#caregiver haru

[teenyweenyeenymeeny]

mama knows so much about plants ๑❛ᴗ❛๑

[alolababy]

✧·*:⭐🌟⭐🌟🎭🌟⭐🌟⭐:*·✧ 🌱☕️ Caregiver and Flip Haru Okumura icons! .・。.・゜✭・.・✫・゜・。.

[kitukun]

I had a vision last night. I made an AU where they are (our orphan and bad parent pookies) in the same facility as strega (u guys know that one like where they had persona awakening experiments and shit instead its shido's AND kirijo's this time)

Their numbers are their arcana's

Goro has special treatment because he was the first success (it took a long while for others)

Ren gets the most torture because he takes a looong while to awaken and they want him because he has "lotsa potentiaaaal"

U might ask why haru and ren is there, haru's dad basically sold her off to shido and ren's parents dont care at all so they also sent him there just to say "our son is with the future president"

Yusuke didnt have madarame he was in orphanage so was futaba

Futaba and haru are in the same cell, they let yusuke around anywhere

Ren and goro are also in the same cell but goro hates and bullies him for a while then gets protective a lot

Ren was alone in a seperate cell first tho

Maruki is the only nice scientist/caregiver there he gave yusuke socks and also gives ren more meal than hes supposed to because he thinks hes too skinny and weak

"where are the other thieves?" they have nice parents and lives.

I dont know how to draw feet i realized. Also sorry for any grammar mistakes english is not my first language

[strawwritesfic]

Vongola Guardians Taking Care of You Headcanons

Hey, guys! I'm sick again! So you know what that means...dopey headcanons about fictional guys taking care of you, their S/O, when you're sick!

I did it for the Avengers last time, so let's apply it to my current hyperfixation this time around.

Note that this is all regarding the adult versions of the cast, and we are not working with A) COVID (because it's too real) or B) The in-universe original TYL!Time Line (because I don't feel like dealing with the whole Millifiore situation).

Tsuna Sawada

Tsuna's got a lot of work to do, running the Vongola, but that doesn't mean he's going to ignore you when you're sick. In fact, you being sick is probably enough of a distraction that he's not going to get that work done anyway--and he's definitely not above using you getting sick as an excuse to get away from his responsibilities for a little while. If it's really something important, of course he'll do it. Otherwise, he's with you all the way. Unfortunately, Tsuna's kind of useless as a caregiver. His heart is in the right place, but he's not entirely sure what to do, and if he tries to do something, it typically winds up spilled all over you. What he can do is that neat trick with his sky flame on his finger on your forehead. When you can't sleep, that's your ticket to dreamland. Except that once he did that, and you slept for two straight days. Everyone was very worried. Reborn congratulated him on sending his S/O into a coma. When you did wake up, you felt much better, but he's reluctant to try it again. Good thing that his company is enough to make you feel a little better most of the time.

Hayato Gokudera

This is the guy that researches every single symptom you have. He's got medical textbooks. He's got WebMD's symptom checker. He's got...books on exorcisms? So not everything he's going to try is necessarily scientifically accurate. And he's not going to let you rest either, because he's got an enormous whiteboard covered in diagrams of all his research. He even wants to dictate the way you sleep, because he's figured out the only way to do it that will actually get you better! And if you don't let him try to get rid of the evil spirits inhabiting you at least once, you're probably going to wake up in the middle of the night surrounded by candles while he stands by the bed chanting. At least the minute Tsuna needs him, he's gone, so you'll get some peace and quiet.

But Gokudera does make some amazing okayu. It's the worst okayu you've ever tasted. At first, you might wonder if Bianchi's the one that made it. But even though it tastes incredibly awful, it does actually make you feel better. it almost makes him playing nurse worth it from time to time.

Ryohei Sasagawa

Ryohei has probably never had a sick day in his entire life. If he had a cold, he just EXTREMED it out of his system, and that's exactly what he expects you to do, too. You can't let the cold win! You have to get up! You have to get up before sunrise! You have to go for a ten-mile run before sunrise! You have to go for a ten-mile run while carrying cinderblocks in both hands before sunrise! Show your illness how EXTREME you are, and you will never be sick again a day in your life! He's not making you do all of this alone. Ryohei is right there with you, doing the exact same thing but with a lot more enthusiasm. It's exausting.

Thankfully, he's got Kyoko around. Once she realizes what's going on, she can rescue you. She knows how to take care of sick people, and she'll get you set up in a nice, dark room with whatever you need, and she and Haru will make sure that you eat healthy and get plenty of rest--because, let's face it, you're probably worse off now than you were before Ryohei got his hands on you. You will live, but it might be a good idea in the future to call in sick to your S/O next time you've got a tickle in your throat.

Lambo

This 15-year-old guy has literally no clue what to do with a sick S/O. Heck, he has literally no clue what to do with himself when he's sick. He's so covered in girls your age anyway, so what are the chances that he notices that you're slogging your way through your day? Well, he does. That doesn't mean he's going to do anything about it...until I-Pin notices as well and chastises him for being so heartless.

