#ask swangaymills

[swangaymills]

you legit need to fucking kill yourself tranny

Can I kiss you first babe? 😘

I think it might turn you gay, or maybe even trans bc that's how it works, right? 😂

[swangaymills]

My asks are open

Shipping Headcanons! Send Numbers & Ships!

SFW

Who cooks?

Who’s the messiest? The cleanest?

Who fixes the vehicle after a breakdown?

Living space has a leak! Who fixes it?

Who buys the groceries?

Going out to eat: Who pays? Who orders the most food? And who has dessert?

Would they go to the beach?

Who knows how to swim? Who doesn’t?

Is someone multilingual? Do they try to teach another language to the other? How does it go?

Any pets? Or plants?

Baths or showers? Together or separate? Any bubbles or bubble fights?

Can they stand silence? Who talks the most? Who talks the least?

Who stays up late? Who sleeps the most? Does the other have to force them to sleep/wake up?

Who is the highest maintenance? Does the other mind?

Vacation ideas: who decides them? Where would they go, if anywhere?

NSFW

How often do they have sex, if at all?

Who brings ideas? Who initiates?

Any kinks they clash on?

Oddest place they’d have sex?

Favourite positions?

Dom/top? Sub/bottom? Any switches?

Genital headcanons?

Favourite erogenous zones?

Quickest turn ons? Immediate turn offs?

First to orgasm? Last to orgasm? Who comes the most? Does someone ever end up unfinished?

Favourite romantic gestures during sex/orgasm?

How are their afterglows?

Who’s loud? Who’s quiet? Does one try to make the other louder/quieter? How?

Lights on or off? Do they look at each other? Or is someone embarrassed?

Open or closed relationship? Do they sometimes share?

[swangaymills]

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Vegetarian? Vegan? None of the above?

Trying to become vegan, but I’m struggling with cheese and meat, because I’m Puerto Rican and African so i fucking love meat… & cheese… well, because I’m fucking rat who loves to eat cheese because it’s fucking awesome.

I removed Eggs, Butter, and Milk easily bc i don’t really eat or drink them.

Yogurt was easy too bc i fucking hate yogurt… unless vegan yogurt, which is the funny part

Ice cream… There’s vegan ice cream ;)  

I don’t really eat chocolate either, I still have most of my easter chocolates,… WHICH IM ABOUT TO GO THROW OUT AFTER THIS.

mayo was hard af, till I found vegan mayo :)

[swangaymills]

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Talk about your dreams/aspirations for the future.

My goal is to become a successful actor on Broadway and then eventually switch over to TV and Film, but of course, that’s not guaranteed.

So, my backup is to become a detective at the Special Victims Bureau (Yes, they call it SVB not SVU), a Lawyer for the Special Victims Bureau, or a licensed therapist that works with kids who’ve been through trauma

[swangaymills]

💙list 5 things that make you happy, then put this in the askbox of the last 10 people who reblogged something from you. spread the positivity!💙

Not in order

1. Theatre/Acting

2. TV shows

3. My closest friends & my amazing professors at my college

4. When someone uses my pronouns and calls me an enby (They/Them)

5. Wine

[swangaymills]

My asks are open :)

Random Questions For Queer Ladies #WLWask

Below are some questions pertaining to women who like other women, conveniently categorized. Have others send you random numbers (there’s 130 of them), or simply answer them yourself. Please reblog!

SEXUALITY & COMING OUT: 1. How do you define your sexuality? 2. What pronouns do you use to identify yourself? 3. At what age did you first suspect that you are sexually attracted to other girls? 4. At what age did you come to terms with your sexuality? 5. Did you have an “aha I like girls” moment or was it more of a gradual realization? 6. How did your sexuality make you feel before you came out? 7. How did you become comfortable with your sexuality? 8. At what age did you first come out? 9. Who was the first person you came out to? How did they take it? 10. Do your parents know about your sexuality? 11. How out are you? 12. Do you now identify as something different than when you first came out? 13. Was anyone surprised when you came out or did people seem to already know? 14. Has coming out lost you any friends? 15. How soon after meeting someone do you usually tell them about your sexuality? 16. How difficult do you find it to sympathize with straight women? 17. Have you ever wished you were completely straight? 18. Agree or disagree: Everyone is at least a little bit gay. 19. If you are not a lesbian, about what percentage of the time do you find yourself attracted to other girls? 20. Do you think it is possible to be a true 50/50 bisexual, or is the percentage always skewed towards one gender? 21. How often do you find yourself trying to sneak a peek or stare at a cute girl? 22. How accurate is your gaydar?

