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reggie-gremlin · 1 year

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"What's it about?"

"Basically about my experience being aromantic and asexual. Like, being in a world where romance and sex are prized above everything when you don't feel those forms of attraction. Growing up feeling that something about you is different, but you don't have the words to describe what that is. But then, freedom. The euphoria of freeing yourself from those pressures and expectations."

- Heartstopper, Season 2, Episode 7

#this tore me into tiny little pieces and scattered them in the wind #i didn't realise how much aroace isaac meant to me until we got him #this is why i love heartstopper so much #you're gonna find yourself somewhere eventually #alice oseman is the reason i figured out so many things about myself #i was about to cry watching this scene #heartstopper #alice oseman #isaac henderson #aro #ace #aromantic #asexual #heartstopper season 2 #and with crush culture in the background too

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smoshingatut · 4 months

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I'm kinda tired of dungeon meshi fans blatantly misinterpreting Kabru's goals, motivations, and character so they can ship him with Laios...like obviously it's awesome if you enjoy Laikabu but can you nooot twist Kabru's intentions for involving himself with the guy who constantly triggers his monster trauma and pisses him off so bad he gets brain damage so that he turns into "the guy who wants to suck Laios's dick" as his entire character? I've even seen people cut off Kabru's words to make it seem like he is admiring Laios because it would disrupt that narrative

#how can you think marcille hates laios and kabru wants to fuck him that's not.......canon.....#every time I see stuff of them it’s people being like 'oh kabru loves it so much when laios reminds him of his traumatic past'#be it his eyes/monsters/or the succubus thing 'he just HAS to fuck laios'#kui was noooooot intending for kabru to be lusting after that man!!!#i love laios but come ON why dont you actually care about KABRU tooooo #for l4bru to actually work one of them would have to suppress a big part of themselves and its ALWAYS on kabru it’s so insufferable #it's just like how some people misconstrued fem!toshiro blushing about laios to be her crushing on him when it was obv the same discomfort #but it made the microaggressions even worse because of the gender difference AS WELL as the culture difference #SIGH #i prommis ryoko kui did not create kabru so he can think about sucking laioss humungous donger all day fhsdkfhskjh #L4ikabu is the worst case I’ve seen of people twisting things for their ship because it’s literally just not true…#blatant misreading of the text goes crazy!!!!#like sure they're foils but what about the actual dynamic...w8 don't think about that actually cuz yoikes lol #obviously not threatening anyone who ships them please just stop saying it's canon oh my g #pwease actually read what kabru says he lays it out really clearly and has a super interesting backstory that drives his actions 🥲#i dont expect anyone to read this because im not using a tag but if u do then...🫢😯#i dont understand y ppl like it so much when laios ignores kabru so hard KABRU DESERVES BETTER #I’ve never felt like this about any ship before wow it just makes me 🫷

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wikitpowers · 9 months

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Ty paused too, rooting around in the pocket of his hoodie. "I have something for you." Kit rolled up the bag of chips and stashed it behind a rock. "You do?"

Ty produced a small white stone, about the size of a golf ball, with a rune etched into it. "Your witchlight rune-stone. Every shadowhunter has one." He took Kit's hand unselfconsciously and pressed the stone into his palm. A hot flutter went through Kit's stomach surprising him. He'd never felt anything like it before.

#this scene was a cultural reset #fr i get so messed up EVERY. SINGLE. TIME.#it's actually maddening #i feel like i'm losing my marbles #(oh wait that's probably because i am)#the way ty is so thoughtful and ofc thought about kit not have a witchlight stone???#and then simply gifting him one bc why not #and kit being so soft and grateful #and also clearly having the fattest crush is-#im so gone for them #kit herondale #ty blackthorn #kit x ty #kitty #the dark artifices #the wicked powers #tda #twp #tsc

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mysticbeaver · 2 months

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Thinking of @t-allyitup 's kevrolf fanart, I wonder if Rolf were to find out Kevin's crush on him, how would he react. Or if Kevin were to spit it out, I'm guessing it would be lost in translation ("what do you mean you will crush Rolf??? 😡") and then Kevin has to awkwardly explain with other words

#i imagine rolf would be very flattered (and flustered haha)#he might even get emotional #cause he has his cultural rituals so he takes these things very seriously #and he's already making movies in his mind as if kevin gave him an engagement ring lol #thinking “omg rolf will become married and become a family man” and he gets completely overwhelmed #meanwhile kevin's going “dude SLOW DOWN i just said i got a crush on you i ain't getting married”#kevrolf

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kaimactrash · 7 months

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Finally got around to doing that meme where you draw your comfort characters as Garnet and Steven in that one awful SU 'fan' comic.