And the truth is, he cares about you, and he hates to see you sick. He's not great at doing much more than playing gopher...but, again, he's 15. What else is he supposed to do? So at least for the day he'll get you whatever you want. Chocolate ice cream? Done. Ramen from I-Pin place of work? Absolutely. He consumes half of it, too, and he moans a lot about how gross it is, but ultimately you'd probably be a lot more lonely recuperating by yourself than with him around.

Takeshi Yamamoto

Does Yamamoto even realize you're sick? That is the question. He's known you long enough to know when something's up, but he also trusts you. When you tell him no, you're fine, please just go get beaten up by an Italian man with a sword like he planned, he's not going to argue. Yamamoto knows that you're tough, and if you don't want his help, he's not going to force it on you. He respects you too much to baby you.

On the other hand, on his way home from sparring with Squalo, he's going to pick up a few things. First, he's going to go to the store, and he's going to grab a couple boxes of medicine that sound like they'll help what he thought you sounded like you had that morning. Then he's going to go by his dad's restaurant and pick up a ton of sushi. If you're still not feeling well when he gets home, then he's got you covered. But if you still want to pretend that you're fine, then he just keeps the medicine in his coat pocket for later. He's fine pretending that you're fine if that's what you want. At least there's good food for a quiet night in so you can rest.

Mukuro Rokudo

I mean, as long as he needs you for something, he'll probably care that your sick. Your organs are still in the right place. There's probably not a good way to illusion away your cold and flu symptoms. So if you're fine, he's probably got better things to be doing, like plotting how to finally possess Tsuna and start a war within the mafia!

Oh, what? Really? You want him to say? Well, then, maybe he can put off the whole bloody war within the mafia thing off for another day or two. After all, it's been ten years and he still hasn't got around to it! But hopefully you know that you're in for a lot of getting your own juice bottles, or at least having him torment you about getting your juice bottles until your fever breaks.

Kyoya Hibari

Hibari doesn't get sick, because being sick is weak. But now that he's older, he can appreciate that no one is as strong as he is, so even his S/O is going to get sick from time to time. He is not going to baby you for choosing to be so weak as to catch a cold, however. You probably won't be seeing much of Hibari while you're ill. He's got important business to attend to.

But without saying it, he does make it clear he cares. He'll adjust your pillow in the morning before he leaves. He'll make sure there's plenty of tea in the cupboard. He'll send Kusakabe to check on you regularly. And since you did decide to throw your lot in with Hibari, this radio silence isn't exactly unheard of or unwelcome. Just make sure none of your other friends are around for a visit if and when he decides to come look in on you himself.

[sweetfire01]

OMG TOKYO DEBUNKER MENTION!!! I have been playing since release and I'm glad someone talked about how much caregiver potential Haru has 🥹 his interactions are amazing and he says how we are so sweet in the game and (not really spoilers but still) he says we are too sweet to be going to the dorm after his in the story I love him

Aww 🥺

Unfortunately I'm stucked on case 39, that is required to unlock chapter 3. 😭

But on the campus system I got an iteration with him. I had to bottle feeding Peekaboo and got a glimpse of the room. So colorful and childish 🥺🥺🥺 I want to see moreee. LET ME PASS THE CASE PLZ

[emotionalsupportgoblin420]

About my Marshmallowsona for Aki:

Name: Sunshine.

Age: 18

Life expectancy: at least 1200 years, if not longer.

Species: Half oni, half shīsā.

Personality: Fun, loud, and full of mayhem. Is a bit shy at first, but it's pretty easy to get her to open up. She loves to play and have fun. Is an agent of chaos and loves to tease people. But she isn't dumb. She has more smarts than people give her credit for. She's also very kind. She doesn't want to actually annoy or offend anyone. She can also be a bit sensitive thanks to her autism.

Her relationship with each of the kitsune:

Aki: He's her boyfriend. He's learned her nonverbal cues, and she helps him not do anything too stupid. But overall, these two are the definition of partners in crime. And cuddle buddies.

Haru: Absolute beasties. Have a bit more of a big brother, little sister relationship.

Fuyu: They have a father daughter relationship. Especially because Sunny age regresses. Fuyu somehow became her caregiver. He's not even sure how that happened. They bonded over their mutual love of the theater.

[agerefandom]

Other Fandoms

fandoms in red are fandoms that I don't know personally, but I've done art or moodboards for them! fandoms in purple are ones that I have moderate familiarity with, but I can't write every character. The rest are ones that I just haven't made as much content for.

