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paulilily · 25 days ago

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I came up with a fanfic prompt overnight. I know that homosexual marriage is illegal in Japan and the age of consent for that is 18 but oh well, let's take some licenses for the sake of fanfiction

"Word that the son of Mikage Corp's CEO might be gay and going around with a no-name boy reaches the powerful man's ears. Because of this, he rushes to find a proper suitor to marry Reo off as soon as he hits 18, to straighten him up and salvage his reputation. However, he can't help himself but to confront his son about the situation and warn him to leave that boy if he knows what's good for him, although Reo insists they're just business partners.

When Reo finds out his parents are girlfriend hunting for him, he refuses to be legally tied to a stranger for life. Plus, his dad somehow knows about Nagi but has got it all wrong. This, though, gives him a genius idea. And that's how he hacks into his dad's personal account, prints his parents marriage certificate editing the names, and has Nagi sign it. His awful parents can't force any spouse into his life if he's already married nor take Nagi away from him when he's officially Reo's and only Reo's as stated by law."

I love Nagireo fics where everyone thinks they're in a relationship and it happens to be convenient so they do get in a fake relationship that's more real than my life😭

Sadly, I don't think I'm gonna be able to write it any time soon since I should be studying for university exams right now, oops.

If anyone is in the least bit inspired by this summary that assaulted my brain at 4am feel free to write your own story and if you do pls send link bc I'd love to read it 🙏

#fanfiction #fanfic ideas #writing prompts #nagireo #reo mikage #nagi seishiro #reonagi #blue lock #bllk nagi #bllk reo #pretend relationship #fake relationship #get married without dating #Reo's parents being imposing #Reo being crazy #so canon i guess #long live the gays

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starcurtain · 1 year ago

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Please someone redraw this with Dr. Ratio and Aventurine because this is the exact vibe they have in my head post-Penacony.

#ratiorine #aventio #aventurine #dr. ratio #honkai star rail #hsr #not exactly #2.1 spoilers #but the vibe isn't present until then #this is canon I'm Hoyo #just trust me #I think my favorite thing about this ship #is that I went in expecting slap slap kiss #but came out of 2.1 convinced that these two could #in fact #get their shit together faster than virtually any other Hoyoverse pair #they're gonna be two years into their relationship before Seele manages to ask Bronya on a date #they're gonna be married before Renheng get their next ship tease #I just think they deserve to be those two guys who show up together #in the background of every promotion and event #and Hoyo never confirms anything #but you never see the one without the other #so everybody just KNOWS #LISTEN HOYO #I'm available for hire #you can pay me to print the money for you

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caslutz · 1 year ago

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Jamie: I think I'm dating Roy.

Keeley: What?

Jamie: I'm not sure. It's just a possibility. I could be wrong.

Keeley: But how? When?

Jamie: Well, we spent the entirety of Ted and Trent’s wedding together and it was really nice and we had a really good time. We laughed a lot and we ate and then we danced.

Keeley: Danced? How? Was it a fast dance? Slow dance?

Jamie: It was a slow dance, a waltz. Roy can waltz.

Keeley: Roy can waltz?

Jamie: Roy can waltz. 😏

Keeley: …Look how you just said 'Roy can waltz.’

Jamie: What? I'm just saying, I'm surprised that Roy can waltz.

Keeley: That sounded more like 'I'm surprised I still have my clothes on.’

#tell me that roy and jamie wouldn’t start dating without even knowing #they would be in a committed relationship for years before they realized #or roy would propose and jamie would be like #when did we even start dating??#and also ted and trent get married yay!!#that’s the wedding we deserved at the end of season 3 #roy kent #jamie tartt #ted lasso #trent crimm #keeley jones #royjamie #roy x jamie #roy kent x jamie tartt #tedtrent #tedependent #ted lasso incorrect quotes #incorrect quotes #source: gilmore girls

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horsegirlhob · 1 year ago

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Spike absolutely haunts Riley I fucking know it

