#adBIce

[mythicalrunner]

Financial decisions I make as a 21-year-old university student

Good:

Disliking olive oil

A taste for saltine crackers and regular sliced bread (brown, for fiber)

I can live without an avocado for a few months at a time

Bad:

Being lactose intolerant

Playing Fortnite

[itsmadreia]

Here's another snippet about our sweet boys for #willemonth2024(@youngroyals-events)

Day 14: Mental Health

All Wille knew as he entered the room — his bedroom in the palace, that's what — was that he was wheezing. He couldn't breathe and his legs as well as hands were numb within seconds of his panic attack.

„Wilhelm, that's not–" Kristina protested, but Wille wasn't having it, saying, „I want to be heard on what I need. For once. You took a break last Spring when you needed it and now I need to have it, too. For my mental health.”

„For your mental health?” Kristina repeated his words, almost like mocking him.

He was kneeling on the floor, covering his ears and he couldn't breathe. He couldn't breathe and while it was terrifying, it was also a bliss; to have an excuse to not attend the party. To skip it. To skip it all.

„Wille?” he heard Simon's voice through his constant wheezing but couldn't look at him because he couldn't lift his head. His body was frozen. Everything in his mind was frozen, stuck in time, stuck in agony „Hey, it's okay. Can you breathe with me? Follow my lead. Yes, that's it. It's all going to be okay.”

„For your mental health?” Kristina kept repeating after him. „Wilhelm, you're 18 and perfectly fine, all you need is to step up and do what is asked of you and not act like this is the worst that could happen. It's a privilege to be a prince, not a burden. If anything, it's a blessing–"

Once again, Wille didn't let her finish nearing a scream at this point. „It's a curse for me, I don't want any part of it or to be in it. I want out of it. Right about now. For the better of my mental health.”

„Wille?” Simon stepped up to him, reaching for me, silently asking if he could touch him. „What do you want me to do... I mean, can I-I... D-do you want to–"

His breathing was better now but he still couldn't speak up and didn't feel Simon's grip around his hand. He feared that his whole body was shutting down, taking him under and it was—

„That is enough, you'll behave like is proper and will join us there in a moment,” Kristina said in a firm tone aften a small pause, but Wille wasn't having none of it, „No, I will not, you'll have to do it without me. I'm not going to change my mind on this.”

„Wille, my love,” Simon's soothing, loving voice came through again, „I don't know what to do. Do you need to... Or I could call... Ask someone–”

No, he screamed, Don't call anyone! Just stay here! Hold me! Please!

Simon looked into his boyfriend's cloudy eyes, facing the ocean-deep pain he was in, squeezing his left hand once or twice, stroking his chest and leaning into him. He truly didn't know what else to do but what he did know was that he would never leave him. Not for a single second.

Don't leave me! Please!

"I'm not calling–" Simon stopped himself, feeling the form of tears in his own eyes; seeing Wille like this was breaking him. „I won't leave, don't worry. But I can–"

Just stay, he said to him with his fearful eyes, Until it's over. Just stay with me.

Simon kissed his temple, „I love you."

I love you more, he finally felt his hands so his gripped his fingers back, which was a sign for both of them that he'd be okay. He had Simon with him and that was immensely important to him — Royal Family party be deemed just so he could kneel in the safety of his favorite person's arms, if only for a little while longer.

[flustersluts]

Hi A, I hope you're doing amazing! Tbh i don't remember if i already asked u this or if i thought about it and didn't send it, but what are your recommendations for mind blowing orgasms? It's getting boring for me and even tho i cum everytime, i wanna feel something else u know. I don't have a g spot vibrator, just a regular one but i prefer clit stimulation. I'm all ears 😙

hi!! i don't think I've already asked, i feel for ur plight v much but im ngl i have neither the genitals nor the experience to be of any real help !! ive done things with partners that theyve enjoyed but idrk much abt masturbating with a pussy 😔😔

[gardenianoire]

I used up all my pell grants (long story) and wanted to get a private loan to finish school what are my odds

[edging-diaries]

Heya no matter how hard i try i cant seem to be able to stop myself from cumming😖. I eve tried to get men to order me not to cum but i just cant help myself i need to cum no matter what. Do you have any adbice on how to start successfully edging please?

its important to work on self control!! if you have no self control youre not going to be able to edge.

if you want to work up to edging without cumming, its important to work on touching without cumming first. so next time you want to edge, dont actually edge. just touch until it starts to feel good and then stop until the next time you want to touch, and maybe push a little further towards an edge if you think you wont try to cum.

by doing that you might be able to work up your self control a little bit, and eventually you can actually do full edges. if you do make yourself cum doing this, i would suggest pulling your hand away as you tip over to make it a ruin! that way you still get some of the benefits of edging.

another route to go is punishing yourself every time you have an orgasm. if you can successfully make your orgasms feel bad, or associate them with something negative, then you wont wanna cum anymore. i dont really have experience with that but if anyone else does theyre welcome to chime in!!

[ooccoo]

Adbice on not being gay

Advice on how to stop beimg gay

Bats in my vision am i good?

How to stop thinking of a girls hips

[daggryet]

THE QUEENS ADBICATING?!