Ace Attorney regressor!apollo edit regressor!edgeworth with cg!gumshoe moodboard

The Addams Family caregiver!morticia moodboard

All For The Game regressor!kevin and cg!andrew moodboard

Avatar: The Last Airbender Flourishing in Sunlight: post-canon fic with cg!Zuko and regressor!Katara gaang agere art regressor!sokka moodboard

Barbie Movie regressor!ken moodboard

The Boy regressor!brahms headcanons

Castlevania (Netflix) regressors!trevor and alucard moodboards/headcanons

Check Please regressor!jack headcanons (ask game)  regressor!bitty art

Coraline regressor!wybie moodboard

Corpse Bride regressor!victor van dort moodboard regressor!emily art

Criminal Minds season one gang regression headcanons regressor!spencer and cg!derek art

Danganronpa regressor!toko, chihiro, and yasuhiro edits bunny regressor!mikan tsumiki moodboard regressor!chihiro moodboard caregiver!sakura moodboard regressor!ishimaru moodboard w themes of cg!mondo

DC Content regressor!harley quinn moodboard (comics) regressor!oswald moodboard (gotham) regressor!joker moodbard (telltale series) regressor!flash moodboard (cw)

Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde Once Upon A Midnight Dreary: fanfiction with regressor!henry jekyll

Frankenstein  regressor!victor frankenstein headcanons regressor!adam (the monster) headcanons

Ghibli Movies  big sister kiki headcanons  agere edit of haru (the cat returns)

Heathers agere!JD art regressor!veronica art regressor!heather macnamara moodboard

Hadestown caregiver!hades headcanons regressor!eurydice moodboard

Hunger Games caregiver!katniss moodboard

Interview With The Vampire To Have, To Hold, To Drink: fanfiction with cg!louis and regressor!lestat regressor!lestat moodboard

It caregiver!pennywise headcanons

Labyrinth  caregiver!jareth and regressor!reader

Little Shop of Horrors Skid Row Blues: fanfiction with orin walking in on regressor!seymour regressor!orin headcanons

Lore Olympus regressor!hades and cg!hecate moodboard

The Magic School Bus caregiver!ms.frizzle headcanons

Maze Runner regressor!minho moodboard regressor!newt moodboard

Les Miserables Calling You Home: fanfiction with regressor!Enjolras and caregiver!Grantaire

The Muppets regressor!beaker moodboard

My Little Pony cg!starlight glimmer moodboard regressor!sunset shimmer art/edits

The Mysterious Benedict Society regressor!kate moodboard regressor!nicholas benedict moodboard/headcanons

Natasha, Pierre, and the Great Comet of 1812  Natasha is Young: fanfiction about regressor!Natasha and cg!Helene

Night At The Museum caregiver!Jedediah and Octavius art

The Owl House regressor!willow moodboard regressors!ed and em moodboard

Raven Cycle headcanons (gansey, ronan, noah, adam, and blue)  regressor!noah moodboard

Rick and Morty regressor!morty headcanons

Rocky Horror Picture Show regressor!rocky moodboard

Sandman regressor!desire headcanons thoughts on regressor!dream regressor!dream moodboard

Sherlock regressor!sherlock and cg!john headcanons cg!john watson moodboard

Smile For Me regressor!boris habit moodboard regressor!boris habit edit regressor!habit with cg!kamal art more regressor!habit art

Star Trek regressor!jim and caregivers!bones and spock headcanons regressor!jim moodboard w themes of cg!bones regressor!jim and cg!sam moodboard(strange new worlds) regressor!jim and cg!spock art

Stranger Things regressor!eleven headcanons

The Untamed regressor!lan zhan moodboard regressor!wei ying moodboards

V for Vendetta caregiver!V headcanons cg!v moodboard

Welcome To Night Vale regressor!cecil and cg!carlos headcanons cg!carlos moodboard cg!cecil moodboard

Wicked regressors!elphaba and glinda headcanons

World’s End regressor!gary king headcanons

X-Files regressor!Dana and Fox headcanons

Youtubers  regressor!dan howell headcanons cg!markiplier moodboard

[takabinaryy]

Rainy days

Originally posted on April 15th 2023 Idea by me , inspired by @cutiecorner Parent/Caregiver- Alfred Pennyworth Son/Little- Bruce Wayne Bruce has a toddler headspace

Also "Tommy" is a nickname that both Martha & Alfred would call him since Bruce's middle name is Thomas, of course Tommy is the nickname for Thomas. Their Tumblr is mostly about dc agere stuff and the adorable Dadfred & BabyBat art & fanfics )

It was a rainy day in Gotham City which meant no playing outside. Even if Bruce really wanted to play in the mud puddles, he's just sitting on the floor with a couple of pillows, blankets, and stuffies. The regressed master in question was looking out the window pouting watching the rain fall against the window sill.

" Sweetheart, I'm aware you wish to play out there. However if I were to let you do that , you'll catch a cold. And we wouldn't want that"

He whips his head around to look at his adoptive father/ caregiver, with a even more pouty look then before. Bruce doesn't want to get sick , he hates being icky like that. Alfred tsks and bends slightly to his son's sitting height, and pops a frog themed paci in his mouth.

" Now little love let's go make star cookies , and later you may help me make dinner. How does that sound? Helping Papa?"

The little sucks on his paci thinking it over , he loves helping papa cook and baking. And the star cookies? Those are the best oatmeal raisin chocolate chip cookies ever! And in his favorite shape? He guesses he can play outside other day , when it's not raining out. Bruce nods his head , he made up his mind on wanting to help papa. Alfred smiles and gets up taking the toddle's hand , bringing them to the kitchen.