Both of my comfort characters are kinda bad people, but even so, I feel like they'd be fairly enthusiastic to kick anyones ass.

The mall goth is Amber Sweet from Repo! the Genetic Opera and the emo is Matthew Patel from the Scott Pilgrim franchise.

Amber encouraging all of Matthews's worst character traits could be a crazy but fun few days for them, and terror for anyone in their paths!

I used to draw these two a bunch and it was SO much joy to work on them again! I love them both with my whole heart and I will excuse any misdeed they do. (joke)

#no genders only alternate fashion sub cultures :P #amber sweet #matthew patel #scott pilgrim #repo! the genetic opera #RTGO #I have the biggest crush on both of these weirdos #I couldn't really think of anything snappy or funny for matthew to say so fuck it lets do it!#youre lucky the scottish in me didn't have him say here we fucking go!!!#also just to make it clear I fucking hate that SU comic I am not approving of it by making this just doing a meme #and yes ofc I ship them why would I not ship two of the only concepts I'm attracted to??? who cares about universe limits #IDK if its true but I once heard repo was set in Canada too so they're not even too distance in space just in time #btw I dont think he'd natrually be much shorter than her but she wears like HIGH high heels so she looks taller than him

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coulsonlives · 2 months

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Elaboration welcome and encouraged! :) Please reblog for a bigger sample size.

#for background: i'm legit seeing posts that say it's weird/bad if a kid crushes on an older actor and i'm like #it's one of the most common experiences out there. it's almost like a rite of passage for many people #for me it was aragorn lol. i was like ten y/o and i had three posters of him in my bedroom #even my ace friend thought certain stars were cute even tho she didn't find them sexy #and i'm guessing based on what i've read/seen/heard that isn't rare. so what about y'all?#crushes #purity culture #tumblr polls #polls #proship

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flufallo · 4 months

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Monty sounds like Conan gray when he sings change my mind

#dead boy detectives #monty the crow #kid krow is litrally just him with him #also basixally all of the songs are jsut so him??#heather?? replace it with charles and it works #crush culture?? yup #people watching? obviously #the exit? why not #i found loads of pics of joshua as a child on pintrest and GODDAMN #baby monty 🥺

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horsemage · 5 months

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I think we should bring back basic etiquette lessons such as shutting the fuck up when you’re watching a movie in a group that is not exclusively your friend group 🙂

#welcome to another Mick Airs Out Their Grievances and by god is it a VERY long one #prob best if u don't expand the tags #am I being maybe a bit meaner about this than I would be for any other movie? maybe but pac rim is one of my favorite movies of all time #so I think I get a pass on this one.#one of the groups on campus is hosting movie nights & I went to this one bc I've only ever watched pac rim on my laptop and wanted to watch #it on a larger screen. yay yippee I love this movie!#there r maybe 10-ish of us in this room and a three person friend group is sitting on the couch one of whom has seen the movie and two who #have not. okay so far so normal.#and then the movie starts and they won't! stop! fucking! commentating! the whole fucking movie!!! I don't have a problem with doing that #when I'm in just my friend group because I know that I can tell my friend to stop talking or pause the movie or whatnot but not when I'm in #a large group w people I'm not good friends with ffs #and the comments aren't even funny or anything they're all oh this is JUST like in iron widow!! oh they're SO gay and autistic!!! and #they're talking so loud about this that it completely drowns out the movie audio which has already been turned up a few times #like. be considerate!! some of us want to yknow actually listen to what's going on and not whatever bullshit you're saying #I nearly walked out three or four times before I actually wound up doing so #I may have been a bit of a bitch at the end but I don't care. I got up to leave because this was not an enjoyable environment and one of #them offered to turn the movie down if it was too loud. this caught me a bit off guard since I expected them to still be so wrapped up in #their convo and. well. I may have said 'it's not the movie that's too loud' before closing the door #this also reminds me a lot about my issues with online shipping culture and it bleeding through into how we interact with media irl #this is probably heavily influenced by my aromanticism but I'm so sick of people constantly reading romantic relationships into everything #AND placing more importance on those relationships than any other form. I don't mind romance in media. I think if done right it has great #emotional impact on a story but when a movie is running and when other people who may not want to hear it are in the room watching it too #is not the time to be loudly saying 'he's autistic!' 'they're in love!' 'she has a crush on him!'#I have my own interpretations of the movie some of which agree with what they said and some of which don't but that's beside the point of #knowing how to coexist politely in public #anyway. I think they were awful and annoying and they ruined my night out.#I think I'm just so incredibly mad about this because I love the movie and I was looking forward to watching it in a group of people who #found it cool as well while still having some modicum of politeness #I almost wish I had been meaner but that's the extreme annoyance talking I think #hater hour over love u guys bye

