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csuitebitches · 1 year ago
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Build yourself a sustainable routine for 2024
you don’t have to schedule all your habits for everyday. Some habits can be for twice a week or thrice a week. If you can’t read 10 pages everyday, don’t fret. Try to read 1 chapter a week. Then slowly progress to 2.
do not be intimidated by accounts like mine. I post a lot of tips but I follow only the ones I know work for me, even if those tips are great. I share a lot so that different people can make use of them. Just because tip A works better for me than tip B, doesn’t mean that tip B is useless. Someone else could find B more useful than A.
How do you know you’re building a sustainable routine?
here are some indicators:
⭐️ the habits are “portable” for the most part - you do not need to be in specific places to execute them (you can read anywhere, you can workout in any hotel, etc).
⭐️ you’re able to follow all your habits at least 80% of the time in a month. Which means out of 30 days, for 24 days you are able to follow your habits. ⭐️ they don’t stress you out. It doesn’t make sense to procrastinate over your habits. The point of the habits is to reduce procrastination and improve yourself. If you’re stressing over it, go back to square one and start small.
⭐️ you are able to see that you’re improving. Maybe you’re feeling more confident, self assured and resilient. Whatever your end goal, it is important to understand that you won’t go from being, for example, under confident to confident overnight. It will happen gradually. Noticing your progress and complimenting yourself for the gradual change is important because then you’re validating yourself for the healthy changes you make. When you validate yourself as opposed to someone else validating you, you are acknowledging the hard work you have put in- this increases your motivation to do even better and to stay disciplined.
⭐️ over time, the habits come to you naturally. Let’s say meditating. You become so used to meditating that not doing it is like not brushing your teeth in the morning. It becomes a part of you and you accept and embrace it instead of dreading it.
⭐️ yes, you will have tough days. You will have days where you want to give up. It is important to schedule at least 2 mental health days a month for yourself where you can choose to do absolutely nothing and just relax. You are human, not a machine. Sometimes you need to push through those tough days and get things done anyway. There is a balance between resting and working hard.
⭐️ you eventually do not feel guilt or shame for prioritising yourself and your routine first. This is the most important indicator. You do not put any boy, friend, anyone (unless it’s an emergency of course) above you. You know you are your most important person.
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rainbow-sunshine-unicorn · 11 months ago
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Deeply obsessed with how Anthony Bridgerton will do anything and everything for the vibes, the ambience and to set the mood for his wife
Why did he lift Kate up halfway to the ceiling just to simply set her down on the desk? THE MOOD, THE AMBIENCE, THE VIBES
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Why did he scatter the papers after setting her down as opposed to clearing the desk beforehand? THE MOOD, THE AMBIENCE, THE VIBES
Because of course scattered papers are an essential aspect to heir-making on a desk!!!
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thatswhatsushesaid · 6 months ago
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imagine being so bereft of joy that you cannot stop yourself from leaving this comment on a benign "look at this fun fandom mug my spouse bought me, enjoy this funny personal anecdote to go with it" post
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sorry for existing i guess???
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angelnumber27 · 1 year ago
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violently forcing myself to have better days
#everyone’s different and this isn’t true for everybody of course:#but a lot of the time we have more control over things than we can see in a difficult moment#like for example#a negative thought is inevitable and not something you can just stop. however you CAN decide from there how you let it effect you#it’s way easier said than done but you genuinely can be like hey I’m going to have a good day today#I like to set my intentions for the day and not allow my trauma nightmares to dictate how my whole day goes#but in order to do that I have to consciously decide that I deserve better and then create that for myself#does this make sense?#do things you know you enjoy/ things that make you feel better. take care of yourself. create little healthy routines to do each day#even if it’s just for 5 or 10 minutes#you have to act to make a genuine positive change in your life and circumstances#tried to say this as well as I could but I struggle w articulating exactly what I mean#like my thoughts are too complex to translate into words#anyways though I just wanted to add this- this post is not to make anybody feel bad whatsoever.#if you struggle with certain disorders and such it genuinely might be close to impossible for you to actually be able to have that control#and that’s okay. it doesn’t make you any less of a person and it is not your fault that you experience those difficulties#I just wanted to remind people that it is possible to control certain aspects of your life and it is possible to snap yourself out of it#I know I need to remember this as often as I can#that’s why I shared it#I hope this makes sense I do not know if it does lmao#(the tags)#my thoughts are so jumbled up. idk what other word to use lmao
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raviollies · 1 month ago
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Damn I just wanted to say the tags on your post really hit me…almost word for word I relate to all of that and I’ve been struggling trying to find a job to keep myself sane. I had a lot of those same thoughts and especially over the pandemic and it was unhealthy and awful and I lost a friendship that meant a lot to me bc of the same feelings you express in your tags. I’ve gotten a lot better, or at least I like to think I have, but learning to live with the knowledge of how you used to be (or at least being more aware of how not to be like that), and knowing you can’t turn back time has been hard. Seeking validation and attention…oof that all just hits so terribly home.