" Now what are we supposed to do first?"

" wash hands papa!"

" That's right Tommy baby"

Bruce smiles hearing his nickname for his middle name. For some reason he just loved being called that by his papa and by his mommy when she was alive. Bruce gives his paci to papa so it doesn't get dirty  , washes his hands. His papa puts it on the counter planning to wash it after they are done baking. After awhile Alfred puts the star shaped cookies in the oven, setting a timer for 20 minutes on the little norpro chicken timer, he turns to Bruce. Who has flour on his sweater , hands , and face, honestly he doesn't know how the little could possibly get flour all over himself, a bath is definitely in order then.

" Alright Tommy dear , I do believe it's bath time" " wit bubbles?"

Alfred nods his head with a smile on his face, already knowing his boy would want bubbles, specifically with the soft lavender soap the baby loves oh so much. The father picks up his regressed child easily(he's old but he's not weak) heading up the stairs to the boy's bathroom that's connected to the bedroom. He sets Bruce down on the floor as he gets the bath water going. He even adds a few bath toys , such as a few colorful plastic boats and a water based toy octopus. Once the tub starts filling up , Alfred helps Bruce out of his clothes including the semi-wet pull-up. Now undressed he gets his boy in the tub adding the bubbles, watching the little's eyes light up seeing said bubbles form and flow around him in the water. His papa lets him play around a bit as the older man gets his son's clothes together before he washes the baby.

Now all clean up , Alfred pulls the pug to drain the water , he gets Bruce out wrapping him up in a yellow duck towel with a hood on it. Said little giggles from the forehead kisses he's given , as he's guided back in his room and layed down on the bed.

Alfred gets him dressed in a diaper and a long sleeve space themed snapped crotch onesie, and cute grey's jocks with ruffles around the ankle. Bruce gets handed his beloved stuffed animal Mr. Haru the stuffed Whale shark , he happily holds him to his chest making happy noises behind his star themed paci. The baby gets picked up again and brought to the living room down stairs, and gently set down on the pillows and blankets he had been sitting on a few hours ago.

" What would you like to watch ? Or do you maybe want to color?"

"Oh? Please papa"

" You may do both Tommy , is there something specific you would like to watch while papa gets your arts and crafts stuff out?"

" Hmm munsters please"

" Such good manners little love"

Alfred gets the show on for the baby , then takes the cookies out setting them on the counter to cool down. He fills a sippy cup up with half mango juice and water then gets a few coloring books and crayons. Walking back to his regressed son , setting the items down in front of them , the sits down on the couch watching Bruce get lost in his own little word.

[deehwang]

Dua malam ini Ibuku sakit gigi dan aku sudah pesankan obat dari kota terdekat. Di kotaku, semua stok obat minyak cengkeh andalan kami kosong. Tanganku juga belum membaik--sejak Desember. Pelayanan di rumah sakit payah. Salah seorang penulis yang kukenal dari kota lain mengabarkan beberapa Minggu lalu ia baru menjalani bedah area pergelangan tangan, dan aku agak resah juga. Aku benar-benar berharap untuk tidak berurusan dengan dokter yang tidak begitu kusukai di sini--apalagi menjalani prosedur medis semacam itu dengannya.

Soalan tangan ini tidak begitu mengganggu. Sebaliknya aku memikirkan ini semalaman--kalau kamu tinggal jauh dari orangtuamu, jangan pernah berpikir bahwa uang dapat menyelesaikan semuanya. Tak peduli seberapa banyaknya uangmu, itu tak cukup dan kadang gak relevan. Jadi kalau kamu merasa memberi atau membelikan mereka sesuatu itu cukup menjadikanmu anak berbakti dan 'ingat orangtua', kamu salah. Para lansia memiliki keluhan fisik lebih sering, dan membutuhkan kekuatan mental yang besar sebagai caregiver.

Aku juga memahami ini semalam. Aku menikmati rasanya berdiri di kondisi finansial free; tanpa hutang tanpa cicilan, simpanan lumayan, bersyukur bisa lihat semuanya dengan terang dari laku hidup sederhana. Hidupku, dimulai di usia 30-an, sempurna. Aku gak perlu pura-pura harus terlihat sama seperti orang lain, karena dimampukan. Aku bisa memutuskan mau jalan apa, jadi apa, di usia segini. Tapi ternyata masih ada retak di jalan mulus yang sudah kubangun--entah mengapa aku merasa paling hopeless setiap kali melihat Ibuku sakit.

Cepat sembuh, Ibu. Tinggal berdekatan sama orangtua itu sepadan sebetulnya, apalagi dengan pembicaraan-pembicaraan yang mendalam seiring berjalannya waktu. Misalnya, aku jadi tahu bahwa saat aku pertama kali memutuskan tinggal di kota lain, itu waktu-waktu yang berat buat ibuku. Katanya, berjauhan dari anak membuatnya patah hati. Itu keputusan terberat yang dibuatnya dalam hidup.