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katstratfordfanclub · 9 months

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chat he’s just so handsome, i wish you could see him and admire his beauty. i love him so much omg

#this is anouther i love my boyfriend post #because i love him #he’s so cute #i can’t believe that i get to call him mine #i’m in a very mushy mood right now guys #clar #crush #crush culture #crushcore #ldr #relationship #long distance relationship

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2024skin · 17 days

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Thinking about the gay Mormon kid I met in middle school and how all the other Mormons were convinced he was gay-faking and actually straight

#mormon children are so funny they be like ''if someone hears me say fuck i could be disowned and excommunicated. i support u being gay tho #i'll always support you the way you are'' <- actual unironic convos i had with my mormon friend in 5th grade #like days apart first she was like i can never swear and then when i came out to my class as bi #she was the Nicest straight person about it like of course the other girls who were questioning or already knew were supportive #straight kids had a more diverse opinion on it lol but this mormon girl got me she was so good #definitely part of my gay awakening bc i spent months being like ''i cant be bi bc if i was i would have a crush on Her. but i dont''#''i only feel this way bc she has beautiful red hair and freckles which i adore and she is super sweet to me. thats not gay''#and this went on for 3 months and then i had a wet dream about a different girl and i was like OH. well the evidence is growing #wow these tags have nothing to do with this gay mormon kid lololol nothing much to say about him #i didnt know him very well tbh like we spoke a little bit and he did come out to me but most of what i learned about him was rumors #and def i feel like he got the typical gay kid treatment of being ostracized lied about and picked on #idk why you would choose to subject urself to that if u arent ssa like it is not easy to be out in this area #its maybe not Dangerous bc more people are coming out every year but its certainly still viewed as a severe sin #its not seen as a neutral thing by mosr churches although several churches have sprung up that specifically welcome and accept lgbt people #thats a super interesting divide to me bc i Still meet christians who cant even hear about gay people without talking #about how sad gayness is and how gay souls are in danger and the last time i ever visited a church the sermon was homophobic #yet the city decorates for pride every year and even certain churches will decorate for it #the culture is certainly changing lolol but as long as there are ''gay love is sodomy'' christians around here #then its always going to be a struggle for lgb youth bc they are straight up hostile

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fyloune-taylorsversion · 1 year

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My favorite Sirius black variant

#conan gray #he’s so dramatic I love him #Sirius black variant #fanart #superache #kid krow #memories #crush culture #people watching

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ek-ranjhaan · 8 months

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Okay so I've reached a point where if I don't say this out loud, I'll go mad (more like ask ut out loud).

There's this guy okay? He is an academic topper, sporty, extremely quiet and calm (doesn't talk to girls at all), only has male friends. (At one point my friends and I use to ship him with guyz). From what I've heard, he doesn't date, or do any type of romantic relationships. Like he legit a reserved af and soft spoken introvert. (Totally 180° of me) Girls legit don't approach him. And he is cute (too cute).

And i like him (too much)

TT

:>

So the guy looks at me, sometimes. (Ofc i know cuz i always look at him) and the thing is, he doesn't look away. Like wat. Are u tryin to be intimidating cuz there's legit a zoo going on in my stomach when you look at me, on top of it, like that.

And I'm honestly observing this for quite a while now. He looks at me when I'm looking at him, AND DOES NOT LOOK AWAY. T T

I dont fuckin know okay? I don't know.

Now please tell me what should i do? My desi eldest daughter asss can not bear this zoo stress any further.

Anyone and everyone, please reply as to whatever you feel about this. Anything's fine.

