#but repulsed by sex in general

[rouge-the-bat]

"we cant have bi women calling themselves lesbians, thatll just make predatory men think they can get with lesbians!"

predatory men* already think that regardless of any information out there and have for a very long time. because theyre predatory and dont care about boundaries.

predatory men are also assuming they can get with women who identify as bi or both bi and lesbian. those women will still have the same assumptions thrown at them when they tell predatory guys theyre lesbians. just because they like some men** doesnt mean they like all, they are not any safer than you.

why are you blaming it on bi people and not the predators? you realize youre outright saying associating with bi people is putting you in more danger? dont you realize how fucked up that is?

bi people always have and always will call themselves lesbians. lesbian has always included them, and it was the common perception that lesbian included both mono- and bisexual people until lesbian separatists (aka radfems) used this exact rhetoric to make it seem like bisexual people are a danger to "real TRUE" lesbians for daring to associate with men. they labeled (and continue to label) bi people as traitors that cant be trusted.

tldr; you are being biphobic as hell, spreading radfem rhetoric, and you can kiss my fat bi lesbian ass.

*obviously by "predatory men" i mean men who are predators. im not saying all men are predatory because thats dumb bullshit.

**of course some people also use bi without being attracted to men, but for somewhat-brevitys sake im focusing just on the ones who are here.

[anendoandfriendo]

Sex-replusion is going to exist weather there is a purity culture or not.

Maybe the solution here is to acknowledge yes sex scenes can be in some movies but don't need to be in EVERY movie to have it be a movie geared towards adults???

Stop moralizing sex scenes as "good" and forcing them onto people by putting them in EVERY movie, and maybe other people shall stop moralizing them as "bad" and trying to force you to take them out of movies.

Like, the unfortunate thing here is the assholes pushing purity culture have an actual point in this case, but they're stating it to the incorrect end/motive here.

Also, people calling themselves "prudes" as a reclamation because none of you want to admit sex repulsion is also queer is kind of on you, not the people calling themselves prudes. That isn't a purity culture issue, that's a "I am either asexual, sex-repulsed, or possibly both but do not know it/am not accepted by the queer community in general and am SCARED of you," thing.

[arill-b-r]

I need some of you to understand that sex positivity isn't inherently anti-asexual and that asexual pride isn't inherently sex negative

There are a lot of nuances with what being asexual actually means but please remember that sex positivity can very much cohexist with the fact that not everyone likes or is interested in sex

[pinkobjectmilkshake]

y’all don’t need to age up Senku

he’s 19 by the end of the manga, you can just specify when in canon your “Senku-doing-adult-things” thing takes place

[stangalina]

The never ending battle

[justanotherhh]

favourite characters will be "the sex and romance repulsed weirdo" on the one side and "the hypersexual just-wants-to-be-loved weirdo" on the other side

[charmac]

hpe this is ok but not enough sub charlie content or charmacden content

Putting it out into the Sunnysphere... I have been meaning to write a Charmacden fic.. I will get to it eventually, surely

[paranorahjones]

In the same boat with ghoulcy, the "ehh I could see it" camp. What was the fic that sold you on it?

Exactly, I find their current dynamic absolutely fascinating, regardless of what it turns into in the future. If they started to tend towards the romantic or if they just kept up whatever it is they have now, I honestly wouldn't be upset either way.

The fic that got me was An Equal Partnership by Emily_F6 on AO3. It's so incredibly well written and the characterizations are spot on. There are some graphically violent/sexual moments (which are denoted in the content warnings) and for personal reasons I scroll past those (mostly the sexual content, violence I can usually handle), but the rest of the fic makes skipping a few bits so worth it.

[mqfx]

i do think it IS possible mq is acespec but i hate the imposition of abstinence more. like if he doesn't fuck i want it to be because he doesn't feel like it, not because of some arbitrary "you have to be pure" rule FUCK OFF and it's not just about the sexual intercourse he can't even have alcohol or read a little dicketry if he wants to???

[entropy-sea-system]

Reminder that friendship is not inherently a necessary part of life. Not everyone requires friendships to be emotionally fulfilled. Nonfriending and plato averse and/or repulsed people exist and we are very cool!

(Exclus dni, don't derail to talk about how important friendship is, "concern" over our mental health for being nonfriending is NOT welcome here)

[aparticularbandit]

I think the scene I'm going to add to Monday's chapter - not the one I kept thinking about over my trip because I cannot remember what it was, but one I've been thinking about for far, far longer - is the Kyoko Kirigiri Is Ace And So Is Virgin Junko Enoshima But They Are Different Flavors conversation.

So that will be. fun.

[stardustdiiving]

Suddenly cursed with the desire to write out detailed paragraphs about my dozen aro and/or ace headcanons for genshin characters

[faerygardenparty]

Maybe this makes me an asshole or something but I get really annoyed when other asexuals act like being asexual inherently means you know nothing about sex or kink or things like that, like as an asexual who isn’t uncomfortable with these topics I get really annoyed when people act like their personal lack of knowledge or care for sex is a universal thing for all asexuals

[ethaneldritch]

tried watching the Man in the Iron Mask with my mum and had to bail halfway through. i'm so sick of lustful characters always being treated as a harmless joke. like whaddya mean i'm just supposed to laugh at that and move on, can somebody at least slap this guy for once

[redysetdare]

X reader posts are the bane of all repulsed ppls existence.

[almightytuba]

im not saying we need more protag ace rep im just saying for a long time the closest thing we had was jason voorhees