[ukigumos]

[ 𝐫𝐮𝐧 + Reverse] : in a dangerous setting, sender tells receiver to run to safety. ((OOC: It might work? I'm making a valiant attempt to send things into him, kekek. I won't let him nap his life away))

UKIGUMOS - »❝浮雲❞« 𝐝𝐞𝐬𝐩𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧.

Kyouya exhaled through his nose, hastily making his way down to the school gates where commotion had broken out. Like an army of ants, the unkept critters of the streets had blocked the entrance. They were harassing a lone student who was on his knees. Only one other person was nearby.

"Miura Haru."

She must've been on her way to feed the birds, only to get caught up in the kerfuffle. Was she trying to diffuse this on her own? It wasn't her responsibility, but he couldn't deny that he was mildly impressed (and perhaps even grateful?)

Kyouya brushed past the caregiver, making sure to subtly shield her so he could clean up the mess.

Miura Haru was smart, surely she'd get the message and go retreat.

[entity56]

trying to distract myself so I'm gonna introduce us a little bit more (they can edit this if they arent happy with it) We are a diversian, hydraconscious traumagenic system. We are brainmade-heavy, with two OCtives and one factive. Entity/Aspen (me): Core and host, aged 16. Long list of mental issues, increasing list of physical issues and countless social issues. Don't really have a personality. Genderqueer, sapioromantic and asexual. They/them Aidan: First headmate to form (according to speculation). Trauma holder, gatekeeper, former persecutor turned protector. Has a god/sadist complex and is very open about it. 23 years old, cisgender male, aroace. Alterhuman (does not ID as human without getting specific, has an 'eldritch face'). Can't tell if he's dreagenic from our trauma nightmares or formed and decided to stay in our dreams for a while. Struggles with SH. He/him Damien: Split off from Aidan, first to present. Despite this, he has a very blurry grasp on his personality, like me-- and he doesn't seem to mind. Protector and anger holder. Previously host, now retired. 17 years old, cisgender male, questioning if he's gay or bi. Alterhuman (also does not ID as human without getting specific, but is a demon otherlink). Struggles with... punching walls. He/him Erie: Third headmate to form, second to present herself. Irish. Caregiver, protector, peacemaker. 32 years old, cisgender female, heterosexual. Previously a married housewife with 3 children. Very Christian, but not bigoted. She/her Jade: Dreagenic (specifically from our trauma nightmares). Anxiety holder. 14 years old, demigirl, unknown orientation. Has never had a body before forming in our headspace, so easily dissociates. She/they Haru: Fanganronpa OCtive. Full name is Haru Masuda. We... don't really know what he does. 19 years old, cisgender male, very gay. Japanese ringmaster. He/him Hera: Original story OCtive. Full name is Hera Roswell. British. Don't know specific role, but she fronts/influences occasionally to help focusing on schoolwork or writing. Formed roughly the same time Haru started presenting himself. 17(?) years old, demigirl, lesbian. Enjoys classical music and keyboard ASMR. Presents as POC insys. She/they Zim: Factive of a previous favorite person. Contrary to his source, he does much more work to be nicer, but is struggling to separate from source. Hypersexuality holder, ED holder, self sabotager. 15 years old, transgender male, gay. Enjoys Radiohead and Scott Pilgrim. Most recent formed. He/they/it

[jaydangan]

Ocs/Fanmade Characters tag <3

🎻🖤 Ultimate Violinist 🖤🎻 - Lysandre Goldberg

💘😇 Ultimate Cupid😇💘 - Haru Tsugawa

🙏🖤 Ultimate Exorcist 🖤🙏 - Mary Campbell

🎨🌈 Ultimate Graffiti Artist 🌈🎨 - Luka Rainson

🍕🙂 Ultimate Pizza Maker 🙂🍕 - Mattheo Salvatori

🍴💜 Ultimate Pastel Maker 💜🍴 - Amaichi Ishimiiki

👊😡 Ultimate Street Fighter 😡👊 - Kiyosaki Hirusami

🎊💕 Ultimate Cheerleader 💕🎊 - Suyami Nieshida

🖤👀 Ultimate Spy 👀🖤 - Z

✏️❤️ Ultimate Mathematician ❤️✏️ - Mayumi Sato

🥃❤️‍🔥 Ultimate Host❤️‍🔥🥃 - "Satou"

🦶👊 Ultimate MMA fighter👊🦶 - Yudi Ito

⚡💞 Ultimate Eletricist 💞⚡ - Atsuko Tsumenki

💖👶Ultimate Child Caregiver 👶💖 - Rurumi

🍀😠 Ultimate Lucky Student 😠🍀 - Gorō

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🍀💥 Ultimate lucky student 💥🍀 - Fumehaki Shinefukaru

🎩💙 Ultimate Vintage collector 💙🎩 - Edward Norton

💣💥Ultimate Bomber💥💣 - Hiroshi Koga

MORE TO ADD LATER

[kakusu-shipping]

🐈 🐯 and 🦝 for Muta and/or Mr. Grizz????? Wanna know what those furballs are up to! :3

After thinking about it I decided to answer this one for Muta, just cause I feel like the questions are better for him!

