I’m not safe
Here’s a full recount of the events that happened earlier after I got home that led me to cry for somewhere around 15-30 minutes
1. My mother comes into the living room, where I’m watching a YouTube video on my phone, headphones in
2. She tries to play with me (she was bullying me)
3. She yanks my earbud out of my ear then runs off (I should remind u she’s like 51-ish)
4. I go to look for her
5. I find her in the kitchen a minute or two later
6. I tell her to give me my earbud back
7. She takes it OUT OF HER FUCKING EAR! AND HANDS IT TO ME!
8. I find my drink under the living room table
9. I can’t find my phone (seconds after the drink)
10. I go back to her, telling her to give me my phone back
11. She runs off
12. I chase her, and grab the back of her shirt to keep a hold of her
13. I let go for two (2) seconds
14. She tries to run off again
15. I chase after and grab her shirt again
16. I get my phone back
17. I look for my headphone case
18. I go to the kitchen to tell her to give it back
19. She tries to gaslight me
20. I tell her, multiple times, to give it back
21. She goes to the bathroom
22. I go to the living room
23. She comes in, headphone case in her hand
24. I tell her to give it to me
25. She says no
26. I walk up to her, getting in her face (as close as I can bc I’m shorter than her)
27. She puts her other hand up, and I push it down
28. She slaps my hand
29. This repeats x2 more times
30. I have to give her a hug to get my headphone case back
31. I do it, and i get my headphone case
32. She thinks it’s funny to squish me and I try to twist away bc she’s choking me
33. I sit down after she leaves the living room, calling my best friend
34. I start talking to her
35. My mom says “awww, are you tattling on me to my mommy?” (Mocking me, bc that’s who I used to call before I learned she couldn’t keep her mouth shut)
36. I tell her I’m taking to my bestie (I’ll call her Madison for this)
37. (Remember I’ve got my earbuds in, on a call w/ Madison)
38. My mom starts going ballistic, accusing me of hiding her phones (1 personal, 1 work)
39. I tell her I didn't
40. We go back and forth before I mute myself on the call bc I’m starting to cry bc that’s what happens when I’m angry, and I hate it
41. She starts going through my backpack, and I tell Madison I’ll call her right back before hanging up
42. My moms screaming at me, saying that I hid her phones bc she took my stuff
43. (Spoiler! I didnt!)
44. Guess where they were?
45. Guess
46.
47. WOW!
48. They were right behind her, not even 10 feet from where she remembered putting them!
49. I DIDNT EVEN KNOW WHERE THEY WERE
50. SO IM LIKE
51. “WOW! THERE THEY ARE!”
52. (She found them before I saw them btw)
53. She’s mad at me, I’m angry and crying
54. I tell her that she’s bullying me, her LITERAL CHILD!
55. Her response?
56. Somewhat along the lines of
57. “If you think I’m bullying you, you’ve got a fucked up sense of reality”
58. And she’s cursing me out (all while I’m still crying)
59. I tell her she’s being a jerk
60. She flips me off and leaves the kitchen, where we had gravitated, which is where her phones and my backpack were
61. She goes outside, I get my food out the oven
62. I call Madison back
63. And I’m talking to her, still upset, crying, and interrupted every few seconds as I sniffle and take a breath and try to catch my breath and cry
64. I’m barely forming coherent sentences bc of all this
65. I talk to my bestie, Madison, while I try to eat
66. I find out my food wasn’t even cooked all the way thru
67. So I’m sat there, from 4:46 to 5:12 (24 minutes) talking to her
68. I eventually move to my room after throwing the food away bc I’d lost my appetite
69. I continue the rest of the call (I don’t know how long I was in there)
70. (Dining room portions of the call + my bedroom part of the call = 24 ish minutes)
71. While I’m still on the phone w/ Madison, I look up my therapist’s office
72. I hang up soon after, and start typing this on notes so I have an easily accessible copy for Tuesday, when I go to my therapy appointment (that’s where I am rn)
73. I’m going to copy and paste this then publish
74. I’m then going to try to get in contact with my therapist (going into the future now)
75. Please wish me luck, I don’t feel safe here
76. These events are getting more often, leading me to calling Madison in tears more often)
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