[sincenewyorks]

As a Brit who hates the royal family I really want Henry to abdicated aha!

Oh I want him to adbicate, but I want him to it after we get a full on gay royal wedding

[unsaidthingsz]

adbicate

I got you out of my system, threw out the dirty laundry. I will not be waiting outside. 

Dear Achilles’ heel, 

resentment was never a motive. 

There isn’t a choice to be made. 

I want out, no consequences. 

Your ability to brush all of it off. We were never equal.

I am weak, and I never got to figure you out.

Surrender inspired by indifference.

Let it remain forever as that.

[kriswager]

Queen Margrethe II of Denmark adbicates

In Denmark, the Monarch always gives a live TV address during New Years Eve. This year, it contained a bit of breaking news: The fact that she is abdicating on January 14th, and that her son, Crown prince Frederik, will become the Monarch instead. Probably unsurprisingly to all, I am not for monarchies, even as symbolic and defanged as in Denmark, and I had hoped that we could do away with it…

[jonismitchell]

arden hey hey i need some advice. my life feels like a shitty movie based on the miscommunication trope and i want out </3

so i am a quiet shy person. i don't talk to many people outside my friend group and i'm esp not really friends w that many guys. this is critical context bc a couple months ago, this guy at my school who's really extroverted & popular(?) started randomly talking to me. he was rlly sweet and i mean. i am not super outgoing with people i don't know that well but i think i am a pleasant person generally and i didn't mind when he would strike conversations with me.

this went on for a couple months. generally we would really only talk when neither of us were with our friends, though there was this moment where it was raining and i was walking a bit behind him and his friends and he actually left his friends (& the umbrella lol) so he could walk in the rain with me

alright. so i have a friend. let's call her A. she kept on making comments about this guy trying to rizz me up and honestly. i do not think he likes me like that at all and i felt weird whenever she brought that up. once i was getting lunch with A and we ran into this guy. he said hi and started talking to me. A for whatever reason kept on being rude/making snide comments, which was honestly out of character. finally, she cut him off as he started saying something to me, said she was hungry, and said we were leaving. i didn't want it to be like i was prioritizing a guy over a friend, so i promptly turned around and walked after. it was only later that i realized that he had been in the middle of a sentence. and so now i just seem like a shitty person to this guy.

it's been ~3 weeks since this incident. the guy and i see each other all the time but have literally not spoken since. i hate that i might have come across as an asshole since that was not my intention at all. i literally have no idea what to do.

it's also awkward between me and A too bc i lowkey blame her a bit for being so awful to this guy for no reason. ofc i get that it's mostly my fault for not handling the situation better.

but do you have any adbice on how to handle this?! sorry this got so long lmao

same anon from the long advice ask but wanted to apologize for how long that got !!!! i just know you've been through movie-esque drama too and we're similar in age (i'm a year younger) so i thought you might know what to do :')

no worries for the length of the ask!! in this situation, i would recommend communicating with your friend A (i.e. asking why she did what she did, telling her that you felt weird when she insinuated he was flirting with you). i would also reach out to the guy and tell him you didn't mean to walk away and maybe start a conversation?

honestly the solution to miscommunication is always communication (as cliche as it sounds) but i hope it works out for you <3

[walvitswordsandpoems]

An advice for people.

[depressedlesbianlmao]

Can uhh someone describe how an OD feels? Like let's say you took ADHD meds at non therapeutic amounts or whatever. How do you know if it's like. Tooooo much. I think I'm okay but also I can feel my fucking bones and its worse than usual. It took me fucking forever to even type this. I just wanna know.

And I know I know any amount over the prescribed amount is too much. I know it's bad for me and I could die and I know all the fucking risks and addiction and all of it. it's not gonna change my shit. I wish I could be better but I'm fucking not. I just don't wanna die yet so if you're not gonna legit answer the fucking question then scroll on by and judge me on your own.

[its-a-bi-guy]

Im a baby bi and havent been a part of the community/tumblr for a long time but id much rather be part of the queer community than the lgbt community cuz the queer community seems to give a fuck about people other than cis white gays

Welcome to the community! 

I too feel like the queer community is more inclusive in general. It, like every community, has its problems - but it feels more open and welcoming to people who don’t neatly fit in to the gender or sexual binary. Even the name itself lends itself better to not leaving people out. LGBT is the most commonly used form of the abbreviation - but that leaves out everyone but lesbian, gay, bi, and trans people. And every other identity gets more or less tacked on depending on who is talking. LGBTQ, LGBTQA, LGBTQAAT, etc etc. I realize not everyone likes the word queer but I think it’s the best we’ve got - it’s a reclaimed slur that is ours.

[mejomonster]

Dumb brain again was like "search how to meet people to date on apps" because I'm not good at it even remotely anymore

But every time I go down that rabbit hole I just read 20 conflicting romance advice articles til my brain fries and I feel hopeless cause there's no way to actually do all that conflicting advice if I tried

[a-shakespearean-in-paris]

On Thursday my therapist is going to ask me about my crush and I’ll have to explain I don’t have one anymore because 1. He’s married and 2. He gave me unsolicited advice.