(The following S/I is a Kitten regressor, and only regresses when at the Cat Bureau while shrunk down to cat size, like what happens to Haru in the movie)

🐈- Do they have any toys they like to play with you while you're regressed?

Muta has a handful of cat toys I bought him that he never plays with, typical mouse, feathers on stick, string, ball that rattles, normal dollar store pet toys.

When I'm regressed he stands up and plays with them, him as a person and me as the kitten. I guess he thinks they're childish fkgjkdfd

He started doing this because I use to bat at his tail when little.

🐯- What would your ideal day with your fictional caregiver look like?

Go to the Bureau, eat Toto's yummy sponge cake with mulberries and whipped cream, be read aloud to by the Baron, play with my kitty kitty toys, take a loooong nap in the sun on top of Muta, eat more cake with tea, and go back to sleep~

🦝- What are they like as a caregiver?

A lot of people would say Baron or even Toto would be better.. And they're kiiiinda right.

Baron's nice and patient, he's calm and a gifted improviser. He can run with most anything a little could throw at him and never seem phased by it. He can play, or sit quietly and color or read. He'd adaptable, and will do anything to please.

Toto's fun, he can keep up with an active little, play games upon games upon games without tiring. He always has a snack at the ready and is very good at soothing an owie all the rough playing caused.

Muta's grumpy, sharp tongued and loves to complain. He doesn't want to chase a baby around, he doesn't want to clean up messes and kiss booboos. He doesn't want to baby talk and coo and ooh and aah all over a little.

But I love Muta very much, and he does things for me he wouldn't do for anyone else because he loves me too. He's not a perfect caregiver, he panics easy and gets tired when I'm too much. He doesn't always fulfill my every desire, truth be told he's a lot more likely to try to talk me into laying down with him, but he is always there.

He didn't get it, but he learned. He's not perfect, but he's trying. If it's part of me, then it's a part he loves and will do his best to engage with, because he loves all of me.

[unimiff]

Before My Memory Fades

A Blessing in Disguise from "Hospital Staycation"

Jadi, qadarullah dini hari Rabu, 3 Mei 2023 hingga sore hari Sabtu, 6 Mei 2023 kemarin dikasih nikmat sama Allah buat staycation di Rumah Sakit. Yang kukabari memang hanya yang terkait pekerjaan dan aktivitasku di komunitas, karena takut menzalimi orang lain selama ada yang tidak ter-handle. Akumulasi kejadian yang menjadi penyebab dan pemicunya serta bagian sedih-sedihnya kita skip saja. Sebelum berpindah ke tugas lain, sebelum ingatan atas kejadian ini memudar, aku ingin membagikan beberapa hal di tulisan ini. Bismillah, semoga bisa menjadi pengingat untuk diri sendiri pada masa depan nanti. Syukur-syukur juga kalau teman-teman yang membaca bisa mengambil kebaikan dari tulisan ini. Untuk penyebab, yang jelas pasti sesuai dengan perkataan Allah bahwa musibah itu ada unsur perbuatan sendiri yang menjadi penyebabnya.

Selama ini, ke RS seringnya menjadi caregiver alias pendamping pasien. Pengennya juga kalau menjadi pasien, cukup saat-saat kabar bahagia seperti melahirkan anak manusia ke dunia saja nantinya, jika Allah izinkan. Saat harus dirawat, aku langsung ingat pemikiran dan ucapan itu ketika berbincang dengan seorang teman. Benarlah bahwa kita akan diuji dengan ucapan-ucapan kita. Alhamdulillah, Allah mengingatkan dengan cara yang unik begini. Ada banyak hikmah di balik musibah kemarin. Ada banyak hal yang membuatku semakin sadar dan bersyukur. Beberapanya aku bagikan di sini.

Kejadian kemarin menyadarkanku bahwa seharusnya aku semakin bersyukur punya keluarga yang di balik flaws dan segala ketidaksempurnaannya, sangat menyayangiku. Aku yang selama ini kadang abai dengan urusan keluarga, sibuk dengan dunia sendiri karena merasa yang lain sudah punya keluarga dan dunia masing-masing, kembali diingatkan tentang tempatku bermula dan tempatku pulang: rumah. Umak sat set beberes segala macam keperluan ke RS. Apa kooperatif meskipun beliau juga seharusnya butuh pendampingan. Abang ipar dan keponakan tengah malam menempuh jarak puluhan kilometer agar nih bocah bisa segera ditangani dengan tepat. Uti yang mengurus administrasi, semuanya saling membahu. Grup keluarga yang ramai mendoakan. And I'll give extra credits to my Mom. Pada saat suami, anak, dan diri beliau sendiri sebenarnya tidak bisa dikatakan sehat juga, beliau bisa berperan dan bermain dengan sangat cantik. Mohon doakan agar Umak senantiasa diberikan kesehatan dan kebaikan, di sini dan kehidupan selanjutnya nanti.

