reminder of characteristics. “The Enneagram is an archetypal framework that offers in-depth insight to individuals, groups and collectives. Consisting of three Centers of intelligence, nine main Enneagram types and wings, the Enneagram offers a rich map to personal development from an open systems perspective. It does not box in people, but rather opens a pathway to self-discovery and greater personal awareness”. -integrative9 🎨😊 . . . . #enneagram #birthmap #birthchart #enneagram9 #enneagram8 #space #enneagram7 #enneagram6 #enneagram5 #enneagram4 #enneagram3 #enneagram2 #watercolor #enneagram1 #illustrator #latinartist #spiritualawakening #colors #healingart #methaphyscis #love #highvibration #intuitivepainting #enneagramtypes #psychology #awakening (at Glendale, Missouri) https://www.instagram.com/p/Cfo1OjxraEK/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[commoncolloquialism]

Most Relatable Enneagram

[tiredgaypoet]

saw a post about enneagram 2s becoming a 'little nurturer' to get ppl to care about them and damnnn yeah

[funkymbtifiction]

Do you want a cookie or cake? There is no third option.

[piney-45]

saw this and immediately started crying

[extraordinary-enfp]

bro you said enneagram content not overrun by live laugh love christians?!?! got you bro

[lauralzielke]

Yup! Posted @withregram • @enneagramwithjb Have you ever thought about your communication style? Have you considered that other people have a different communication style than you? • Share with friends • Leave a comment • Save this post for later #enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #wordsofaffirmation #awareness #selfhelp #selfdiscovery #holdingspace #growthmindset #growth #leadership #understandingyourself #enneagramwithjb #empathy #compassion #learning #growing https://www.instagram.com/p/CeQlgkPujKA/?igshid=NGJjMDIxMWI=

[miramu1986]

Reposted from @happymessworld Phew! This hit me hard. There are so many times I am on a path of success and one (or more!) of these behaviors impedes my journey. Correction: I impede my journey. Can anyone relate? #selfsabotage #selflove #selfcare #selfhelp #heal #healing #enneagram #enneagram2 https://www.instagram.com/p/CRF3c1pD0gK/?utm_medium=tumblr

[consciousenneagram]

Maybe we should all be praying in math. •• Thumbs up to all my mathematicians or other super nerds who get this mug. •• I’m blown away at the generosity and kindness of my friends and community. It’s no secret this year has been hard for basically everyone, and I’m no exception. My people have gotten me through. •• I hope you can find time to connect or reconnect with your people as this very challenging year comes to a close. •• And if nothing else, I hope you can find a little extra light this season. 😉 • • • #enneagram #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #millenneagram #spiritualgrowth #personalgrowth #enneagramcoach #queerenneagram #personalitytypes #enneagramtypes #spiritualwork #innerwork #transformation #contemplative #contemplativepractice #practice #yoga #meditation #yogatherapy #math #godisablackhole #godismath (at Austin, Texas Y'all) https://www.instagram.com/p/CXz1hJDtKvV/?utm_medium=tumblr

[happymessworld]

“Not patted on the back for how well I take a hit. Or for how many.” I saw this last week and finally had to post it. So powerful. So true. Sometimes you just need a soft place to land. #heal #healing #resilience #growth #transformation #enneagram #enneagram2 #repost https://www.instagram.com/p/CPeWoMArd1_/?utm_medium=tumblr

[karadoda]

#enneagram #kişilik #sahtekişilik #öz #farkındalık #dikkat #9tip #duygu #zihin #içgüdü #merkezler #tutku #erdem #kanat #güven #stres #ben #benlik #enneagram1 #enneagram2 #enneagram3 #enneagram4 #enneagram5 #enneagram6 #enneagram7 #enneagram8 #enneagram9 #mauricenicoll #psikolojikanaliz #psikoloji https://www.instagram.com/p/CRA84fID8jP/?utm_medium=tumblr

[quarterbritishmuse]

Enneagram and Christian Women

So anybody that knows me even a little knows that I am a total personality typing junkie. And as much as I’m a MBTI afficionado, my favorite typing method is the enneagram.

I attend Cornville Uni, known for its Presbyterian and Baptist roots. Since it’s a Christian institution, the enneagram is pretty popular.

A large amount of my female friends type as twos (the helper type, for those unfamiliar. In short, twos put others first all the time, often to the detriment of their own health). At least a third of the girls in my hall type as twos. Three or four might be a coincidence, but ten? There’s something up here.

And the more I thought about it, the more I started to realize that what Christian families teach their little girls might be to blame. Be kind to others, put others first, you show love to others by taking care of them. I can’t think of a single friend who, when little, did not play house. Was not told that they would be mommies someday. Did not watch their mothers work tirelessly and without thanks for the benefit of family and friends.

This makes me wonder if all these dear, sweet friends of mine type as twos because they received the impression as children that what made you a good person and worthy of love was how quickly you dropped your own wants and needs to work tirelessly for others. It’s almost as if the verse “love your neighbor as yourself” was quoted to them as “love your neighbors more than yourself. And lest you think I am of the opinion that putting others first is bad, I’m not. But telling children that they must put others first at their own expense is absolutely awful. You can’t support your loved ones effectively if you’re falling apart yourself.

So for my Enneagram 2 peeps, please, please, say no every once in a while. Take care of yourself. You’re so very loved - by God, first of all, and by others - no matter what you do or do not do for the people around you.

[smash8123]

NO IDEA.

I've been going to the doctor to try to figure out what is going on with me. Waiting on some test results. Got my anxiety meds upped a little which is awesome (well not while they are trying to normalize.....fun side effect of upping your dosage is more ANXIETY). Anyyywho.... I have had this feeling ever since coming out of quarantine of not being content with my job. Not because I don't like it, because I do. Don't get me wrong, anytime you work in service you are going to get burnt out. BUT I feel like I desire to do something and be passionate about it...but it has been incredibly frustrating to not know what that is. It used to be opening a coffee shop and who knows maybe it still is. I have debt to pay off and getting more in debt is not going to make that dream happen. I want to do something with people. Something that is helping people....because lets be honest thats what I am best at...IM A TWO!

Idealy i'd want to be a service to people, using my skills to get something done, being an avenue for people to use their skills... UHHH I WISH I KNEW WHAT IT WAS ANY IDEAS LET ME KNOW PLEASE. Because I can't make this voice go quiet telling me to lean into what it is. I want to lean into it and explore and expand but I don't know what it is and i also have to be a responsible adult........but being that responsible isn't bringing me that much joy at the moment.

I am okay. Some moments I don't feel okay but I just push through them and remind myself to be patient. This girl is just tired and wants to bring some more joy into my life. Maybe even start a family...I DON'T FREAKING KNOW BUT I WOULD LOVE TO KNOW.

[ramyeonupdates]

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