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slimeciclecock · 6 months

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Forgive me for the person I'll become when Missa releases all his new music <- delusional

#been on a missa kick lately which I've never really shared #been getting reeeeally into some of his music and lowkey getting a crush on him 😳🥰#and like. who cares if its been a month or smth. im still very obsessed with that stream he did where he showed off music he was working on #like his voice is insanely good and im going crazy like. to this day i still dont know if he plans to release all that or if that was just-#-scrapped music. with how excited he was when showing music i dont think its scrapped? but idk #dont wanna get my hopes up but. gah #also im just gonna come right out and say it. missa sinfonia is fucking hot as hell #he's so insanely hot and attractive and the music makes him hotter and he's so funny and grhgrgjfrh #ive been a little bit a lot obsessed lately. oh my god how are you so damn attractive #ive kinda told myself that if i ever get a partner the first thing i would do is show him missa and make them fall for him like i did #he's like. handsome like a guy from my culture. does that make sense #missa sinfonia has malay guy swag #i think i can say that here yeah. ive spoken my mother tongue language here #sorry im reaching he just reminds me of someone irl. but also. missa is hot asf i need someone to shake hands with me #frickin. schoolgirl crush on a funny mexican youtuber #ive watched more missa videos than i thought i would and its embarrassing how giddy i would get watching like #i am in my 20s but i am resting my chin on my hand like 🥰#brother I've fallen someone pull me back up i cant do this today

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loverboydotcom · 1 year

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spending my unemployment wisely (watching psycho 1960 thinking about how it would have absolutely reworked beaus brain chemistry)

#like I know his ass caught a rerun of it on the television when he was definitely too young to watch it #getting in trouble but it was worth it bc so much awoke in him #I haven’t watched the other movies that would be out in the LB timeline tho #horror film….anthony perkins…..beaus life was changed forever #I need to watch more black and white old movies something abt the energy of them #the pop culture angle in LB that isn’t in RR im having so much fun #esp thinking about sexuality and queerness when you grew up in the 60s/70s #need the official list of Beau Celebrity Crushes NOWWW #I have complicated thoughts about the film and queer coding and psychology but like. its from 1960 I have to be like #acknowledge that but also this is 1960 I fear #beaus feelings watching it as a child vs an adult would be complex too and that’s so interesting to me !!!!!!!!!!!!!

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eepyjay · 1 year

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#so much more I want to say about this album. butchered tongue was so like idek how to explain it it moves through you and it’s so #upsetting and the ending line is just so crushing and beautiful and holding hope that culture carries on even after devastation #and every song on this album has its own right to be the best song on the album they are all the best song on the album like genuinely #the collab song was amazing no one does collab songs like him he’s the only person to knock it put of the park every single time when it #comes to collalbs for me #and god de selby pt 1 was so beautiful and mesmerizing #I dont think I can like stop talking about this album there’s so much more I want to say but just won’t bc it wouldn’t even do this album #any justice in any way it deserves #I just made this post to touch on the songs I didnt make a post about which yea I know those posts are annoying but whatever it’s my blog so #hozier #unreal unearth

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sickgraymeat · 2 years

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Cyborg was such a good friend for this

#please don’t argue with me #sorry but this is what Jake should’ve been doing instead of saying ‘you just have to make her realize she wants to go to the movies with you #like it’s not the same situation at all but friends don’t let friends etc #I will never understand why they wrote him encouraging that #and yeh pb is a villain for a lot of things #but she is not a villain for assuming a 12 year old’s crush wasnt serious #literally if a 12 year old flirted with me I wouldn’t know they were flirting #and I’m a 24 year old human not a goddamn 800 year old piece of gum #like do you know how desensitized you would get to romantic advances with her life #let alone it’s a goddamn human child the thought would never occur to her #maybe it was evil to block him and fp but it has literally nothing at all to do with that I swear to god #I’m not even gonna talk abt the goddamn age regression bullshit lmao #bark bark bark #and I’m so tired of being told rape culture in cartoons is not that deep #it’s literally the deepest #do you think kids don’t fucking grow up and become adults with this shit #screaming my goddamn head off it matters!!!!!!!!!!#which is why I appreciate ttg for this #I don’t watch the original show but I don’t care bc in this universe #in this universe starfire married a tentacle monster who was gonna kill her #she was ready to marry a pot of chili #and she is not interested in robin #which is why it’s so important that they never got together #(unless they did in s7 I didn’t watch that shit)#anyway third wheel your friends if you’re worried abt them guys #I know that’s not why cyborg did it probably but whatever #uh #jus talkin #lol

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