Aku juga semakin menyadari pentingnya nikmat yang selama ini diberikan Allah dengan cuma-cuma. Kedua tangan untuk memegang dan beraktivitas, yang rasanya taken for granted, baru terasa janggalnya saat dipasang selang infus di tangan kiriku. Beraktivitas dengan satu tangan saja yang bebas ternyata tidak menyenangkan. Apalagi setelah beberapa hari, tangan kiri bengkak dan infusnya dipindah ke tangan kanan. Rasanya semakin sulit, terutama ketika mau ke toilet. Setelah kembali "memiliki" tangan yang bebas bahkan untuk mengetik dengan 10 jari begini, senang sekali rasanya. Alhamdulillah.

Aku juga bersyukur diberi kolega yang mengerti kondisi dan thoughtful sekali bahkan sampai memikirkan jenis makanan yang sesuai untuk aku konsumsi. Aku jadi berpikir, apakah selama ini aku telah memberikan makanan yang halal dan thayyib untuk tubuh ini atau belum, dengan cara yang baik atau belum. Tubuh ini punya hak. Apakah aku sudah menunaikan semua haknya? Kejadian ini jadi semacam wake up call. Oh ya, saat selera makan sudah mulai muncul lagi, aku juga jadi semakin menghargainya. Selama ini, makan ya makan aja. Mindful eating mah masih jauh.

Selain itu, aku juga jadi bersyukur karena pernah mencoba naik gunung dan tidak mandi selama beberapa hari wkwk. Karena ternyata, pada saat waktunya tiba, kita harus bisa menyesuaikan untuk bertahan dengan keterbatasan.

Tentu saja, aku juga semakin menyadari besarnya arti nikmat kesehatan. Rencana-rencana, harapan-harapan, rasanya sulit diwujudkan dengan kesehatan yang terganggu. Semoga nikmat sehat dan sempatnya bisa kita isi dengan hal-hal yang baik, ya. Karena saat sakit, baru terasa bahwa kesehatan itu mahal sekali harganya.

Namun, saat sakit juga aku jadi berpikir bahwa mungkin Allah sedang ingin menunjukkan kasih sayang-Nya dengan cara seperti ini. Aku yang selama ini banyak dosa, Allah berikan jalan untuk menggugurkannya melalui rasa sakit. Hanya saja, ada syaratnya yaitu sabar. Nah, untuk ini entahlah, semoga Allah memaklumi kesabaranku yang setipis tisu ini. Aku juga jadi makin menyadari bahwa diri ini bukan siapa-siapa, dan sangat bergantung pada-Nya. Sedikit saja nikmat yang dicabut, buyar sudah. Tanpa bantuan orang lain, pun, aku bukan apa-apa. Bahkan kemarin-kemarin, untuk ganti baju pun harus dibantu karena tangan tidak bebas. Untuk jaga aurat dengan baik harus dibantu.

Mungkin itu saja dulu yang mau aku bagikan. Setelah ini, rasanya banyak PR dan ketertinggalan yang perlu dilakukan. Namun, lagi-lagi diingatkan untuk mengatur pace dan ingat hak tubuh sendiri. Ada yang bisa kita kejar, ada yang baiknya dilepas dan direlakan saja. Perlebar batas toleransi. Sabar, satu per satu.

Sehat-sehat semuanya. Terima kasih sudah berkunjung dan membaca sambatan yang semoga ada hikmahnya ini!

Simpang Empat saat bumi diguyur hujan

Ahad pagi, 7 Mei 2023

[teenyweenyeenymeeny]

I know u csn obviously tell who this is ;3 but who in ur opinion is the most to least CG coded of the phantom thieves im very interested to see what u think bc i cant decide

WELL you have definitely come to the expert. ough this will b difficult though. this will be. Biased especially since it has been soooso long since I actually played the game

Number one ummm Haru 🥺 mostly because of nepotism I will not deny that… but waaa mommymommymommy just imagine having tea parties with her… she would have lovely stuffed animals that she would let you cuddle all you want… even though she was the type of kid to keep her toys so neat and tidy you’d think they are brand new even now so maybe you would b worried about messing them up but she would not mind! she knows how to wash them without damaging them if they are properly messy and if they are just getting to look “well loved” she thinks that is sweet!! oughhhgh imagine wearing the sweetest little outfits she picks out for you… I love her sooo much waaa

Number two… is Makoto probably! She is more obvious I think than Haru? Because Makoto is the responsible one! She’s mama friend! She is good at planning and making sure everything goes well! Like she will make sure she always has some of your baby things with her even if you are big Just In Case and she prepares cute lunchboxes! You can go on picnics nd stuff with her or maybe they are for school :0 nd also. Buchimaru. Friend to you both. I like it when cgs like cute things as well 🤍

Number three is Ann iii am trying so hard to not be too biased I would put her higher if I let myself be more biased. She just ouuughg waaa she is so sweet 🥺 I’m SO sorry that I can’t have a coherent thought about her. Mmmmm sharing lots of desserts! Spoil. Each Other >:) even though uh oh sometimes you end up with tummy aches together also </3 cuddle all better 🥺 nd mmmm Ann does dress up with you waaa she is good at. Fashion so you know when she says you look soso cute then t means a lot!!