I think a lot of people developed a very unhealthy relationship with the internet over the pandemic - thankfully I was an essential worker so my pause in employment was super brief.
It IS hard to reconcile that that was also you but at the end of the day the best you can do is acting different and making a difference in the positive direction. You can't UNDO those actions - so really...moving forward is the ONLY thing to do. & while it doesn't excuse your actions, I do believe some grace needs to be given when it is coming from an unstable place such as mental illness.
I will admit I still have a very unhealthy relationship with validation. Not just online but it is turned up to 11 due to the whole dopamine hit of comments and likes. It used to be BAD, it would make me cry if a post flopped because I felt like people didn't care. It's an INCREDIBLY tough cycle, especially for someone mentally ill, but even for someone neurotypical it's common to descend into unfathomable toxicity in hopes of getting love from internet strangers. I mean recently there was a pretty prominent Vtuber scandal that was the most HORRID behavior all for the sake of being a popular streamer.
The internet is both a place that can really abate loneliness while worsening it in other aspects.
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watchthekittycatcher · 3 months ago
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i want to keep being catholic so badly but honestly I don't know if it's actually good for me. like I think a lot of the stuff that is part of being catholic is actually bad for my brain
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zignifier · 2 days ago
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I hate when people more knowledgeable about history than me are somehow less politically informed
#Errr or idk how to put it like I wouldn't call myself all that politically informed either#But like idk I was talking to this girl who was like we need more traffic cops. It is bad there r less cops on the road coz of#Increased awareness of black people being killed in routine traffic stops + other shit that changed during onset of covid#Because now ppl r driving less safely. But we can't just bring back the cops. So we should abolish the police via#Creating more departments for specific things so traffic enforcement should exist independently of what we now consider policing#N she was saying other stuff abt the creation of these departments and I was like. I really don't care for reform unless it#Exists as intermediary to dissolution of entire systems and overhauling of infrastructure.#Like I'm not excited to endorse what you're talking about even on the level of Solving Traffic because the solution should be radically#transforming the infrastructure to be less car-centric and develop better public transportation#N her response was 'well we should do what we can now with what we got' or something n idr#how I responded to that but idk if the thing that makes you uncomfortable and inspired towards change is#more dangerous traffic as opposed to like. The brutalization and fear of that comes w cops.#Then idk I don't really care about your priorities or addressing your concerns. I just cannot bring myself to care.#Because 1. You obviously don't have my concerns as a racialized person who relies on public transportations in mind as urgent#(Which is to me like I don't trust once you get your reforms you'd not just#shrug your shoulders and call it unfortunate whatever issues remain that other people suffer)#2. It is plainly ignorant to think any enforcement of Law Order Safety etc in a white supremist settler colony wouldn't reproduce violence#She was like they should just have tasers not guns and it's like. K people have been killed with tasers.#People have been killed with batons even. Like. Completely wrong focus ig because You're scared of guns?? Idk.#But anyway before that conversation I kinda felt like an idiot compared to her coz when we'd go to the library I'd only want to read comics#& she was only reading non-fiction books like history and politics etc#So it's like her opinions are technically more Well-Informed than mine n it's kinda hard for me to argue coz I just have like. Principles.#~
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musical-chick-13 · 21 days ago
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Oh! I fell asleep before I could make an actual post day-of, but Daily Creativity Post! I did art today!
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digitaldetoxworld · 6 months ago
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Effortless Fitness: Create a Home Workout Routine That Works for You
 Creating a home exercise routine can be an empowering way to stay in shape, store cash, and maintain a wholesome lifestyle. Whether you’re an amateur or a skilled health fanatic, a well-based plan tailor-made to your goals and surroundings is fundamental. Here’s a complete guide to help you create a powerful home exercise routine.
How To Create a Home Workout Routine 
Define Your Fitness Goals
Before jumping into sporting events, picking out your targets is critical. Common health desires consist of:
Weight loss
Muscle constructing
Improving cardiovascular health
Enhancing flexibility and balance
General well-being and pressure comfort
Having clean goals helps you pick the right sporting activities, decide the intensity of your workout routines, and track progress correctly.
Assess Your Space and Equipment
One of the benefits of operating out at domestic is the ability it gives. However, understanding your surroundings is critical:
Space: Identify a niche with enough room to move comfortably. This is probably a nook in your dwelling room, bedroom, or even outside.
