#actuallydependent

[venty-times17]

kiss your own bruises, nobody else will heal them for you.

[rottingnausea]

i know i’m a burden. i’m sorry.

[dependentcharacteroftheday]

Today's DPD Character of the Day is Haruka Sakurai from MILGRAM!

[dpdcharacterootd]

first DPD character of the day is Stelle from Honkai Star rail! she has separation anxiety when not with march 7th

submitted by anon! submit a character here !

[dependencypersonality]

Petdepense - Pet DPD Archetype

ID: A 5-stripe flag with its stripes angled downward toward the bottom in a V formation. Coming down from the top-center is an arrow, with the top containing a downwards obtuse triangle with an icon inside. The icon is a pet collar with a bell, colored a dark mulberry pink. The arrow is a medium-dark mulberry pink, and the triangle inside is slightly lighter. The stripes, from top to bottom: Dark brown, dark pink, pink, brown, dark brown.

Depense are labels that describe one's relation to DPD and their dependent identity. It may be a gender experience, orientation experience, or any other identification: even its own category altogether.

Petdepense, or the pet dependent archetype, is a dependent identity related to pets, considering oneself petlike, and/or being seen as a pet. It may feel beloved, loyal, and inhuman / beastlike, but may also have other interpretations.

The modifier symbols are: 🐾🌷

The tulip as a symbol for DPD is representative of how gardens are dependent on their gardeners and often lovingly tended to in turn.

Depense coined by @epikulupu. Also tagging @cupidcoining and @revenant-coining.

[kitteacafe]

Really sick of going into the DPD tag and only finding posts specifically about cluster B disorders. Please let us use our own tag and stop tagging DPD if you're going to exclude us purposefully. Please use your own damn tags.

[himevamp]

NO CAUSE NOW IM FUCKING PISSED OFF. Tell me why I message my bf and I say “I want to cut” (mind you he hasn’t messaged me all fucking day and the first time I see him online I send him texts n he still doesn’t reply for a few minutes.) I text him I want to cut and he fucking GOES OFFLINE IMMEDIATELY AGTER THAT? R U SERIOUS???? This better be a fucking glitch because if he’s blatantly ignoring me like that I’m gonna go fucking batshit insane. HE SHOULD BE FUCKING HAPPY IM NOT BLOWING UP HIS FUCKING PHONE WHEN HE DOESNT TEXT ME BACK ALL FUCKING DAY. He should be goddamn grateful that I’m such a fucking understanding gf and that I know he’s often busy and sleeps a lot. Like holy shit. You can’t even fucking text me back once??? It’s not like I evn talk abt hurting myself often. I’m NOT a partypooper or like a miserable person to talk to if I’m not being fucking ignored??.. IM VERY KIND AND FUNNY AND NICE TO BE AROUND I ONLY GET FUCJING DEPRESSED WHEN YOU DONT TALK TO ME FOR LONG? Just fucking reply and I won’t be so fucking miserable. GODDD

[actuallydependent]

I don’t know how many people will see this as it has been many years since anything was posted on here, but!

If anyone would like to take over ownership of this long inactive blog (that I was not equipped to handle when it was passed to me at 17, admittedly), send me a message!

I am open to anyone who wants it :)

[recordsystem]

see heres the thing. i just desire constant attention.

[thesadmeow]

this hell cycle of trying to bond with friends and people then suddenly wanting to delete all social media and disappear from everything and feeling like everyone sucks and no one gives a shit about me

[venty-times17]

living is a curse when nobody loves you

[rottingnausea]

i can talk to you about anything <3

and then you'll cry! so no the fuck i can't actually.

[dependentcharacteroftheday]

Today's DPD Character of the Day is Shadow the Hedgehog from Sonic!

Thanks for the submission :)

[dpdcharacterootd]

Read Before Interacting/ Submitting a character

please be respectful and kind

please no characters who have/ were abusive or mistreat the people around them most of the time, thank u

please do not send multiple requests of the same character if u do not see it posted, i'm disabled but i try my hardest to get to every submission fast as i can :3

please be respectful in asks/ submissions

submissions are received by main blog but posted here

will add more when i think of some! this is a new blog and am still setting it up!

Thank u so much! and lots of love! 💙

[dependencypersonality]

Yandepense - Yandere DPD Archetype

no id provided for spoons' sake, if someone else has time I will add any that are made

Depense are labels that describe one's relation to DPD and their dependent identity. It may be a gender experience, orientation experience, or any other identification: even its own category altogether.

Yandepense, or the yandere dependent archetype, is a dependent identity related to yanderes, considering oneself yanderelike, and/or being seen as a yandere.

The modifier symbols are: ❤️‍🩹🌷

The tulip as a symbol for DPD is representative of how gardens are dependent on their gardeners and often lovingly tended to in turn.

Depense coined by @epikulupu. Also tagging @cupidcoining and @revenant-coining.

[martianmoonboy]

Why do psychologists talk about personality disorders, only discussing how they affect other people and not how they affect the person with the disorder, and then blame us when we struggle to get treatment and be honest about our feelings? It is so hard to live in this world with a personality disorder.

The judgment from all sides hurts so much and finding people who understand without judgment is a breath of fresh air.