#attachment parenting

[katimorton]

I think we've all been there. We look at a relationship in our life whether it be our parents, a romantic partner or a friend of ours, and we ask ourselves, "am I too needy or too clingy in this relationship?" Perhaps we are just trying to have a healthy relationship that includes effort in both parts or perhaps we are becoming too demanding on our partner or friends - and we are being too needy or clingy in our relationship. Let's talk about signs you may be too needy or too dependent or too clingy in your relationship or friendships. We may be needy or codependent in our relationships and could benefit from self work or codependency work. Have you found yourself asking if you're too needy or clingy in your relationships? Or did you find you were codependent in your relationships and benefited from codependency work to be less dependent or reliant on your partner or friend?

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[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

[mamakeni]

I didn’t think love like THIS could be possible

[lifewritteninthestars]

I'm currently laying in bed with Baby C asleep on top of me. I've got water, some snacks (midnight Chex Mix), my phone... I can hear my husband gaming in the living room, and occasionally Baby C sighs or stirs.

I cherish these quiet moments. I always know I should go to sleep, because even a cosleeping baby who sleeps well still disrupts your own rest, but this is the closest I get to prolonged leisure time these days. The work has been completed. The chores are done or not, but if not, they're tomorrow's problem. The baby is asleep and only requires a warm body to stay that way. I don't want to miss out on any of this time if I can help it.

Sometimes I wish I could stand to hear her cry, so that I could leave her in her playpen or in her exersaucer and just get things done that need doing. Attachment parenting isn't something I've chosen, though, not really. It's just my only option. I can't stand to listen to her cry; it's devastating. It haunts me. She's so small and so utterly reliant on me. To let her down is unthinkable. The world can be so harsh, so it's up to me and her dad to be soft.

I spend a lot of time during these quiet hours thinking about how the day went. Did I pay her enough attention? Did I yell at the dog too much? Was she happy? Could I have done better?

The answer to all of these is usually yes. I know I don't neglect her, even though I have to work. I'm working on my anger and my patience. She is such a happy baby. Yes, I could have done better; I always strive for better.

The last seven months have felt horribly short. I'm with her all the time and I feel like I've missed so much. My husband, I know, feels this even more acutely because he works outside the home. I wish time could slow down so we could treasure these moments a little bit longer.

[ursprungberatung]

🌱Parents online course:

Starting 3rd of July

In this course I offer to learn:

🌺 Increasing mindfulness in the parent-child relationship

🌺 Be more understanding towards your children and partner

🌺 Treat yourself and your children with more acceptance and compassion

🌺 Develop a stronger bond with the children

🌺 Trust your own parental heart

🌺 Manage stressful situations better and thus reduce the general stress level

🌺 Reduce problems on the behavioral and emotional level of parents and children

🌺 Cultivate joie de vivre and matters of the heart

8 weeks at 5:00am MEZ for 1,5h

I look forward to meeting you online and welcome all parents with and without children to this course.

🌸 What is our nature and culture?

🌸 Create a map of inner states and

🌸 develop self compassion for yourself.

Please find more detailed information on the homepage of the mindful compassionate parenting method

[elblogdecleo]

Gentle Parenting: What It Is and How the Concept Was Born

[jambandatl]

Universal Development: Year One - Year Two

Expanded Curriculum Focus 1. Integrate Technology Mindfully: Utilize interactive e-books or apps that allow your child to interact with the story by touching parts of the screen to hear sounds or change images. This can enhance his engagement and make reading time even more dynamic. Consider short, child-friendly videos that tie into your weekly themes, like watching real animals for “Animal…

[myvinyllove]

Discovery ✨

[danisalmon]

[blossomaitech]

Attachment parenting comes into play in order to most efficiently deal with all these issues. It also helps you to provide a space for your child to thrive.

It is natural for a parent to feel attachment and protective care towards their children and giving your child love and attention is essential for their healthy mental growth, self-confidence, success, and even their capacity to build relationships as they move through life.

[renee-writer]

[wordsofwisdomandsoul]

@nvrnorthampton

[aalghul]

once again thinking about jason as duke’s robin. he’s ~4 years younger than jason, and that puts him at 8-12 during Jason’s time as robin. that’s prime time to get attached to your local kid vigilante before your own life goes downhill.

and if we try to keep duke’s meeting with bruce in zero year + duke’s age (so he can remember the meeting and hold that conversation with bruce), he has to be around 8. if he starts following batman through the news at that time because of the mess that just happened, the robin he sees is probably jason. I’ve literally connected the dots

[ginachindavis]

Attachment Unavailable: A Memoir About My Narcissistic, Avoidant Ex

by ME! #ginachindavis

Available wherever books are sold!

[unofficialchronicle]

An Atlantic article on attachment styles

An excellent synopsis on attachment styles: “Researchers have identified four basic “attachment styles”: People with a secure style feel that they can depend on others and that others can depend on them too. Those with a dismissive style—more commonly known as “avoidant”—are overly committed to independence and don’t feel that they need much deep emotional connection. People with a preoccupied (or “anxious”) style badly want intimacy but, fearing rejection, cling or search for validation. And people with fearful (or “disorganized”) attachment crave intimacy, too—but like those with the dismissive style, they distrust people and end up pushing them away.”

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“People tend to think of attachment style as a static personality trait; really, Chopik told me, ‘it’s an evaluation of the broader world.’”

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“People might have started recognizing, more than ever, the difficulty others were experiencing—hence the empathy rise. But trust, on the other hand: “Trust takes time,” Konrath said. Perhaps people have been so busy hustling—trying to perfect their résumé to get into a good college, working, worrying about bills—that they haven’t had as much time to just hang out with people and slowly let their guard down.”

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cultural “emphasis on achievement over leisure”

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The “ambient feeling of precarity” we all seem to experience these days.

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Attachment styles can evolve!!

[ursprungberatung]

🌱Parents online course:

Starting 2nd of July

In this course I offer to learn:

🌺 Increasing mindfulness in the parent-child relationship

🌺 Be more understanding towards your children and partner

🌺 Treat yourself and your children with more acceptance and compassion

🌺 Develop a stronger bond with the children

🌺 Trust your own parental heart

🌺 Manage stressful situations better and thus reduce the general stress level

🌺 Reduce problems on the behavioral and emotional level of parents and children

🌺 Cultivate joie de vivre and matters of the heart

8 weeks at 11:00am MEZ for 1,5h

I look forward to meeting you online and welcome all parents with and without children to this course.

🌸 What is our nature and culture?

🌸 Create a map of inner states and

🌸 develop self compassion for yourself.

Please find more detailed information on the homepage of the mindful compassionate parenting method