#dylan says things #btvs #like. you are flirting with this girl you like. out of nowhere she says she is getting married to this guy spike #then she says it’s a joke. turns out spike is a vampire who escaped your government facility #your now girlfriend is harbouring him for unclear reasons #you are insecure about not having super strength. your girlfriend tells you that if she wanted that she’d be dating spike #you start going to a vampire brothel. spike reveals this to your girlfriend and you guys break up #you know at this point that spike is in love with her #a year later you come back and she is fucking spike.#also this whole time he is hotter and better at sex than you are #riley canot think about spike for more than 2 minutes without punching a wall i just know it

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clumsypuppy · 10 months ago

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learning abt friendship decay and "not reaching out to your friends for months at a time unprompted is not neurotypical behaviour" has me feeling a certain way

#experiencing some BIG FEELINGS OVER THIS REVELATION #listen i have never ever been bothered abt not seeing someone in a while or making time to talk to them bc in my mind its like not thst muc #time has passed. i mean it with every fibre of my being that when im like 'oh its ok even though we havent talked in a while and have our #own things going on it doesnt mean we're not friends anymore since we left things on a good note 8 months ago' i sincerely believe that #and for the longest time i just thought everybody makes peace with it at some point and not automatically assuming the other person doesnt #wanna talk to me anymore or smth. my longest lasting friendships are with ppl who work the same way i just thouhght that was normal #whatever organ everybody has that makes them reach out to their friends and plan hang outs i probably dont have it #i was already hesitant to ask out Alex bc i spend almost every waking hour doing smth that isnt talking to ppl unless they happen to be in #the vicinity. and at first it was bc i planned on making sure i had everything set up so i dont get stressed out and do it one at a time #but then i find out theres a friendship decay mechanic? and after dating and marrying someone you lose -10 friendship points for every #day u dont talk to them?? actually ive probably been losing friendship points this whole time without knowing bc of this?????#and i notice a lot of my own habits are also reflected in how i play bc ive been avoiding getting close to pierre and marnie since its more #of a professional relationship. like i know theyre npcs but im approaching it the way i would in real life its fucking nuts #i think its a little relieving im playing /as/ a character than myself bc as im playing im just making up little interactions in my head #than approaching things the way i would myself so it takes a bit of the stress off trying to put myself in there as a spectator. but well #being in a relationship demands a certain amount of energy even more so when theyre things that already take up energy on its own #like making time to talk to your partner and make sure they know theyre loved. i dont always have energy to put all my mental focus into it #and this is true for real life so im not really bothered by not dating anyone. but when its a game and i want my character to be with someo #and i know its fully optional and i know i could just apply the same logic to this i dont /want/ to. sometimes i want to experience #the same things other people do at least to a certain degree without the same emotional andmental stakes #no offense krobus #yapping #stardew #stardew valley #puppy plays sdv #sdv #this game has me by the ankles man

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longlivethewildernessyet · 5 days ago

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Christian dating """advice""" stay away from me. Begone.

#'us women are too hyperindependent these days 🥺 we need to get married much much younger guysss 🥺#so we can mold ourselves to the lives we build with our husband 🥺 instead of those strict jobs and routines 🥺#it is totes God's will and not just a backlash against feminism 🥺'#if it was God's will for me to get tradwifed at 18 then why did he make me an ardent feminist who's uninterested in marriage #why is it still so hard for christians to grasp that some people aren't destined for marriage and parenthood #even my very christian mum is like 'yeah you're caring but not maternal'#if my grandma can accept my path in life why can't you youngins.#just say you're longing for marriage and stop projecting your personal preferences and desires onto the bible #I cannot stand these people.#'women need to be flexible and adapt to the men around them 🥺' how about we cooperate #revolutionary I know #rant over lmao #I just want to engage with my faith without being confronted by 'Mom 🤱Wife💍 Helping Christian Women To Preserve Real Femininity 🌷'#or 'Christian Dating Advice For The Girlies Stuck in that Nasty Season of Singleness'#ramblings & musings

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citnamora · 1 month ago

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Why did we normalize romantic subplots in everything. What the fuck do I watch