RELATIONSHIPS & DATING: 23. What is your current relationship status? 24. What is the longest relationship you’ve been in? Are you still with that person? 25. Do you remember anything about the first time you kissed another girl? 26. Are you a virgin? If not, what gender did you lose your virginity to? 27. What is your ideal first date? 28. What personality trait are you most attracted to? 29. How flirty are you? 30. Would you ever want to get married, if not already? 31 Do you want have children someday? 32. Would you ever want to give birth? 33. How often are you asked if you have a boyfriend? 34. Have you ever liked or dated a girl with the same name as you? 35. Have you ever been on your period the same time as a girlfriend? 36. Have you and a girlfriend ever been mistaken for sisters? 37. Have you ever been in a long distance relationship? 38. Have you ever dated a guy? 39. Has a girl ever dumped you for a guy? Have you? 40. Has another girl ever hit on you? 41. Have you ever had a crush on a straight girl? 42. Have you ever had a crush on a woman who’s significantly older than you? 43. Would you ever date a trans woman? 44. Have you ever had a profile on a LGBT dating website or app? 45. Where do you think is the best place to meet a potential lover? 46. Do you consider yourself a hopeless romantic?

PHYSICAL APPEARANCE: 47. Have you ever cut your hair super short? If not, would you ever want to? 48. Is your nose pierced? 49. What is your opinion on septum/bull nose piercings? 50. Do you have any tattoos? If so, of what and where? 51. How muscular are you? 52. Are you or have you ever been a tomboy? 53. Have you ever been told that you don’t look gay, or that you’re too pretty to be gay? 54. Have you ever been mistaken as a dude?

FASHION STYLE: 55. Do you wear skirts and dresses? If so, how often? 56. Do you wear high heels? If so, how often? 57. How much jewelry do you typically wear? 58. How much makeup do you typically wear? 59. How often do you wear a bra? 60. How often do you wear flannel? 61. Have you ever worn a suit? 62. Do you wear any shoes such as combat boots, Doc Martins or Timberlands? 63. Do you carry a purse? 64. Do you wear any hats such as snapbacks or beanies? 65. Have you ever worn any men’s clothing? 66. Have you ever dressed in complete drag? 67. Have you ever shared clothes with a girlfriend? 68. If you want to get married, do you think you will wear a dress?

ENTERTAINMENT: 69. Who is your favorite LGBT celebrity? 70. Have you ever watched The L Word? 71. Have you ever watched Will & Grace? 72. Have you ever watched RuPaul’s Drag Race? 73. How well do you feel LGBT women are portrayed on television? 74. Do you listen to any LGBT musicians (i.e. Tegan & Sara, Melissa Etheridge, Chely Wright, Elton John, Sam smith, George Michael, Adam Lambert)? 75. Do you watch any LGBT YouTubers? 76. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed movie? 77. Do you have a favorite LGBT themed blog or website? 78. Do you read any LGBT magazines? 79. Have you read any LGBT themed literature? If so, do you have any recommendations? 80. Is there such a thing as “good” lesbian porn?

THIS OR THAT: 81. Boobs or butts? 82. Beer or wine? 83. Ellen or Portia?

BEING (SOMEWHAT) RANDOM: 84. How much do you like cats? 85. Have you ever been to a gay bar or a gay club? 86. How many LGBT friends do you have? 87. Do you have any LGBT relatives? 88. Have you ever used any words (or variations of) such as lesbian, queer, gay, or homosexual as a password? 89. How outdoorsy are you? 90. Have you ever driven an SUV, Jeep, or pickup truck? 91. How many rainbow items do you own? 92. Have you ever celebrated National Coming Out Day (Oct. 11)? 93. Have you ever participated in the National Day of Silence? 94. Have you ever attended a GSA (Gay Straight Alliance) type of club? 95. Have you ever attended a PFLAG (Parents & Friends of Lesbians and Gays) meeting? 96. Have you ever attended a gay or lesbian wedding? 97. Have you ever been part of a softball team? 98. Do you skateboard or longboard at all? 99. Do you play any video games?

FROM 1-10, HOW ATTRACTIVE ARE: 100. Muscular women? 101. Women who wear glasses? 102. Women who are covered with tattoos? 103. Women who are covered with piercings? 104. Curvy/plus-sized women? 105. Women with short hair? 106. Highly intelligent women? 107. Tall women (i.e. around 1.83 meters/6 feet or taller)? 108. Masculine/butch women?

GETTING SERIOUS: 109. What does equality mean to you?
 110. Do you consider yourself a feminist? 111. Do you eat meat at all? 112. Are you religious at all? 113. How do you feel about the terms “woman crush” and “girl crush”? 114. How do you feel when platonic female friends refer to each other as girlfriends? 115. How do you feel when people use the word gay to mean things such as stupid, dumb, boring, or idiotic? 116. Are you comfortable with terms such as lezzie, lesbo, dyke, homo, or tranny? 117. What are your views on gender identity and bathroom use? 118. Do you have any opinions on LGBT people in the military? 119. Have you ever been called a gay slur? 120. Have you ever been queer bashed? 121. Have you ever been discriminated against because of your sexuality or gender identity? If so, please explain. 122. Does it really get better? 123. Americans: How did you feel on June 26, 2015? 124. How accepting of LGBT people is the city/community you live in? 125. Have you ever tried to “pray the gay away”? 126. How annoyed are you with how heteronormative society is? 127. What LGBT stereotype do you most disagree with? 128. Is there anything about the LGBT community that you wish you knew before coming out? 129. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to figure out her sexuality? 130. What advice would you give to a girl who is struggling to come out?