headcannon that sirius black never cries. he gets angry and he yells and smashes things. his magic flies out of control and he says the most hurtful things. but no matter what happens, remus has never seen him cry.
and then one day the daily prophet announces that regulus black has died. and for the first time in eight years of knowing him, remus watches sirius breakdown and sob on their kitchen floor.
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anyways! happy for ice spice to get her own love from this new midnights bullshit and to hear Lana ft more on snow on the beach but that’s probably it
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i saw in your rentry that youre “death positive”? ive never heard that and im curious what it means? thanks :3 /g /nm
If you’re interested in the full definition this is where u can find that!! however to sum it up it is the idea that a healthy society should allow the open discussion of death as it is natural process of life without framing it as morbid or taboo but instead as a natural curiosity and that hiding that discussion does more harm than good
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if it makes that anon feel better. I am audhd diagnosed and I believe c!tommy is neurodivergent. I think he's on the opposite end of audhd to what c!dream has. But that reminds me a lot of my enemies were on the spectrum but their triggers and adhd and autistic traits were displayed differently to me like someone with RSD/ abandonment issues could either push people away out of fear of abandonment, or constantly seek to talk to people out of fear of abandonment or sabotage people out of fear of abandonment ect. both are sourced from the same place, but shown differently. Though, im not saying that the character is neurodivergent as a way excuse his actions. I just think he is.
I mean… prove it?… or not. But like look I’m not saying that neurodivergents can’t hate each other, but it’s the misunderstanding that I think is key. The way in which Dream and Tommy can both say and listen to each other and yet not understand each other and it’s only once Tommy literally experiences what it’s like in Dream’s head that he can understand.
In regards to RSD (rejection sensitivity disorder) and abandonment issues, those are symptoms and emotional responses often connected with other diagnoses. In other words, that is almost like saying that because people who stim differently - I might tap my foot quietly and get annoyed when someone else repeatedly clicks a pen - that means that Tommy could be autistic despite having opposite reactions to things. And of course your going to change how you act if you are struggling with fear of rejection of abandonment because as you experiences different examples of it you develop different strategies or even like I used to be very clingy and social but when it’s my time of the month and my hormones are screwy I push people away and don’t want to talk to people. After being rejected enough times then sometimes you may decide ya know what, it hurts less to never start the process of relationships to begin with and just be your own best friend. I mean wanna talk about opposite reactions I often push people away when I’m upset because I don’t want to burden or annoy them but secretly what I really want is for them to come help or comfort me anyways. Talk about counterproductive… also, how can someone be on the opposite side of the spectrum? It’s not a yes or no, the spectrum is related to how severe and how well someone functions in neurotypical society...
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9 + 13 for Drew?
9) Do they have any memories/experiences they’d rather forget?
I suck so bad w these questions bc I never know where in the story 2 answer or if I’m giving too much away… Hrrmm. FORGIVE ME I’m just gonna answer this as though it’s common knowledge. Part of me wants to say the first time he kills another living person, but I think what sits with him more is the when Tino’s group splits him from Gabe and locks him up, specifically how Ronan fucked with his head when he didn’t know if Gabe was still alive or not. Both Drew and Gabe are haunted by their experiences during that time and come away from it very rattled.
13) Do they any tattoos? If no, would they ever consider getting any?
HM OKAY HONESTLY.. I think he WOULD actually have a small tat now that you mention. Something for his moms, since he’s such a family boy. I’m gonna say he has a tattoo of a tree with three branching paths (one representing each of them) on his ankle. Seems like the kind of thing he’d get one year at college and his mom would scold him for it when he shows her, his ma less so, but they do come around to it since it’s sweet. No I didn’t put it on his ankle just so I don’t have to draw it often what are you talking about.
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