Equipment: While many sports require no equipment, having a few primary gear can decorate your habit. Consider objects like:
Yoga mat
Dumbbells or resistance bands
Stability ball
Pull-up bar
Jump rope
Alternative Equipment: Household items like water bottles, chairs, or towels can serve as substitutes for traditional systems.
 Plan Your Workout Structure
A balanced exercise recurring consists of a combination of the following:
Warm-Up
Warming up prepares your body for a workout by increasing your heart charge and loosening your muscle mass. Spend 5-10 minutes on:
Leg swings
Marching in location or light walking
Dynamic stretches (e.g., strolling lunges or torso twists)
Cardiovascular Exercise
Cardio boosts coronary heart fitness, burns calories, and improves persistence. Examples encompass:
Jumping jacks
High knees
Mountain climbers
Burpees
Dance or aerobics exercises
Aim for 20-half-hour of moderate-intensity aerobics, depending on your health level.
 Strength Training
Strength training builds muscle, enhances metabolism, and improves bone density. Focus on bodyweight physical activities or comprise device if available. Key moves consist of:
Upper Body: Push-ups, tricep dips (the usage of a chair), or shoulder faucets
Lower Body: Squats, lunges, or step-ups
Core: Planks, sit-down-ups, or Russian twists
Perform 2-3 sets of 10-15 repetitions for every exercise, depending in your desires.
Flexibility and Mobility
Stretching improves flexibility, reduces the threat of damage, and promotes healing. Include static stretches and yoga poses like:
Downward dog
Child’s pose
Hamstring stretch
Hip flexor stretch
Spend five-10 minutes stretching after each exercise.
 Create a Weekly Schedule
Consistency is vital for progress. Design a weekly plan that balances distinct kinds of sporting events. Here’s a sample schedule:
Monday: Cardio + Core
Tuesday: Upper Body Strength
Wednesday: Rest or Active Recovery (e.g., yoga or strolling)
Thursday: Cardio + Lower Body Strength
Friday: Full-Body Workout
Saturday: Flexibility and Mobility
Sunday: Rest
Adjust this schedule primarily based on your dreams, health degree, and time availability.
Incorporate Progression
As your health improves, it’s essential to project yourself to avoid plateaus. You can try this through:
Increasing repetitions or sets
Adding weights or resistance
Trying advanced versions of physical activities (e.g., transitioning from knee push-u. to traditional push-ups)
Reducing relaxation time among sets
Track your development weekly to make sure you’re transferring toward your desires.
 Stay Motivated
Working out at domestic calls for subject and motivation. Here are some recommendations to stay on the right track:
Set a Routine: Schedule your workout routines at the same time every day.
Create a Dedicated Space: A specific exercising region can help you mentally put together.
Use Technology: Fitness apps, online motion pictures, or digital training can upload range and guidance.
Find a Workout Buddy: Partnering with a chum or member of the family can keep you accountable.
Celebrate Milestones: Reward yourself for accomplishing desires, whether or not it’s completing a positive wide variety of workouts or studying a brand new exercise.
Address Common Challenges
Limited Time: Opt for excessive in-depth C language training (HIIT) to maximize efficiency in a short period.
Boredom: Rotate exercises, attempt new exercises, or use a tune to preserve things sparkling.
Lack of Equipment: Focus on bodyweight physical activities and get innovative with household gadgets.
Injuries or Pain: Modify exercises or seek advice from a health professional to ensure the right form.
 Emphasize Recovery
Recovery is a crucial part of any fitness recurring. Ensure you:
Get Enough Sleep: Aim for 7-9 hours in step with a night to support muscle repair and overall fitness.
Stay Hydrated: Drink water before, at some point, and after workouts.
Eat Balanced Meals: Fuel your frame with a mix of protein, carbohydrates, and healthful fat.
Practice Active Recovery: Light sports like on foot or gentle stretching can help lessen discomfort.
Monitor Your Progress
Regularly examine how properly your routine is working. Keep an exercise magazine to the song:
Exercises accomplished
Duration and depth
Physical changes (e.g., weight, measurements, or power gains)
How do you sense earlier than and after workout routines
Adjust your plan as needed to stay aligned with your desires.