#hot aro shit #romance repulsed #romance exhausted #idk. like. can we chill with the unnecessary pairings???? not every character needs a relationship #and on top of that. uh. hello? characters can be close without dating and/or getting married

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astraeajackson · 5 months ago

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GUYS THIS ENTRY TWO OF MY RANT SERIES ☆rei's rantdays☆... ENJOY THE BS

tell me why me and these two girls in my class (we're gonna call them asparagus and nori) are talking about the future and they're going "oh, i wanna have kids! i wanna get married!" and when I SAY:

"i don't wanna have kids. they're painful to get out, they cost a lot of money, and why would i spend my life looking after someone else?" AND "i wanna date, but i don't wanna get married. marriage sounds too restrictive for me."

YEAH when I SAY that asparagus and nori go: "ew, but you're gonna be lonely and sad. you'll be like those old ladies with only cats for company. sucks to be you."

LIKE GIRL. I DON'T GET IT. FIRST OF ALL, KEEP YOUR NASTY OPINIONS TO YOURSELF. SECOND OF ALL, WHY THE HELL WOULD I BE SAD? YOU WILL BE STRESSED AS FUCK RAISING YOUR LIL KIDS. YOUR HUSBAND'S GONNA STRESS YOU OUT. BEING A MOM AND A WIFE IS GONNA STRESS YOU OUT.

AND I DID SAY I WOULD LOVE TO DATE PEOPLE. JUST NOT GET MARRIED. AND I HAVE FRIENDS, FOR GOODNESS SAKE. WHAT DO YOU THINK, I'M GONNA SIT AROUND IN MY LITTLE FLAT ALL MY LIFE WITH FOURTEEN CATS???

and getting married means tying your identity to someone else, especially if you're a woman. when people see me with my potential husband they're gonna go "hi, mrs. _____!" my husband's name is gonna go first in all the legal stuff we do together and shit. IF I DON'T WANT THAT MY LIFE IS NOT YOURS TO CRITICISE. SEE YOU IN 30 YEARS WITH YOUR UTERUS STRETCHED AND YOUR JERK HUSBAND, ASPARAGUS

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popponn · 1 year ago

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i am in a really really funny point of my life

#tbf i would never want to date k/dj. or at least i wonr do it sober #also i rather date h/sy #h/yj tho? yeah. i wanna marry him ngl. i want him to take care of him like im ready to sob to get to that point #isg? he is somehow still a part of my personality as embarrassing as it is #but you see. somehow out of all three it's the soccer guy who is a different breed of asshole without tragic backstory required #(the other two are not that much better but hey.)#anw god help if someone drew all these three in the same style #a friend said if these three met imagining their reaction to each other will be funny as hell and she is absolutely right #babblings #im going to make fun of these three (out of love) but lmao #okay im noisy enough no noise until april bye

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graciebrams · 8 months ago

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#i hate the moment you turn 20 in a brown household you cant even breath without hearing about marriage and rishtas and how other cousins #are getting married #like holy shit chill out #i dont have an expiration date to me chill #lmfaooooo

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alchemiclee · 8 months ago

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I think doing shipping through and aroace lens makes things complicated but also interesting. I think one reason I don't enjoy straight ships as much is because it's very rare for people write/talk about them with a queerplatonic dynamic. straight romance is so "normalized" in society, it's hard to get any other dynamic out of those ships from other people in conversation or writing. it's mostly always romantic. (especially when "guys and girls can't be *just* friends" is extremely common and has ruined mamy of my own friendships) but I enjoy a handful of a straight ship with that dynamic. it's just way more rare to see talked about than gay ones from my observation. anyway point is, more queerplatonic type ships and stuff please! those aren't explored enough!

