#and ask invasive questions

[reality-detective]

"The Invasion" and it's NOT just in America 🤔

[hanasnx]

i’m way too invested in my mutuals sex lives bcos i’ve physically stopped myself from dming “omg did yall fuck” several times on different occasions i need to chill

[serenhob]

I think people need to understand that 'fakers' are a much smaller issue to disabled people than 'fake claimers'

First of all a lot of people who 'fake' mental illness/neurodivergance are not 'faking it', they may not be neurodivergent/have a specific mental illness but most of the time they think they have do.

Faking normally implies a degree of awareness or malice but a lot are just relating to things that they are not fully informed of and coming to the conclusion that they are neurodivergen/disabled. Who/what does this effect?

Not a lot. There may be some misinformation (which obviously isn't good) but nothing overtly harmful to disabled people. To access any degree of accommodation you need a diagnosis so people aren't taking anything away because they will be denied.

And yes there are those select few people who do have awareness and malice in what they are doing, often to illicit sympathy and get money. It is these types of people who fake a physical disability in addition to mental and neurodivergence. But these are very rare.

Fake claimers however, are far more common and pervasive.

They are everywhere, they do it to actually disabled people. It is very disturbing to see in real life.

I have genuinely had strangers come up to me and say that I don't actually need my cane and try and take it off me. My own family members have taken my cane away from me and left me until they brought it back. I have had people tell me that when they push me and I fall that I made myself fall over. I have had people tell me that because I was able to hold onto my cane as they tried to take it away from me that I am lying about needing pencil grips. This is actively harmful.

And it not only happens with the people around you but with those there to help disabled people.

Due to personal bias there are professionals who say that you dont look disabled/autistic/neurodivergent/etc just because you do not present in a certain way (particularly with neurodivergent people who are denied for not being a 6 year old boy because that's how they think its 'supposed' to look).

Women and people of colour have been denied and misdiagnosed with conditions like hysteria, Bpd and anxiety disorders or, if it is physical, stress, hormones, periods, etc in place of the disability they actually have all because their conditions research was focused on white men/boys.

Ambulatory wheelchair users are told they don't need a wheelchair because they are not paralysed. Ignoring the fact that people use the mobility aid that suits them instead of being denied because they don't 'suit' the mobility aid.

If disability does not look how people initially imagined suddenly its not a disability at all.

It is a systemic and social issue that persists and is made worse by people getting upset over some random girl on tiktok saying she has Adhd.

If you do not like people being ill informed then advocate for education.

Fake claiming is a big part of abelism that we ignore and that needs to change.

[limepigeon]

when homo-sexual underground thought finishes right after analyzing the Dolores Dei glass painting in the church and Kim says you've been standing there for 5 minutes and you just have to blurt out "are you gay" after this long explanation in your head about this weird saint

[yetdevout]

man memory loss vega is both so cautious and vaguely humored by warden. when he read the letter, he questions them earnestly while being mindful of a past he doesn’t even remember. all the while, his voice has a lilt and it’s like i can hear the slight raising of his brow when asking about their previous relationship. this guy’s a menace.

[kaattlin]

he can have a little oh-fuck moment, as a treat ft. an atsumu smile

[roman-cup]

"Why would you ask someone this instead of just Googleing it? It wastes people's time" I wanted to talk to. My friends

[vendetta06]

how has your mental health been? i remember a while back you were having issues with controlling your alcohol limit and blacking out and saying/doing regrettable things that made you feel awful. it broke my heart & i could relate. i hope you’re much better now.

honestly, i'm so much better than where i've been. during 2019-2021 i was struggling with so much unresolved trauma. and when the lockdown happened it created the perfect storm for my mental health to collapse. i was self medicating my anxiety with alcohol and i could proudly say i don't do that anymore. no, i am not straight edge sober but i can drink in social settings and i’m in control of myself. i don't drink alone, i don't crave it, and i don't need it.

i hit rock bottom after i drained my account on alcohol because i really thought i was going to die. i didn’t though, and life went on. so that was kind of embarrassing! i stopped drinking for 10 months and worked on my identity and faced my anxiety raw, and then the bad times just started feeling really far away.

[sleepyslag]

ALSO the thing with the Adelaide interview isn't that they didn't want him to air questions about their relationship they answered whatever the the question was initially but then had to call and WARN HIM WE WERE UNHINGED and it would be better to just cut it. We should be ashamed of that tbqh.

[on-a-lucky-tide]

Are you a sub?

On Anon as well, lmao. Fuck it, I'll answer.

I like to bottom. That doesn't make me submissive.

I think there is often a blurring of the two linked to how people think penetrating something is a dominant/possessive act. It can be and that can be hot, but it isn't automatic, and it does depend on the person and the energy they bring to the encounter.

I had to work through that hang up myself; being penetrated doesn't make me less of a man, liking it doesn't make me less of a man, nor does it impact my power dynamics in a relationship or encounter, unless I want it to.

In fact, by society's standards, I am more masculine and dominant than my six foot two, two hundred pound partner, who sends me kitten pictures with the heading 'kitteh' and gets cute aggression for British Shorthairs, squeals when nature touches him, and won't touch cold food on a plate because it squicks him.

Hope this, uh, helps?

[reality-detective]

A CIA whistleblower has confirmed the existence of directed energy weapons, but a Harvard scientist took it a step further, revealing a more sinister agenda.

According to the scientist, these directed energy weapons will work in conjunction with Project Blue Beam and can be used to create atmospheric ionization, manipulating radar to make people believe alien craft are in the sky.

He compared the technology to laser pointers, saying it could even simulate the illusion of an entire army invading Europe—an elaborate hoax.

Despite his revelations, the scientist refused to disclose who is behind these operations.

You CAN count on this happening. In fact JFK & Ronald Reagan spoke about this threat. 🤔

Enjoy The Show 🍿

[susieandhobbes]

Justice for Dr. Mensah's Characterization!!!

[the-race-rivals]

gonna be so real I love your stuff it's clear you're very passionate about cars I love when people mix their fixations

Thank you. I'm pretty committed to this AU. :)

[warcrimesimulator]

Why are ICE harassing my family members. My uncle is a citizen you idiots. And nobody is afraid of you.

[huggingtentacles]

I'm an Elden Ring invader. I have 5000 hours in this game. Reblog and ask me anything in the tags.

[princenoah07]

Really weird when a cis guy who generally is supportive of trans folk rants about how trans dudes don't feel the pain and discomfort of having a "real" dick and balls. A guy I know did this after a mutual friend experienced happiness about packing. He went off for a good five minutes being upset about his excitement and how he told him off for his happiness because people born with dicks have to deal with the uncomfy sensations of it and people who pack don't.

I get there's a good chance he was doing this as a joke, but that doesn't make it any less uncomfortable or weird. Especially when he was bragging about shitting on said trans guy for being happy about it to his face after he mentioned he was packing for the first time. Why are people so fucking weird