Number four is Ryuji ough he’s like. Big brother most EVER he deserves to be in a rank together with Ann I think together they r like. Cool big brother and sister who let you join in on their big kid games but r soso patient with you if you don’t get them. SO so sorry to Ryuji to not say as much about him as th girls I promise I lovlovlov him it is just. Hard to Organise My Thoughts the longer I spend writing this hdkdjdjd I like him so much

Number five is Yusuke ough he does. Arts and crafts with you mainly like ough wht f he draws a picture and then you colour it in… obviously fingerpainting. Nd mmm he can paint your face like your favourite animal if you want! You make a picture for him and he goes oh your attention to detail is exquisite little one and then he puts it somewhere special 🤍 he doesn’t put on a baby voice for you at all he doesn’t get the appeal

Number six is Akira I’m SORRY the only reason he is so far down is because he’s way more baby to me 🥺 I know this is not a cg → baby ranking but. It Does have an effect on his ranking. Although just a teeny one because if I didn’t have to give them all their own numbers they would all be number one 🥺 mmm he is good at caregiving but not a caregiver you know. Like he is. Thoughtful and kind and lovely but he’s also just a baby it is like a little kid with a hamster like… yes he is so good at taking care of it but maybe don’t leave him unsupervised for too long. You know. Like especially if you are doing something fun while little he will start to feel little as well 🤍

Number seven is Morgana I’m sorry but he is. Kitty adjacent. He cares for you as much as a kitty can!! He can cuddle with you and be a weight on your chest and nuzzle into you but he cannot make a bottle or be cuddled INTO or help you get ready for bed. He tries his best though 🥺

Number eight is Futaba I’m SO SORRY I like her SO MUCH and she is not BAD at caregiving she is like Akira… she is lovely at caregiving she just needs to also be reassured throughout or she would worry she is doing it wrong 🥺 she regresses too but like. Not quite baby she is like tween and perhaps then is when she does best with littler regressors cuz she can feel like a cool big sister and show off all her cool stuff

Number nine is Akechi. I’m sorry except I am not because this guy is the only person I am confident on the placement of. He is either the fussiest grumpiest baby or he is easily irritated by kids. If he is trying to take care of someone he would not SHOW that but. You know

Sorry to Sumire enjoyers. I do not remember her well and I don’t think it would be fair to her to rank her

[mutiarafirdaus]

Harapan Hari Kedua

"Cerdas itu pemberian. Sedangkan baik itu harus diupayakan. Umi tentu saja lebih milih anak anak Umi menjadi orang yang baik."

Kemarinan ajakin Umi untuk ikutan tes MBTI, ada salah satu pertanyaan yang kurang lebih tertulis begini, "Jika anda sebagai orangtua, anda lebih memilih untuk memiliki anak yang baik dibandingkan anak yang cerdas."

Dan Umi tentu saja memilih opsi sangat setuju 🤣 Ketika aku complain, "Iih umii kan cerdas juga penting." Maka kutipan diataslah yang jadi jawaban Umi.

Seru liatin Umi isi tes MBTI, banyak hal hal yang aku baru tau dari Umi dalam menyikapi studi kasus yang ada di pertanyaan. Dan terkejut sekali ketika hasil MBTI Umi yang pendiam dan super kalem ini adalah Ekstrovert!!🤣

Pantesan yaa Umi selalu terisi energi dan ada aja amunisinya buat keluar hampir setiap hari mengisi lingkaran ke lingkaran bertemu banyak orang. Bahkan Umi sendiri juga pernah bilang, kalau Umi nggak disibukkan dengan kegiatan itu justru membuat beliau jadi memikirkan hal hal yang tidak penting dan jadi rawan terjebak mempertanyakan ini kenapa begini, ini kenapa begitu.

Jadi mendingan Umi keluar beraktifitas bertemu dengan orang orang di luar. Wow, dugaanku selama ini terpatahkan tentang Umi yang seorang super introvert 🤣

Dan hasilnya adalah Umi seorang ESFJ, Sang Konsul! Uwaa pantesan selama ini jago betul Umi berperan sebagai facilitator, caregiver and caretaker. Sekaligus jadi konsultan kehidupanku yang penuh drama dan overthinking wkwkwkwk

Ini mirip mirip fenomena terungkapnya golongan darahku yang ternyata selama ini AB :") Mengetahui Umi seorang Extrovert yang mengisi energinya lewat pihak orang orang luar, aku jadi semakin memahami aktifnya Umi berkegiatan di luar selain giat Umi yang tinggi akan dakwah, ternyata hal itu membuat Umi bahagia dan mengisi jiwanya juga.

Harapannya di hari ini, semoga Umi selalu bahagia melakoni peran Umi sebagai hamba. Semoga Umi gabosen beri kami nasihat yang selalu diulang ulang karena terus mengulang kesalahan. Semoga Umi mendapat jariyah dari petuah-petuah yang diberikan. Tos sesama Extrovert!!

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