#gender doesnt exist

[theplasticdusk]

being genderfluid means you get to say stuff like “i am a handsome woman” and “yes he’s my girlfriend”

[pummelingbat]

eyurmm i drew Herbert With The Strap like four months ago and was too nervous to post it but 🤡🤡🤡 fuck it i am releasing him into the world now 🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡 (not super explicit; synthetic schlong under cut)

this is like the fluffiest danbert ive ever drawn lol. enjoy (?)

[sesamenom]

Reverse Gondolin AU family portrait

[merrysithmas]

lol i literally couldnt care less about fandom drama but i will i say i saw an entitled cishet say "NO ONE BETTER START SAYING MIZU IS they/them!!" and if you cannot consider Mizu, an outwardly gendernonconforming character who shows a distaste towards 'feminine' dress/makeup/roles and penis-in-vagina sex as potentially nonbinary, trans, or otherwise ... then like who is ok for the trans fans out here to imagine as trans??? like who will you give us permission for, Your CisMajesty?

lmao kiss our collective trans azz tbh

[gelataisa]

the fact that lussuria is supposed to be the same age as the rest of the varia is completely wild to me and i will never acknowledge it.

lussuria is clearly over 40 during the ring battles and in her 50s during the future arc. she is probably the oldest active varia member and has welcomed all the new kids for decades. probably gave everyone the talk as well

[torahtot]

ok ive had enough of queering judaism. can we start judaizing queerness now. or something

[fangirlinginleatherboots]

It's straight up nonsense that the primarily conservative environment I am accustomed is full of people more accepting of my fucked up amalgamation of an identity than like... the average discourser. One time my boss asked me what I was bc I changed my pronouns in my work bio and I said a fagdyke boygirl and she was just like oh well you seem happier now! And hairy! Congrats!

[chronotopes]

sorry to still be on those polls but genuinely some of those responses are so distressing to me. the belief that trans people should go through that self discovery process in monastic self isolation and never receive input from the people who love them Until They're Ready is so genuinely bleak and indefensible, regardless of whether or not you're ideologically consistent about which audiences you think the suggestion is "appropriate" for. and furthermore the idea that a cis person getting erroneously told theyre trans by One Person is somehow equivalent to a trans person getting coercively held to agab standards by The Whole World...... like come on. come on.

[c0l0re]

Being bigender while also not giving a single fuck about the gender binary is honestly such a combo

Yes, I am both a man and a woman at the same time. No, these two things are not at odds with each other. Yes, I still manage to be genderqueer in both directions. I wear skirts and dresses while being a man and I wear men's clothes and work to deepen my voice while being a woman

I may have two genders, but that sure as hell doesn't mean I'm gonna be using either of them correctly

[angstics]

Back again railing against queer homogeny. I technically use any pronouns and there’s this whole Moral Code that if someone uses multiple pronouns, you must use them all back and forth for MAXIMUM RESPECT. THIS ISNT UNIVERSALLY TRUE! It isnt! I know this because i use any and to me that means there is no wrong pronoun, i could give a fuck. I mostly hear “she” thrown at me, an occasional “they” (which gives me insane euphoria), and “he” Exclusively from myself. Because conventionally i dont look or sound like a He. And i dont care. It would make me feel bad if i can recognize someone forcing a He.

[toastsnaffler]

in a hilarious turn of events my flatmate didn't even know I use any pronouns....

[anqaspond]

"why are you so weird about your gender" good question! because it is a useless concept besides making me happy. because it has no real basis that doesnt reduce a person to their body, to their genitals. if i say i am a old man core funky guy then i am

[theposhperyton]

All evidence suggests yes

[femgoddess-hecate]

"If you misgender a bad person then your friends will see that and see that you won't respect them!!"

I've heard this a few times before and it always irks me. No actually these things are wholly different. I'm not required to respect someone who has chosen to be a stain on society. If you are a rapist, murderer, pedophile etc you do not deserve respect at all. I literally don't care what you want from me at that point.

If you have willingly chosen to abandon your humanity it is not up to me to give it to you. At that point I don't have to respect you anymore.

What it tells me though is that you will defend someone's gender identity above advocating for the victim. What it tells me is that if I were to have something bad happen to me, you'd be on my abuser's side over mine.

If you as a friend of mine see that and somehow conflate yourself with that, I have to wonder why you think you'll be lumped into that group. Like obviously you'll never rape/ murder/ abuse children right? Right?

[twodragonsinatrenchcoat]

*Poke* You don't have your pronouns listed anywhere and I don't wanna misgender anyone ever. Pronoun check? I use she/her.

Pronouns are what you get the vibes for! I use literally whatever the fuck others want to use skdjak. Most people irl use She or They for me but I don't mind He or even Its wouldn't bother me I don't think.

Hell if you wanted to throw a random neo pronoun at me I'd probably just roll with it skdjakaj

[handgiven]

every so often i wonder if i am pushing it too far by making emmanuel be an angel who does not exactly abide by grand heavenly orders, because he has one original order which is just be kind that he follows to a t -- i wonder if people will not think he should be fallen because he chose the world over being a cog in a machine but then i am also reminded in the verses where emmanuel does fall that any time i bring that up with anyone it always goes like

emmanuel: falls from grace half of heaven, half of hell and anyone em has ever came in contact with, human or not, powerful or weak: willing to beat up god over it