#its really hard for me to describe what queer platonic means to me and how i see it and how that applies to ships i enjoy or even irl #i guess one way to explain it is being life partners without the need for romantic/sexual stuff and they dont date other people #dedicated to each other for life and act like partners but arent romantic/sexual about it.#example are cynonari. they adopter collei togther and are dedicated to each other. but theyre very fun as queer platonic relationship #and for straight version theres himeko and welt. a strong pair. work well togther. our train parents. platonic but life partners #partners in this crazy space train adventure that take care of us gremlin kids #and then theres also the queer straight platonic dynamic that's fun as well. 2 queers who form a straight platonic ship #think kafblade. how i like to imagine it is a lesbian and agender-aroace-gay-in-previous-life come together as platonic life partners #playing with this stuff and going outside the normal gender/sexuality box is fun #lee text #lee rambles #ive seen hi3 fans get very loudly upset about hsr fans shipping himeko and welt. but i never see them discussed as queerplatonic!#it could make everyone happy haha. life partners but not the romance. theyre our train parents but they arent a married couple!#disclaimer: ship your own ships. this is only about my ships and how i feel #before identifying as nonbinary i was subjected to the whole “guys and girls cant be just friends” bulshit and lost friends over it #im not even allowed to be friends with people as an aroace if im seem as a binary gender!!!!! it makes me so angry #i think straight shipping as an aroace that enjoys queerplatonic dynamics is a very weird trigger for bad feelings from those experiences😅#but its not why i prefer thos dynamic. the why is just being aroace in general and wanting that kind of relationship if i had a partner #but having a side of straight obsessed people ruining our friendships over their straight obsession feels bad #by straight obsession i mean we cant be friends anymore because they decided they saw me as a binary gender opposite theirs 🙄#and accused me of liking them and said im the one that ruined the relationship #where was i going with this i think im just rambling and info dumping about my brain stuff too much 😅

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mackthecheesy · 1 month ago

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rip to the person in my dream last night who i was in a time loop trying to save </3 woke up before i ever could

#well i mean they weren't dying in the loop but he was a part of a cult i was trying to get him out of. hard to deprogram someone in one day.#i was trying different ways of going about it. first just to get myself out of there. then on 1 loop i leaned hard into the cult & ended up #dating that guy. then on subsequent loops it wasn't enough that i figured out how to get myself out of there. i needed to get him out too.#even if he didnt remember me. maybe we'd date again maybe not but either way i wanted him out of there #i remember there was a game-like mechanic to the cult where you'd get coins for doing certain things #most people had a few thousands- the high ranking people had a million or two- the person i was trying to save had like tens of thousands #you could exchange coins for prizes. one was a private dinner for 3! you; a person of your choice; and a 'famous celebrity'#(said celebrity being a puppet formerly used by the cult. it would not be manned it would just be sitting there)#it cost 4.5 million. i kept my coins in the loops. that's why i did the loop(s) of getting in the cult's good graces #i had the coins. in this loop i decided to be just interested in the cult enough to not draw suspicion. i knew buying the dinner would draw #enough attention as is. i'd gotten close enough to him that loop that we were pretty friendly and i asked if he would like to do that dinne #he was like 'haha sure but we can't afford that' at which point i showed him my coins. 4.6 million. he was shocked. i made an excuse about #helping out whenever i could. i couldn't officially ask him to the dinner yet- buying anything with coins had to go through the higher ups;#and buying big prizes made an announcement to everyone. i missed my bit of good timing of buying it right after the announcement of the #prize cause i asked him if he actually wanted to go first- a couple of the leaders were getting married and i didnt want to draw even more #attention by doing that during the ceremony. we sat next to each other at the banquet and he kept asking me questions and i asked him not t #call attention to us. he said fine but he wanted answers. i said we would take turns asking each other questions. he agreed. i was hoping t #ask him questions that would make him question the cult- i could tell him more on our private dinner of course- but i let him go first #'do you love me as a person or as a character?'#i just sat there for a while. i don't know how he knew. the answer was both. but i knew what he was really asking. 'as a character.'#he was upset of course. fictional people tend to be when they find out that they are. he was angry. he accused me of lying or something els #i held his hand and begged him not to call attention to us but that i could prove it later. he looked at me. he told me he had access to a #room he shouldn't. he hadn't been there. but its name intrigued him. 'the dream lobe.' i knew this. id seen it before. id seen him see it #before. that room contains a fragment of a large brain. and a person whos whole purpose is to explain to you that you're a part of a dream.#a figment of its imagination. once you learn that you can never leave the room. i could of course. i was the dreamer. but i learned others #couldnt the hard way. i didnt want him trapped again but he demanded to go into the room. i went with him. i watched him go through the #stages of grief again. i watched him realize he couldnt leave. i knew i could try again. loop back and buy the dinner on time and have a #chance to explain without the room and maybe let him escape. but i watched him sit devastated in that room that i could leave and i realize #i was fighting for something that may never come to be. maybe the dinner would help. but thats just a faint hope. i could break the loops #whenever i wanted. i looked at him. and i left.