Sample Home Workout Routine
Here’s a pattern 30-minute full-frame exercise you may strive:
Warm-Up (5 mins)
Jumping jacks: 1 minute
High knees: 1 minute
Dynamic lunges: 1 minute
Torso twists: 1 minute
Workout (20 minutes)
Circuit (repeat 3 times):
Push-ups: 10-15 reps
Squats: 15 reps
Plank (maintain for 30 seconds)
Jumping lunges: 10 reps in step with leg
Russian twists: 20 reps (10 consistent with aspect)
Cool Down (5 mins)
Hamstring stretch: 30 seconds in line with leg
Child’s pose: 1 minute
Cat-cow stretch: 1 minute
Butterfly stretch: 1 minute
Deep breathing: 1 minute
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raspberry-gloaming · 11 months ago
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All I know about the new descendants movie is osmosis from tumblr and combining that with the media I think of when someone says Alice in Wonderland is making for tbh the movie in my brain is probs very different than what I've heard the new one is like.
And that media is the Royal Ballet's Alice in Wonderland. Its a lovely comic ballet, and my favourite dances are The Mad Hatter's Tea Party (tap! in a ballet! also in this clip played by Steven McRae, who i want to know more about and watch more of his stuff as i have heard good things about from other dancers I know), and the Tart Adage, which is frickin hilarious. (also the way that the King of Hearts just droops around in the background and its like yup. thats Red's dad apparently.)
So uh everyone should watch these clips simply because they're amazing and I love them.
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#also i'm aware to an extent that the mad hatter or like his son or something is in the film#but i choose to ignore that character#as my brain already created a mad hatter kid oc and i dont want to part with her or change her#the oc is fully inspired by the ballet's mad hatter#his dancing#tap#and manner#and also colour scheme and outfit#her name is Rhiannon because i like the sound and also can be shortened to Riri which is fun and also the sound of rhi sounds like the end#of mercury#and mercury poisoning in hatters may be like the reason the hatter is the character he is#so fun times#her colour scheme is like a more toned down version of the hatter in the ballet#pinks and greens#with a fashion style that draws from a whole lot of eras from the last century and a half#nearly 200 years really#and also i have this half baked tap routine in my head to ALICE by PEGGY that i adore so that ties in nicely#also idk how much the film used wonderland#or backwards logic but im sure it was not enough#especially with mundane things#Riri shows up on her first day in a 1960s inspired shift dress like oh yeah i wore this because i didnt want to take up too much space in#my luggage#i packed the stuff that would take up the least room#open up her suitcases#eleventy billion petticoats spill out that definitely would take up more room than a shift dress#i love the 60s for her#especially with the wild patterns and colour combos you can see#also twiggy inspired eye looks#descendants#disney descendants
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sendmyresignation · 1 year ago
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i do use letterboxd like some kind of deranged diary im realizing
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coffeeandcalligraphy · 2 years ago
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ok insight into how I’m trying to be gentler with myself in my writing process to centre accessibility: so I’ve been trying to leave the house in the morning to write, which I’ve found makes me emotionally happy because I like getting out earlier, but it’s not been working with my current schedule. I know I have 10/10 pain right when I wake up & that it doesn’t really mellow out until about midday, so I’ve found I get fatigued really fast if I’m out too early. My current approach then is to adjust the timing to try to leave before the late afternoon, and to get started at home so I still feel like I did something in my preferred time slot while also keeping in mind my body’s physical limits. I’m also trying to get out every day even if I have to come back early because of pain, but I also don’t want to feel lousy for coming back early, so in that case I remind myself that it’s okay to take my time because that’s what I currently physically need! and that’s helping lol!
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bibleofficial · 7 months ago
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being an adult SUCKS i’m naked standing here in the kitchen searching ‘soup how to’ bc i forgot my towel in the clean laundry bag on other side of the flat
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raininyourblackeyes · 2 years ago
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i agree with everything you say about "ice dancers" lilah and lewis
i messaged lilah that she should just quit ice dance. i also messaged lewis he should ditch lilah for olivia smart.they're very active on social media so they will for sure see it. a bunch of us on twitter are reaching out to them encouraging them to quite and realize how bad they are. you and your followers here should do the same.
billionaire lilah has ruined ice dance and needs to pay for it
Sometimes I think that maybe I'm not normal about this sport when I rant about it a bit too much to my friends. This is a reminder that I am in fact very normal about this sport.
Anon what the fuck do you mean you messaged skaters telling them to quit??? People actually do that??? Do you truly believe believe that one team is capable of ruining an entire disciplinne? Please go get some fresh air, your brain obviously needs it.
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secretsoftheuniverse1987 · 9 months ago
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my fic notes are never in anything nearing chronological order, but by god when I try to draft that way do I completely lose track of the order of events
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noellewrxtes · 1 year ago
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i really wish more writers (tv shows) would take more time developing characters instead of looking for literally any excuse to have them trauma dump their worst fears and spell out their basic motivations to anyone who will listen every fifteen minutes
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