#anti lesboy

[everyponie]

"anti good faith identities" do you know how insane you sound

[luvcalico]

anyways dni if you think men or mspec people can id as lesbian <3 hope you get out of your idiocy soon

[queenofthecats]

Just wanted to say, I think I’m on the wrong side of tumblr. Why do some of y’all act like lesbians are drooling but forcing themselves not to sleep with men and male aligned people?

Lesbians are not into men, we are into: cis-women, trans-women, non-binary people, gender-fluid people, and labels similar

We are not into: men (trans and cis)

(Some lesbians have crushes on fictional men, but not real men. I’m not talking about them)

Guys, y’all don’t have to use labels, it’s ok not to. It’s ok to not know, or to feel like a label doesn’t exactly describe you. You can go by queer, but please stop using the term lesbian. You can create new terms and everything, but this was originally made for non-men to describe their attraction to non-men.

Some people feel comfortable with labels, not everybody wants to be outside of the label. I respect you guys who don’t go by labels, so please just respect people who do.

It’s completely okay to not have a label, or to create a new one. You can go by queer, and that’s okay.

I like having a box for me to relate to other people, you don’t have to if you don’t want to. Just please respect lesbians space.

It feels lesphobic to identify as a man and still call yourself a lesbian, or to date men in the present and do it? Not everybody is attracted to men, this is the label that represents that. Please respect us. Maybe a different term would fit for you, or again, you don’t have to use a term. Can y’all please just stop trying to include men in lesbianism? This is the whole point of being a lesbian. You’re not a lesbian if you’re not a non-man liking non-men. You’re either a straight guy or bi/pan or just generally queer.

[shadowflayeronlyfanz2]

idk i just think ppl should stop basing their identities off of what a book says (this is about Christians and lesboys)

[flagsandtags]

Stop harassing us for being anti good faith. Your never changing my views on this. Srsly at least I don't go out of my way to directly harass them??? I simply don't want them to interact.

Gay is non woman loving no woman

And lesbian is non men loving non men

And telling me I'm homophobic and transphobic for that is a load of fucking bullshit.

JUST LEAVE ME ALONE FOR GODS SAKE -saturn

[a-clucking-system]

friendly reminder

VALID:

non binary lesbians ✅

agender lesbians ✅

genderless lesbians ✅

demigirl lesbians ✅

genderfluid lesbians ✅

librafemme / libraandrogyne lesbians ✅

transmasc lesbians (not male identifying) ✅

gender non-conforming lesbians, as long as they don't identify as male ✅

he/him lesbians, because pronouns ≠ gender ✅

NOT VALID:

demiboy lesbians ❌

libramasculine lesbians ❌

trans male lesbians ❌

cis male lesbians ❌

ANY OTHER MALE ALIGNED LESBIAN ❌❌❌❌❌

[pinkpinkstarlet]

“stop policing queer people and their identities!!” “stop acting like a cop men can be lesbians”

you know lesbians are one of the biggest victims of violence from cops right. Especially POC lesbians and ESPECIALLY black lesbians and ESPECIALLY ESPECIALLY trans lesbians. Right.

[genderfromthebackrooms]

This shit right here is bullshit (tw for radinclus)

Nobody, and I say NOBODY who is against radinclusivity has ever said that lesbians are exclusively women attracted to women and that bisexuals are exclusively attracted to men and women.

Nonbinary people have always been welcome in these labels. You implying the majority of the community thinks they're not is vile.

Just fucking say "homoromantic bi" and stop using labels that imply that lesbians can be attracted to men. Also don't post this shit under the "safequeer" tag, being safequeer means being against people like you.

[borderline-purrsonality]

If there’s anything I’ve learned it’s that way too many people look at queer people and our identities as “trading cards” to collect rather than individual identities that make up who we are as people and our experiences being queer. It seems like people are getting FOMO from different identities and that’s why we’re getting the rise of “contradictory labels” from people who see ourselves as these cute little words to attach to themselves.

The way our identities are getting meaning beaten out of them to instead have people try and “collect” as many of them as they can is honestly so damaging to us. I am a lesbian. I am a non man exclusively attracted to non men, and seeing men be included in our attraction is damaging to us.

I legitimately do not give a single shit what cishet people care about us. This is not about them.

This feels like erasure and frankly needs to stop. It’s okay not knowing exactly what your identity is at the moment, but you don’t need to combine everything into one word.

[icouldbeozzie]

FIRST SET OF XENOGENDERS I COINED - AMALGAMATIONS

AMALGABOY

A gender that feels like an amalgamation or mix of several different male aligned genders, or a gender that is an amalgamation of male aligned xenogenders while also feeling nonhuman.

Possible prns?

He/hx/it/that/boy/bxy/malga/malgas/malgaself

AMALGAGIRL

A gender that feels like an amalgamation or mix of several different female aligned genders, or a gender that is an amalgamation of female aligned xenogenders while also feeling nonhuman.

Possible prns?

She/shx/it/that/girl/gxrl/malga/malgas/malgaself

AMALGATHING/AMALGANEU

A gender that feels like an amalgamation or mix of several different nonbinary genders, or a gender that is an amalgamation of nonbinar aligned xenogenders while also feeling nonhuman.

Possible prns?

They/thxy/them/thxm/it/that/malga/malgas/malgaself

Omg first real post!!! Requests for xenogenders and neopronouns are open in my ask me anything.

[shadowflayeronlyfanz2]

its insane to me that society is so obsessed with men that some men are trying to worm their way into the term LESBIAN and people are LETTING THEM

(this post is NOT about trans women. trans women are valid and wonderful. this post is about trans male "lesbians" and "lesboys.")

[cutesyfrills]

tfw you disrespect the identity of multiple people and choose to further divide the community

— 🎀🍰 · · · Vi love being safequeer ^_^

[a-clucking-system]

(this is a genuine ask btw :3)

Why don't you support mspec gays/L=lesbians, turigirl, lesboy, etc?

1) boys cant be lesbians

2) girls cant be gay (not the umbrella term, im talking as in achillean)

3) mspec gay/lesbian just defeats the entire purpose of gay/lesbian, as gay = non woman loving non women, and lesbian = non man loving non man (this is also why lesboys and turigirls cannot exist). it also implies that mspec people (not including pansexuals) cannot have a preference.

i do support lesboy being used as a RECLAIMED term for lesbians who do not identify as a man but are comfortable using masculine labels. i think when reclaimed, its actually a really cute label for tmasc/agender/non binary/etc lesbians to better describe their relationship with gender.

if you have any other questions, feel free to send in another ask!

[lesbeean69420]

men cant be lesbians argue with the wall