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icterid-rubus · 2 months ago

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There’s something incredibly ironic about having never dated in high school because of how immature and repugnant it felt at the time to both be kids living at home, only for my first relationship, ten years later, to be with an old high school classmate while we both live at home.

#we’re still in contact with old classmates but no ether of us have said anything lmao. I kinda wonder how this will go over.#god I need a real job so I can get a little apartment. I’d like to know how we live together. he’s always planned to just live at home and #go straight to his own home. but now he’s trying to include me in that plan but I want to get married before becoming a homeowner with #someone else because it’s a huuuuge liability to forgo that financial protection. but I don’t want to get married without having seen how #we live together. also it feels surreal to have had the ‘what are your future goals’ conversation with someone.#we were walking around a ritzy neighborhood eating ice cream and looking at the fancy apartments and I offhandled mentioned perhaps they #had a little hovel here he could move into and he rejoined with a comment of us needing a larger place and I went oh yeah #you like…have designs to live together and get married and have kids. I know this because we discussed it. d’oh.#it still feels weird like…I sort of expect him to trade in for a better model. someone wants a future with me? wack of true.#of course. we’ve only been officially dating for a month although I think he consider our relationship a lot older. so this is not at all #serious yet but still.

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ovisiphorus · 8 months ago

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I think I’m going to die alone at this rate

#which is fine…I guess!#truthfully rn I’m more focused on transition stuff which makes dating kinda eh esp rn #but also i’m trying to marry THE BAG amirite????#my goal is to get a job where i can afford to live on my own without roommates and also can get another dog #but also i’m sooo BORED

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lacefuneral · 1 year ago

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i would like. to love sometime. thanks

#my gay ass almost started crying in the bathtub last night.#because i was. thinking about a hypothetical wedding again #while listening to Days of Candy by beach house #if i got married it would be secular. and that song sounds like a hymn to me. but without the christianity part #anyway. i am 28 years old #i have had one long distance boyfriend. one awkward coffee date. and i have never held hands with another man #let alone kissed or be held by one #my only experience with physical intimacy has been SA from women #i hope that someday. someday i get to experience love like other people do #in the interim. i have my wistful daydreams.#could this be classified as trauma dumping. idk. i think its okay for men to be vulnerable sometimes #i am going to listen to beach house.

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glitterghost · 2 years ago

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Feeling the ace-solation tonight.

#asexual #aromantic even #it just feels like the whole world looks at marriage and kids as endgame and holy fuck no #people only ever focus on who is dating who and when are you having kids and when are you getting married #like what the fuck #im over here thinking about how much time i can mash together seeing friends #and what books i want to read and bring me joy #and always thinking about these fictional worlds that have brought me so much more happiness than this one #like you belong somewhere else #like what do you do when you know nothing is wrong with you but sure as hell know others would think there is if they KNEW you #in all your ace or aro or whatever else glory #i just want quiet and peace without this looming feeling of people looking at you like youre supposed to be doing more #like you're in some fucked up timeline of having to achieve these life goals that sure as fuck arent yours #like please leave me tf alone #make the norm be however you get your happiness is the goal #the feels are real tonight #an untethered feeling of floating away or something #dont mind me im going back to my asmr videos #these tags are a mess rn

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